Gender Critical guy - How can I help the cause?

Can you not understand the irony of your actions OP?

It's deliberate

Do you not see how that sounds?

That’s why I called it out and took screenshots.

That's really underhand because only the victim can see it, and they have to publicly complain/plead or put up with it.

To be honest, I can imagine inadvertently putting an unwelcome comment on a post, but not doing it again when told to stop!

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But then continually engaging with inappropriate reactions to people's posts even when they've told him what he's doing is weird and creepy...

He said that he can choose who he engages with, and if he doesn't care to then he won't; he'll just move on.

@MyShyCat , I'm wondering why you don't want to address the concerns raised by several posters?

A little humility re the way it's come across in places would go a long way.

@MyShyCat You're reaction to concerns about men ignoring children's boundaries is particularly disgusting holy fuck. How many times does a woman have to tell you no or to stop before you do? 10 or more?

Sorry - you care about girls feeling embarrassed or uncomfortable but have once again posted a creepy reaction instead of engaging or simply ignoring posts you don't wish to reply to? Even when people have explicitly told you how it's coming across you've done it literally done again 🤨 I feel very uncomfortable that you're in a position of power with children when this is how childish and boundary crossing you are online.

@MyShyCat and gain! Thanks for continuing to show you don't care about women's requests. Gonna keep posting every single time you do that so people can continue to see you being a creep and ignoring women's requests to either leave them alone or replying with your words instead of a creepy inappropriate reaction.

There are some men on here who genuinely get it (at least 2, possibly 3, I 'know' from another board that we were basically booted from years ago for being massive transphobes). They are never less than constructive, interesting and intelligent. And didn't go wading in with big feet lecturing women.

@MyShyCat doesn't seem to be like them. Now I'm a believer in the golden bridge, but this doesn't seem to be that.

Mind you, I never thought I'd see the day when someone on an FWR thread had Bea and Taztoy agreeing with each other, that's quite the achievement. Not in a good way!

@MyShyCat I will happily keep commenting to highlight everytime you continue to ignore me as a woman saying your behaviour is creepy and to please STOP reacting with weird reactions to my post. You clearly have no good faith in helping women, proven by you insinuating women are being mean girls by not sucking up to you on here. Every reaction you continue doing is all going to MN and will support your ban for trolling. Going for another one? Go ahead and show you're not better than any other man. It's pathetic how much your ego is clearly shattered at women not jumping all over you that you can't take a simple note to stop reacting to posts you clearly don't have the words to engage with and because you think it'll be secret and behind closed doors. Why are grown men so bloody fragile😂

@MyShyCat seriously, STOP. You said yourself peopl can choose who they interact with and multiple women have told you it's creepy as hell to react with a weird reaction to their post and not engage at all into heir critique. Ignore women's input if you want but STOP IGNORING MAKING WOMEN UNCOMFORTABLE. Seriously what exactly drives you to this cause since you don't respect women's spaces or boundaries? Are you getting your kicks from it? How would you feel if your daughter was telling some absolute creep to stop doing something and he kept doing it because he liked it?

It's so embarrassingly obvious you came to this forum thinking you were doing everyone some kind of favour. No one needs anything from you except for you to go away and unlearn you utter entitlement and the same instincts you have that make you no different to a TiM and any other male predator.

misogynist

Well of course what he wants to do comes first and he gets a kick out of knowing he's doing something women have asked him not to...Typical man 🙄

So you do understand choice and boundaries and yet when women say the creepy inappropriate reactions you are putting to their posts are wording them out you just double down and keep doing it even when women have told you their choice that they don't want you to. Interesting support of women there. And another man not disclosing his sex in a forum designed mostly for women so you can lurk in our threads without women knowing they're speaking to a male....

“Women, I am man and I don’t give a fuck how I make you feel”.

Yes and it’s also a board where posters should anticipate being challenged on their views and opinions. It’s not a hive mind board where everyone claps each other on the back and says how wonderful the other posters are.

There are many regular and well respected posters who frequently make thoughtful contributions, it’s not quite the popular girl clique you think it is OP.

But if you stick around you’ll see that soon enough.

Actually I think the dynamics of this forum are nothing like you describe. There is a lot of considerateness and tolerance. And you need to distinguish vulnerability from exclusivity. Which really should be easy.