Gender Critical guy - How can I help the cause?

That’s a weird response to someone asking “how should I change my behaviour?”.

Also you think men are blameless in the rise of gender ideology? I think plenty of men, and plenty of women, got us here.

How can anyone 'do' womens safety when the other party include men in that category?

OP without getting all 'typical man having to ask women what to do' on you, I'd suggest looking around you at what in your orbit is unlawful. Start with the policies in councils, schools, local authority provision and go from there.

No such thing as cis. It's just a word to make people think that you can change sex - but no human can change their sex.

Men (of any type) need to stay out of biological women's single sex spaces. Only predators refuse to do that. If you don't want to be thought of as a creepy predator THEN STAY THE FUCK OUT.

OP - agree with pp. Contact the various organisations such as Sex Matters and keep using the correct words. Gender neutral is mixed sex, transwoman is biological male etc.

Or to put it another way: why is OP particularly passionate about the one area of feminist debate/action that doesn’t involve him having to change his behaviour/doesn’t apply to him in any way (because he’s a cis man)? Hmmmm.

Ah thanks for letting us know what you think is more important. It will be important for me when deciding what to prioritise in my own life.

I think talking about it is important. Just mentioning it (maybe bring up recent court cases etc) to people you socialise with and voicing why it’s important. So many people don’t think about it and don’t realise there’s an issue. Or worse, know that there’s an issue but bury their heads in the sand.

Yes. But one individual man could have much more impact challenging rape culture and misogyny among his own friendship group. None of them ever want to do that, though. In case it affects their social standing.

Support the fundraisers.
Talk about the court cases.
Uphold acceptance and appreciation of the bodies we have, and emphasise health not appearance.
Accept gender non conformity as an expression of personality that needs no bodily mutilation to justify it.

I think keeping sexually violent men out of women's prisons is pretty important, don't you?

Those are important, but they depend entirely for effectiveness on being able to define the women we’re trying to support.
If we can’t have single sex spaces, all women are less safe.

This type of opinion annoys me as it's always used to shut down conversation disingenuously.

People can care about, and prioritise, different things.

I do not, and would not donate to donkey sanctuaries. To me, there are many more important causes. BUT I am glad that other people do care about the donkeys.

We all do the work that's important to us. To OP, that's ensuring safe spaces for women and contributing to ongoing dialogue about sex-based rights.

If the definition of woman includes men then women’s rights to safety etc cannot be upheld.

I think there are more important things to do and campaign for for women’s safety - like campaign for family courts report, domestic abuse awareness to be spread, challenge rape culture when you hear it etc etc

Check out mumsnet's Feminism - Sex and gender board

Plenty to read on there!

Yes, I am having a battle with my daughter’s school. They refuse to define “gender” despite them referring to it all over their PSHE content.
There are pressure groups that might need volunteers - Sex Matters , Transgender Trend for example. And there’s a couple of groups for schools one is Safe Schools Alliance and another I’ve forgotten the name of.

Would you call any camapigner “overly invested”? MLK - over invested, Pankhurst - over-invested.

Just tell your kids the truth and
then take a step back as you seem quite overly invested in this!

Have you checked out the PSHE content contains at your daughter’s school and whether they work with any gender “advocacy” organisations?
If their PSHE content refers to gender ask how they define it.