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womendeserveequalhumanrights · 18/05/2026 10:31

POWNewcastleEastWallsend · 17/05/2026 03:47

Not sure what "cult" you are referring to but Islam and transactivism have in common an appalling attitude towards and treatment of apostates.

There are extreme examples, such as that of Salman Rushdie who has had a Fatwa to kill him since publishing The Satanic Verses in 1989. in 1991 Hitoshi Igarashi, the Japanese translator of The Satanic Verses was assassinated as part of the Fatwa. Rushdie has needed constant close security and survived being stabbed in 2022.

Less extreme, Lubna Zaidi has had to leave her home town of Luton and go into hiding due to credible death and rape threats to her and her children from other Muslims. This was because she dared to call out the "bad apples" in the Muslim "community" in the UK.

The Sceptic | Episode 47: The British-Pakistani Woman Getting Death Threats for Calling Out Rape Gangs, Migrant “Sanctuary Cities” and Debating a Green Loon
dailysceptic.org/2025/08/22/the-sceptic-episode-47-the-british-pakistani-woman-getting-death-threats-for-calling-out-rape-gangs-migrant-sanctuary-cities-and-debating-a-green-loon/

Similarly, Philippa received death threats and had to leave London and then Norwich after questioning the holy creed of trans.

By contrast, on the very rare occasions when someone with gender critical / sex realist views has a brain fart and goes all TWAW, the reaction might be disappointment but it is not some sort of TERF Fatwa.

No death threats, no rape threats, no telling people to kill themselves, no denouncing people to their employers, no trashing businesses with fake reviews, no harassing their families, partners and friends, etc. etc.

It is not gender critical / sex realists who display cult-like behaviour.

This.

I don't think the WAH WAH WAH she's a racist WAH WAH types realise how much they're pushing normal people to vote on the right, and the extent to which they're making Reform look like a more attractive option.

Because honestly, EVERYTHING is fucking racist including not wanting young children to be raped on an industrial scale according to these dimwits. To the point that the word 'racist' has lost its meaning.

I just feel tired as soon as I see such a kneejerk reaction. So what if she's now politically right wing - that doesn't make her detransitioner story any less awful. It sounds as if TRAs tried hard to completely destroy her life. I don't understand how not allowing her to work in a studio due to her beliefs and detransition is not discrimination, either. It must be.

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 18/05/2026 10:12

OldCrone · 18/05/2026 09:51

So you agree with most people here about trans people.

Now will you condemn the treatment of former trans people (detransitioners) by TRAs?

Its interesting how the 'GC movement' (where my membership card??) are supposed to purge their ranks of wrong thinkers, lest any far righties be there.

But, the trans community never condemns awful treatment meted out by their brethren, either to detransistioners, or GC people.

On one hand, we are baddies because we don't condemn other people's, who share some of our views, thoughts.

On the other hand, real concrete actions by members of the trans community are shrugged off because, dear reader, she was asking for it.

Men's rights activism writ large.

OldCrone · 18/05/2026 09:55

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 18/05/2026 09:49

The thinking seems to be 'she's a wrong un and she deserved it'

Which is nice. 🙄

Yes, it seems to be a case of "It didn't happen, and if it did it wasn't that bad, and if it was it's because she's a right wing bigot so she deserved it".

Conveniently forgetting that attending the march came after 4 years of being shunned, harassed and threatened by the cult.

OldCrone · 18/05/2026 09:51

AntiRacistFella · 18/05/2026 09:16

And just for clarity - I would be a 'fellow traveller' here : trans people should be respected as people and their human rights must be respected. Reasonable people can differ on the affordances society is able to make at any given time to accommodate trans people, of course bearing in mind the conflicting rights of others. This is not at all the same as licensing transphobia.

So you agree with most people here about trans people.

Now will you condemn the treatment of former trans people (detransitioners) by TRAs?

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 18/05/2026 09:49

OldCrone · 18/05/2026 09:47

Do you also think it's morally right to persecute someone for leaving a cult?

Do you actually have anything to say about that?

The thinking seems to be 'she's a wrong un and she deserved it'

Which is nice. 🙄

OldCrone · 18/05/2026 09:47

AntiRacistFella · 18/05/2026 08:40

I will say what I think here - the GC movement should cut off and disassociate those who want to ally with far-right groups and individuals

That would probably actually benefit the GC cause politically against the people you call 'TRAs' and others who you no doubt think of as fellow travellers.

But I'm saying this because in the bigger picture it's the morally right thing to do

Do you also think it's morally right to persecute someone for leaving a cult?

Do you actually have anything to say about that?

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 18/05/2026 09:46

All this ridiculous 'bad company argument' and victim blaming.

"She's far right therefore she deserves everything she gets"

Er...no, not really.

She's still been treated really badly, whatever her political views. And if she's supporting a legal political party/ figure then so what? You might not approve. But her expectation to not be treated like shit shouldn't be contingent on her political views.

The whole 'yeah but she's far right' is just a distraction - 'look, squirrel'.

Are we really saying the only people who deserve to not be treated badly are people we agree with?

Because that sounds childish and cult like, and conveniently removes the focus from the people in the trans community who have treated her appallingly.

Its ironic really.

OldCrone · 18/05/2026 09:45

AntiRacistFella · 18/05/2026 08:26

Sorry can't concur on there being any harassment of detransitioners from me. (I don't speak for anyone else)

You might want to bear in mind people were appalled by, and campaigned against 'Tommy Robinson' during his EDL years long before issues like trans had anything like their present political salience.

There are reasons for that - people are directly affected by racism against themselves, their families and their communities in the UK already, without it being further stimulated. That's why criticism has to extend to those who would encourage or ally with his campaigning.

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Sorry can't concur on there being any harassment of detransitioners from me. (I don't speak for anyone else)

This whole thread is about harassment of detransitioners. Do you have anything to say about this (apart from "it wasn't me")? All your posts seem to be suggesting that it didn't happen.

If the actions of your "community" are pushing reasonable people towards the far right, perhaps it's time to think about why that might be.

AntiRacistFella · 18/05/2026 09:16

And just for clarity - I would be a 'fellow traveller' here : trans people should be respected as people and their human rights must be respected. Reasonable people can differ on the affordances society is able to make at any given time to accommodate trans people, of course bearing in mind the conflicting rights of others. This is not at all the same as licensing transphobia.

scalt · 18/05/2026 09:02

I’ve heard someone my age (46) say “when I was a teenager, if this stuff had been around, and someone told me boys could become girls and vice versa, I would totally have believed it”, and might have had surgery.

It is appalling that children are being “persuaded” about this before they are old enough to decide objectively.

AntiRacistFella · 18/05/2026 08:40

I will say what I think here - the GC movement should cut off and disassociate those who want to ally with far-right groups and individuals

That would probably actually benefit the GC cause politically against the people you call 'TRAs' and others who you no doubt think of as fellow travellers.

But I'm saying this because in the bigger picture it's the morally right thing to do

AntiRacistFella · 18/05/2026 08:26

Sorry can't concur on there being any harassment of detransitioners from me. (I don't speak for anyone else)

You might want to bear in mind people were appalled by, and campaigned against 'Tommy Robinson' during his EDL years long before issues like trans had anything like their present political salience.

There are reasons for that - people are directly affected by racism against themselves, their families and their communities in the UK already, without it being further stimulated. That's why criticism has to extend to those who would encourage or ally with his campaigning.

POWNewcastleEastWallsend · 17/05/2026 16:59

AntiRacistFella · 17/05/2026 09:42

Please 24% of the world's population are Muslim so there are simply going to be very bad people in the group by sheer force of numbers.

If you'd like to analyse the situation seriously, rather than trade anecdotes and counter anecdotes then maybe consider a perspective like the following:

The deeper structural argument

Oil created a peculiar dynamic: the most theologically conservative Muslim states happened to be the most financially powerful. In most of history, religious reform spreads from centers of cultural dynamism. After 1973, the center of Islamic financial gravity shifted to the Gulf, so Gulf conservatism — rather than, say, Egyptian or Turkish Islamic thought — got exported disproportionately.
This helps explain why global Islamic practice became measurably more conservative between 1970 and 2000: more veiling, stricter gender segregation, more literalist interpretation — not because these were organically spreading ideas, but because they had institutional money behind them.
The connection is less a conspiracy than a structural consequence: sudden wealth + theological self-confidence + geopolitical ambition = a globally funded religious revival shaped in Saudi Arabia's image.

You are side-stepping the point I made. This was very clearly about the contrast between incontrovertible evidence of the cult-like behaviour of two authoritarian, minority groups in the UK vs the absence of such behaviour from the majority of the population, ie. gender critical / sex realists.

My post was in response to, and quoted, this post about detransitioner Philippa:

"On X, she recently retweeted Keen-Minshull’s statement, ‘Islam is incompatible with women’s rights’, and caused a stir while being photographed for this piece, when she announced she would be attending Tommy Robinson’s Unite The Kingdom rally in London.
So she joined another cult then"

Your pivot to a deep dive into the cause of the rise of fundamentalist Islam since the 1970s is a deliberate distraction from the point being made.

Your patronising dismissal of both the death-dealing Fatwas against Salman Rushdie and Lubna Zaidi and the appalling harassment of detransitioners as mere "anecdotes" demonstrates that you would do anything rather than confront actual evidence.

There has been no "trading of anecdotes" because there is no anecdotal evidence of similar cult-like behaviour by gender critical / sex realists.

Where I think the PP who I quoted is wrong is in conflating "charismatic leader" with "cult leader". The two are not synonymous.

It is also obvious that there does not need to be a "cult leader" for "cult-like behaviour" to be in evidence.

This article is a good explainer:

Cults Without Leaders: How Belief Systems Replace Thinking Under Identity Pressure, and Why Parts of the Modern Left Exhibit Cult Dynamics
Identity Pressure, Moral Absolutism, and the Erosion of Independent Judgment

One of the most effective defenses modern belief systems deploy is a misconception about what cults actually are.

When people hear the word cult, they picture a charismatic leader: a Jim Jones, a David Koresh, a guru standing on a stage issuing commands to followers who surrender their autonomy. So when accusations of cultish behavior arise in modern political or cultural movements, the response is immediate:

“Where’s the leader?”“Who’s the cult figure?”“That can’t be a cult — no one is in charge.”

This objection sounds reasonable. It is also outdated.

Modern cults rarely look like the caricatures people expect. In fact, the absence of a single charismatic leader is not evidence against cultish behavior — it is often evidence of its evolution.

To understand why, we need to stop defining cults by personalities and start defining them by function.

What a Cult Is — Functionally

At its core, a cult is not defined by robes, compounds, or leaders. It is defined by how belief operates inside a group.

Functionally, a cult exists when:

  • Identity replaces evidence
  • Belief becomes a moral obligation
  • Doubt is treated as betrayal
  • Repetition substitutes for verification
  • Group belonging outweighs factual coherence
In other words, cults are not primarily about who is followed. They are about how beliefs are maintained and enforced.

Once belief becomes an identity signal rather than a truth-seeking process, cult dynamics are already present — regardless of leadership structure.

The Charismatic Leader Fallacy

The fixation on charismatic leaders is a relic of earlier eras. Traditional cults required a central authority because information flowed slowly and communication was limited. Control depended on physical proximity and hierarchical enforcement.

Modern belief systems operate differently.

Today, authority is distributed, not centralized. Media ecosystems, social platforms, and peer reinforcement replace the need for a single leader. Narratives propagate horizontally through repetition rather than vertically through command.

No one has to say, “Believe this.”Everyone simply repeats it.

The group itself becomes the authority.

This is why the question “Where is the leader?” misses the point. In modern cults, leadership is replaced by consensus pressure. The belief persists not because someone orders it to, but because rejecting it threatens social belonging.

Full article:
lucianseraphis.substack.com/p/cults-without-leaders-how-belief-6ca

OldCrone · 17/05/2026 15:15

AntiRacistFella · 17/05/2026 13:24

I certainly don't have an issue with detransitioners and they're entitled to hold their views about what happened. But the conversation has to connect with other views shared (not obviously related to trans/detrans - but for some reason linked in).

Personally, but for the 'Tommy Robinson' connection - I wouldn't felt any reason to engage with this post. It was the young woman herself who choose to promote his rally, and the Mail that felt there was enough editorial justification to mention it.

The rally is only mentioned once right at the end of a long article which talks about her transition and detransition and the abuse she received for detransitioning.

What brought her to that point? Read the article and think about all the treatment she received from people she thought were her friends and allies and why she ended up where she did.

You've made several posts on this thread, but you haven't engaged at all with the main subject of the thread, which is the abuse inflicted on detransitioners by trans cultists.

You've tried to derail from the subject by posting AI drivel about Islam and suggesting that we shouldn't have any sympathy for this woman because she's attended the Tommy Robinson rally.

You don't have to be a Tommy Robinson supporter to recognise that many aspects of Islam as practised in many countries are profoundly anti-woman.

ArabellaScott · 17/05/2026 15:03

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 17/05/2026 14:34

@AntiRacistFella There are genuine challenges that exist in the UK - they're not going to be helped by divisive rhetoric and deepening mistrust between communities.

This is what drives me mad about so many political commentators. Lots of chin-stroking and 'well, I wouldn't do it this way' type comments and buzzwords like Divisive and Mistrust. Where are the bloody solutions?

Just more chiding and tutting.

Wearenotborg · 17/05/2026 14:59

Wouldcou · 17/05/2026 00:50

On X, she recently retweeted Keen-Minshull’s statement, ‘Islam is incompatible with women’s rights’, and caused a stir while being photographed for this piece, when she announced she would be attending Tommy Robinson’s Unite The Kingdom rally in London.

So she joined another cult then

But factions of Islam are incompatible with women’s rights. We have schoolgirls abducted by Boko Haram and forced into marriage and raped. We have women in Afghanistan who now have no rights. Iranian women now have to cover their hair in public or be beaten. How are these compatible with women’s rights? How is talking about this Islamophobia?

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 17/05/2026 14:34

AntiRacistFella · 17/05/2026 11:34

Okay..

The point is that the conservative form of Islam is not the only one, but it's been spread deliberately and artificially by the wealthy oil rich Gulf states since around the 1970s. That's key to understand why the fundamentalist wing within Islam has more visibility compared to the similar fringes of other religions. We can't conflate "Islam" with just its fundamentalist currents and certainly not with Islamism - a political ideology.

There are genuine challenges that exist in the UK - they're not going to be helped by divisive rhetoric and deepening mistrust between communities.

@AntiRacistFella There are genuine challenges that exist in the UK - they're not going to be helped by divisive rhetoric and deepening mistrust between communities.

This is what drives me mad about so many political commentators. Lots of chin-stroking and 'well, I wouldn't do it this way' type comments and buzzwords like Divisive and Mistrust. Where are the bloody solutions?

DeanElderberry · 17/05/2026 14:01

The conversation doesn't have to link to things brought in as distraction from the main thread. It can, if it helps throw light on the main topic, but it doesn't have to.

AntiRacistFella · 17/05/2026 13:24

OldCrone · 17/05/2026 11:40

What does this have to do with detransitioners?

I certainly don't have an issue with detransitioners and they're entitled to hold their views about what happened. But the conversation has to connect with other views shared (not obviously related to trans/detrans - but for some reason linked in).

Personally, but for the 'Tommy Robinson' connection - I wouldn't felt any reason to engage with this post. It was the young woman herself who choose to promote his rally, and the Mail that felt there was enough editorial justification to mention it.

theilltemperedamateur · 17/05/2026 12:55

MohavePenstemon · 16/05/2026 20:39

This might shock some people, but calling someone a RW grifter who looks like a man while they're still struggling with themselves and refusing to listen to them only gives them the very few support systems.

People are fucking vile when you detransition, especially if you're FTM, it's disgusting and leaves you feeling like your skin's been scoured off your body by the people who draped it over your shoulders. You're left naked and ridiculed for the gentlest push back, and the only people who WILL listen are those with an agenda.

This is entirely a problem of their own making. Stop responding to dentransitioners as problems to be shut up, accept they didn't exist when gatekeeping medicalization of trans care occurred, and they'll stop turning to the only people listening to them.

You lose EVERYONE when you express the slightest doubt. You have to apologize and apologize and apologize and you're still dunked on by mental toddlers who mock you with idiot silly hurhur memes, and have zero medical or mental health care. ZERO. As in get ready to be fired as a patient and have NO ONE who knows what to do about your body.

You and people like you did this. You are the radicalizing agents.

I was fired as a patient for not wanting to medicalize. In a delicate and uncomfortable mental health situation that I knew HRT wouldn't help, and starting to question things. When I expressed this, I was told, explicitly, that I would kill myself and the clinic made me sign papers stating that I wouldn't, despite never expressing suicidality.

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I was fired as a patient for not wanting to medicalize. In a delicate and uncomfortable mental health situation that I knew HRT wouldn't help, and starting to question things. When I expressed this, I was told, explicitly, that I would kill myself and the clinic made me sign papers stating that I wouldn't, despite never expressing suicidality.

At last. We found it. A genuine example of conversion therapy.

OldCrone · 17/05/2026 11:40

AntiRacistFella · 17/05/2026 11:34

Okay..

The point is that the conservative form of Islam is not the only one, but it's been spread deliberately and artificially by the wealthy oil rich Gulf states since around the 1970s. That's key to understand why the fundamentalist wing within Islam has more visibility compared to the similar fringes of other religions. We can't conflate "Islam" with just its fundamentalist currents and certainly not with Islamism - a political ideology.

There are genuine challenges that exist in the UK - they're not going to be helped by divisive rhetoric and deepening mistrust between communities.

What does this have to do with detransitioners?

OldCrone · 17/05/2026 11:36

AntiRacistFella · 16/05/2026 22:11

For starters, right wing trans people exist - to take two very different examples : fascist Della Aleksander and the Margaret Thatcher fan and former UKIP MEP Nikki Sinclaire.

So, a particular attitude around trans is not a defining property of being right/left wing or not.

The issues around child and young adult transition - I don't think can be reduced to a simple right wing / left wing dichotomy either. I'm not any kind of expert around trans issues in general, and especially not regarding young people. So I wouldn't want to issue any kind of pronouncement about what young people, their families and the professionals either should or should not be doing.

However the specific political areas that I personally have a problem are alluded to in the following paragraphs

" Angry, Philippa threw herself into the networks she had been building since meeting Keen-Minshull. She left behind the progressive thinking that told her she could change sex and now aligns herself with Keen-Minshull’s politics.

On X, she recently retweeted Keen-Minshull’s statement, ‘Islam is incompatible with women’s rights’, and caused a stir while being photographed for this piece, when she announced she would be attending Tommy Robinson’s Unite The Kingdom rally in London. "

So by choosing to attend a rally organised by a known rabble rouser and habitual criminal - yes I'd be prepared to describe that as working with the morally unacceptable face of the far right.

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And if her previous "community" had supported her instead of threatening her and trying to ruin her life, none of this would have happened.

So by shunning apostates and expelling them from the community, TRAs are driving detransitioners towards people that they find unacceptable, and then blaming their victims for finding another community which accepts them.

What do you expect detransitioners to do when they're treated in this way?

AntiRacistFella · 17/05/2026 11:34

Okay..

The point is that the conservative form of Islam is not the only one, but it's been spread deliberately and artificially by the wealthy oil rich Gulf states since around the 1970s. That's key to understand why the fundamentalist wing within Islam has more visibility compared to the similar fringes of other religions. We can't conflate "Islam" with just its fundamentalist currents and certainly not with Islamism - a political ideology.

There are genuine challenges that exist in the UK - they're not going to be helped by divisive rhetoric and deepening mistrust between communities.

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 17/05/2026 11:01

AntiRacistFella · 17/05/2026 10:57

True - and the specific question I asked was this "Connection between middle east oil and the islamic revival starting in the 1970s" (it's the conclusion of the answer)

So not likely a "trick" to oppose the points raised, but relevant significant context.

You can't just post a wodge of AI generated text and expect the rest of us to figure out what point you are trying to make.
Have another go.

AntiRacistFella · 17/05/2026 10:57

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 17/05/2026 10:01

AI

True - and the specific question I asked was this "Connection between middle east oil and the islamic revival starting in the 1970s" (it's the conclusion of the answer)

So not likely a "trick" to oppose the points raised, but relevant significant context.