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Namechange999999999 · 18/05/2026 16:25

Pingponghavoc · 17/05/2026 13:26

If at least one other child went to primary school with the student in question, theres a good chance lots of parents know the truth. So its unlikely that its a girl who identified as a boy in primary. The truth would be known locally, and this parents concerns corrected.

Also, it would be strange to have a trans identifying daughter in primary school and switch to putting them in an all girls school for secondary. Unless its something they were only doing in year 1.

The school could easily say there are no male students without invading anyone's privacy in the same way they could confirm everyone is under 19.

Name changed for obvious reasons.

My daughter goes to this school, I believed it to be single sex until recieving a letter today blaming the council for their admissions policy.

There are a large number of primarys in Beverley and Beverley High has 5 form groups per year so not like a small school where everyone knows everyone. It is very desirable so not all the girls who apply get in and so this boy has taken a place from a girl.

There is also a boys school, Beverley Grammar and mixed sex, Longcroft so plenty of other options. 6th form is joint with the boys school so there are boys on site, but mainly separate from the lower classes.

Off to ask DD if she knew...

Pingponghavoc · 17/05/2026 13:26

If at least one other child went to primary school with the student in question, theres a good chance lots of parents know the truth. So its unlikely that its a girl who identified as a boy in primary. The truth would be known locally, and this parents concerns corrected.

Also, it would be strange to have a trans identifying daughter in primary school and switch to putting them in an all girls school for secondary. Unless its something they were only doing in year 1.

The school could easily say there are no male students without invading anyone's privacy in the same way they could confirm everyone is under 19.

ExtraordinaryMachine1 · 17/05/2026 12:58

Gosh, that Withers piece is interesting. All those questions and no answers.

Whatever are the parents of this boy thinking? Unless the mum genuinely thinks she's the Virgin Mary, then she must have some idea about how babies are made. Surely mum and dad realise, however "kind" everyone is, that puberty will show itself at some point? And, never mind the girls around, that's not going to be at all nice for their little boy? How do they sleep at night, how do they justify this on their son?

I don't understand how parents can do this to their children. The only parent I know in this situation appears to be completely delusional, but even she subtly dropped her son out of Scouts to avoid questions about camping etc. So she knows really. But these parents are next level.

MyAmpleSheep · 17/05/2026 00:20

MyAmpleSheep · 16/05/2026 20:18

As far as "exceptional" goes:

There is case law that makes abundantly clear that in case of the "exceptional" admission of a boy (to a girl's school) - there has to be a well founded articulable reason for that boy being an exception, a reason other than their boy-ness, a reason that applies to that particular boy exceptionally. That he identifies a girl would entirely fail that test.

I have been trying to find references to this; I might have halucinated the case law, but I did find this article from 2022. I'm sure there's something else about though.

https://www.withersworldwide.com/en-gb/insight/read/single-sex-schools-and-transgender-applicants-in-the-uk

Single sex schools and transgender applicants in the UK | Withers

https://www.withersworldwide.com/en-gb/insight/read/single-sex-schools-and-transgender-applicants-in-the-uk

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 16/05/2026 21:23

This reply has been withdrawn

This has been withdrawn by MNHQ at the poster's request.

theilltemperedamateur · 16/05/2026 21:12

MyAmpleSheep · 16/05/2026 20:18

As far as "exceptional" goes:

There is case law that makes abundantly clear that in case of the "exceptional" admission of a boy (to a girl's school) - there has to be a well founded articulable reason for that boy being an exception, a reason other than their boy-ness, a reason that applies to that particular boy exceptionally. That he identifies a girl would entirely fail that test.

Newnham College are expressly relying on para 3(a) for their undergraduate admissions. Someone had better sue them.

KnottyAuty · 16/05/2026 20:50

MyAmpleSheep · 16/05/2026 20:18

As far as "exceptional" goes:

There is case law that makes abundantly clear that in case of the "exceptional" admission of a boy (to a girl's school) - there has to be a well founded articulable reason for that boy being an exception, a reason other than their boy-ness, a reason that applies to that particular boy exceptionally. That he identifies a girl would entirely fail that test.

Not least that theres a boy’s grammar he could have gone to. Or a co-ed school somewhere else. I hope this mum takes these people to the cleaners. They aren’t safe to supervise other people’s children. The dishonesty is breathtaking

MyAmpleSheep · 16/05/2026 20:18

theilltemperedamateur · 15/05/2026 22:36

Schedule 12

1(1)Section 91(1), so far as relating to sex, does not apply in relation to a single-sex institution.
(2)A single-sex institution is an institution to which section 91 applies, which—
(a)admits students of one sex only, or
(b)on the basis of the assumption in sub-paragraph (3), would be taken to admit students of one sex only.
(3)That assumption is that students of the opposite sex are to be disregarded if—
(a)their admission to the institution is exceptional, or
(b)their numbers are comparatively small and their admission is confined to particular courses or classes.
(4)In the case of an institution which is a single-sex institution by virtue of sub-paragraph (3)(b), section 91(2)(a) to (d), so far as relating to sex, does not prohibit confining students of the same sex to particular courses or classes.

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The rules on single-sex schools are deliberately flexible, to allow, for example, for the fact that in sparsely populated areas, it might otherwise be difficult for both sexes to get local access to a full range of subject matter teaching. 3(a) allows for 'exceptional' opposite-sex admissions with no further explanation. The school might try to rely on this.

As far as "exceptional" goes:

There is case law that makes abundantly clear that in case of the "exceptional" admission of a boy (to a girl's school) - there has to be a well founded articulable reason for that boy being an exception, a reason other than their boy-ness, a reason that applies to that particular boy exceptionally. That he identifies a girl would entirely fail that test.

KnottyAuty · 16/05/2026 19:49

MarieDeGournay · 16/05/2026 19:14

In that case, it would be helpful for the school to confirm that they use the same definition of 'female' as the UK Supreme Court and that by 'girl' they mean a young biological female, and therefore are actually an all-girls school.

Why have they refuse to do this? I don't see what GDPR has to do with it, it would just be a confirmation of their admissions policy.

Because they’ve admitted a male into a girl’s school! If this was nonsense then they’d have said so. It’s GDPR or privacy because it’s true

MarieDeGournay · 16/05/2026 19:14

ConstanzeMozart · 16/05/2026 18:07

Yes, I was thinking this. Unless the claimant has other information that this article doesn’t mention, it’s not at all certain that there actually is a boy at the school.

In that case, it would be helpful for the school to confirm that they use the same definition of 'female' as the UK Supreme Court and that by 'girl' they mean a young biological female, and therefore are actually an all-girls school.

Why have they refuse to do this? I don't see what GDPR has to do with it, it would just be a confirmation of their admissions policy.

Igmum · 16/05/2026 18:07

And since it is by stealth I’m assuming this boy shares toilets and changing rooms with the girls and will bunk with them on school trips? So the school is basically facilitating strip shows for him. I hope they get prosecuted for breaches to safeguarding.

ConstanzeMozart · 16/05/2026 18:07

MementoMountain · 16/05/2026 13:45

“They were talking about who they were friends with at primary school and my daughter’s friend said: ‘Oh I was friends with’ — and then she said a female pupil’s name — ‘but I was friends with her when she was a boy’.”

It's just possible, in the absence of further information, that this is a girl who briefly called herself a boy at primary school.

Yes, I was thinking this. Unless the claimant has other information that this article doesn’t mention, it’s not at all certain that there actually is a boy at the school.

MementoMountain · 16/05/2026 17:58

Oh, I'm similarly assuming that the parent had sound reasons for thinking this child was a boy, but the quoted part from her daughter's friend could have meant either -- and the school presumably wouldn't confirm either way.

KnottyAuty · 16/05/2026 15:31

MementoMountain · 16/05/2026 13:45

“They were talking about who they were friends with at primary school and my daughter’s friend said: ‘Oh I was friends with’ — and then she said a female pupil’s name — ‘but I was friends with her when she was a boy’.”

It's just possible, in the absence of further information, that this is a girl who briefly called herself a boy at primary school.

In the absence of other information that might be so. Although why anyone would bother suing the school about a girl with a trans identity is baffling.

however in the article it is clear
Joanne Donoghue sent her three daughters to Beverley High School, which she had attended as a child, but learnt a biological boy had been admitted ‘secretly’

Theres a boys grammar and a girls grammar. I imagine they are highly competitive and places fought for - years of preparation.

If all the boys have to do is ID as girls to get places there, then thats horrible discrimination. History tells us that men fought hard to keep women out of education at all levels. A colleague of mine said to my face that we shouldn’t bother educating girls as they just go off and get pregnant. He got short shrift! And maybe he has had a rethink as I now employ him so not as useless as he perhaps assumed 🤣

MementoMountain · 16/05/2026 13:45

“They were talking about who they were friends with at primary school and my daughter’s friend said: ‘Oh I was friends with’ — and then she said a female pupil’s name — ‘but I was friends with her when she was a boy’.”

It's just possible, in the absence of further information, that this is a girl who briefly called herself a boy at primary school.

KnottyAuty · 16/05/2026 13:41

GenialHarrietGrouty · 16/05/2026 10:17

But the poster concerned was talking about the ownership of penises being the major factor, not the status of the owners.

It’s irrelevant that there are male teachers in girls schools. Everyone knows they are men and safeguarding works for that cohort.

the problem is that a boy has been given a place at the girls’ grammar by stealth. That directly discriminates against the girls and indirectly against boys.

The family who’s daughter was first place on the waiting list for this grammar will feel rightfully very upset at having been excluded

PrettyDamnCosmic · 16/05/2026 10:48

GenialHarrietGrouty · 15/05/2026 23:02

Looking at the staff list, they already had several penises there which the claimant doesn't seem to have had any problem with.

Looking at the staff list, they already had several penises there which the claimant doesn't seem to have had any problem with.

It’s penises in the toilets & changing rooms that are the issue but as pupils do not share facilities with staff that won’t be a problem. A girls school could have 100% male teachers but would remain a single-sex school.

Dollymylove · 16/05/2026 10:46

They wont be able to hide it when his voice breaks and he grows a beard

GenialHarrietGrouty · 16/05/2026 10:17

Rightsraptor · 15/05/2026 23:47

Oh dear.

@GenialHarrietGrouty - when we talk of a single sex school we mean the pupils/students, not the teachers.

But the poster concerned was talking about the ownership of penises being the major factor, not the status of the owners.

KnottyAuty · 16/05/2026 09:40

Talkinpeace · 15/05/2026 21:18

https://www.beverleyhigh.net/

"Beverley High School is the only girls’ school in the East Riding of Yorkshire."

whoops

[email protected]

theilltemperedamateur · 16/05/2026 09:36

Gerri1992 · 16/05/2026 00:47

Newnham is in Cambridge.
There are no women's colleges at Oxford - last one went mixed in mid-2000s.

Newnham use Schedule 12 to justify trans-inclusive undergraduate admission criteria.

OTOH they recently sought women-only candidates for a specific Fellowship, relying on Schedule 9 (occupational requirement exemption) and the fact that their founding instrument predates the Employment Act 1992.

So they haven't completely forgotten their founding purpose of promoting the education of women, unlike every other college.

SexRealistic · 16/05/2026 02:29

Gerri1992 · 16/05/2026 00:47

Newnham is in Cambridge.
There are no women's colleges at Oxford - last one went mixed in mid-2000s.

My apologies - I should have known better (or at least googled!)

OP posts:
Gerri1992 · 16/05/2026 00:47

theilltemperedamateur · 15/05/2026 22:39

I think one of the Oxford colleges was using it to allow men who identify as women into their college.

It was Newnham.

Except if you limit that single sex exemption to people with a trans identity it’s discrimination.

They will say the trans status is 'exceptional' for the purposes of para 3(b)

Newnham is in Cambridge.
There are no women's colleges at Oxford - last one went mixed in mid-2000s.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 16/05/2026 00:25

And are the girls being forced to pretend that there other penis-havers are women? Are the penises in the same toilets and changing rooms as the girls?

Rightsraptor · 15/05/2026 23:47

Oh dear.

@GenialHarrietGrouty - when we talk of a single sex school we mean the pupils/students, not the teachers.