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Cambridge university debate

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WarriorN · 15/05/2026 07:15

I’ve just started to watch; Buck Angel opening, which was never something I thought I’d see at Cambridge University - but this is how the de programming begins.

https://www.youtube.com/live/wE0JY9d7f-w?si=R65X7xp-ohfHJg2x

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ArabellaScott · 21/05/2026 23:02

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 17/05/2026 12:22

1.7M views now

2 million!

ILikeDungs · 21/05/2026 19:12

38 agreed.
70 disagreed.
53 abstentions.

Everybody knows
The good guys lost

Leonard Cohen

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 17/05/2026 12:22

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 16/05/2026 19:38

The 11 minute clip Maeve uploaded on X has had 1.4M views👏

https://x.com/MaeveHalligan/status/2055228205804421218

1.7M views now

climbintheback · 17/05/2026 11:54

Maeve for PM

ArabellaScott · 17/05/2026 11:52

38 agreed.
70 disagreed.
53 abstentions.

That is an interesting breakdown.

Its a public vote, in a way? You have to walk out a certain path.

The abstentions are the quiet majority who don't speak up. Such a large number abstaining is itself instructive.

Be very interesting to see an anon ballot.

WarriorN · 17/05/2026 10:06

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WarriorN · 17/05/2026 09:43

borntobequiet · 17/05/2026 08:48

c’mon woman’s hour! Be brave!

”Brave” and “Woman’s Hour” are rarely seen in the same sentence.

😂

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Doggodoggo · 17/05/2026 09:23

Webberley just comes across as really sinister. Like Umbridge in Harry Potter with her fake "kind" voice saying things that might appear kind on the surface but not quite being able to hide the undercurrent of true evil that underlies every she says.

BonfireLady · 17/05/2026 08:52

ArabellaScott · 16/05/2026 22:27

I took it very much as him celebrating how life is now easier for gay men than it was thirty years ago.

I mean, great. But It seemed pretty tone deaf to the problems of lesbians, women and children.

Oh, I definitely took that from it. That was his main message - so perhaps my use of the word "crux" was not ideal in hindsight.

But on a few occasions he acknowledged that some activism within the "LGBTQ+" (I can't remember which variant of the acronym he used) went too far. He seemed to hand wave that away though, each time he said it, as if it really didn't matter because without it (going too far) he wouldn't be able to live freely as he can today.

It all seemed rather muddled, because the freedom to live as he can today didn't require an overreach of activism at all. So my takeaway was that if only he had thought a little harder (and listened to the many people who had patiently explained the overreach to him - I know he's not new to this) he would recognise that he really didn't need any trans rights activism at all.... and if he thought harder still he would realise that under such activism, he would be called transphobic if he didn't accept a female (who identifies as a man) as a gay man. Instead, he just played the old man card and handed the baton over to the younger gay men to continue the "fight".... which was gladly taken by Sammy the Twerp, who gave a tedious speech about hate, which was (ironically) a hate-filled rant with no substance.

In other words, I felt he was a whisker away from agreeing with the motion but couldn't be bothered to think hard enough to get there.

borntobequiet · 17/05/2026 08:48

c’mon woman’s hour! Be brave!

”Brave” and “Woman’s Hour” are rarely seen in the same sentence.

WarriorN · 17/05/2026 08:35

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 16/05/2026 19:38

The 11 minute clip Maeve uploaded on X has had 1.4M views👏

https://x.com/MaeveHalligan/status/2055228205804421218

I’m now seeing clips of other random YouTubers dissecting her speech positively I have no idea who I watched last night but she was pregnant, American and I didn’t really feel she normally talked about these issues as a main. Her tag line was “Mic Drop!”

It really was a mic drop

I hope the bbc gets her on to discuss and debate.

c’mon woman’s hour! Be brave!

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ArabellaScott · 16/05/2026 22:27

thirdfiddle · 16/05/2026 14:28

Agreed. As I understood it, that was the crux of the first opposition speech. He seemed happy to fall on his sword as an old man who will leave the complexity to the younger folk.

I didn't get that so much as he is taking a broader view and doesn't feel the current disagreements are material compared to the progress that has been made in his lifetime. Maybe we're all inclined to take "modern" as being our own lifetime so he's discussing an entirely different perspective to the students.

I took it very much as him celebrating how life is now easier for gay men than it was thirty years ago.

I mean, great. But It seemed pretty tone deaf to the problems of lesbians, women and children.

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 16/05/2026 15:23

Just watched the whole thing. Maeve and Serena were both superb. Their passion was as eloquent as their words. Connie Shaw's face when the anti-Webberley guy spoke was a picture. Really pleased to see Helen Joyce there supporting these young women on behalf of all of us.
I confess to fast-forwarding Webberley. Listening to her puts my immortal soul in danger.

PrettyDamnCosmic · 16/05/2026 14:34

I hadn't seen Buck Angel before. Her position seems similar to that of @Seethlaw the nice French trans identifying female who posts here occasionally. She has gender dysphoria & changing her body has made her feel more comfortable but she still knows she is female.

thirdfiddle · 16/05/2026 14:28

Agreed. As I understood it, that was the crux of the first opposition speech. He seemed happy to fall on his sword as an old man who will leave the complexity to the younger folk.

I didn't get that so much as he is taking a broader view and doesn't feel the current disagreements are material compared to the progress that has been made in his lifetime. Maybe we're all inclined to take "modern" as being our own lifetime so he's discussing an entirely different perspective to the students.

BonfireLady · 16/05/2026 13:45

Abhannmor · 16/05/2026 13:08

How has she avoided prison? I thought she did a runner to Australia.

How has she avoided the reality of biology, despite being a doctor?

Presumably she has approached all of it in a similar way:

  • sound like you know stuff and care. Like you're the mum to the world, but particularly to vulnerable minorities
  • "no thanks" away anyone who disagrees with you. If they do get their views out in the open, tell them they are unkind and/or not a doctor
  • have a legal structure in place to manage accountability
ArabellaScott · 16/05/2026 13:33

I haven't heard of any protests or threats or superglueing incidents. So thats progress.

Abhannmor · 16/05/2026 13:08

youandyourelk · 15/05/2026 10:03

I'm watching her now - what an extremely dangerous individual.

How has she avoided prison? I thought she did a runner to Australia.

BonfireLady · 16/05/2026 13:06

Heggettypeg · 16/05/2026 12:57

I think it would have been a hard debate to win outright because "failing" could be taken in two ways.

One is that LGBTetc activism is failing its constituency now (arguably a yes, between undermining lesbian rights, public backlash against TRA overreach, and activist focus on pronouns and kink displays rather than LGBs and Ts in situations worldwide where actual human rights for gay and trans people are still lacking).

The other is that LGBT activism has failed overall (clearly a no, because very real gains have been made on gay rights in many places, and the Ts in some places have got "rights" that trample other people's).

So it would have been possible to feel that LGBT activism has gone off the rails now but isn't a failure overall, and vote against the motion.

So it would have been possible to feel that LGBT activism has gone off the rails now but isn't a failure overall, and vote against the motion.

Agreed. As I understood it, that was the crux of the first opposition speech. He seemed happy to fall on his sword as an old man who will leave the complexity to the younger folk.

Heggettypeg · 16/05/2026 12:57

I think it would have been a hard debate to win outright because "failing" could be taken in two ways.

One is that LGBTetc activism is failing its constituency now (arguably a yes, between undermining lesbian rights, public backlash against TRA overreach, and activist focus on pronouns and kink displays rather than LGBs and Ts in situations worldwide where actual human rights for gay and trans people are still lacking).

The other is that LGBT activism has failed overall (clearly a no, because very real gains have been made on gay rights in many places, and the Ts in some places have got "rights" that trample other people's).

So it would have been possible to feel that LGBT activism has gone off the rails now but isn't a failure overall, and vote against the motion.

BonfireLady · 16/05/2026 12:44

BonfireLady · 16/05/2026 12:23

It was only one lesson of preparation. Mostly about the structure of a formal debate and a tiny bit about how it should be possible to debate something you don't actually believe. I think that was a throwaway comment. I'm struggling to remember how I ended up being on the pro side of the death penalty but in my hazy recollection, nobody wanted to do it but the topic was one that had been chosen for the class. I think there was a pool of topics and people had to pick one and find someone to spar with. I was super geeky, super opinionated on what is right and wrong and not particularly popular at school, other than amongst my geeky friends 😂 I imagine it was one of my lovely geeky friends and I that debated each other, but can't remember and we've lost touch now.

What I'm taking from all of that is that as we grow older, our opinions evolve. I think it's easy to acknowledge that based on secondary school to now but I suspect that many of the students in that debate hadn't thought theirs would at this age... so were perhaps surprised to feel conflicted.

no I don’t remember the before results being shared. Maybe they are out there somewhere!

If they are, that would add some validity to my theory above.

Edited to add some clarification: have amended "prep" to preparation, given the former seems to be a way of making homework sound fancier these days. I assume it was always thus in private schools, but could be wrong.

Edited

Could add some validity. Not would, TBF.

Too late to edit again.

BonfireLady · 16/05/2026 12:24

woollyhatter · 16/05/2026 10:20

Fantastic debate and proper airing of views. Do think it may be the start of those seeds of doubt for many folk who have unthinkingly fallen into allyship. More of this please but I wish we saw more of this in our actual political chambers in Wales, Scotland and Westminster.

All of this ⬆️

But especially this ⬇️

More of this please but I wish we saw more of this in our actual political chambers in Wales, Scotland and Westminster.

Come on MPs. It's quite literally your job.

BonfireLady · 16/05/2026 12:23

IoannahJo · 16/05/2026 09:49

@BonfireLady no I don’t remember the before results being shared. Maybe they are out there somewhere!

I don’t recall doing any debating at my secondary comp. Would have been good as I was pretty opinionated back then and tried to campaign for girls to be able to play football and have a trouser option for school uniform (unsuccessfully). I love listening to debate. Sad I might be but I sometimes put the HOC on in the background at work just to hear the debate. It really is a skill.

This is a great point: “The more everyone follows the TRA call to action to "educate yourself", the less the blank cheque of unquestionable allyship.”

It was only one lesson of preparation. Mostly about the structure of a formal debate and a tiny bit about how it should be possible to debate something you don't actually believe. I think that was a throwaway comment. I'm struggling to remember how I ended up being on the pro side of the death penalty but in my hazy recollection, nobody wanted to do it but the topic was one that had been chosen for the class. I think there was a pool of topics and people had to pick one and find someone to spar with. I was super geeky, super opinionated on what is right and wrong and not particularly popular at school, other than amongst my geeky friends 😂 I imagine it was one of my lovely geeky friends and I that debated each other, but can't remember and we've lost touch now.

What I'm taking from all of that is that as we grow older, our opinions evolve. I think it's easy to acknowledge that based on secondary school to now but I suspect that many of the students in that debate hadn't thought theirs would at this age... so were perhaps surprised to feel conflicted.

no I don’t remember the before results being shared. Maybe they are out there somewhere!

If they are, that would add some validity to my theory above.

Edited to add some clarification: have amended "prep" to preparation, given the former seems to be a way of making homework sound fancier these days. I assume it was always thus in private schools, but could be wrong.

RoyalCorgi · 16/05/2026 11:44

Maeve is exceptional: eloquent, articulate, courageous. I am sure she has a very starry future ahead of her.