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Giggle v Tickle Friday 15th May 2pm AEST

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impossibletoday · 11/05/2026 06:40

Giggle v Tickle
Friday 15th May
2pm AEST
Live streamed

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sanluca · 22/05/2026 08:57

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 07:40

No harm done

And yet isn't the whole GC world view centred around being anti gender stereotypes? You can't have it both ways nor do you get to speak for all gender non conforming women.

Exactly, my viewpoint is that gender stereotypes can go in the bin and womens safety is important, so that means I accept due to my physical build (nothing to do with gender conformation) I can get asked a question. Not sure where you want to see a conflict in this

I also never said I speak for all women, just like you can't decide for all women all toilets must be mixed sex.

SirChenjins · 22/05/2026 08:50

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 08:49

How you deduced that from my comment is rather bizarre.

The comment was in reference to cis gender non conforming women being falsely accused of the wrong sex by enforcers of the new guidelines because they are 'guessing'.

In terms of trans identities using the ladies I imagine some will continue to do so because they sufficiently pass & as such can't be detected under 'sophisticated' gender stereotyping 'tracking' surveillance systems. This maybe illegal but to suggest it's 'predatory' is an irrational stretch.

Why do you think it's illegal? What behaviour coming from men do you think makes it necessary to prevent them from entering women's spaces?

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 08:49

Helleofabore · 22/05/2026 08:41

Isn’t this a replay from back in August / September?

Are you telling us that male people with transgender identities are going to ignore the law and the policies where they apply and therefore act in a predatory way? Isn’t that transphobic of you?

How you deduced that from my comment is rather bizarre.

The comment was in reference to cis gender non conforming women being falsely accused of the wrong sex by enforcers of the new guidelines because they are 'guessing'.

In terms of trans identities using the ladies I imagine some will continue to do so because they sufficiently pass & as such can't be detected under 'sophisticated' gender stereotyping 'tracking' surveillance systems. This maybe illegal but to suggest it's 'predatory' is an irrational stretch.

Helleofabore · 22/05/2026 08:41

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 08:33

Yeah? What's it got to do with? 'Xray vision'?

Oh that's right 'we can always tell'…. except you clearly can't according to gender non confirming women….& the new EHRC guidelines.

Isn’t this a replay from back in August / September?

Are you telling us that male people with transgender identities are going to ignore the law and the policies where they apply and therefore act in a predatory way? Isn’t that transphobic of you?

spannasaurus · 22/05/2026 08:39

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 08:37

This is beyond silly.

Well I agree that you are beyond silly. People can tell the difference between male and female bodies. It doesn't matter what clothes people wear, if their hair is long or short, if they wear makeup or not. I

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 08:38

spannasaurus · 22/05/2026 08:36

Based on what?

Based on typical associations with cis people.

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 08:37

spannasaurus · 22/05/2026 08:34

Does a gender non conforming women have a different skeletal structure to a gender conforming woman?

This is beyond silly.

spannasaurus · 22/05/2026 08:36

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 08:35

No but the perception of the observer maybe based on it.

Based on what?

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 08:35

spannasaurus · 22/05/2026 08:28

Do you think the physical differences between male and female bodies are gender stereotypes ?

No but the perception of the observer maybe based on it.

spannasaurus · 22/05/2026 08:34

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 08:33

Yeah? What's it got to do with? 'Xray vision'?

Oh that's right 'we can always tell'…. except you clearly can't according to gender non confirming women….& the new EHRC guidelines.

Does a gender non conforming women have a different skeletal structure to a gender conforming woman?

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 08:33

Helleofabore · 22/05/2026 08:27

Being able to correctly identify a person’s sex category, regardless of what they are wearing and regardless of extreme body modification is nothing to do with gender stereotypes.

Yeah? What's it got to do with? 'Xray vision'?

Oh that's right 'we can always tell'…. except you clearly can't according to gender non confirming women….& the new EHRC guidelines.

Shedmistress · 22/05/2026 08:32

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 08:26

Unless providers are conducting gametal & chromosomal tests to meet their enforcement obligations then they have no other choice than using gender stereotypes.

such as?

Helleofabore · 22/05/2026 08:31

spannasaurus · 22/05/2026 08:28

Do you think the physical differences between male and female bodies are gender stereotypes ?

Didn’t Howsa tell us all this over and over, too?

Helleofabore · 22/05/2026 08:29

spannasaurus · 22/05/2026 08:28

Do you think the physical differences between male and female bodies are gender stereotypes ?

I believe that is the case being posted by Gretel and Emily (on another thread ).

spannasaurus · 22/05/2026 08:28

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 08:26

Unless providers are conducting gametal & chromosomal tests to meet their enforcement obligations then they have no other choice than using gender stereotypes.

Do you think the physical differences between male and female bodies are gender stereotypes ?

Helleofabore · 22/05/2026 08:27

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 07:41

It is if you're using gender stereotypes to reach that conclusion.

Being able to correctly identify a person’s sex category, regardless of what they are wearing and regardless of extreme body modification is nothing to do with gender stereotypes.

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 08:26

spannasaurus · 22/05/2026 07:43

How is recognising someone's sex based on gender stereotypes?

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Unless providers are conducting gametal & chromosomal tests to meet their enforcement obligations then they have no other choice than using gender stereotypes.

SinnerBoy · 22/05/2026 08:03

DrBlackbird · 19/05/2026 06:02

Appears to be no limits. In addition to a female being a woman, a women is also a tree. No one can tell me what to limit what a woman is. So I’m adding that sub category. A tree woman.

I shall call you Daphne.

spannasaurus · 22/05/2026 07:43

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 07:41

It is if you're using gender stereotypes to reach that conclusion.

How is recognising someone's sex based on gender stereotypes?

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 07:41

spannasaurus · 22/05/2026 07:40

Asking people to use the correct facilities for their sex is not gender policing

It is if you're using gender stereotypes to reach that conclusion.

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 07:40

sanluca · 22/05/2026 07:36

I am gender non conforming, I am also very tall, I have a deep voice for a woman. I can count the times I got challenged in the toilets on one hand. When I respond, women realise I am female. No harm done. So don't worry about gender non conforming women, we will be fine.

Besides, transwomen in my experience are very gender conforming, they ooze feminine stereotypes: long hair, short skirts, make up, the lot. I think if I conformed to gender stereotypes expected of my sex, I would probably get challenged more, if that makes sense? So I never understood this line of reasoning by transactivists.

No harm done

And yet isn't the whole GC world view centred around being anti gender stereotypes? You can't have it both ways nor do you get to speak for all gender non conforming women.

spannasaurus · 22/05/2026 07:40

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 06:15

Slapping people on the butt is illegal regardless of the sex or gender identity of the slappee.

"Slapping" was being used 'figuratively' here as in the gender policing boundary overreach.

People coped a lot better with gender nonconformity before some people started insisting stereotypes of masculinity or femininity are embedded into our psyche as a sacred identity that is so important we must never again mention the biological realities of the female sex

And yet that is what gender policing toilets is perpetuating . You can't have it both ways.

Asking people to use the correct facilities for their sex is not gender policing

sanluca · 22/05/2026 07:36

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 05:17

Indeed, non gender conforming cis women will 'just have to get used to having their butts slapped' by the gender stereotype loo police too.

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I am gender non conforming, I am also very tall, I have a deep voice for a woman. I can count the times I got challenged in the toilets on one hand. When I respond, women realise I am female. No harm done. So don't worry about gender non conforming women, we will be fine.

Besides, transwomen in my experience are very gender conforming, they ooze feminine stereotypes: long hair, short skirts, make up, the lot. I think if I conformed to gender stereotypes expected of my sex, I would probably get challenged more, if that makes sense? So I never understood this line of reasoning by transactivists.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 22/05/2026 07:34

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TheKhakiQuail · 22/05/2026 06:36

Gretel346 · 22/05/2026 06:15

Slapping people on the butt is illegal regardless of the sex or gender identity of the slappee.

"Slapping" was being used 'figuratively' here as in the gender policing boundary overreach.

People coped a lot better with gender nonconformity before some people started insisting stereotypes of masculinity or femininity are embedded into our psyche as a sacred identity that is so important we must never again mention the biological realities of the female sex

And yet that is what gender policing toilets is perpetuating . You can't have it both ways.

Fascinating there is such a strong assumption that biological males would have to be 'policed' to keep them out of womens toilets or change rooms. Surely just like respectful people don't pinch the ACROD carparks designated for people with disability, and male employers mostly won't slap women's butts anymore, people will be respectful of other people's spaces and boundaries?