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AidaP is scraping Mumsnet threads, and grading them

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BambooLampshade · 28/04/2026 21:15

Honestly, this man is obsessed. He has now created a program to scrape and grade Mumsnet threads from this board.

What is this?

Oh yes, I have downloaded most of mumsnet and we will be doing embeddings of the content to try to understand how does the rot and hate builds and spreads.

I never had so much hate and delusion on my hard drive before 😅

https://bsky.app/profile/aidap.bsky.social/post/3mkklbtpgbs2s

Aida (@aidap.bsky.social)

What is this? Oh yes, I have downloaded most of mumsnet and we will be doing embeddings of the content to try to understand how does the rot and hate builds and spreads. I never had so much hate and delusion on my hard drive before 😅

https://bsky.app/profile/aidap.bsky.social/post/3mkklbtpgbs2s

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ArabellaScott · 04/05/2026 13:06

Datun · 04/05/2026 12:20

The women on mumsnet really are the barometer to tell what kind of man is going to be nasty.

Pattern recognition is second to none on here.

I wish sometimes HQ would act on what the women say, a little earlier

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Agreed.

solerolover · 04/05/2026 12:48

"Mumsnet must die", eh?

Ooh the typical male pattern violence is strong in this one, I see.🙃

JustBitetheKnotsOff · 04/05/2026 12:47

The thread about how to help a suddenly trans identifying Canadian teen did get some dangerous suggestions, he's not entirely wrong there.

So do legal threads and quite a few health threads. They don't tend to attract death threats to people or the site, though.

Shedmistress · 04/05/2026 12:29

'Mumsnet must die'.

And to think how long they took to ban him giving him the benefit of the doubt.

But again, they prove our point every bloody time.

BunfightBetty · 04/05/2026 12:26

ArabellaScott · 04/05/2026 12:00

He has come to the conclusion that 'Mumsnet must die', apparently.

How surprising that this man who aggressively claims to be a woman/lesbian wishes death on a site for women, by women. A site where women chat, and offer help and support, and solidarity, including helping abused women escape their partners, etc.

Well that’s a sane, balanced, rational response to reading things he doesn’t agree with.

And he thinks this won’t validate our risk assessment that he needs to be kept far, far away from women’s single sex spaces…

Datun · 04/05/2026 12:20

The women on mumsnet really are the barometer to tell what kind of man is going to be nasty.

Pattern recognition is second to none on here.

I wish sometimes HQ would act on what the women say, a little earlier

BambooLampshade · 04/05/2026 12:20

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Helleofabore · 04/05/2026 12:13

And of course, he has just signalled to a group of other men who will similarly believe that it is acceptable to speak with violence, threat and intimidation to come onto that thread for their own purposes.

We have pointed out, this man cannot recognise women's boundaries, he cannot show that he can behave within the boundaries of acceptable behaviour, and he cannot self-regulate his emotional outbursts.

borntobequiet · 04/05/2026 12:13

It’s interesting reading this thread alternately with the transgender homicides one.

Helleofabore · 04/05/2026 12:09

Mumsnet must die?

This man cannot speak without violence, threat and intimidation.

BiologicalRobot · 04/05/2026 12:04

Oh dear how sad.

What's that saying? He really needs to get out in the fresh air and touch grass.

ArabellaScott · 04/05/2026 12:00

He has come to the conclusion that 'Mumsnet must die', apparently.

How surprising that this man who aggressively claims to be a woman/lesbian wishes death on a site for women, by women. A site where women chat, and offer help and support, and solidarity, including helping abused women escape their partners, etc.

AidaP is scraping Mumsnet threads, and grading them
KnottyAuty · 04/05/2026 11:43

Well I think youre all a bunch of big bad meanies. Fancy chatting on here about tasty treats and the like, when theres a middle aged bloke in a dress out there upset about being ignored. And youre thinking nothing of him. Rotters - the lot of you!

Pitythefool · 04/05/2026 11:30

Veda has to be the one in the yellow wrapper though.

SionnachRuadh · 04/05/2026 11:16

Veda and cheese is the breakfast of champions.

I mind when Colin Murray was on Celebrity Masterchef and made a cheese toastie, but what can you do with a man frae Dundonald?

MarieDeGournay · 04/05/2026 11:07

Pitythefool · 04/05/2026 10:50

We used to have Veda with cheese when we went home tk my granny.

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One of the contestants on the current Masterchef used Veda in a tart!

I wondered if any of the Norn-Iron-linked posters on here were watching, and feeling excited that ✨Veda✨was at last getting its 15 minutes of fame!😁

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 04/05/2026 11:06

MarieDeGournay · 04/05/2026 10:15

We had mugs of 'Oxo cube soup' Leinster, probably the rest of Ireland too, so I don't think it's regionalSmile

I assume that Bovril-in-a-mug is like the 'beef tea' that 'invalids' got in Days of Yore?

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I assume that Bovril-in-a-mug is like the 'beef tea' that 'invalids' got in Days of Yore?

Bovril is to beef tea as margarine is to butter. I don't know which 'invalids' got, but I can guess!

Pitythefool · 04/05/2026 10:50

UtopiaPlanitia · 03/05/2026 00:46

In Ulster, we used Oxo cubes and boiling water for a hot drink (quite the treat when I was a weeun) or we'd crumble Oxo into homemade chicken soup that was mostly barley if my wee Granny made it (some families would use Chef brown sauce instead).

Regional food quirks are so interesting 😊

Anybody else here like potato farls topped with cheese or is it just me?

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We used to have Veda with cheese when we went home tk my granny.

BettyBooper · 04/05/2026 10:21

MarieDeGournay · 04/05/2026 10:15

We had mugs of 'Oxo cube soup' Leinster, probably the rest of Ireland too, so I don't think it's regionalSmile

I assume that Bovril-in-a-mug is like the 'beef tea' that 'invalids' got in Days of Yore?

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Beef Oxo cube with a squeeze of tomato puree. Add hot water.

Voila!

Beef and tomato cup-a-soup 😊

You're welcome.

MarieDeGournay · 04/05/2026 10:15

UtopiaPlanitia · 03/05/2026 00:46

In Ulster, we used Oxo cubes and boiling water for a hot drink (quite the treat when I was a weeun) or we'd crumble Oxo into homemade chicken soup that was mostly barley if my wee Granny made it (some families would use Chef brown sauce instead).

Regional food quirks are so interesting 😊

Anybody else here like potato farls topped with cheese or is it just me?

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We had mugs of 'Oxo cube soup' Leinster, probably the rest of Ireland too, so I don't think it's regionalSmile

I assume that Bovril-in-a-mug is like the 'beef tea' that 'invalids' got in Days of Yore?

ThreeWordHarpy · 04/05/2026 09:49

UtopiaPlanitia · 03/05/2026 00:46

In Ulster, we used Oxo cubes and boiling water for a hot drink (quite the treat when I was a weeun) or we'd crumble Oxo into homemade chicken soup that was mostly barley if my wee Granny made it (some families would use Chef brown sauce instead).

Regional food quirks are so interesting 😊

Anybody else here like potato farls topped with cheese or is it just me?

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Potato farls with egg, usually poached, for me. Or if I’m in a hurry, toasted and covered in butter and salt and pepper for a filling snack.

BezMills · 04/05/2026 04:14

@UtopiaPlanitia I haven't tried potato bread with cheese but been know to put cheddar on a tattie scone

UtopiaPlanitia · 03/05/2026 00:46

ElenOfTheWays · 30/04/2026 13:42

Back in Scotland we used to do that with Bovril. Nasty! I'd rather have a mug of cocoa.

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In Ulster, we used Oxo cubes and boiling water for a hot drink (quite the treat when I was a weeun) or we'd crumble Oxo into homemade chicken soup that was mostly barley if my wee Granny made it (some families would use Chef brown sauce instead).

Regional food quirks are so interesting 😊

Anybody else here like potato farls topped with cheese or is it just me?

murasaki · 01/05/2026 14:31

Nothing wrong with the Lidl cremant, we got through a LOT at Christmas.

It helped grease the wheels of having the whole family there.

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