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AidaP is scraping Mumsnet threads, and grading them

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BambooLampshade · 28/04/2026 21:15

Honestly, this man is obsessed. He has now created a program to scrape and grade Mumsnet threads from this board.

What is this?

Oh yes, I have downloaded most of mumsnet and we will be doing embeddings of the content to try to understand how does the rot and hate builds and spreads.

I never had so much hate and delusion on my hard drive before 😅

https://bsky.app/profile/aidap.bsky.social/post/3mkklbtpgbs2s

Aida (@aidap.bsky.social)

What is this? Oh yes, I have downloaded most of mumsnet and we will be doing embeddings of the content to try to understand how does the rot and hate builds and spreads. I never had so much hate and delusion on my hard drive before 😅

https://bsky.app/profile/aidap.bsky.social/post/3mkklbtpgbs2s

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Catiette · 29/04/2026 16:34

Strollers were great too. Timeout, a bit Meh for me - but friends loved it.

Catiette · 29/04/2026 16:32

BIWI · 29/04/2026 16:29

I helped to develop that!

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Noooooo! Really?! Wow - and thank you for your service! What were they thinking getting rid?!

(Excuse the ?! marks. Genuine excitement and even slightly starstruck. 😅)

BIWI · 29/04/2026 16:31
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BambooLampshade · 29/04/2026 16:31

BIWI · 29/04/2026 16:30

Yep. As part of the innovation team at Cadbury when I worked in a marketing consultancy.

A gazillion years ago.

(See also Time Out and Strollers - both also discontinued!)

Oh dear. You seem to be the kiss of death to chocolate formats!

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HazelLemur · 29/04/2026 16:31

BambooLampshade · 29/04/2026 16:14

The weird thing is, he lives with a woman (an actual woman).

I wonder how she feels about him being obsessed with so many other women? 🤔

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She doesn't know...

...is what I'd imagine might possibly be the case in the situation of these people I don't know.

BIWI · 29/04/2026 16:30

Soz.

TheWickerFan · 29/04/2026 16:30

BIWI · 29/04/2026 16:29

I helped to develop that!

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So you’re the one responsible for my slightly chubby childhood then!

BIWI · 29/04/2026 16:30

Yep. As part of the innovation team at Cadbury when I worked in a marketing consultancy.

A gazillion years ago.

(See also Time Out and Strollers - both also discontinued!)

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BambooLampshade · 29/04/2026 16:29

BIWI · 29/04/2026 16:29

I helped to develop that!

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what

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BIWI · 29/04/2026 16:29

TheWickerFan · 29/04/2026 16:18

Never mind Revels, can we all agree the Fuse was the ultimate chocolate bar? Devastated I was when they discontinued it!

I helped to develop that!

ArabellaScott · 29/04/2026 16:22

OMG.

Rowntrees are Nestle owned.

FML. 😭

ArabellaScott · 29/04/2026 16:20

I think Randoms are more cheerful and straightforward and honest, tbh. It's not got the faux cliffhanger of a revels supposedy mystery munch; you just get a wee surprise when you see what you've shaken out the packet. Actually, the more I think about it, the more I realise that Revels really piss me off.

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BambooLampshade · 29/04/2026 16:19

ArabellaScott · 29/04/2026 16:09

Why would a man who has been rejected by women 'scrape' their words, collect them in a database, and then obsessively classify and 'grade' them?

He's trying to exert control, because he is a narcissist, with an escalating fetish, and he hates women.

I suppose on some level, women/women's words terrify him, so he is attempting to corral them, examine them, and exert power over them.

We defied him, and he was ejected. He can't bear it.

He pretends he doesn't care, whilst literally creating a computer program to monitor everything we post.

A psychiatrist would have a field day.

ETA: I should have said, excellent post @ArabellaScott .

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Catiette · 29/04/2026 16:19

Yes!!! Oh my goodness, FUSE!!! That's a blast from the past (pun not initially intended)!

TheWickerFan · 29/04/2026 16:18

Never mind Revels, can we all agree the Fuse was the ultimate chocolate bar? Devastated I was when they discontinued it!

Catiette · 29/04/2026 16:16

I'm frankly disturbed by the number of people here liking coffee Revels. I thought we all spoke with one voice?

Also, does it irritate anyone else that you can usually tell which are the raisin and biscuit ones by their shape? Revels should Try Harder.

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BambooLampshade · 29/04/2026 16:14

BiologicalRobot · 29/04/2026 16:13

Oh sorry, we've moved on.

My biggest question about AidaP's scraping is why.
Because he's a sad fucker with no life?

The weird thing is, he lives with a woman (an actual woman).

I wonder how she feels about him being obsessed with so many other women? 🤔

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BiologicalRobot · 29/04/2026 16:13

Oh sorry, we've moved on.

My biggest question about AidaP's scraping is why.
Because he's a sad fucker with no life?

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BambooLampshade · 29/04/2026 16:12

FlirtsWithRhinos · 29/04/2026 16:06

Why?

The same reason that any angry man obsessed about, abuses and stalks women.

Because he has been lead to assume women are naturally going to obey him, and on some subconscious level has built this deeply into his identity.

He experiences women saying no not just as a conscious refusal but as a subconscious denial of his status/identity.

This causes unbearable subconscious pain to his ego so to remove the pain he become irrationally obsessed with regaining control, often totally losing sight of his original goal and focusing entirely on "winning" by reasserting control over the woman/women.

It's hardly new. It's as old as patriarchy.

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You are absolutely right. It's all about thwarted control.

We refused to buy into his fantasy that he, or any man, is a woman. We argued with him when he came on to Mumsnet to say how wrong we were.

He got increasingly deranged, so he was banned.

And now he is trying to skinsuit us by downloading everything we post and storing it on his hard drive. (Or cloud, don't bother atting me.)

Pathetic. And creepy. And sinister.

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ArabellaScott · 29/04/2026 16:09

Why would a man who has been rejected by women 'scrape' their words, collect them in a database, and then obsessively classify and 'grade' them?

He's trying to exert control, because he is a narcissist, with an escalating fetish, and he hates women.

I suppose on some level, women/women's words terrify him, so he is attempting to corral them, examine them, and exert power over them.

BiologicalRobot · 29/04/2026 16:09

I loved the orange-y goodness and the raisins but only my X liked the coffee ones. I became very good at working out which were the disgusting, vile ones and gave them to him to eat. I no longer have him or Revels but I'm rather sad at no more orange-y goodness.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 29/04/2026 16:06

HazelLemur · 29/04/2026 09:57

Would it though? I'm not so sure.

When we make posts on an open, public forum - such as we're doing now - there's a tacit acceptance that information is public; I'm not sure GDPR - or any regulation - can be brought in here.

My biggest question about AidaP's scraping is why. I mean, what is the point?

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Why?

The same reason that any angry man obsessed about, abuses and stalks women.

Because he has been lead to assume women are naturally going to obey him, and on some subconscious level has built this deeply into his identity.

He experiences women saying no not just as a conscious refusal but as a subconscious denial of his status/identity.

This causes unbearable subconscious pain to his ego so to remove the pain he become irrationally obsessed with regaining control, often totally losing sight of his original goal and focusing entirely on "winning" by reasserting control over the woman/women.

It's hardly new. It's as old as patriarchy.

TheWickerFan · 29/04/2026 16:02

The orange Revel was always my favourite. Loved the coffee and chocolate raisins too. Sadly, I haven’t had a pack in 20 years since going vegan.

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BambooLampshade · 29/04/2026 16:02

DialSquare · 29/04/2026 15:57

I also love the coffee and orange. Sorry, not sorry!

I have found my tribe! ☕🍊

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DialSquare · 29/04/2026 15:57

I also love the coffee and orange. Sorry, not sorry!