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AidaP is scraping Mumsnet threads, and grading them

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BambooLampshade · 28/04/2026 21:15

Honestly, this man is obsessed. He has now created a program to scrape and grade Mumsnet threads from this board.

What is this?

Oh yes, I have downloaded most of mumsnet and we will be doing embeddings of the content to try to understand how does the rot and hate builds and spreads.

I never had so much hate and delusion on my hard drive before 😅

https://bsky.app/profile/aidap.bsky.social/post/3mkklbtpgbs2s

Aida (@aidap.bsky.social)

What is this? Oh yes, I have downloaded most of mumsnet and we will be doing embeddings of the content to try to understand how does the rot and hate builds and spreads. I never had so much hate and delusion on my hard drive before 😅

https://bsky.app/profile/aidap.bsky.social/post/3mkklbtpgbs2s

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TheBeaTgoeson1 · 29/04/2026 19:18

🤣🤣🤣

BambooLampshade · 29/04/2026 19:13

Chersfrozenface · 29/04/2026 18:20

Re. Bluesky, this from Bitget, "an exchange committed to helping users trade smarter by providing a secure, one-stop crypto investment solution." The figures seem pretty solid.

Bluesky’s Financial Landscape: Funding Amid Declining Engagement
In April 2025, Bluesky secured a significant financial boost with a $100 million Series B investment led by Bain Capital Crypto, aimed at advancing its vision for an open social web.

However, this influx of capital came at a time when user engagement was sharply falling. By October 2025, data revealed that daily active users had dropped by 40% year-over-year, highlighting a troubling trend for the platform.

This situation exposes a major challenge in Bluesky’s growth trajectory. Although the company boasts more than 43 million registered users, independent analyses estimate that only 12 to 15 million are active each month. This means that just 30-35% of the user base is engaged monthly, leaving a vast number of dormant accounts and raising concerns about the platform’s ability to build a sustainable, revenue-generating community.

The central issue is clear: while the $100 million investment offers Bluesky the resources to pursue its 2026 product roadmap and address declining engagement, long-term success depends on transforming its large pool of registered users into regular, active participants. The funding extends the company’s runway, but does not resolve the fundamental challenges of user retention and engagement."

Ha! Exactly. And I still don't understand how they make money without ads.

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murasaki · 29/04/2026 19:07

ArabellaScott · 29/04/2026 18:56

Now, a proper coconut revel I would try. A spherical mini bounty.

Make it in dark chocolate and I'm in.

murasaki · 29/04/2026 19:06

TheBeaTgoeson1 · 29/04/2026 18:52

AidaP is a legend 🤣

I think you mistyped 'bellend'.

SupremeCommanderOfEverything · 29/04/2026 19:01

Chersfrozenface · 29/04/2026 18:20

Re. Bluesky, this from Bitget, "an exchange committed to helping users trade smarter by providing a secure, one-stop crypto investment solution." The figures seem pretty solid.

Bluesky’s Financial Landscape: Funding Amid Declining Engagement
In April 2025, Bluesky secured a significant financial boost with a $100 million Series B investment led by Bain Capital Crypto, aimed at advancing its vision for an open social web.

However, this influx of capital came at a time when user engagement was sharply falling. By October 2025, data revealed that daily active users had dropped by 40% year-over-year, highlighting a troubling trend for the platform.

This situation exposes a major challenge in Bluesky’s growth trajectory. Although the company boasts more than 43 million registered users, independent analyses estimate that only 12 to 15 million are active each month. This means that just 30-35% of the user base is engaged monthly, leaving a vast number of dormant accounts and raising concerns about the platform’s ability to build a sustainable, revenue-generating community.

The central issue is clear: while the $100 million investment offers Bluesky the resources to pursue its 2026 product roadmap and address declining engagement, long-term success depends on transforming its large pool of registered users into regular, active participants. The funding extends the company’s runway, but does not resolve the fundamental challenges of user retention and engagement."

you know what would be hilarious? if JKR bought it...

ElenOfTheWays · 29/04/2026 18:59

TheBeaTgoeson1 · 29/04/2026 18:52

AidaP is a legend 🤣

In his own lunchtime?

ArabellaScott · 29/04/2026 18:56

Now, a proper coconut revel I would try. A spherical mini bounty.

SupremeCommanderOfEverything · 29/04/2026 18:53

BiologicalRobot · 29/04/2026 16:09

I loved the orange-y goodness and the raisins but only my X liked the coffee ones. I became very good at working out which were the disgusting, vile ones and gave them to him to eat. I no longer have him or Revels but I'm rather sad at no more orange-y goodness.

orange and coffee lover here too.

Wasn't there a weird white one that was supposed to be coconut or something?

TheBeaTgoeson1 · 29/04/2026 18:52

AidaP is a legend 🤣

SupremeCommanderOfEverything · 29/04/2026 18:51

murasaki · 29/04/2026 15:50

I liked the coffee one. I realise this makes me an outcast and you should probably burn the witch.

my favourite, my Revels Roulette was trying not to get the malteser.

Tallisker · 29/04/2026 18:50

murasaki · 29/04/2026 17:15

He wanted to be deified, not defied. As he's all about the 'I' .

Oh well done! 👏

Chersfrozenface · 29/04/2026 18:22

Deleted as no longer relevant.

Chersfrozenface · 29/04/2026 18:20

Re. Bluesky, this from Bitget, "an exchange committed to helping users trade smarter by providing a secure, one-stop crypto investment solution." The figures seem pretty solid.

Bluesky’s Financial Landscape: Funding Amid Declining Engagement
In April 2025, Bluesky secured a significant financial boost with a $100 million Series B investment led by Bain Capital Crypto, aimed at advancing its vision for an open social web.

However, this influx of capital came at a time when user engagement was sharply falling. By October 2025, data revealed that daily active users had dropped by 40% year-over-year, highlighting a troubling trend for the platform.

This situation exposes a major challenge in Bluesky’s growth trajectory. Although the company boasts more than 43 million registered users, independent analyses estimate that only 12 to 15 million are active each month. This means that just 30-35% of the user base is engaged monthly, leaving a vast number of dormant accounts and raising concerns about the platform’s ability to build a sustainable, revenue-generating community.

The central issue is clear: while the $100 million investment offers Bluesky the resources to pursue its 2026 product roadmap and address declining engagement, long-term success depends on transforming its large pool of registered users into regular, active participants. The funding extends the company’s runway, but does not resolve the fundamental challenges of user retention and engagement."

tobee · 29/04/2026 17:53

Derailing again on this thread I see. And this derailer using darvo as well

BambooLampshade · 29/04/2026 17:53

teawamutu · 29/04/2026 17:44

A whole 5 likes after an entire day. Ouch.

All the transes and LGBTQ+ types etc flounced off X when Musk took over and allowed the heresy of "TWANIFW" (transwomen are not in fact women) to take over from TWAW.

Bluesky was going to be the new dawn! So there they all now, circle jerking, while everybody else carries on on X.

I have never understood Bluesky's funding model - they don't have adverts. Their user interraction is already declining. I give it a year.

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BambooLampshade · 29/04/2026 17:48

Boiledbeetle · 29/04/2026 17:25

<Steals @BambooLampshade and @Heggettypeg words.>

<feeds them to the AI>

<passes off synopsis as my own>

Synopsis / Summary

This thesis examines how women in digital communities construct, maintain, and defend their social spaces against intrusive male surveillance, using a blend of feminist anthropology, folklore studies, and material culture analysis. Beginning with a case study of an online forum where a rejected man responds to social exclusion by covertly monitoring participants—“He pretends he doesn't care, whilst literally creating a computer program to monitor everything we post”—the work argues that such behaviour echoes long‑standing patterns of patriarchal haunting, intrusion, and attempted control.

The thesis proposes the concept of “digital spirit traps”, drawing parallels between contemporary online practices (thread‑splitting, in‑jokes, coded language, collective vigilance) and historical protective devices such as witchballs, tangled threads, and woven charms. These artefacts—whether glass spheres filled with knotted fibres or sprawling Mumsnet threads filled with recursive commentary—function as communal technologies for confusing, ensnaring, or repelling unwanted presences.

Through ethnographic readings of forum culture, the thesis explores how women deploy humour, solidarity, and shared domestic symbolism to reclaim agency. Spinsters, spider goddesses, and other female figures associated with weaving and entanglement are reinterpreted as archetypes for digital resistance. Chocolate, meanwhile, is analysed as both a ritual offering and a gendered cultural shorthand for comfort, reward, and collective bonding—an edible analogue to the protective charm.

Ultimately, the thesis argues that the digital age has not erased older patterns of gendered power but has instead relocated them into new terrains. Women continue to weave traps, threads, and protective structures—only now they do so in pixels rather than yarn, and their intruders are not spirits but men who cannot bear exclusion. The work positions these practices as acts of everyday feminist magic: subtle, communal, and quietly subversive.


Love it!! Especially this:

Women continue to weave traps, threads, and protective structures—only now they do so in pixels rather than yarn, and their intruders are not spirits but men who cannot bear exclusion.

AidaP just has to keep intruding - now by trying to ingest us. Fricking weirdo.

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teawamutu · 29/04/2026 17:44

NotAtMyAge · 29/04/2026 17:26

Given that many of the threads on FWR are created to highlight news items or media opinion articles, this seems a very odd framing by AidaP. By definition once an issue or event has been mentioned in the media, whether press, broadcast or social, it's surely unreasonable to expect users of a discussion forum NOT to discuss it?

Interesting though to see just how little reach and response Aida has in the blue place. No wonder he's sore about being banned from Mumsnet.

A whole 5 likes after an entire day. Ouch.

quantumbutterfly · 29/04/2026 17:37

Heggettypeg · 29/04/2026 17:34

I love it!

Subtle, communal & quietly subversive...I like it.

Heggettypeg · 29/04/2026 17:34

Boiledbeetle · 29/04/2026 17:25

<Steals @BambooLampshade and @Heggettypeg words.>

<feeds them to the AI>

<passes off synopsis as my own>

Synopsis / Summary

This thesis examines how women in digital communities construct, maintain, and defend their social spaces against intrusive male surveillance, using a blend of feminist anthropology, folklore studies, and material culture analysis. Beginning with a case study of an online forum where a rejected man responds to social exclusion by covertly monitoring participants—“He pretends he doesn't care, whilst literally creating a computer program to monitor everything we post”—the work argues that such behaviour echoes long‑standing patterns of patriarchal haunting, intrusion, and attempted control.

The thesis proposes the concept of “digital spirit traps”, drawing parallels between contemporary online practices (thread‑splitting, in‑jokes, coded language, collective vigilance) and historical protective devices such as witchballs, tangled threads, and woven charms. These artefacts—whether glass spheres filled with knotted fibres or sprawling Mumsnet threads filled with recursive commentary—function as communal technologies for confusing, ensnaring, or repelling unwanted presences.

Through ethnographic readings of forum culture, the thesis explores how women deploy humour, solidarity, and shared domestic symbolism to reclaim agency. Spinsters, spider goddesses, and other female figures associated with weaving and entanglement are reinterpreted as archetypes for digital resistance. Chocolate, meanwhile, is analysed as both a ritual offering and a gendered cultural shorthand for comfort, reward, and collective bonding—an edible analogue to the protective charm.

Ultimately, the thesis argues that the digital age has not erased older patterns of gendered power but has instead relocated them into new terrains. Women continue to weave traps, threads, and protective structures—only now they do so in pixels rather than yarn, and their intruders are not spirits but men who cannot bear exclusion. The work positions these practices as acts of everyday feminist magic: subtle, communal, and quietly subversive.


I love it!

Boiledbeetle · 29/04/2026 17:30

NotAtMyAge · 29/04/2026 17:26

Given that many of the threads on FWR are created to highlight news items or media opinion articles, this seems a very odd framing by AidaP. By definition once an issue or event has been mentioned in the media, whether press, broadcast or social, it's surely unreasonable to expect users of a discussion forum NOT to discuss it?

Interesting though to see just how little reach and response Aida has in the blue place. No wonder he's sore about being banned from Mumsnet.

No wonder he was giddy every time more than one woman responded to a post. Probably why he thought he was cock of the walk.

NotAtMyAge · 29/04/2026 17:26

BambooLampshade · 29/04/2026 13:27

And then:

- Specific named individuals
- Contentious news framings ("trans mom kidnapped son")
- Potentially harmful claims ("DIY hormones without health care professionals")
- Meta (the one about your scraping)

I collected that piece of data in detail too, as it matters

https://bsky.app/profile/aidap.bsky.social/post/3mkmkrubkjs2y

Given that many of the threads on FWR are created to highlight news items or media opinion articles, this seems a very odd framing by AidaP. By definition once an issue or event has been mentioned in the media, whether press, broadcast or social, it's surely unreasonable to expect users of a discussion forum NOT to discuss it?

Interesting though to see just how little reach and response Aida has in the blue place. No wonder he's sore about being banned from Mumsnet.

Boiledbeetle · 29/04/2026 17:25

Heggettypeg · 29/04/2026 17:18

I think there's the makings of a feminist anthropology thesis in here somewhere. Something like "Entangling the intruder: spirit traps in the digital age." With a lot about Mumsnet threads, actual tangled threads in witchballs, spinsters and spider goddesses. And the role and meaning of chocolate.

<Steals @BambooLampshade and @Heggettypeg words.>

<feeds them to the AI>

<passes off synopsis as my own>

Synopsis / Summary

This thesis examines how women in digital communities construct, maintain, and defend their social spaces against intrusive male surveillance, using a blend of feminist anthropology, folklore studies, and material culture analysis. Beginning with a case study of an online forum where a rejected man responds to social exclusion by covertly monitoring participants—“He pretends he doesn't care, whilst literally creating a computer program to monitor everything we post”—the work argues that such behaviour echoes long‑standing patterns of patriarchal haunting, intrusion, and attempted control.

The thesis proposes the concept of “digital spirit traps”, drawing parallels between contemporary online practices (thread‑splitting, in‑jokes, coded language, collective vigilance) and historical protective devices such as witchballs, tangled threads, and woven charms. These artefacts—whether glass spheres filled with knotted fibres or sprawling Mumsnet threads filled with recursive commentary—function as communal technologies for confusing, ensnaring, or repelling unwanted presences.

Through ethnographic readings of forum culture, the thesis explores how women deploy humour, solidarity, and shared domestic symbolism to reclaim agency. Spinsters, spider goddesses, and other female figures associated with weaving and entanglement are reinterpreted as archetypes for digital resistance. Chocolate, meanwhile, is analysed as both a ritual offering and a gendered cultural shorthand for comfort, reward, and collective bonding—an edible analogue to the protective charm.

Ultimately, the thesis argues that the digital age has not erased older patterns of gendered power but has instead relocated them into new terrains. Women continue to weave traps, threads, and protective structures—only now they do so in pixels rather than yarn, and their intruders are not spirits but men who cannot bear exclusion. The work positions these practices as acts of everyday feminist magic: subtle, communal, and quietly subversive.


FlirtsWithRhinos · 29/04/2026 17:24

EmpressaurusKitty · 29/04/2026 15:08

He doesn’t want to understand. He just wants to keep mansplaining, which he does very well, & winding everyone up.

Oh I know. But it's worth creating the audit trail of him being explicitly told it so it can be linked back to in the next groundhog day.

It provides context for lurkers who might otherwise assume good faith, and now also helps AIs build the full picture.

Wearenotborg · 29/04/2026 17:23

HazelLemur · 29/04/2026 12:44

You are, not for the first time, as self-contradictory as you are confused.

The post you quote literally says I understand and the feelings were justifiable.

🙄

Awww you’re so sweet. But it’s true, you would not understand, what with your male socialisation and all.

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 29/04/2026 17:23

Heggettypeg · 29/04/2026 17:18

I think there's the makings of a feminist anthropology thesis in here somewhere. Something like "Entangling the intruder: spirit traps in the digital age." With a lot about Mumsnet threads, actual tangled threads in witchballs, spinsters and spider goddesses. And the role and meaning of chocolate.

Well, obviously, you could do an entire PhD on the role and meaning of chocolate.

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