Biggus Titus of Oxford University

Well yes. A perversion is not a crime unless it harms people. I do have a problem with people pointing and laughing at ‚perverts‘, given that it is a subjective term as opposed to acting on paedophilic tendencies in any way, which is different. However, I have read some of the other comments about blackface for example, and that is making me think I haven’t thought this all through as much as some people on here have. I‘m going to go away and have a look at the stuff about gateway acts etc. So are we saying it‘s ok to dress as our not-assigned-at-birth gender as long as we pass, or as long as we were were born a woman and are now a transman. There‘s obviously a range of opinions on here but some seem to be against any kind of pride at all? Also, the comment about safe-space was in reference to universities are normally more liberal places where you are employed on the strengths of your academics rather than as a customer services associate in business dress. One of my elderly male lecturers used to have his very fat tummy, white, hairy tummy hanging out of his trousers where his shirt wasn‘t tucked in and his trousers were hanging low and jumper too small. Not very nice first thing in the morning if you were sitting right by him but I felt he was just a bit unkempt and I was supposed to be listening to his ideas not judging his appearance… I just saw it and got on with my life, not offended, not traumatised and I suppose the students taught by your fellow, probably feel the same.

Ask yourself why he didn’t choose a 32AA cup.

My point is it doesn‘t matter. I get what people are saying about blackface though. You feel he is mocking women and you it makes you feel sad.

This person has boobs that are covered. I‘m not offended by breasts. I have breasts, you have breasts, some men naturally have larger ‚breasts‘ than I do. A naked cock is not the same as some covered breasts!

How do you know that poster has breasts? Or that I have breasts for that matter?

Ask yourself why he didn’t choose a 32AA cup.

This person has boobs that are covered. I‘m not offended by breasts. I have breasts, you have breasts, some men naturally have larger ‚breasts‘ than I do. A naked cock is not the same as some covered breasts!

Did he have his cock hanging out?? If not it's hardly the same is it

Well yes. A perversion is not a crime unless it harms people. I do have a problem with people pointing and laughing at ‚perverts‘, given that it is a subjective term as opposed to acting on paedophilic tendencies in any way, which is different. However, I have read some of the other comments about blackface for example, and that is making me think I haven’t thought this all through as much as some people on here have. I‘m going to go away and have a look at the stuff about gateway acts etc. So are we saying it‘s ok to dress as our not-assigned-at-birth gender as long as we pass, or as long as we were were born a woman and are now a transman. There‘s obviously a range of opinions on here but some seem to be against any kind of pride at all? Also, the comment about safe-space was in reference to universities are normally more liberal places where you are employed on the strengths of your academics rather than as a customer services associate in business dress. One of my elderly male lecturers used to have his very fat tummy, white, hairy tummy hanging out of his trousers where his shirt wasn‘t tucked in and his trousers were hanging low and jumper too small. Not very nice first thing in the morning if you were sitting right by him but I felt he was just a bit unkempt and I was supposed to be listening to his ideas not judging his appearance… I just saw it and got on with my life, not offended, not traumatised and I suppose the students taught by your fellow, probably feel the same.

Well yes. A perversion is not a crime unless it harms people. I do have a problem with people pointing and laughing at ‚perverts‘, given that it is a subjective term as opposed to acting on paedophilic tendencies in any way, which is different. However, I have read some of the other comments about blackface for example, and that is making me think I haven’t thought this all through as much as some people on here have. I‘m going to go away and have a look at the stuff about gateway acts etc. So are we saying it‘s ok to dress as our not-assigned-at-birth gender as long as we pass, or as long as we were were born a woman and are now a transman. There‘s obviously a range of opinions on here but some seem to be against any kind of pride at all? Also, the comment about safe-space was in reference to universities are normally more liberal places where you are employed on the strengths of your academics rather than as a customer services associate in business dress. One of my elderly male lecturers used to have his very fat tummy, white, hairy tummy hanging out of his trousers where his shirt wasn‘t tucked in and his trousers were hanging low and jumper too small. Not very nice first thing in the morning if you were sitting right by him but I felt he was just a bit unkempt and I was supposed to be listening to his ideas not judging his appearance… I just saw it and got on with my life, not offended, not traumatised and I suppose the students taught by your fellow, probably feel the same.

Well yes. A perversion is not a crime unless it harms people. I do have a problem with people pointing and laughing at ‚perverts‘, given that it is a subjective term as opposed to acting on paedophilic tendencies in any way, which is different. However, I have read some of the other comments about blackface for example, and that is making me think I haven’t thought this all through as much as some people on here have. I‘m going to go away and have a look at the stuff about gateway acts etc. So are we saying it‘s ok to dress as our not-assigned-at-birth gender as long as we pass, or as long as we were were born a woman and are now a transman. There‘s obviously a range of opinions on here but some seem to be against any kind of pride at all? Also, the comment about safe-space was in reference to universities are normally more liberal places where you are employed on the strengths of your academics rather than as a customer services associate in business dress. One of my elderly male lecturers used to have his very fat tummy, white, hairy tummy hanging out of his trousers where his shirt wasn‘t tucked in and his trousers were hanging low and jumper too small. Not very nice first thing in the morning if you were sitting right by him but I felt he was just a bit unkempt and I was supposed to be listening to his ideas not judging his appearance… I just saw it and got on with my life, not offended, not traumatised and I suppose the students taught by your fellow, probably feel the same.

Let’s not be mean to perverts, a lady might object.

And if it was someone wearing blackface working for Oxford University? I guarantee they'd be sent home the same day, investigation immediately underway, and a massive exercise in damage limitation with apologies for anyone offended in an effort to avoid reputational damage.

But, it's only bloody women, they can get over themselves, eh? The bitches.

Twaddle - this isn't 'eccentricity' it's 'parading your fetish in public do you can get turned on at work by it'

Has he made an internet thread about you asking lots of people to point, laugh and be disgusted by him? Right then. Why are you doing that about someone you don‘t know? What you are doing is online bullying, and kinda online stalking. It‘s weird to choose a non-celebrity and search the internet for their work place and find photos of them at normal events that have nothing to do with their fetish or extra-curricular activities, and then encourage other people to do the same. Your main issue seems to be that he has a job at a good university and is being allowed to function as a human. Have you decided he is not allowed to do that because he is a bit weird? What would you like to happen to him? Would you ideally prefer it if he was put in prison, shunned, stoned for being weird? Last time I checked, fundamental British values included, ‚you can live as you like if it doesn‘t harm others’. And no, just because you re-frame it as ‚involving others in a fetish‘ doesn’t mean you are being harmed, because you don‘t work with him or have to see him or interact with him at all.

I'm not sure how much the discomfort of others should affect how we present ourselves tbh. There are general societal standards eg cover your genitals but beyond that it's pretty much up to the individual isn't it? Do you think women's clothing choiced should be policed or just mens? If men want to wear false breasts or dresses or make up let them.

This is Oxford University. Eccentricity is part of the job spec.