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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

STONEWALL REVERSE FERRET INCOMING

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Taytoface · 19/04/2026 07:47

So, it looks like their income tanking might have finally made them see that trans rights is not quite the gravy train they thought it was. They are now pivoting to getting compensation for gay veterans who were badly treated. And apparently JKR is a wonderful lady, just needs to be a wee bit more kind.

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2026/apr/19/things-could-go-backwards-kezia-dugdale-on-safety-lgbtq-rights-and-the-future-of-stonewall

‘Things could go backwards’: Kezia Dugdale on safety, LGBTQ+ rights and the future of Stonewall

Exclusive: Former Scottish Labour leader says she feels more scared as a lesbian today and calls for a kinder debate on transgender issues

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2026/apr/19/things-could-go-backwards-kezia-dugdale-on-safety-lgbtq-rights-and-the-future-of-stonewall

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MarieDeGournay · 20/04/2026 10:19

I'd like to see KD challenged about the corrosive role of 'Stonewall Law' and the damage it has done not just to women's rights, but to fundamental features of society.
And yes I realise that last bit sounds OTT but I think it's true - think about it: school curricula, the medical profession, universities, language, workplace relations, the courts, Parliament... all beclowned at best, damaged at worst.

TinselAngel · 20/04/2026 10:11

I’ve sometimes tried to make thread titles amenable to Google searches. Maybe that is what IWTRetire means? (Although it’s not what she’s said).

Waitwhat23 · 20/04/2026 10:10

It's probably already been mentioned but the development of the character of Hayley Cropper was heavily influenced by the lobbying group Press For Change and all that slight, fragile transwoman/mean old female characters saying no stuff was very deliberate from that organisation. In addition, the fact that the character was played by an actual woman rather than a man is telling.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 20/04/2026 09:51

MsGreying · 20/04/2026 08:45

I've wondered this.
I suspect a bloke playing Hayley (Harold) would have been a real world version which would have not been accepted as easily.

Of course the character and actress confused things for many people, with simple assumptions as a woman is a woman even if she was pretending to be something else.

We would not have a lot of the nonsense we have suffered if it's been a bloke playing the character.

Corrie was huge. It will have had huge impact.

Yes, and presented the female colleagues of Hayley/Harold as being nasty for not wanting to share facilities with him. At that point even the mysterious ‘surgery’ hadn’t happened so it was actually a penis in their facilities they were objecting to.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 20/04/2026 09:41

IwantToRetire · 19/04/2026 20:33

I think you are just harping on about something that doesn't exist.

Surely anybody who want to convey a point of few doesn't rationally think I will post using terms that are common to me and my friendship group rather than think what is the way to express this so that people who do not share my background, who are not part of my culture, who do not read or listen to what I do, will be interested.

I know nobody who talks about ferrets.

The assumption because you do it means everyone does is just parochial insularism.

Also what is so strange is not to be interested in the fact that using colloquialisms that reflect your circle might be incomprehensible to others, but rather assert your are right to continue to use a word that only has meaning to a small section of society.

Did you never do the common exercise about the word dinner being the best example of how the use of english by the english illustrates the divisions in society.

‘Reverse ferret’ is quite well known phrase. Originally coined in the 80s.

MsGreying · 20/04/2026 08:45

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 19/04/2026 15:04

When the storyline played out I remember wondering how it was supposed to work - what could they do to cause a man to become a woman and obviously Julie Hesmondhalgh played a pretty convincing woman character due to the fact that she was… a woman.

Sometimes I wonder if they had used the bloke who came up with the storyline (who I think later appeared as a ‘woman’ in Hollyoaks) , would we be where we are now? Corrie was such a big show.

I've wondered this.
I suspect a bloke playing Hayley (Harold) would have been a real world version which would have not been accepted as easily.

Of course the character and actress confused things for many people, with simple assumptions as a woman is a woman even if she was pretending to be something else.

We would not have a lot of the nonsense we have suffered if it's been a bloke playing the character.

Corrie was huge. It will have had huge impact.

BeMoreBear · 20/04/2026 08:08

knittedsloth · 20/04/2026 04:40

I've been on Mumsnet for just two years, and have encountered the phrase "reverse ferret" quite often. I admit I was puzzled at first but also intrigued, then delighted when I finally worked out what a reverse ferret is.

I love the way that posters use witty, funny, vivid words and phrases. Just above in this very thread, I've encountered a Nothing Burger to be consumed alongside a Word Salad - thanks @tobee - I've had Word Salads before but there's nothing quite so delicious as a Nothing Burger to go with it. Mmmm - mmmmmm.

Excellent thread, too. Great discussions and lots of information, thanks for starting it @Taytoface Smile - I feel encouraged and heartened by the slow turning of the tide, and the prospect of the madness of all the confused and contradictory gender identity contagion being washed away, until it is gone.

Agree- Nothing Burger was genius!

borntobequiet · 20/04/2026 07:38

I know nobody who talks about ferrets, so why use an obscure phrase?

@IwantToRetire not obscure to many people interested in politics and current affairs, coined by the editor of the Sun and popularised by Private Eye and other journalists decades ago.

EmpressaurusKitty · 20/04/2026 07:37

Yes. And at the London rally the other weekend, only one side was using a very loud megaphone & walking down the middle of the road while the other side followed the rules.

ArabellaScott · 20/04/2026 07:31

The thing is that only one side turns up in balaclavas, issues death threats, and has a vandalism-and-terrorist wing.

EmpressaurusKitty · 20/04/2026 07:28

Brefugee · 20/04/2026 07:23

Glad to have ground this thread as I noticed a few "i hate Stonewall, they're transphobes" hissy fits on BlueSky yesterday but didn't have time to check.

The idea of Stonewall at Pride being booed by the TRAs on one side & us on the other makes me very happy.

Brefugee · 20/04/2026 07:23

Glad to have ground this thread as I noticed a few "i hate Stonewall, they're transphobes" hissy fits on BlueSky yesterday but didn't have time to check.

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 20/04/2026 07:20

Brefugee · 20/04/2026 07:10

"Have always been at war with Oceania..."

Edited

Right?

and the irony is they are constantly quoting 1984 and friends as if they have some deep connection to the truth, and not a bunch of fantasists.

Brefugee · 20/04/2026 07:10

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 19/04/2026 13:40

I know I often link to reddit to get the other side of stories like this but it's very revealing - https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1spmuec/the_new_chair_of_stonewall_is_cozying_up_to_jk/

As far as they are concerned, Stonewall are and have always been nazis who hate trans people apparently

"Have always been at war with Oceania..."

ArabellaScott · 20/04/2026 06:46

Oh my, being sued by JK is probably Jolyon's wildest fantasy.

A horrible thought.

hholiday · 20/04/2026 06:12

Thingybob · 19/04/2026 09:18

The sooner Stonewall goes under the better but I'll enjoy watching how this goes down first.

This is from Jolyon this morning

"I'm all for good faith engagement with people whose minds have been poisoned against trans people. But this is madness: JK Rowling is a toxic sewer of hate, aligned with fascists, and it's unforgivable for Stonewall to praise her"

This is horrific – I know she's probably not going to sue him, but she'd have no problem getting him into court for defamation of character. It strays well, well beyond the bounds of acceptable criticism.

I wonder sometimes if she'd ever think of suing him, just as a means of discrediting him and his organisation and potentially stopping them going after other women. I suspect she doesn't want the unnecessary distraction – going to court is a massive undertaking and her life is so full.

knittedsloth · 20/04/2026 04:40

I've been on Mumsnet for just two years, and have encountered the phrase "reverse ferret" quite often. I admit I was puzzled at first but also intrigued, then delighted when I finally worked out what a reverse ferret is.

I love the way that posters use witty, funny, vivid words and phrases. Just above in this very thread, I've encountered a Nothing Burger to be consumed alongside a Word Salad - thanks @tobee - I've had Word Salads before but there's nothing quite so delicious as a Nothing Burger to go with it. Mmmm - mmmmmm.

Excellent thread, too. Great discussions and lots of information, thanks for starting it @Taytoface Smile - I feel encouraged and heartened by the slow turning of the tide, and the prospect of the madness of all the confused and contradictory gender identity contagion being washed away, until it is gone.

EmpressaurusKitty · 20/04/2026 01:49

Yes, Happy Birthday @NotAtMyAge!

Mmmnotsure · 20/04/2026 01:14

NotAtMyAge · 19/04/2026 21:34

I know nobody who talks about ferrets, so why use an obscure phrase?
And as to reading reddit why would I?

I will be celebrating my 80th birthday this week and I know exactly what a reverse ferret is. It's not an obscure phrase and even if it were, the beauty of the internet is that if you come across a word or phrase you don't know, you can find out instantly what it means.

As for Reddit, I used to belong to the Gender Critical forum on there until the misogynists that run Reddit decided that women weren't allowed to have opinions they didn't approve of. I no longer post there, but do check the transgender forum if I want to see how TRAs are reacting to things in the news. The mainstream media are all very well, but they don't give the whole picture by any means.

Happy very special Birthday @NotAtMyAge for whenever it is this week!
🎂(this probably doesn't have enough candles)

MyAmpleSheep · 20/04/2026 00:27

fromorbit · 20/04/2026 00:03

Anya Palmer

By appointing Kezia Dugdale as a trustee, Stonewall has both doubled the number of women on its board of trustees (the other one being Jake Graf), and increased the number of women who know they are women from zero to one.

There's a lot of "if we are not centred then we are discriminated against" feeling in that thread.

ElenOfTheWays · 20/04/2026 00:22

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 19/04/2026 13:40

I know I often link to reddit to get the other side of stories like this but it's very revealing - https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1spmuec/the_new_chair_of_stonewall_is_cozying_up_to_jk/

As far as they are concerned, Stonewall are and have always been nazis who hate trans people apparently

Ingrates!

fromorbit · 20/04/2026 00:03

Anya Palmer

By appointing Kezia Dugdale as a trustee, Stonewall has both doubled the number of women on its board of trustees (the other one being Jake Graf), and increased the number of women who know they are women from zero to one.

Anya Palmer (@anyabike) on X

Half victim, half accomplice, like everyone

https://x.com/anyabike

ElenOfTheWays · 19/04/2026 23:34

Thingybob · 19/04/2026 09:18

The sooner Stonewall goes under the better but I'll enjoy watching how this goes down first.

This is from Jolyon this morning

"I'm all for good faith engagement with people whose minds have been poisoned against trans people. But this is madness: JK Rowling is a toxic sewer of hate, aligned with fascists, and it's unforgivable for Stonewall to praise her"

A toxic sewer of hate? Well that's my new user name sorted 😂

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 19/04/2026 22:57

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lcakethereforeIam · 19/04/2026 22:53

I wish they'd ask her why she still supports self-id.

I never shut up about gerbils.

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