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Younger generations being pro trans

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PeachyDaisy · 10/04/2026 05:22

I know many are saying the trans debate is over, but I think it has only just begun. And the reason is the younger generation. Studies show young people are the most supportive of transwomen going into women's spaces amongst all groups. In 20 years, these people will be in positions of power making decisions where they can enact their beliefs.

Also most of the western world has fallen to trans ideology (which activists will use as credibility for their ideology). I don't buy the argument that as long as it is just in EU/Australia/CA/ NZ then it is contained.

Having the laws on our side and sex matters fighting is great, but it feels like little consolation if we have to spend the next 50 years constantly in a court room suing organisations as they continue to to flaunt the law. It is like wack a mole, you stop one stop one organisation from doing it whilst another one pops up.

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YerMotherWasAHamster · 10/04/2026 09:25

In 20 years they will have experienced the real world and grown up.

Zimunya · 10/04/2026 09:24

Taztoy · 10/04/2026 07:03

My DC are in their 20s.

they all play or have played competitive sport.

that did the job for me. They are all GC - one in particular is incredibly articulate about it.

This is a good point. DD currently 19. Absolutely thinks that people can dress and present themselves as they please. Would never deliberately mis gender anyone. Hugely supportive of people's rights to choose their sexual preferences etc. But also clearly understands the need for single sex spaces and for competitive sports to be split along sex (not gender) lines. Says any fool can understand the testosterone advantage.

Kiminki · 10/04/2026 09:24

BusyAzureTraybake · 10/04/2026 09:14

No, what you have taught them is that every group claiming a 'vulnerable, minority' status should be elevated and pandered to without applying any critical thinking. You have taught them to circumvent democracy by shouting #NoDebate at anyone who disagrees with them and to reframe disagreement as hatred. Anyone who has brought their children up this way has done them a huge disservice that the rest of us are now having to patiently unpick.

There is another word that TRA like to throw about but can correctly be applied to those who shout ‘No debate!’, ‘be kind!’ and ‘transphobia!’ - bigotry. TRA lack of tolerance of other’s views is pretty much the definition of bigotry.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/04/2026 09:23

It reminds me of a poster on another thread making a veiled threat that because the younger generation were so “tolerant”, the young girl who is bringing a court case against her school for single sex spaces would have her “life made quite unpleasant” Confused much tolerant

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 10/04/2026 09:22

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Additup · 10/04/2026 09:22

JustForGoss · 10/04/2026 06:03

when I was young I thought the job of feminism was done and we were living in the sunny uplands of sex equality. Then I had kids.

I have faith that people’s views grow and change as they get more life experience. I would note that my views are not the same s my mother’s though.

I'm embarrassed to agree. As a teenager in the late 1980s who knew everything, I couldn't understand why some boring women still banged on about feminism and womens rights. The fight had already been won had it not?

It wasn't until I entered the workplace I realised what a colossal tool I'd been. Having children and now being older I can't imagine why I ever thought feminism was all done with.

The folly of youth 😂

titchy · 10/04/2026 09:21

Yeah cos young people never change their mind once they have experience do they? Oh wait…

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/04/2026 09:20

Maaate · 10/04/2026 08:41

How many of these older TIMs are what we used to call transvestites?

The majority

Kiminki · 10/04/2026 09:19

I know people say the debate over whether Father Christmas is real is over but really it has only just begun. Studies show young children are far more likely to believe Father Christmas is real than older people…

Apollo441 · 10/04/2026 09:16

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The Cultural Revolution. All you need to know about putting a bunch of easily influenced people with a need to conform to group think in charge.

BusyAzureTraybake · 10/04/2026 09:14

Dinggirl · 10/04/2026 07:08

Gen Z is a very tolerant generation, which is what we have brought them up to be. We have taught them not to be homophobic, or racist, so it makes sense they are not going to be transphobic either.

No, what you have taught them is that every group claiming a 'vulnerable, minority' status should be elevated and pandered to without applying any critical thinking. You have taught them to circumvent democracy by shouting #NoDebate at anyone who disagrees with them and to reframe disagreement as hatred. Anyone who has brought their children up this way has done them a huge disservice that the rest of us are now having to patiently unpick.

MarieDeGournay · 10/04/2026 09:10

Inmyuggs
Younger people have open minds
Older people do not.

Ageist, or what?🙄
It appears that Inmyuggs' worldview, trans people are 'in', older people are 'out'.

curlyfriess · 10/04/2026 09:08

They were completely brainwashed at school/online, easy for their 'open minds' to be filled with nonsense. Hopefully not happening so much now, I'm not sure.

supples · 10/04/2026 09:07

Dinggirl · 10/04/2026 07:08

Gen Z is a very tolerant generation, which is what we have brought them up to be. We have taught them not to be homophobic, or racist, so it makes sense they are not going to be transphobic either.

The trouble is that transphobia exists, but the majority of what is called transphobia, is just women saying I don’t want to get changed next to a man, thanks.

JustTryingToBeMe · 10/04/2026 09:05

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and when you are raped in prison, assaulted in hospital, ogled in a shop changing room, have your faith demonised, collapse or are attacked in an fully enclosed toilet cubicle because nobody can see you, have to protect your daughter in the changing rooms, what then?
A tiny minority of a small minority is (in some circumstances) making women’s lives untenable. The law is very clear that this is illegal. Sadly the younger generation will probably learn this the heard way sooner or later.
Instead of “being kind” society should be campaigning for more support because there is clear evidence that many trans women need support with their mental health problems and society being kind really isn’t helping them and that’s before you get to the damage that the drugs and surgeries do to their bodies.
Worse still, what happens to those who regret this and who want to transition back.
So called being kind isn’t always the best policy; this is a clear example and that’s before you consider the law which is very clear on the definition of sex.

SueKeeper · 10/04/2026 09:02

It burns out, if you live somewhere that was ahead of the curve when it started, then you can see the change in the high schools. It's now a bit cringe and the preserve of the hard work, attention seeking kids. Nobody is nasty but it's very "you do you," rather than "omg, you're so interesting and exciting."

I think everyone has a point where it gets boring and you start to see through it, so these 20yos are not going to feel the same way when they are older and making the laws.

Don't get me wrong, there is still the odd obsessive parent trying to force their vulnerable, trans identified, teenage daughter into the boys changing rooms, but they aren't getting any traction. It's seen as settled, school has extra spaces for changing and toilets and no lunatic parent calling this segregation is going to change it. Once there are third spaces, there's no good argument for going back and then the real arguments (I want and will tantrum if I don't get it) are clearer.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 10/04/2026 09:00

Igneococcus · 10/04/2026 07:29

I fear the whole world will have other problems to worry about than trans in the near future.

Sadly I think this is very true.

Velvian · 10/04/2026 08:58

The victims of all this are autistic children. Their differences and observation and rejection of gender stereotypes has been funnelled into the trans movement with devastating consequences, including physical harm.

It is not evidence of being trans it is simply pattern recognition and high alertness for injustice (noticing and objecting to what is allowed for boys, vs for girls and vice versa). It has been very effectively incorporated into evidence that they were 'assigned the wrong gender at birth'. There is very uncomfortable cognitive dissonance when one attempts to differentiate between sex and gender.

My autistic DD's friend group are predominantly trans boys (AKA autistic girls). Some already on "T".

I do think their generation of ND kids will work it out in the end, but it will be too late to reverse the damage. DD is lesbian and still a girl, I think we may be coming out of the danger zone. Being who you are, liking what you like, wearing what you want to wear is harder than it was when I was growing up. DD has been 'mis-gendered' by her peers from age 9, simply because she always wears trousers.

The trans movement is incredibly regressive in terms of gendered expectations. That is very clear as an autistic adult.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 10/04/2026 08:55

Dinggirl · 10/04/2026 07:08

Gen Z is a very tolerant generation, which is what we have brought them up to be. We have taught them not to be homophobic, or racist, so it makes sense they are not going to be transphobic either.

  1. Who is 'we'? I hope you're not trying to suggest that everyone your age believes the same things and behaves the same way.
  2. I imagine you have taught them that some beliefs and behaviours are beyond the pale. Is it OK to identify as minor-attracted or as a zoophile? We don't just nod along and accept anything anybody says about themselves. A bit of critical thinking is required to be sure that the other person's beliefs and actions aren't going to adversely affect others.
MoltenLasagne · 10/04/2026 08:51

Maaate · 10/04/2026 08:41

How many of these older TIMs are what we used to call transvestites?

I'd say the majority of those who have "transitioned" in the last ten years, but there are definitely old school "transsexuals" around as well.

I'd agree that the intensely pro-trans cohort seems to be those now at, or just left uni so 19-25. The school kids I know all seem to eye-roll at best, or be rather disparaging at worst.

heathspeedwell · 10/04/2026 08:49

Sorry OP but you're demonstrably wrong. The surveys from the last two years show that the vast majority of people of all ages reject trans ideology.

I suspect it's the behaviour of transwomen themselves that has made people see that the ideology is built on lies. We all know that 62% of transwomen in prison have convictions for rape or sexual assault.

Here's a very cheering quote from YouGov:

https://yougov.co.uk/politics/articles/51545-where-does-the-british-public-stand-on-transgender-rights-in-202425
'a new YouGov study, the fourth in a series reaching back to 2018, shows an increased scepticism towards transgender rights across the board – and particularly in the two and a half years since our previous wave of this study.
Notable in this most recent study – conducted in mid-December – is the growing resistance on transgender rights among those groups that are typically more permissive on the issue, like women and young people.'

illuminada · 10/04/2026 08:44

This craze is over in my daughter’s school and at least half a dozen of her year group have quietly desisted.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 10/04/2026 08:41

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Ageist nonsense.

Maaate · 10/04/2026 08:41

How many of these older TIMs are what we used to call transvestites?

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