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Younger generations being pro trans

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PeachyDaisy · 10/04/2026 05:22

I know many are saying the trans debate is over, but I think it has only just begun. And the reason is the younger generation. Studies show young people are the most supportive of transwomen going into women's spaces amongst all groups. In 20 years, these people will be in positions of power making decisions where they can enact their beliefs.

Also most of the western world has fallen to trans ideology (which activists will use as credibility for their ideology). I don't buy the argument that as long as it is just in EU/Australia/CA/ NZ then it is contained.

Having the laws on our side and sex matters fighting is great, but it feels like little consolation if we have to spend the next 50 years constantly in a court room suing organisations as they continue to to flaunt the law. It is like wack a mole, you stop one stop one organisation from doing it whilst another one pops up.

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PeachyDaisy · 10/04/2026 20:36

Helleofabore · 10/04/2026 20:11

I hear you. But I doubt it is associated with the Libs, sadly it might be associated with Hanson.

i think I have more hope than you seem to as I have been in the campaign as a letter writer here in Uk etc here for a while now and have watched. I always said it will take longer there because of gillard’s changes to the law.

I also think that the Brisbane Olympics will force discussion about the law. It may be kicked down the road til after the next federal election but there surely has to be a conflict in law and OlC policy that needs to be resolved.

The Libs were also accused of being trump lite. If you campaign on trans in Australia people will think you are associated with trump or americanism. Australians see it as importing the culture war.

I sadly don't think the IOC policy will revive the debate. Australia came out and said they accepted the IOC decision as soon as it was announced so that matter is pretty much closed. There wont be any male athelets in womens sports at the brisbane olympics.

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FrippEnos · 10/04/2026 20:19

The strange thing about the "#bekind" and "tolerant" crew is that they are the ones most likely to stab you in the back or quite preversely threaten to hurt/rape you.

All whilst being protected by managment who are also being threaten by them.

Helleofabore · 10/04/2026 20:11

PeachyDaisy · 10/04/2026 19:59

I think the fact that the Liberal party brought the issue up last election and ended up losing massively at the election, makes me think another party is not going to want to touch the issue again anytime soon. People in Australia seem to associate the trans issue with trump/the culture war and don't want a party who campaigns on it.

Also Sall Grover lost (with the Australian Human Rights Commision fighting against her).

Without being too pessimistic the ABC thing feels like an extremely tiny victory compared to all the massive losses. Their coverage of trans issues is still going to be overwhelming postitive (if they even bother report on the issue at all).

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I hear you. But I doubt it is associated with the Libs, sadly it might be associated with Hanson.

i think I have more hope than you seem to as I have been in the campaign as a letter writer here in Uk etc here for a while now and have watched. I always said it will take longer there because of gillard’s changes to the law.

I also think that the Brisbane Olympics will force discussion about the law. It may be kicked down the road til after the next federal election but there surely has to be a conflict in law and OlC policy that needs to be resolved.

PeachyDaisy · 10/04/2026 19:59

Helleofabore · 10/04/2026 19:52

I know. I am Australian too.

But at least the ABC has pulled out of the ACON programme. It will happen in Australia eventually. I don’t know any of my friends or family who are supportive of male people in sports or single sex provisions. They say they are supportive but when you ask specific questions that support disappears.

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I think the fact that the Liberal party brought the issue up last election and ended up losing massively at the election, makes me think another party is not going to want to touch the issue again anytime soon. People in Australia seem to associate the trans issue with trump/the culture war and don't want a party who campaigns on it.

Also Sall Grover lost (with the Australian Human Rights Commision fighting against her).

Without being too pessimistic the ABC thing feels like an extremely tiny victory compared to all the massive losses. Their coverage of trans issues is still going to be overwhelming postitive (if they even bother report on the issue at all).

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Helleofabore · 10/04/2026 19:52

PeachyDaisy · 10/04/2026 19:17

Yes it is going in the right direction but 40% support is still way too high imo for it to resolved anytime soon (probably not even in my own lifetime). In fact, I live in Australia and we are really captured (at least all our politicians are). It is much harder to keep men out of womens spaces when the laws have been changed to let them in.

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I know. I am Australian too.

But at least the ABC has pulled out of the ACON programme. It will happen in Australia eventually. I don’t know any of my friends or family who are supportive of male people in sports or single sex provisions. They say they are supportive but when you ask specific questions that support disappears.

Helleofabore · 10/04/2026 19:50

FlirtsWithRhinos · 10/04/2026 18:15

Heartbreakingly, I think the bulk of future lawsuits arising from this time will be for medical damage and malpractice.

I agree.

PeachyDaisy · 10/04/2026 19:17

Yes it is going in the right direction but 40% support is still way too high imo for it to resolved anytime soon (probably not even in my own lifetime). In fact, I live in Australia and we are really captured (at least all our politicians are). It is much harder to keep men out of womens spaces when the laws have been changed to let them in.

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RedToothBrush · 10/04/2026 18:22

Helleofabore · 10/04/2026 18:14

"I don't think it has to be a majority for the view to be dangerous, even 30% agreeing that transwomen should be in women's spaces is far too high. Ideally it needs to be more like 5% for us to be confident that the debate has truly been won."

The debate has not yet 'truly been won, however I don't believe that it will be able to return to the strength it was with Stonewall's focus in the next 30+ years. And never if no findings give the belief factual foundations of a biological marker.

"I honestly foresee lawsuits for at least the next 30 years as companies continue to let men into womens spaces."

There will certainly be more lawsuits. However, once a solid base of precedent has been established, and again no credible scientific findings, I expect that there will be very few. Even in Australia, the ABC (national broadcaster equivalent to BBC) has announced they are withdrawing from ACON which can be compared to Stonewall here.

Things are changing and I don't believe that the few people who are 18-24 year olds now who support male inclusion in single sex provisions will be able to convince others to change laws.

Don't forget a lot of these surveys are worded in a particular way that will get a different response from young people compared to older people. If asked slightly differently young people will talk about fairness too. It's because a lot haven't really given the thought the subject requires. When they do, the lightbulbs do start to slowly go on - part of the issue is precisely because they've never been asked some of these questions by their peers or challenged within the bubble they live in.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 10/04/2026 18:15

Helleofabore · 10/04/2026 18:14

"I don't think it has to be a majority for the view to be dangerous, even 30% agreeing that transwomen should be in women's spaces is far too high. Ideally it needs to be more like 5% for us to be confident that the debate has truly been won."

The debate has not yet 'truly been won, however I don't believe that it will be able to return to the strength it was with Stonewall's focus in the next 30+ years. And never if no findings give the belief factual foundations of a biological marker.

"I honestly foresee lawsuits for at least the next 30 years as companies continue to let men into womens spaces."

There will certainly be more lawsuits. However, once a solid base of precedent has been established, and again no credible scientific findings, I expect that there will be very few. Even in Australia, the ABC (national broadcaster equivalent to BBC) has announced they are withdrawing from ACON which can be compared to Stonewall here.

Things are changing and I don't believe that the few people who are 18-24 year olds now who support male inclusion in single sex provisions will be able to convince others to change laws.

Heartbreakingly, I think the bulk of future lawsuits arising from this time will be for medical damage and malpractice.

Helleofabore · 10/04/2026 18:14

PeachyDaisy · 10/04/2026 17:46

I don't think it has to be a majority for the view to be dangerous, even 30% agreeing that transwomen should be in women's spaces is far too high. Ideally it needs to be more like 5% for us to be confident that the debate has truly been won.

I honestly foresee lawsuits for at least the next 30 years as companies continue to let men into womens spaces.

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"I don't think it has to be a majority for the view to be dangerous, even 30% agreeing that transwomen should be in women's spaces is far too high. Ideally it needs to be more like 5% for us to be confident that the debate has truly been won."

The debate has not yet 'truly been won, however I don't believe that it will be able to return to the strength it was with Stonewall's focus in the next 30+ years. And never if no findings give the belief factual foundations of a biological marker.

"I honestly foresee lawsuits for at least the next 30 years as companies continue to let men into womens spaces."

There will certainly be more lawsuits. However, once a solid base of precedent has been established, and again no credible scientific findings, I expect that there will be very few. Even in Australia, the ABC (national broadcaster equivalent to BBC) has announced they are withdrawing from ACON which can be compared to Stonewall here.

Things are changing and I don't believe that the few people who are 18-24 year olds now who support male inclusion in single sex provisions will be able to convince others to change laws.

PeachyDaisy · 10/04/2026 17:46

Helleofabore · 10/04/2026 09:55

Here you are @PeachyDaisy .

THE CURRENT DATA SPLICED SPECIFICALLY FOR THE AGE GROUP OF 18-24

Here are two data sets asking the same question and it is broken down by age group for the UK. There is a stark difference between the answers from 2018 and 2024. I expect that the next tracker poll that YouGov will do, will show a significant change again in the direction of that acceptance that you are relying on from that age group.

https://d3nkl3psvxxpe9.cloudfront.net/documents/Transgender_data_2018.pdf

https://ygo-assets-websites-editorial-emea.yougov.net/documents/YouGov_-_Transgender_study_2024.pdf

For instance just for the 18-24 age group:

Do you think transgender women should or should not be allowed to…

Take part in women's sporting events?2018 in italics, 2024 bold
Should be allowed 39 31% 2018 - 2024 this is decrease by 8%
Should not be allowed 37 53% 2018 - 2024 this is increase by 16%
Don't know 25 15%. 2018 - 2024 this is decrease by 10%

Use women's changing rooms? 2018 in italics, 2024 bold
Should be allowed 61 42%. 2018 - 2024* this is decrease by 19%
Should not be allowed 21 40%. 2018 - 2024 this is increase by 19%
Don't know 18 18%. 2018 - 2024 *no change %

Use women's toilets? 2018 in brackets vs 2024 bold
Should be allowed 66 47%. 2018 - 2024 this is decrease by 19%
Should not be allowed 18 39%. 2018 - 2024* *this is increase by 21%
Don't know 16 14%. 2018 - 2024 this is decrease by 2%

Use women's refuges? 2018 in brackets vs 2024 bold
Should be allowed 69 55%. 2018 - 2024 this is decrease by 14%
Should not be allowed 15 31%. 2018 - 2024 this is increase by 16%
Don't know 16 14%. 2018 - 2024 this is decrease by 2%

I really don't think that you are up to date with the general opinion of young people. I think those trends will be going the same direction with the next YouGov polling for this specific tracker, because we have seen it already with other organisations who have commissioned the same questions being asked by other professional polling organisations recently.

Here is one
https://sex-matters.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/Omni-Sex-Matters-polling-March-2026.pdf

The majority of 18-24 year olds don't believe that a person with a gender identity should use a single sex provision that is not for their sex but should either use a mixed sex provision or the single sex provision for their birth sex.

I don't think it has to be a majority for the view to be dangerous, even 30% agreeing that transwomen should be in women's spaces is far too high. Ideally it needs to be more like 5% for us to be confident that the debate has truly been won.

I honestly foresee lawsuits for at least the next 30 years as companies continue to let men into womens spaces.

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RedToothBrush · 10/04/2026 17:37

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Young people are idealistic about lots of things.

Then they live life and come face to face with reality.

It's not a symptom of MN not exclusive to this subject. Basically they grow up and realise things aren't as black and white as they thought when they were 18.

moto748e · 10/04/2026 17:33

WednesdaysPlaits · 10/04/2026 06:14

Amongst my YPs’ groups I see that DC1s year group (aged 21) were fully captured and found it hard to dissent. They were at an interesting stage of their social development (15/16/17/18) during lockdown when they became very dependent on social media at a time when they ought to have been starting to have real relationships with other teens. . DC2 is just a couple of years younger at 19 and far fewer in that group think that it’s possible to change sex. Unfortunately the younger group are more likely to have been influenced by the misogynistic manosphere stuff.

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Agree. Covid was a big factor in all this; the timing was awful for that generation.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 10/04/2026 17:13

ApplebyArrows · 10/04/2026 06:10

I think young people can be a bit naive about the realties of sex. It's actually quite easy at the age of 20 or so to see being a man or a woman as primarily a matter of what clothes you wear and what sort of interests you have. The differences between males and females become a lot harder to ignore once you or your friends start having babies. As women get older they are more likely to notice sex discrimination at work. Once people grow up a bit they get a more realistic view of the world.

Yes 100%

The only people who think "the world in the future will be different because young people are different" are young people.

The old people think "Ah, I remember when I thought like that as well, how much I still had to learn"

oldtiredcyclist · 10/04/2026 15:06

Back in 2018, when I was made aware of gender ideology, when Rachel McKinnon (the Canuck Sasquatch) burst on the cycling scene, I started a thread about it on a well known UK cycling forum. I was very surprised to find a number of the blokes calling me bigoted because of my views and that TWAW. One of these blokes, around my age at the time, said that he generally took the advice from his young sons, who knew far more than we could ever know about current affairs or social behaviour.
I found that quite sad and alarming in equal measure, that he was so weak, that he felt compelled to follow the herd, rather than think for himself.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 10/04/2026 13:34

ChamonixMountainBum · 10/04/2026 12:02

Purely ancedotal, but my nieces were all teenagers when the trans train rocked into town and at one point it seemed half their class were identifying as non binary/they them/pan sexual or whatever. Fast forward several years and they have finished uni and in the work place and they look back and joke about it all being a fad and a fear of missing out. Reminded me of when I was at school and the cool kid decided to become vegetarian, within a few weeks half the class were on the bandwagon and by the end of the year it had all fizzled out as the next cool thing came over the horizon.

This is a really important point. This was originally a solely male issue with a vanishingly small group of boys and a larger group of middle aged males - many of them autogynephiles.

Then transgenderism was positioned as a "human rights" issue and instead of exercising critical thinking about what was appropriate for children, trans lobby groups were generously funded by the DfE & other government organisations and were able to specifically target children of all ages - via the NHS, schools, sport and of course online. With girls being particularly vulnerable to online influence.

As @ChamonixMountainBum points out, as children grow up and are away from the heated online atmosphere and places where you're punished for challenging genderism, it becomes a passing phase and the power of the organisations pushing this reduces. Leaving of course a cohort of young women and some young men facing unbelievably tragic future lives.

InSlovakiaTheCapitalOfCourseIsBratislava · 10/04/2026 13:15

I reckon if the pendulum can swing away formed based stereotypes it will probably be ok. If in ten years girls wanting short hair or boys not liking football means they were born in the wrong body then we are still screwed.

Otherwise it will probably die a natural death: mortgages, working 35 hours a week plus a commute, partners, ageing parents, wanting children(discovering the self inflicted infertility), will pull the teeth of the TRA’s youthful idealists , just like most people grow out of being goths, emos or socialists.

of course, if “poor mental health” means that lots of them can’t actual get jobs and be distracted by the real
world then there may also be a bit of an issue.

localnotail · 10/04/2026 13:09

I have a young teen and both him and his friends are definitely not "pro-trans".

I would add they would not treat anyone badly because of being trans (and are aware of social conventions of not saying anything about it out of politeness) but I know they view it as something weird and perhaps funny.

Kiminki · 10/04/2026 13:03

rabbitwoman · 10/04/2026 12:47

In real life and pretty much on line, I have just stopped talking about this so much - not because i don't believe in it any more, but because legally everything is going in the right direction.

We have the FWS court ruling. And organisations and the government can stall as much as they like. But it's the law and we all know it.

We had the cass review and now this Finnish study - every professional from teaching to social care to mental health with safeguarding responsibilities for children and other vulnerable people will no longer be able to hide behind Stonewall or any other misinformation.

We have the IOC ruling. And this week alone even darts have said no men in women's darts!!!

So young people can get as cross as they want. And once the new thing comes along they'll forget all about it.

conversely I have seen a lot more people talking about it online - people taking no truck with trans ideology. It seems to have become a lot easier to talk about and the court rulings are making it more difficult for trans activists to shut down the conversation.

LeftBoobGoneRogue · 10/04/2026 13:03

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Being a sex realist does not make us MNetters ignorant.
Gender ideology has no base in fact. Nobody can change sex, and not aligning with sexed body is about not conforming to gender stereotypes (ie personality differences) or a fetish (AGP).
Regarding being open minded, you can’t generalise about age either. Some young people have very closed minds and fixed ideas.

lifeturnsonadime · 10/04/2026 12:51

PeachyDaisy · 10/04/2026 05:22

I know many are saying the trans debate is over, but I think it has only just begun. And the reason is the younger generation. Studies show young people are the most supportive of transwomen going into women's spaces amongst all groups. In 20 years, these people will be in positions of power making decisions where they can enact their beliefs.

Also most of the western world has fallen to trans ideology (which activists will use as credibility for their ideology). I don't buy the argument that as long as it is just in EU/Australia/CA/ NZ then it is contained.

Having the laws on our side and sex matters fighting is great, but it feels like little consolation if we have to spend the next 50 years constantly in a court room suing organisations as they continue to to flaunt the law. It is like wack a mole, you stop one stop one organisation from doing it whilst another one pops up.

All the young people I know think trans is a load of bollocks.

They tend not to be able to talk about the fact openly in university environments because of, legitimate, fear of reprisals.

Shortshriftandlethal · 10/04/2026 12:49

rabbitwoman · 10/04/2026 11:45

I don't actually have any of my own children.

But i am a teacher and I so I get the privilege of talking - although, mostly listening- to a wide range of kids about all sorts of things.

And let me absolutely guarantee- some of them may have higher IQs than me, sone of them might get better grades than I do. But they really don't have a clue about the world. Especially not the ones who are the most confident that they do.

I'm an ex teacher too...but I'm still not sure if you are referring to a particular group of children?

i don't think it is the kids that push trans ideology, I think it is the activist teachers ( of which there many) and their own 'right on' parents ( Jolyon Maugham, several Labour MPs etc); as well as on line groups and influencers.

rabbitwoman · 10/04/2026 12:47

In real life and pretty much on line, I have just stopped talking about this so much - not because i don't believe in it any more, but because legally everything is going in the right direction.

We have the FWS court ruling. And organisations and the government can stall as much as they like. But it's the law and we all know it.

We had the cass review and now this Finnish study - every professional from teaching to social care to mental health with safeguarding responsibilities for children and other vulnerable people will no longer be able to hide behind Stonewall or any other misinformation.

We have the IOC ruling. And this week alone even darts have said no men in women's darts!!!

So young people can get as cross as they want. And once the new thing comes along they'll forget all about it.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 10/04/2026 12:15

Xanadu78 · 10/04/2026 11:39

My Gen Alpha daughter would be cordial to someone they met IRL but is quite gender critical and has said that she does not want to share female spaces or organisations with them.

I echo this ^ and all the other posters saying similar on this thread about this much younger generation.

I believe the future is more positive than we might have thought a few years ago.

I think TRAs and their allies simply assumed things would only go one way in the future (i.e. their way) but Gen Alpha has other ideas.

Interesting thread!

Helleofabore · 10/04/2026 12:08

What I see around this specific issue is that there is this attempt to continue to portray rejecting male inclusion as being 'right wing'. And therefore this then also plays into the 'as people get older they get more 'right wing'' narrative.

It is an absurdity though because that premise completely misses several points as has already been mentioned. Such as the point that as people gain more experience on the implications and the direct consequences of allowing male people to be treated as if they are female when they are not they realise that it cannot be done without direct negative impact on female people and children.

Also, if someone cannot physically change sex and there are no biological markers for gender dysphoria at all, it can only be acceptably categorised as a subjective belief about themselves explained through philosophical theory and not based on material reality at all. We have been categorically told it is not a mental health 'condition' to believe you are the opposite sex, so that is ruled out of the way we can describe it that is acceptable.

So, therefore this group is to be treated as no other group has done before, yet there is no material reason to do so. Once people understand this with deeper knowledge, they also understand why there is such dissonance with the issue. It is one constructed by individuals and it is not society dealing with a natural variance in people that is materially real.

The more research that comes out that points out that what we have been told previously is not correct or accurate, of course people are going to change their perspective. It is not 'right wing' to have healthy personal boundaries, yet those to resort to saying those who oppose male people in female provisions need to shame people who might be suggestive to political pressure to believe that it is.

So much damage is being done leveraging some people's fear of being seen as being not left wing and being seen as being 'extreme'. Yet when you remove the emotional manipulation of that kind of shit, you realise there IS no half way. If you advocate for any male inclusion, it harms female people.

Hence we had that interaction with the poster who declared we were extreme and did all that 'both sidesing' when the reality was they agreed with most of what we said, but they fully believed that their privileged position of full nudity in a mixed sex communal space was the only way to go for changing rooms. It was like they had this complete blind spot about the needs of other people in their determination to be open minded about these things.

They disappeared after people pointed out that they just showed that they lacked any empathy at all for female people who did not want to be naked in a communal changing space. That they came from a place of privilege about that never seemed to occur them. But .. both sides are extreme apparently.

Not realising their own position was fucking extreme. Extremely harmful to female people.