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Best resources explaining JKRs position on trans identifying people?

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 06/04/2026 20:27

I know she has published her own essay, but, I am looking for shorter more accessible resources or even videos which are supportive, fully explain things and are short and clear enough for a early teen to understand - appreciate it!

(Yes I know I could google etc but I am certain you can all give me some very good vetted recommendations)

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 10/04/2026 13:38

HauntedHouseWife · 10/04/2026 13:26

Pointless trying to get another source to explain her position. It's clear from reading her letter and how she funds women's orgs that she is not transphobic. If the person you're trying to talk to doesn't understand that then a video won't help. It's such a poisoned topic these days. Maybe it's better to just state your own position.

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I totally appreciate where you are coming from but you're barking up the wrong tree. IT's resources I can show to school age kids who have basically just heard that she is transphobic and sort of accepted it but will happily change their minds if they see evidence, right now most people have not seen any at all, just third hand reports and rumours :)

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HauntedHouseWife · 10/04/2026 13:26

Pointless trying to get another source to explain her position. It's clear from reading her letter and how she funds women's orgs that she is not transphobic. If the person you're trying to talk to doesn't understand that then a video won't help. It's such a poisoned topic these days. Maybe it's better to just state your own position.

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 10/04/2026 12:10

Thanks everyone for this much appreciated, not actually for my daughter of single sex spaces fame, someone else, but I will show her anyway for extra support. And I hope it's helpful for others passing by, the whole controversy has been manufactured by echo chambers and shock-click web nonsense I am certain

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/04/2026 08:19

FictionalCharacter · 07/04/2026 16:35

Ah, but if they read the essay they’d see that she didn’t write anything terrible, and that would spoil everything. What they do instead is watch endless instagram and TikTok reels about how she’s a terrible transphobe and has said offensive things, and agree with them, so that they can fit in with their peers who do the same.

If they said “hang on, she didn’t actually say anything bad at all” they’d be an outlier, and wouldn’t be part of the in crowd any more, which would be unbearable.

Exactly this.

FictionalCharacter · 07/04/2026 16:35

Shortshriftandlethal · 07/04/2026 16:15

Why can't people just read the essay. Why do they require third party explanations and other people to 'interpret' for them?

Social media and podcasts have turned people stupid.

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Ah, but if they read the essay they’d see that she didn’t write anything terrible, and that would spoil everything. What they do instead is watch endless instagram and TikTok reels about how she’s a terrible transphobe and has said offensive things, and agree with them, so that they can fit in with their peers who do the same.

If they said “hang on, she didn’t actually say anything bad at all” they’d be an outlier, and wouldn’t be part of the in crowd any more, which would be unbearable.

Shortshriftandlethal · 07/04/2026 16:21

Thelnebriati · 07/04/2026 15:52

Its pointless looking for a ''magic bullet'' that will help you win a debate, because only one side is using facts and evidence. The other side is using purity spirals and group think. That kind of thinking appeals to authoritarian types, and free thinkers scare them.

I'd refine that further and say that actual thinking scares many people. They seem to need to know what other people say about a topic or issue first before they feel confident to come out with an opinion themselves; and these 'opinions' are set in stone and immune to reasoned critique or argument....because that would involve them, once again, in the scary process of independent investigation, analysis and the development of logical consistency.

Shortshriftandlethal · 07/04/2026 16:15

Why can't people just read the essay. Why do they require third party explanations and other people to 'interpret' for them?

Social media and podcasts have turned people stupid.

Shedmistress · 07/04/2026 16:12

TheLizardQueen · 07/04/2026 10:48

@BonfireLady I forgot about that video, didn’t the teacher get sacked after it?

He did and now has YT 601,000 subscribers.

I mean, he will probably make in 1 year what it would take 10 as a teacher.

Again and again the people that get sacked for literally saying 'think for yourself' end up more well known and with higher incomes than their original jobs would ever give them.

Thelnebriati · 07/04/2026 15:52

Its pointless looking for a ''magic bullet'' that will help you win a debate, because only one side is using facts and evidence. The other side is using purity spirals and group think. That kind of thinking appeals to authoritarian types, and free thinkers scare them.

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TheLizardQueen · 07/04/2026 10:48

@BonfireLady I forgot about that video, didn’t the teacher get sacked after it?

DialSquare · 07/04/2026 10:35

I’d take everything Aida says with a pinch of salt, OP. He calls himself a lesbian, FFS.

Datun · 07/04/2026 10:33

ShawnsLeftEyebrow · 07/04/2026 08:38

It's just a quote from the A-Team, isn't it? With the big cigar? I'd put it on a par with "we'd have got away with it if it hadn't been for you meddling kids".

Exactly. It was a tongue in cheek remark.

But even so, the sentiment behind is that she's glad that women's rights were upheld.

Posting an article that thinks that's awful, or transphobic is, yet again, foot shootingly counter-productive.

Waitwhat23 · 07/04/2026 08:52

ShawnsLeftEyebrow · 07/04/2026 08:38

It's just a quote from the A-Team, isn't it? With the big cigar? I'd put it on a par with "we'd have got away with it if it hadn't been for you meddling kids".

Yup. But they are determined to ignore that.

Shedmistress · 07/04/2026 08:44

A phobia is an irrational fear.

Fearing men who say they are women who threaten you with 'fuck...with a splintery rolling pin' that is not irrational. It is totally rational.

ShawnsLeftEyebrow · 07/04/2026 08:38

It's just a quote from the A-Team, isn't it? With the big cigar? I'd put it on a par with "we'd have got away with it if it hadn't been for you meddling kids".

Waitwhat23 · 07/04/2026 08:38

AidaP · 07/04/2026 02:05

Happy to provide!

https://glaad.org/gap/jk-rowling/

And no, there is no million dollars. Like most things around mumsnet, the source is "trust me bro" and if someone actually had million dollars, they would do like people here, and constantly shift what is transphobia, to the point that nothing is.

Oh no. EVERYTHING is transphobic -

https://wingsoverscotland.com/everything-is-transphobic/

And you've got quite the cheek, pal, opining on anything about JKR given your previous threats of sexual assault against her.

I'm surprised the Police haven't been chapping at your door to be honest.

Everything is transphobic

The modern world is an ideological minefield, readers, and is increasingly almost as dangerous as a real one. Having the wrong opinions about things can easily get you fired, ostracised from polite…

https://wingsoverscotland.com/everything-is-transphobic/

Datun · 07/04/2026 08:31

Eg They think she shouldn't have said how much she loves it when a plan comes together over the upholding of the equality act.
Says everything you need to know.

She shouldn't agree with upholding the equality act because they are advocating for it to be unworkable.

Claiming the equality act is transphobic is not a good look. But more than that, they think it is.

Datun · 07/04/2026 08:26

NotBadConsidering · 07/04/2026 08:01

The Glaad link is full of lies. But AidaP is happy to regurgitate those lies and somehow thinks that’s justification for threatening JKR with sexual assault.

What is even more brazen is that the majority of the sexual assault threats towards her are from unknowns on Twitter etc. But AidaP makes the threat proudly and openly under his own name, and keeps harassing her here as well. I wonder if it falls under the malicious communications law?

Oh yeah, there are lies and misrepresentations. But even so, most people would read the article with a pinch of salt and still think I'm not sure what she's supposed to have done. Because she sounds rational and kind even while they're trying to misrepresent her.

NotBadConsidering · 07/04/2026 08:01

Datun · 07/04/2026 06:31

I don't think aida has actually read that link

“If sex isn’t real, there’s no same-sex attraction. If sex isn’t real, the lived reality of women globally is erased. … I know and love trans people, but erasing the concept of sex removes the ability of many to meaningfully discuss their lives. It isn’t hate to speak the truth.”

Rowling tweeted: “Dress however you please. Call yourself whatever you like. Sleep with any consenting adult who’ll have you. Live your best life in peace and security. But force women out of their jobs for stating that sex is real?

The Glaad link is full of lies. But AidaP is happy to regurgitate those lies and somehow thinks that’s justification for threatening JKR with sexual assault.

What is even more brazen is that the majority of the sexual assault threats towards her are from unknowns on Twitter etc. But AidaP makes the threat proudly and openly under his own name, and keeps harassing her here as well. I wonder if it falls under the malicious communications law?

Datun · 07/04/2026 06:31

NotBadConsidering · 07/04/2026 03:30

Nothing proves JK Rowling is wrong better than threatening with sexual assault, isn’t that right, @AidaP ?

I don't think aida has actually read that link

“If sex isn’t real, there’s no same-sex attraction. If sex isn’t real, the lived reality of women globally is erased. … I know and love trans people, but erasing the concept of sex removes the ability of many to meaningfully discuss their lives. It isn’t hate to speak the truth.”

Rowling tweeted: “Dress however you please. Call yourself whatever you like. Sleep with any consenting adult who’ll have you. Live your best life in peace and security. But force women out of their jobs for stating that sex is real?

J.K. Rowling (@jk_rowling) on X

Dress however you please. Call yourself whatever you like. Sleep with any consenting adult who’ll have you. Live your best life in peace and security. But force women out of their jobs for stating that sex is real? #IStandWithMaya #ThisIsNotADrill

https://twitter.com/jk_rowling/status/1207646162813100033

Datun · 07/04/2026 06:17

IwantToRetire · 07/04/2026 01:23

Is that true?!

Goodness me, how many contrived law suits could the GLP project manage to concoct ....

Grin

edited to add: cant find any mention of the magazine let alone offer of £1million. Can you provide a link? Thanks.

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https://www.thedistancemag.com/p/we-will-award-steve-wardlaw-1-million?utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web

i'd heard about it, but was under the impression that she herself was offering the money. But it appears it's this mag.

There's also this, which is a shame

As mentioned at the beginning, Wardlaw was reacting to a piece by Hadley Freeman about an interview that she did not get to do. Sting, the musician, apparently wanted a different interviewer, since Freeman’s views are unacceptably TERFy.

We Will Award Steve Wardlaw £1 Million For The Elusive 'Anti-Trans' J.K. Rowling Quote

He has assured us that it exists

https://www.thedistancemag.com/p/we-will-award-steve-wardlaw-1-million