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Why do leisure centres no longer provide single-sex changing rooms? Women’s Rights Network on the case…

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GreenEyedFeminist · 31/03/2026 08:27

What is it with leisure centres? Why can’t they give us single-sex changing rooms? This WRN X thread lists some of the cases from this year - I bet there are more. I get why families want to share a changing rooms but surely they could design changing rooms that give women and children a bit of privacy and SAFETY as well as a few cubicles for families. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Needspaceforlego · 31/03/2026 13:55

The only reason it would be cheaper would be for cleaning and supervision purposes.

Its probably easier for school groups too. If they are all in the one area in individual cubicles. I'm thinking primary school rather than secondary.

Wearenotborg · 31/03/2026 13:55

AidaP · 31/03/2026 13:51

Neither is this accurate, you are just being intentionally transphobic to refuse to see a point.

And that's why women in sports face more and more harassment, abuse, and your former cheerleader of Falkner now leads the charge against abortion rights, because being transphobic is more important to you than actual rights of women.

Errrr are you ok hen? Do you need a lie down? What is transphobic about saying males with a trans identity are male? Surely campaigning for single sex spaces as accorded by UK law is championing the rights of women? Now if I was campaigning to allow men into female spaces, I’d be fighting against the rights of women. You seem a little het up sweetie. Maybe a nice calming cup of tea might help.

AidaP · 31/03/2026 13:51

Wearenotborg · 31/03/2026 13:49

So @AidaP what is the difference between a man without a trans identity and one with a trans identity that makes one safer to be in female spaces? They are both male right, so why does one get to access female spaces and one not? Surely the fact that males with a trans identity want mixed sex spaces shows that they are not afraid of being in spaces with males.

Neither is this accurate, you are just being intentionally transphobic to refuse to see a point.

And that's why women in sports face more and more harassment, abuse, and your former cheerleader of Falkner now leads the charge against abortion rights, because being transphobic is more important to you than actual rights of women.

Wearenotborg · 31/03/2026 13:49

AidaP · 31/03/2026 13:44

Lawsuit is the answer. Incidents that happen carry no civic responsibility, and the only way to now not get sued is to go fully unisex for NON EMPLOYEES. Employees, it gets a bit more complicated.

And every developer in the world would rather just pay a bit more extra to make the unisex spaces, than to deal with unknown amount of lawsuits later, easy way to derisk.

And I also to a point agree with you that this makes everyone less safe from men but hey, you guys keep cheering when laws that remove the safer way gets enacted because you are so focused on transgender people that you forget about the actual danger, which is cis het men responsible for almost all of those crimes.

Not like no one warned about it or anything, but blind bigotry does not care. Now watch further protections get eroded, all in the name of transphobia.

So @AidaP what is the difference between a man without a trans identity and one with a trans identity that makes one safer to be in female spaces? They are both male right, so why does one get to access female spaces and one not? Surely the fact that males with a trans identity want mixed sex spaces shows that they are not afraid of being in spaces with males.

AidaP · 31/03/2026 13:44

Pingponghavoc · 31/03/2026 13:37

I don't see how its cheaper to have one large mix sex changing area, rather than male, female and family?

Council know that mix sex is more dangerous for women and girls and more 'incidents' are going to happen.

How can the initial set up costs of smaller rooms with doors and signs be a cost factor given the ongoing cost of pools and leisure centres, plus the cost of having to report said incidents and help with police investigations?

Lawsuit is the answer. Incidents that happen carry no civic responsibility, and the only way to now not get sued is to go fully unisex for NON EMPLOYEES. Employees, it gets a bit more complicated.

And every developer in the world would rather just pay a bit more extra to make the unisex spaces, than to deal with unknown amount of lawsuits later, easy way to derisk.

And I also to a point agree with you that this makes everyone less safe from men but hey, you guys keep cheering when laws that remove the safer way gets enacted because you are so focused on transgender people that you forget about the actual danger, which is cis het men responsible for almost all of those crimes.

Not like no one warned about it or anything, but blind bigotry does not care. Now watch further protections get eroded, all in the name of transphobia.

GreenEyedFeminist · 31/03/2026 13:40

That seems a good layout - something for everyone. Are you able to tell us which swimming pool that is?

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Pingponghavoc · 31/03/2026 13:37

I don't see how its cheaper to have one large mix sex changing area, rather than male, female and family?

Council know that mix sex is more dangerous for women and girls and more 'incidents' are going to happen.

How can the initial set up costs of smaller rooms with doors and signs be a cost factor given the ongoing cost of pools and leisure centres, plus the cost of having to report said incidents and help with police investigations?

Wearenotborg · 31/03/2026 13:30

But @AidaP I thought males with a trans identity were unsafe in male spaces. Why would they be safer in mixed sex spaces when the very males they are afraid of would also be in that space? Why would the presence of women make that space safer?

Thatcannotberight · 31/03/2026 13:12

GreyskySexRealistsky · 31/03/2026 12:34

It's just horrible.
Well done that brave girl for reporting him.
Why make it easier for these men?

Plymouth Crown Court heard how Benjamin Lilly recorded girls aged between 12 and 15 while working at Plymouth Life Centre.
Lilly, of Chaucer Way, Plymouth, admitted seven charges of voyeurism as well as counts of attempting to cause a child to engage in sexual activity, making moving images and category C child sex images.

Exactly, and it's very easy to do that with the set up they have. It's a complete bunfight for changing rooms during after school swimming lessons, despite the amount of changing rooms.

Helleofabore · 31/03/2026 13:11

So now YouGov are dismissed . Strange isn’t it that people who claim the majority hasn’t eventuated has in effect silenced them as being ‘the wrong type voices’ or ‘the voices that have spoken to the wrong type of agency.’

AidaP · 31/03/2026 12:54

Hoardasurass · 31/03/2026 12:00

You mean the no longer quite so silent but ever growing majority that shows up in every survey about single sex spaces.
You seem to have a picarious grip on reality @AidaP may I suggest that you look at the actual facts around this subject before you make an even bigger fool of yourself

And then we look into the real world, away from billionare owned newspapers and question/group skewed pools and get fascinating topics like: Is this massively inappropriate or should I just accept that this is where I work...? | Mumsnet

It warms my heart, continuing to show that transphobes have to keep hiding because... Yeah, the law does not protect you the way you think it does, and you know it - which is why you won't actually put your job on the line.

Happy transgender day of visibility 😍We are here, way in the open, enjoying life, while you keep skulking in your dreams of "majority"

Is this massively inappropriate or should I just accept that this is where I work...? | Mumsnet

This morning I have opened up my company Teams platform to a message wishing all staff a happy Trans Visibility Day. And a photo of three beer cans fr...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5510743-is-this-massively-inappropriate-or-should-i-just-accept-that-this-is-where-i-work

Supporterofwomensrights · 31/03/2026 12:44

Jailed for 2 years, suspended, and 10 years on the sex offenders' register. Absolutely dire.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 31/03/2026 12:34

Thatcannotberight · 31/03/2026 12:31

Plymouth Life Centre has a central mixed village with single sex areas and dry sides. This still happened. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c14kk126jp6o

It's just horrible.
Well done that brave girl for reporting him.
Why make it easier for these men?

Plymouth Crown Court heard how Benjamin Lilly recorded girls aged between 12 and 15 while working at Plymouth Life Centre.
Lilly, of Chaucer Way, Plymouth, admitted seven charges of voyeurism as well as counts of attempting to cause a child to engage in sexual activity, making moving images and category C child sex images.

HummingBird50 · 31/03/2026 12:04

AidaP · 31/03/2026 09:03

Because that is, by far, the only way to implement FsWS without being sued from either side, at least in non-work context.

Welcome to your new reality, get comfy with unisex bathrooms😘

And yet in all new leisure centres, the dry-side changing rooms are single sex 🤷🏼‍♀️

Helleofabore · 31/03/2026 12:01

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The man who has been tweeting a stream of vile tweets about 12 year old girls being poked and prodded in the genitalia is another version of this.

Miller has upped his output to include these references. It really is vile and it is based on spreading misinformation. But ultimately, it is the same. 'Look at what you have done!' When the reality is... actually... no... the IOC committee who allowed themselves to be convinced by a philosophical discussion about 'rights' are fully responsible for this mess.

Hoardasurass · 31/03/2026 12:00

AidaP · 31/03/2026 11:53

I love how you keep thinking that anyone cares to win you over :D. The unearned ego is akin to the ever famous "silent majority" that never materialized

You mean the no longer quite so silent but ever growing majority that shows up in every survey about single sex spaces.
You seem to have a picarious grip on reality @AidaP may I suggest that you look at the actual facts around this subject before you make an even bigger fool of yourself

Helleofabore · 31/03/2026 11:57

AidaP · 31/03/2026 11:53

I love how you keep thinking that anyone cares to win you over :D. The unearned ego is akin to the ever famous "silent majority" that never materialized

Do you understand that your post evokes images of people carrying bats with the progress flag?

The 'silent majority' of where? The silent majority of people who disagree that male people should be included in any way in a female single sex provision? The ones who keep coming up consistently in polling around the world saying that male people with transgender identities should be included in female sports, prisons, toilets, changing rooms etc?

They materialised. Are they the ones you refer to? If not, please clarify who you refer to.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 31/03/2026 11:56

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AidaP · 31/03/2026 11:53

Helleofabore · 31/03/2026 11:16

And you think that this is convincing people to support male inclusion in female single sex provisions?

All I see when I see this post is a misogynistic determination that if female people don't consent they get what they deserve. I am sure that you thought about this before posting though, so I can only assume that it is deliberate and you want women to know that this is what they deserve for saying 'no'.

I love how you keep thinking that anyone cares to win you over :D. The unearned ego is akin to the ever famous "silent majority" that never materialized

Keeptoiletssafe · 31/03/2026 11:32

Converting all the single sex toilet cubicles to fully enclosed rooms with sinks is never going to happen. These are single sex designs.

The only other way is to change the Health and Safety legislation, Building Regulations and British Standards and revise parts of the Sexual Offences Act. But that requires arguing against health and safety.

Helleofabore · 31/03/2026 11:17

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It is really clear, isn't it.

And once you see it, you never unsee it.

Helleofabore · 31/03/2026 11:16

AidaP · 31/03/2026 09:03

Because that is, by far, the only way to implement FsWS without being sued from either side, at least in non-work context.

Welcome to your new reality, get comfy with unisex bathrooms😘

And you think that this is convincing people to support male inclusion in female single sex provisions?

All I see when I see this post is a misogynistic determination that if female people don't consent they get what they deserve. I am sure that you thought about this before posting though, so I can only assume that it is deliberate and you want women to know that this is what they deserve for saying 'no'.

Keeptoiletssafe · 31/03/2026 11:11

Did I hear toilet talk?!

Changing room partitions have gaps from floor-to-door and floor-to-partition because of drainage and chlorine (rotting them) and ventilation to prevent mildew etc. The space above the doors and partitions is for ventilation and economics - many leisure centres have tall ceilings with mechanical ventilations so no prospect of raising the partitions up to the ceiling. There’s no way of getting rid of the gaps without causing problems with cleaning, drainage and ventilation.

Of course, the advantages of having door gaps are that when people collapse they can be attended to quicker eg. Cardiac issues after swimming. It also helps to prevent misuse in toilets and all sexual activity is illegal in a toilet used by the public.

With toilet cubicles, only single sex toilets leading on to a single sex area can have door gaps. That has been confirmed by the Health and Safety Executive. I can prove these designs are safer and more hygienic in toilet provision.

Back to changing rooms….

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 31/03/2026 10:19

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