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Disappointed at Andrew Garfield remarks about JKR

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2021x · 28/03/2026 22:44

In recent press for the Magic Faraway Tree, Andrew Garfield was trying to make the point that people who worked on HP projects should be respected for their art. He refused to use JKR name, and called her "she should remain nameless".

This for some reason has hit me a bit harder than I thought it would, and I am confused as to why. His PR is very rainbow-adjacent i.e. does Drag-race. He has always has picked "sensitive-man roles" that appeal to men rather than women. So even if he isn't actully gay-gay, he obviously much prefers the company of men- even when they are dressed as women. So there really is no reason for me to think that he actually cares about women and their safety and dignity at all.

Maybe because we are the same-ish age and similar cultural backgrounds that I thought he would have seen through all the misogynist bullshit. I think its fine to say you disagree with JKR but to demonise her to the same level as Voldemort... seems a bit.. culty?

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Kimura · 29/03/2026 15:01

ThePoshUns · 29/03/2026 14:40

I know we’ve gone off a bit but you may find this interesting from Hadley Freeman today with share tolen
Parity but no medals for cheated Olympian women

https://www.thetimes.com/article/94e29dfd-46df-422e-b624-13e13e714955?shareToken=9458748d6e6c8cd7644c4c2f1bf5c42e

That's disappointing re: the medals. I guess they're not disqualifying the male athletes or applying the new criteria retroactively.

Gutting for the girls that missed out.

Onebattleafteramother · 29/03/2026 14:59

ThePoshUns · 29/03/2026 14:40

I know we’ve gone off a bit but you may find this interesting from Hadley Freeman today with share tolen
Parity but no medals for cheated Olympian women

https://www.thetimes.com/article/94e29dfd-46df-422e-b624-13e13e714955?shareToken=9458748d6e6c8cd7644c4c2f1bf5c42e

That is interesting thanks pp. Also the quote from CS telling the bronze (should have been bronze) athlete to keep quiet. "She'd have been a better runner if she bit her lip/kept her mouth shut" something to that effect. 🙄

If that's not proof of maleness Idk what is.

Onebattleafteramother · 29/03/2026 14:56

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Kimura · 29/03/2026 14:54

TheKeatingFive · 29/03/2026 14:20

A) There hasn't been sex testing in the Olympics since the 1990s

B) Both tests were done in independent labs. Absolutely no reason to dismiss them. You'll also note that Khelif has not entered a single competition since where sex testing was required

C) Khelif could have taken and published an independent test at any time to shut all this down, yet he didn't. I wonder why?

A) There hasn't been sex testing in the Olympics since the 1990s

I didn't say there was, I said she passed every test required to compete at the Olympics.

B) Both tests were done in independent labs. Absolutely no reason to dismiss them.

There are no test results to dismiss. The IBA wouldn't even say what kind of test was administered. The IBA are a corrupt, incompetent joke, if they told me the sky was blue I'd look outside to check.

They banned a second boxer at the same time as Khelif, for failing the exact same tests. Since confirmed to be female.

Khelif has not entered a single competition since where sex testing was required

She's not entered any competitions full stop. She's currently challenging the testing requirements in court. Her next competition is the Olympics and she's confirmed that she'll take any test required to compete.

C) Khelif could have taken and published an independent test at any time to shut all this down, yet he didn't. I wonder why?

Why should she?

ThePoshUns · 29/03/2026 14:40

I know we’ve gone off a bit but you may find this interesting from Hadley Freeman today with share tolen
Parity but no medals for cheated Olympian women

https://www.thetimes.com/article/94e29dfd-46df-422e-b624-13e13e714955?shareToken=9458748d6e6c8cd7644c4c2f1bf5c42e

TheKeatingFive · 29/03/2026 14:20

Kimura · 29/03/2026 13:57

The 'test' to compete in the Olympics was an F on his passport.

Olympic athletes undergo all manner of testing, including for T/E levels. These are random, year round.

This is following two failed sex eligibility tests

This was a claim made by the IBA that has never been substantiated. No data or criteria were ever published. The IBA is a disgraced Russian organization that was subsequently stripped of IOC recognition. If you know anything about boxing you'll know why.

Yet the sympathy for the man who knowing went into a ring and beat up women continues

I feel bad for Khelif like I'd feel bad for anyone forced to have a deeply personal medical issue play out in public.

But if there are concerns then it's quite right that they're addressed openly. I don't have sympathy for that her in that regard.

And if it's established that she wasn't eligible, of course I'll have sympathy for the other boxers. I'm just waiting for the facts.

A) There hasn't been sex testing in the Olympics since the 1990s

B) Both tests were done in independent labs. Absolutely no reason to dismiss them. You'll also note that Khelif has not entered a single competition since where sex testing was required

C) Khelif could have taken and published an independent test at any time to shut all this down, yet he didn't. I wonder why?

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 29/03/2026 14:20

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 29/03/2026 09:04

Islamophobia isn't argument, sweetheart.

Nor is misogyny (Khelif is a woman) or transphobia, or homophobia.

I know, Mumsnet wouldn't function without them though.

Hey, why not add some ableist comments about autistic people and complete the set?

Have a great day now.

Self righteousness isn't a good look either.

Kimura · 29/03/2026 14:20

ThePoshUns · 29/03/2026 13:48

“Khelif has not competed since sex tests were introduced by World Boxing last year, taking the fight to the Court of Arbitration for Sport (CAS) in a bid to compete without being tested, for which a hearing is yet to be held.”

She is arguing over the mandatory requirement of a particular type of test, not that she should be exempt from testing.

She's prepping for the Olympics and has repeatedly confirmed that she's happy to be tested.

But the fighter is happy to take a sex test for the next Olympics, saying to CNN in February: 'Of course, I would accept doing anything I'm required to do to participate in competitions.

zehrkyBerlun · 29/03/2026 14:16

Kimura · 29/03/2026 14:12

You should have no trouble providing a link then?

The French outlet that published claims made following the unsubstantiated IBA tests is currently facing legal action.

The IOC said that these claims were 'not worth a response'.

Nah - I'm enjoying my Sunday. You do the leg work

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 29/03/2026 14:14

Yeah as if Khelif’s trainers would really lift him up and parade him on their shoulders if they really thought he was a Muslim woman. I’ll tell the jokes.

Kimura · 29/03/2026 14:12

zehrkyBerlun · 29/03/2026 13:28

The lab reports gave been published in the media

You should have no trouble providing a link then?

The French outlet that published claims made following the unsubstantiated IBA tests is currently facing legal action.

The IOC said that these claims were 'not worth a response'.

Kimura · 29/03/2026 13:57

TheKeatingFive · 29/03/2026 13:20

The 'test' to compete in the Olympics was an F on his passport. This is following two failed sex eligibility tests for previous competitions

You know all this of course.

Yet the sympathy for the man who knowing went into a ring and beat up women continues.

I have no words really. It's been utterly and depressing eye opening,

The 'test' to compete in the Olympics was an F on his passport.

Olympic athletes undergo all manner of testing, including for T/E levels. These are random, year round.

This is following two failed sex eligibility tests

This was a claim made by the IBA that has never been substantiated. No data or criteria were ever published. The IBA is a disgraced Russian organization that was subsequently stripped of IOC recognition. If you know anything about boxing you'll know why.

Yet the sympathy for the man who knowing went into a ring and beat up women continues

I feel bad for Khelif like I'd feel bad for anyone forced to have a deeply personal medical issue play out in public.

But if there are concerns then it's quite right that they're addressed openly. I don't have sympathy for that her in that regard.

And if it's established that she wasn't eligible, of course I'll have sympathy for the other boxers. I'm just waiting for the facts.

ThePoshUns · 29/03/2026 13:48

“Khelif has not competed since sex tests were introduced by World Boxing last year, taking the fight to the Court of Arbitration for Sport (CAS) in a bid to compete without being tested, for which a hearing is yet to be held.”

SnoopyPajamas · 29/03/2026 13:44

Haven't read the full thread, but honestly? I'm surprised you're surprised, OP. My expectations for actors are on the floor these days. I tend to assume they're all stupid virtue signallers unless they prove otherwise. Same with musicians.

The last few years have killed off most of the respect I once had for celebrities. Seeing them all be so spineless on women's rights was definitely part of it, but I don't even think it's just that anymore? It feels more like . . . everything. Since the pandemic I just have zero tolerance for the whole stupid Hollywood game. Maybe it's a part of getting older? These days, the celebs I respect are those who stay in their lane and just do their job.

I make an exception for JKR, because she really was in a situation where she was the only woman who could afford to take the hit of speaking out. We'd seen smaller creators try and fail. Publishing and the creative space especially needed someone to shine a light on what was happening, for the world outside FWR. And the trans cult did come for her first. But once we're out of the woods on this, I would love for her to be able to go back to mostly talking about her writing. I don't want her to be defined by the trans issue. It would be letting the TRAs win.

FrankieMcGrath · 29/03/2026 13:43

RedToothBrush · 29/03/2026 02:27

Being able to speak well and use big words is often mistaken as a sign of intelligence.

It's not.

This is very true.

I’m disappointed in him also as have always quite liked him as an actor but to know he’s a woman-hating weasel is so disappointing.

Also agree with the comments about how all these ‘virtuous’ men have nothing to say about MJ & yet have plenty to say about a woman who says no & dares to stand up for all biological women!

ArabellaScott · 29/03/2026 13:42

Cailleach1 · 29/03/2026 11:13

Ugh, and it seems such perverts (or poor vulnerable sweetiepies) are now being lauded. Now women have to deal with creepy males doing these things everywhere. There is no refuge anywhere in public spaces, or services. Maybe that is by design of these men and their cheerleaders. Or at least without any concern whatsoever for women and girls.

I was just thinking about a miscarriage I had at work. I can’t even imagine having to deal with creepy men in the toilet as I discovered I was bleeding. Now of course they’d be able to put those camera’s under the partitions and doors.

And, there are women advocating for them to be in a position of such proximity from which they can carry out their fetishes.

Edited

To give full context, this was thirty years ago. When they say 'trans people have always existed', this is what comes to mind.

ThePoshUns · 29/03/2026 13:41

Kimura · 29/03/2026 13:16

I'd say any sympathy has been balanced out by attacks and vitriol, inside and outside the boxing world.

So of course there's a mention and consideration for Khelif's opponents. I think everyone in this conversation has expressed sympathy for them.

But the fact is, Khelif passed every test required in order to compete at the Olympics, so until it's established that she wasn't eligible to compete as a woman and is stripped of her medals, they're rightfully hers.

He didn’t because he refused to be tested

ArabellaScott · 29/03/2026 13:39

TheKeatingFive · 29/03/2026 13:20

The 'test' to compete in the Olympics was an F on his passport. This is following two failed sex eligibility tests for previous competitions

You know all this of course.

Yet the sympathy for the man who knowing went into a ring and beat up women continues.

I have no words really. It's been utterly and depressing eye opening,

Beatings will continue until morale improves.

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/03/2026 13:29

Kimura · 29/03/2026 13:01

Khelif is confirmed to have 5ard.

This has not been confirmed. At this stage it's just speculation.

It not having been formally admitted by Khelif's team though it having been confirmed by sex testing is a different matter.

Khelif's team have maintained the denial throughout ( it won them a gold medal), even though their behaviour, and Khelif's obvious masculine appearance and physicality, confirm otherwise.

Khelif has been presenting, living ( socially) and training as a male for many years.

zehrkyBerlun · 29/03/2026 13:28

Kimura · 29/03/2026 13:24

It has been confirmed. Lab reports have been published.

I'm sorry, but it simply hasn't.

Even Khelif has confirmed he has a Y chromosome.

Khelif has done no such thing.

Can you provide a source for either of the above?

The lab reports gave been published in the media

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/03/2026 13:24

TheKeatingFive · 29/03/2026 12:57

We have to stop listening to actors. Most of them are thick as mince.

He's awful in the Faraway Tree movie. Strange because I thought he was a relatively decent actor, but I haven't seen him in anything for a while, maybe I was mistaken. 🤷‍♀️

Can't say I'm aware of him. I don't tend to watch mainstream or american films. I prefer European/Iranian/Turkish etc But , even so, surely the only way anyone would know what such actors have said is if they are following social media - the function of which is to generate gossip and tittle tattle and promote vacuous self revelation.

Kimura · 29/03/2026 13:24

spannasaurus · 29/03/2026 13:04

It has been confirmed. Lab reports have been published. Even Khelif has confirmed he has a Y chromosome.

If he had CAIS he wouldn't need to reduce his testosterone

It has been confirmed. Lab reports have been published.

I'm sorry, but it simply hasn't.

Even Khelif has confirmed he has a Y chromosome.

Khelif has done no such thing.

Can you provide a source for either of the above?

TheKeatingFive · 29/03/2026 13:20

Kimura · 29/03/2026 13:16

I'd say any sympathy has been balanced out by attacks and vitriol, inside and outside the boxing world.

So of course there's a mention and consideration for Khelif's opponents. I think everyone in this conversation has expressed sympathy for them.

But the fact is, Khelif passed every test required in order to compete at the Olympics, so until it's established that she wasn't eligible to compete as a woman and is stripped of her medals, they're rightfully hers.

The 'test' to compete in the Olympics was an F on his passport. This is following two failed sex eligibility tests for previous competitions

You know all this of course.

Yet the sympathy for the man who knowing went into a ring and beat up women continues.

I have no words really. It's been utterly and depressing eye opening,

Kimura · 29/03/2026 13:16

TheKeatingFive · 29/03/2026 13:00

I'll never understand the out pouring of sympathy for cheating men like Khelif, but never a mention of the women he punched, the women he denied an Olympic place to, the women he took Olympic medals from.

Is it just because he's a man and people are programmed to care about men more?

I'd say any sympathy has been balanced out by attacks and vitriol, inside and outside the boxing world.

So of course there's a mention and consideration for Khelif's opponents. I think everyone in this conversation has expressed sympathy for them.

But the fact is, Khelif passed every test required in order to compete at the Olympics, so until it's established that she wasn't eligible to compete as a woman and is stripped of her medals, they're rightfully hers.