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My WI group folded this week

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Mauvish1 · 26/03/2026 14:24

The vote in my WI group was 4:1 against signing the new WI declaration, which would have obliged us to sign that we agreed with the WI upholding the law on being single sex (well yes, obviously!) but also that we agreed that TWAW and should be allowed to join, if only the pesky lawmakers hadn't clarified biological sex for the hard of understanding.

The person from the NFWI who was there to oversee our suspension told us that it was obvious from our refusing to sign that we all had friends or loved ones who were trans! This produced a roar of dissent! She also told us that if we left the WI, we would each be a lone voice to whom no-one listened. The look on everyone's face as she patronised us was a sight to behold.

Comparisons were made with brownies, and some people felt that the WI and brownies should simply open doors to men and boys - but there are plenty of other mixed sex groups to join, and very few other female-only groups.

So, another WI group bites the dust, and it's not the only one in my area.

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Sidebeforeself · 26/03/2026 22:31

Also I could sign with a completely different signature that isn’t legally binding…

Sidebeforeself · 26/03/2026 22:29

Well I ll sign my form and cross out the bits I dont agree with and see what happens…If the villagers with their pitchforks arrive at dawn I’ll let you know..

ScarlettSunset · 26/03/2026 22:29

I have now seen (after digging about after this thread) the policy. The declaration to sign IS just to say that I was born female (or in the WI words 'registered female at birth' which in my mind is TRA speak anyway, just not quite as bad as 'assigned female at birth'). But it's also that we agree to abide by all the policies, including 'supporting the sisterhood' and all the other things mentioned by others up thread.
I will not be signing and so I guess I have been to my final WI meeting, at least until there's some new women at the top that actually care about women.
I don't care if they infer it's because I am horrified TW can't join. I can't help what they decide it means in their deluded heads as they've clearly chosen to word it in such a way that they can take what they want from it whether women sign it or not, but by not signing it, I'm at least not actually SAYING I agree.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 26/03/2026 22:18

I agree Juliette

I suppose it's so WI can cover themselves legally

JulietteHasAGun · 26/03/2026 22:13

What’s going to stop a biological man identified as a woman and lying and signing the form saying he was born a woman? Because some trans people are so deluded they’d argue it’s true and that they have a female penis 🤷‍♀️

I mean I know the WI can’t exactly do genital checks but I’d have thought that signing a piece of paper is fairly meaningless.

EmeraldRoulette · 26/03/2026 22:11

@JustAnotherWhinger I think that's a really good idea

making anything official seems to involve a lot of palaver these days.

MelOfTheRoses · 26/03/2026 21:53

Petra didn't 'transition' or 'crack her egg' (as I saw described in the WI 'speaker' report) until 2018, and there was a lot activist work going on from 2010. I wonder if groundwork had been laid before that. 🤔

GreyskySexRealistsky · 26/03/2026 21:38

Just googled and this ⬇was one of the first links that came up! Very interesting to read it now.....

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4820740-remember-petra-wenham-the-first-transwoman-to-be-on-the-wi-mag-cover

GreyskySexRealistsky · 26/03/2026 21:35

Oh yes, I remember Petra. I never knew who he was related to.

Mauvish1 · 26/03/2026 21:29

A year or two back, the WI magazine "embraced" a TW who was married to a WI member (of the pesky "real female" kind) and who, I think, had a position of authority of some sort within the organisation. Of course this person will now no longer be able to be a member of the WI.

ETA: Found it. Maybe not on the exec or anything like that (my misremembering, apologies!) , but certainly featured on the front cover of the July/Aug 2021 issue as "proud", "inspirational" and a "trans activist" who was "welcomed to the sisterhood". So the WI was very proud to wave that flag then.

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GreyskySexRealistsky · 26/03/2026 21:14

RoyalCorgi · 26/03/2026 20:29

Among the long list of things I don't understand about gender ideology is this: how come the gender extremists managed to infiltrate the WI of all places? I get how, or at least why, they wanted to infiltrate Girl Guides, or the NHS, or the NSPCC, or the big media organisations. But who on earth thought the WI was important enough to infiltrate?

The alternative explanation is that they didn't infiltrate at all, and that the leadership spontaneously decided to embrace the idea that men can be women. What a thought.

But who on earth thought the WI was important enough to infiltrate?

I'm not sure of the exact circs, but have heard that someone who is related to a senior figure in the current WI management level is trans.

I don't think there was any spontaneous embracing involved. More a case of "who you know".

I'd be interested in any further information on this.

Planner2026 · 26/03/2026 21:06

JustAnotherWhinger · 26/03/2026 20:23

No we can’t be part of the WI.

We’ve gone with a private friends group and invitation only so that nobody has the right to join us. Keeps things nice and clear. We’re essentially a group of friends who happen to be hiring the hall to get together. Instead of subs we’ve all paid for one weeks hall hire each and we’ll work out the rest as we go.

Good for you!

Planner2026 · 26/03/2026 21:03

Time the ‘W’I fell over then, isn’t it.
I hope that a new grass roots organisation for women will rise like a phoenix.

WorriedRelative · 26/03/2026 20:57

Mauvish1 · 26/03/2026 19:48

Yes, our financial credit has been taken over by the NFWI and we cannot access it. Given that some of the moneys were raised for a named charity and hadn't yet been handed over, I think that is extremely dodgy.

The money is apparently ringfenced for up to 3 years (I think) and if another group in our area starts up in that time, they can apply for our funds.

WRT to having a group that isn't under the WI umbrella, we are discussing that. But there are potential issues regarding any subs (to pay for speakers, activities etc, meeting places etc), liability insurance etc etc.

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Please report this.

Please also report them for discrimination on the basis that they seek to exclude people on the basis of a philosophical belief protected under the Equality Act.

senua · 26/03/2026 20:41

the new WI declaration, which would have obliged us to sign that we agreed with the WI upholding the law on being single sex (well yes, obviously!) but also that we agreed that TWAW
I thought that it was decided that GC and GI were both belief systems and therefore nobody should be discriminated against for having either belief. How can they insist that members believe TWAW?

RoyalCorgi · 26/03/2026 20:29

Among the long list of things I don't understand about gender ideology is this: how come the gender extremists managed to infiltrate the WI of all places? I get how, or at least why, they wanted to infiltrate Girl Guides, or the NHS, or the NSPCC, or the big media organisations. But who on earth thought the WI was important enough to infiltrate?

The alternative explanation is that they didn't infiltrate at all, and that the leadership spontaneously decided to embrace the idea that men can be women. What a thought.

JustAnotherWhinger · 26/03/2026 20:23

EmeraldRoulette · 26/03/2026 20:00

So your group are all in agreement

But you are not allowed to set up as officially part of the WI? Have I got that right? Because if you did all agree then I can't see why it would have to be private invitation only - unless it's just that the WI won't let it continue in its current form.

So generally, it sounds like the official position of the WI is that they do not want to be women only.

once again, as with the last 22 years, I wonder what I'm missing.

@Mauvish1 do you think there's someone in the group who passes? Or do you think it's part of a broader mission for the WI?

No we can’t be part of the WI.

We’ve gone with a private friends group and invitation only so that nobody has the right to join us. Keeps things nice and clear. We’re essentially a group of friends who happen to be hiring the hall to get together. Instead of subs we’ve all paid for one weeks hall hire each and we’ll work out the rest as we go.

MelOfTheRoses · 26/03/2026 20:04

BananaPeels · 26/03/2026 18:40

I don’t know much about th WI but if you refused to sign and just met up as a private group and did the same things what would be the difference?

I think I may have said this before, but some time ago, my local wi group disappeared and a new, identical group with a different name appeared in its place. It is identical in every way in the way it organises, with a great range of activities and a waiting list to join, but it is no longer on the federation list.

I have no idea why they did this - there may be many other gripes they have with the organisation. But it seems to be flourishing.

EmeraldRoulette · 26/03/2026 20:00

JustAnotherWhinger · 26/03/2026 17:27

Ours has closed as well. From after Easter a new private gathering every week are hiring a hall that will be by invite only. Still working out the details of it, but absolutely nobody was willing to say we felt like TW should be allowed to join.

So your group are all in agreement

But you are not allowed to set up as officially part of the WI? Have I got that right? Because if you did all agree then I can't see why it would have to be private invitation only - unless it's just that the WI won't let it continue in its current form.

So generally, it sounds like the official position of the WI is that they do not want to be women only.

once again, as with the last 22 years, I wonder what I'm missing.

@Mauvish1 do you think there's someone in the group who passes? Or do you think it's part of a broader mission for the WI?

GeorgeTheFirst · 26/03/2026 19:53

The issue for the WI is that their old policy (the mealy mouthed nonsense "living as a woman") has now quite rightly been declared illegal. But they could have men "LAAW" who they allowed to join, which now can't be allowed. So we all have to sign (just one time I think) to say that we are actual women. I don't really give a shit what support the "be nice" brigade want to offer outside of membership because all the activities arranged are for members only and always have been. And I won't be going on any TWAW bollocks so that's fine. Because TWAM.

TheAutumnCrow · 26/03/2026 19:52

Mauvish1 · 26/03/2026 19:48

Yes, our financial credit has been taken over by the NFWI and we cannot access it. Given that some of the moneys were raised for a named charity and hadn't yet been handed over, I think that is extremely dodgy.

The money is apparently ringfenced for up to 3 years (I think) and if another group in our area starts up in that time, they can apply for our funds.

WRT to having a group that isn't under the WI umbrella, we are discussing that. But there are potential issues regarding any subs (to pay for speakers, activities etc, meeting places etc), liability insurance etc etc.

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Given that WI is a charity (registered educational charity (charity number: 803793 in England & Wales, apparently), I'd feel like reporting the NFWI to the Charity Commission for playing fast and loose with monies raised for other charities at a local level.

See how the NFWI likes them apples.

ETA typo

ForgottenPasswordNewAccount · 26/03/2026 19:48

Create your own group. We broke away from our original women's group and founded our own

Mauvish1 · 26/03/2026 19:48

Yes, our financial credit has been taken over by the NFWI and we cannot access it. Given that some of the moneys were raised for a named charity and hadn't yet been handed over, I think that is extremely dodgy.

The money is apparently ringfenced for up to 3 years (I think) and if another group in our area starts up in that time, they can apply for our funds.

WRT to having a group that isn't under the WI umbrella, we are discussing that. But there are potential issues regarding any subs (to pay for speakers, activities etc, meeting places etc), liability insurance etc etc.

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GeorgeTheFirst · 26/03/2026 19:45

EyesOpening · 26/03/2026 15:43

@Mauvish1 I’m sure I read on another post that someone wrote to head office and got it clarified that the signing is to say that you understand the new policy and confirm you are eligible to be a member i.e. you are a woman (as per the Supreme Court judgment and not that you agree with TWAW.

I am a WI member. This is correct

TheAutumnCrow · 26/03/2026 19:43

now which part of "biology and lived experience" applies to a TW?!

I suppose in Uptonspeak, we are all biological, and alive, and have experiences of that.