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Kellie-Jay Keen (AKA Posie Parker) removed from IWD event by police

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ImTooMessyButImTooClean · 06/03/2026 18:02

https://x.com/theposieparker/status/2029940578528473283?s=46&t=p6GESSn09HWHVXYgTLIbJg

“My removal from the international women’s day event by the police.

I had been asking women’s organisations whether their services were for women only. This caused alarm and distress and the venue, claimed to be privately owned when it’s owned by the council, asked me to leave for asking questions.

I have footage of every interaction that I will upload later so you can see what those questions were and you can judge for yourself.”

Kellie-Jay Keen (@ThePosieParker) on X

My removal from the international women’s day event by the police. I had been asking women’s organisations whether their services were for women only. This caused alarm and distress and the venue, claimed to be privately owned when it’s owned by the...

https://x.com/theposieparker/status/2029940578528473283?s=46&t=p6GESSn09HWHVXYgTLIbJg

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Greyskybluesky · 09/03/2026 14:08

MissScarletInTheBedroom · 09/03/2026 13:59

There's a lot you don't see or, rather, a lot you misunderstand.

Please provide specific, provable, examples of my statement - the one you quoted - being wrong.

I referenced a Jezebel article earlier that called MN "a toxic breeding ground for transphobia" and they are far from alone. That MN has a reputation across the internet is simply a reaction by reasonable people to the unreasonableness of many - not all at all, just many - posters here who are disproportionately noisy in their aggressive stance.
What is a problem is that that taints all of MN and, ironically, makes people less likely to support women's rights.

What is a problem is that that taints all of MN and, ironically, makes people less likely to support women's rights.

Stop talking women! Stop voicing your opinions loudly! People won't like you if you do!

Helleofabore · 09/03/2026 14:08

MaIeficent · 09/03/2026 14:03

Are you not able to answer the question?

What is the relevance of an employment policy issue to do with women being removed from an International Women's Day event for asking questions?

It is an employment policy issue and what is the reason is someone referring to a person as being 'morbidly obese'? Is there a specific reason that person is referring to the person as being morbidly obese?

You are trying to use an irrelevant scenario on a thread about women being removed for asking questions of organisational representatives at an International Women's Day event.

MissScarletInTheBedroom · 09/03/2026 14:07

Helleofabore · 09/03/2026 14:03

Getting back to this question.

Do you believe that female people should have single sex provisions that exclude all male people? Do you believe that it is transphobic to want female people to have those female single sex provisions?

Edited

Loaded framing, so let's fix your question together before we answer:

Do you believe that women should have exclusive provisions that exclude men?
Yes, obviously.

Do you believe that it is transphobic to want women to have those provisions?
No, obviously.

Greyskybluesky · 09/03/2026 14:07

MissScarletInTheBedroom · 09/03/2026 13:59

There's a lot you don't see or, rather, a lot you misunderstand.

Please provide specific, provable, examples of my statement - the one you quoted - being wrong.

I referenced a Jezebel article earlier that called MN "a toxic breeding ground for transphobia" and they are far from alone. That MN has a reputation across the internet is simply a reaction by reasonable people to the unreasonableness of many - not all at all, just many - posters here who are disproportionately noisy in their aggressive stance.
What is a problem is that that taints all of MN and, ironically, makes people less likely to support women's rights.

Okay, I'll play along. Examples of your loaded statements:

"when do you think MN started to be captured by anti-trans ideology"
"So if MN is an organisation that simply swings in whatever direction the wind is blowing, is that why it allows increasingly aggressive and divisive ideologies to flourish on its boards"
"MN is [...] going along with the general rise of the political right-wing"
"very vocal sections of this board are aggressively anti-trans and anti-Green"

Does that help?

Are you new here? Because we really do not care what "reputation" MN has a across the internet!! 😂It's not school!

And the fact you quoted Jezebel as a meaningful source rather proves that you are out of touch.

climbintheback · 09/03/2026 14:06

Ive always been a Terf but now bigot and transphobe are now badges of honour and not slurs that could get you hounded out of the NHS or whatever company were captured by Stonewall you worked for - God it’s so liberating but actually hilarious looking back at how politicians and MSM and sports etc were so captured by this utter utter nonsense! And now we still have work to do as highlighted by kJK on IWD.

MaIeficent · 09/03/2026 14:03

Helleofabore · 09/03/2026 14:01

Again, you are attempting to make two asymmetrical scenarios symmetrical. Your scenario has nothing to do with KJK being removed from this event.

What point are you trying to make in relation to KJK being removed from this event?

Are you not able to answer the question?

Helleofabore · 09/03/2026 14:03

MissScarletInTheBedroom · 09/03/2026 13:49

All women - all of us - have a right to spaces without men. I don't think even you could argue with that point...

Getting back to this question.

Do you believe that female people should have single sex provisions that exclude all male people? Do you believe that it is transphobic to want female people to have those female single sex provisions?

Helleofabore · 09/03/2026 14:01

MaIeficent · 09/03/2026 13:47

But why is it wrong to say "you need to speak to my colleague Karen....she's the morbidly obese one in the corner."? We're told hurty feelz are apparently not a factor when discussing biological reality.

Again, you are attempting to make two asymmetrical scenarios symmetrical. Your scenario has nothing to do with KJK being removed from this event.

What point are you trying to make in relation to KJK being removed from this event?

MissScarletInTheBedroom · 09/03/2026 14:01

PrettyDamnCosmic · 09/03/2026 13:57

He is indeed a male person but by way of variety is a German instead of the usual Yanks or Aussies who come plopping.

I am not male.

And I would ask what is the problem with me being German, but since you also used the term 'Yanks' it is pretty clear your attitude to anyone who is not British is unlikely to be a nice one.

Edited to add: which, right on topic, only highlights the very MN swing to the right that I was talking about earlier!

MissScarletInTheBedroom · 09/03/2026 13:59

Greyskybluesky · 09/03/2026 13:51

More loaded framing.

Do you think we can't see it?

How do you say "loaded framing" in your country?

There's a lot you don't see or, rather, a lot you misunderstand.

Please provide specific, provable, examples of my statement - the one you quoted - being wrong.

I referenced a Jezebel article earlier that called MN "a toxic breeding ground for transphobia" and they are far from alone. That MN has a reputation across the internet is simply a reaction by reasonable people to the unreasonableness of many - not all at all, just many - posters here who are disproportionately noisy in their aggressive stance.
What is a problem is that that taints all of MN and, ironically, makes people less likely to support women's rights.

PrettyDamnCosmic · 09/03/2026 13:57

Helleofabore · 09/03/2026 13:55

I can argue with that point actually.

If by 'all of us', you mean that you believe that some male people are 'women', then no, I don't agree with that premise. Are you a male person who describes themselves as a woman? Is that what you mean by 'us'?

He is indeed a male person but by way of variety is a German instead of the usual Yanks or Aussies who come plopping.

Helleofabore · 09/03/2026 13:55

PrettyDamnCosmic · 09/03/2026 13:53

Why do trans identifying males like you need a space without men? You are men.

Oh... I see. I must have missed quite a few threads.

Helleofabore · 09/03/2026 13:55

MissScarletInTheBedroom · 09/03/2026 13:49

All women - all of us - have a right to spaces without men. I don't think even you could argue with that point...

I can argue with that point actually.

If by 'all of us', you mean that you believe that some male people are 'women', then no, I don't agree with that premise. Are you a male person who describes themselves as a woman? Is that what you mean by 'us'?

PrettyDamnCosmic · 09/03/2026 13:53

MissScarletInTheBedroom · 09/03/2026 13:49

All women - all of us - have a right to spaces without men. I don't think even you could argue with that point...

Why do trans identifying males like you need a space without men? You are men.

Greyskybluesky · 09/03/2026 13:51

MissScarletInTheBedroom · 09/03/2026 13:47

At the start of the 2020s, subscribers would be warned by MN if they dared say ‘but people can’t change sex, so how can men become women?’

Really? I did not know that. So if MN is an organisation that simply swings in whatever direction the wind is blowing, is that why it allows increasingly aggressive and divisive ideologies to flourish on its boards; it's simply tooting on the same horn, as we say in my country, and going along with the general rise of the political right-wing?

Thank you, that really does help to explain a lot of what we're seeing here.

More loaded framing.

Do you think we can't see it?

How do you say "loaded framing" in your country?

MissScarletInTheBedroom · 09/03/2026 13:49

Helleofabore · 09/03/2026 13:47

"On the British parenting website Mumsnet, which has become a toxic breeding ground for transphobia"

So, @MissScarletInTheBedroom , do you believe that female people should have single sex provisions that exclude all male people? Do you believe that it is transphobic to want female people to have those female single sex provisions?

All women - all of us - have a right to spaces without men. I don't think even you could argue with that point...

MaIeficent · 09/03/2026 13:47

Helleofabore · 09/03/2026 04:17

If this is supposed to be a comparable situation, I think your comparative fails on a few aspects.

The women were at an International Women’s Day event, and the people who were asked the questions were there representing their organisations on the day and were asked about their organisation’s policies.

But why is it wrong to say "you need to speak to my colleague Karen....she's the morbidly obese one in the corner."? We're told hurty feelz are apparently not a factor when discussing biological reality.

MissScarletInTheBedroom · 09/03/2026 13:47

Soontobe60 · 09/03/2026 12:22

It hasn’t been captured at all. In fact, it has been released from the shackles imposed on it in former years by those who demanded everyone to believe that people could change sex - Stonewall in the main.
At the start of the 2020s, subscribers would be warned by MN if they dared say ‘but people can’t change sex, so how can men become women?’. Now we are able to be open, honest and factually correct. Why do you see that as a problem?

At the start of the 2020s, subscribers would be warned by MN if they dared say ‘but people can’t change sex, so how can men become women?’

Really? I did not know that. So if MN is an organisation that simply swings in whatever direction the wind is blowing, is that why it allows increasingly aggressive and divisive ideologies to flourish on its boards; it's simply tooting on the same horn, as we say in my country, and going along with the general rise of the political right-wing?

Thank you, that really does help to explain a lot of what we're seeing here.

Helleofabore · 09/03/2026 13:47

"On the British parenting website Mumsnet, which has become a toxic breeding ground for transphobia"

So, @MissScarletInTheBedroom , do you believe that female people should have single sex provisions that exclude all male people? Do you believe that it is transphobic to want female people to have those female single sex provisions?

Greyskybluesky · 09/03/2026 13:37

^ Let's hope it's not in Dublin Zoo!

JanesLittleGirl · 09/03/2026 13:35

This is a picture of a sealion for anyone who doesn't immediately recognise one.

Kellie-Jay Keen (AKA Posie Parker) removed from IWD event by police
Greyskybluesky · 09/03/2026 13:20

MissScarletInTheBedroom · 09/03/2026 11:43

What do you think counts as transphobia, and when do you think MN started to be captured by anti-trans ideology?

Please do answer as I'm genuinely interested. The more engagement the better, regardless of the tone of that engagement.

You are very fond of this loaded framing.

Have you ever heard of "when did you stop beating your wife"? Look it up.

It is not the way to get people to engage with you if you genuinely want that. I suspect you don't.

Gloriia · 09/03/2026 13:13

KnottyAuty · 09/03/2026 12:33

Oh dear - gasp - not polite?!

I suppose she must have staged a piss protest? Smash windows? Screamed & jeered at participants? Physically threatened them? What none of those? Just tricky questions… how ghastly

Yes what on earth did she do that 'wasn't polite'?! Surely there must be footage of this display of impoliteness?

From what I saw she was calm, concise, not remotely sarky as I'd have been. In fact the only impolite thing was calling the police for a woman daring to ask about the provision of women only spaces. The police! What an absolute waste of resources.

KnottyAuty · 09/03/2026 12:45

MissScarletInTheBedroom · 09/03/2026 12:32

I take it you have a problem with freedom of speech and space to allow women to discuss their human rights?

Then you take it incorrectly.

Why do you think that? Please elaborate.

Youve referred to discussions on mumsnet (incorrectly) as transphobic. You have declined to offer a definition of what you consider transphobia to mean. Here on mumsnet we don’t consider the discussion of biological fact and the incursion into Womens human rights by trans identifying males as transphobic. The law agrees with our opinions and increasingly your definition of transphobia (which I assume requires adherence to counter factual claims that humans can be born in the wrong body or can change sex) is in decline. Your interaction with this thread is evidence free and unlikely to convince anyone that your arguments/points have any merit. It seems intended to disrupt a discussion by mumsnet test who are discussing opinions held by the vast majority of the UK population and which are supported in law. Your claim this is transphobia is therefore inaccurate and evoking this “phobia” attempts to shut down our completely legal and reasonable discussion of provable facts. If your intention were not to suppress freedom of speech you wouldn’t be interacting with this thread with (largely) irrelevancies HTH

Are you aware that people (like me) end up reading these threads and (nonsensical) posts like yours end up peaking them? Thank you for your service

KnottyAuty · 09/03/2026 12:33

ItsNotOrwell · 09/03/2026 10:37

Hmm - I saw at least one that wasn’t. I wouldn’t say it called for for her removal from the event, but it was far from polite.

Oh dear - gasp - not polite?!

I suppose she must have staged a piss protest? Smash windows? Screamed & jeered at participants? Physically threatened them? What none of those? Just tricky questions… how ghastly