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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
NotBadConsidering · 27/02/2026 20:26

You say “sex realist” as though that’s a bad thing🤣

And a child of the 70s and 80s wasn’t puberty blocked. So completely irrelevant then.

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 20:24

BonfireLady · 27/02/2026 20:06

@onepostwonder what is a sex realist?

Please could you describe what the term actually means so that I can work out if I am one or not?

Thank you.

"Gender critical" is too mushy. If I google "sex realist" I can understand what I read here.

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 20:22

MrsOvertonsWindow · 27/02/2026 20:09

I'm not going to get involved in you trying to dominate yet another thread with countless posts.
Simply to say that responsible adults are always concerned when children below the age of consent are groomed and gaslit into believing that a sex change will cure their pubertal angst.
There should be no place for trans extremists influencing child health care. Cass has recognised that and despite the issues about the trials, society has finally understood what's been done to vulnerable children and it's finally coming to an end.

As a trans child who was studied and presumably statistically represented in the 70s and 80s studies, I'll waste my time to inform you that trans children are not groomed or gaslit.

No person outside of the medical relationship should influence a child's health care.

Cass was a single report. Several others have different conclusions.

wiffin · 27/02/2026 20:10

PeppyHam · 27/02/2026 13:33

Beowulfa I assure you it's equally incomprehensible to some of us who work in the NHS.

Agreed. The medics i know feel this too.

So much information. So many possible grants. And nobody collected the data or did the studies. Not normal process at all.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 27/02/2026 20:09

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 19:41

It's not helpful for sex realists to involve themselves in someone else's medical treatment and relationships.

I'm not going to get involved in you trying to dominate yet another thread with countless posts.
Simply to say that responsible adults are always concerned when children below the age of consent are groomed and gaslit into believing that a sex change will cure their pubertal angst.
There should be no place for trans extremists influencing child health care. Cass has recognised that and despite the issues about the trials, society has finally understood what's been done to vulnerable children and it's finally coming to an end.

BonfireLady · 27/02/2026 20:06

@onepostwonder what is a sex realist?

Please could you describe what the term actually means so that I can work out if I am one or not?

Thank you.

wiffin · 27/02/2026 20:06

Beowulfa · 27/02/2026 12:55

I work in a top-rated STEM department in a top-rated university. The sustained lack of interest in follow-on data is totally incomprehensible to me. It just couldn't happen in the field I work in.

Agreed. It's disgusting. And just weird, that lack of curiosity or interest in science. Why wouldn't you want to know? How do you know what works and what doesn't if you don't look? It's a pretty fundamental aspect, and they just seem to ignore it.

Massive disservice to the kids. Regardless of what you think about the process, the lack of data collection and the desire to learn is appalling.

NotBadConsidering · 27/02/2026 20:05

We are happy

Prove it.

children going through precocious puberty like I did and my daughter did are denied medical treatment as doctors are now too scared to prescribe puberty delaying treatment

Not true. CPP treatment is not affected.

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onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 19:55

Shortshriftandlethal · 27/02/2026 19:45

Mostly, if at all, only in the shorter term.....before dysphoria or other types of distress shift focus and re-assert themselves; and only as long as other people reinforce the self perception.

People always remain the sex they are - so in that regard nobody is 'trans' other than in the way/manner/style they choose to present.

Sex realists seem to believe there's some heavy lifting requirement for everyone to reinforce a self perception.

Gender is perception. No one has control over how others perceive them.

lcakethereforeIam · 27/02/2026 19:45

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 19:14

We are happy. In recent years, children have clearly been misdiagnosed. Misdiagnosis does not invalidate the diagnosis in others.

Would reports of happy successful outcomes change sex realist beliefs? No. Because "Gender Ideology" was created so sex realists wouldn't be required to acknowledge individual experience. People could be ignored and the big scary straw man attacked instead, just like "Gay Agenda" was in the 80s.

OnepostWanda, are you borg?

Shortshriftandlethal · 27/02/2026 19:45

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 18:58

I can see the sex realists continuing to be disappointed to learn that transition works, from any age. Trans people live happy lives.

Mostly, if at all, only in the shorter term.....before dysphoria or other types of distress shift focus and re-assert themselves; and only as long as other people reinforce the self perception.

People always remain the sex they are - so in that regard nobody is 'trans' other than in the way/manner/style they choose to present.

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 19:43

Shortshriftandlethal · 27/02/2026 19:40

Medicine doesn't normally function to back up people's mental perceptions of themselves; it functions according to rigorous methodology regarding known physical or mental diseases.

Medicine doesn't function to support niche culture war beliefs.

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 19:42

RedToothBrush · 27/02/2026 19:32

Isn't it just.

There are going to be some interesting stories in twenty years time...

It's been happening for longer than twenty years already. Our stories are too inconvenient and normal for sex realists to allow.

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 19:41

MrsOvertonsWindow · 27/02/2026 19:31

This is about children and their safety and wellbeing. It's not helpful for transactivists to repeatedly dismiss safeguarding children in favour of their own self absorbed narratives - although it's very revealing.

It's not helpful for sex realists to involve themselves in someone else's medical treatment and relationships.

Shortshriftandlethal · 27/02/2026 19:40

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 19:14

We are happy. In recent years, children have clearly been misdiagnosed. Misdiagnosis does not invalidate the diagnosis in others.

Would reports of happy successful outcomes change sex realist beliefs? No. Because "Gender Ideology" was created so sex realists wouldn't be required to acknowledge individual experience. People could be ignored and the big scary straw man attacked instead, just like "Gay Agenda" was in the 80s.

Medicine doesn't normally function to back up people's mental perceptions of themselves; it functions according to rigorous methodology regarding known physical or mental diseases.

Shortshriftandlethal · 27/02/2026 19:36

Charliede1182 · 27/02/2026 15:33

Yes, my daughter couldn't get them.

Was she/you demandiing them? Surely, it is normal ( outside of 'gender' medicine) for doctors only to prescribe when they really feel something is necessary. It is not normally patients who tell doctors what it is they ought to be prescribing, surely?

RedToothBrush · 27/02/2026 19:35

The self interested parents will resist it too.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 27/02/2026 19:34

maltravers · 27/02/2026 19:16

I think the clinics will continue to resist, which will effectively kick the new PB trial down the road. Hopefully long enough that trying to change sex falls out of vogue and the consequences to those caught up in taking PBs and cross sec hormones become clearer.

Agreed. There's no doubt that the self interested medics will resist this.

Fortunately the population's views about the way children are being exploited and abused by these medics has hardened and there's considerable appetite for them to finally be held to account.

RedToothBrush · 27/02/2026 19:32

MrsOvertonsWindow · 27/02/2026 19:31

This is about children and their safety and wellbeing. It's not helpful for transactivists to repeatedly dismiss safeguarding children in favour of their own self absorbed narratives - although it's very revealing.

Isn't it just.

There are going to be some interesting stories in twenty years time...

MrsOvertonsWindow · 27/02/2026 19:31

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 19:01

"suppression" was concerns over privacy. No one wants to be publicly hounded by sex realists for merely just living their lives.

This is about children and their safety and wellbeing. It's not helpful for transactivists to repeatedly dismiss safeguarding children in favour of their own self absorbed narratives - although it's very revealing.

RedToothBrush · 27/02/2026 19:29

maltravers · 27/02/2026 19:16

I think the clinics will continue to resist, which will effectively kick the new PB trial down the road. Hopefully long enough that trying to change sex falls out of vogue and the consequences to those caught up in taking PBs and cross sec hormones become clearer.

Agreed. The more resistance to revealing the data the more difficult questions get asked. A failure to disclose will bring more scrutiny and makes it harder to justify a new trial anyway.

maltravers · 27/02/2026 19:16

Iamnotalemming · 27/02/2026 10:31

I am pleased to see this. I always thought it outrageous that this data had been withheld.

Also is this Wes on manouvres to gather enough fig leaves to cover his blushes as he keeps kicking the Pathways Trial down the road (hopefully indefinately).

I think the clinics will continue to resist, which will effectively kick the new PB trial down the road. Hopefully long enough that trying to change sex falls out of vogue and the consequences to those caught up in taking PBs and cross sec hormones become clearer.

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 19:14

lcakethereforeIam · 27/02/2026 13:15

Weirdly, I want them to be happy. They were children, dreadful shit was done to them, the least they deserve is that they've navigated a way through all and found a safe harbour. It would still doesn’t tell us that in an alternative, sane, universe the same kids left to grow up (for want of a better word) normally would not have been just as happy and healthy.

I suspect it'll be a mixed bag. I think a real reluctant to share data is it's going to be a mess. Missing, inconsistent, incoherent and ideologically driven. The children, whose welfare should have been at the heart, will have been an afterthought. Still I suspect some of the institutes got a shit load of grants and those CVs weren't going to pad themselves.

We are happy. In recent years, children have clearly been misdiagnosed. Misdiagnosis does not invalidate the diagnosis in others.

Would reports of happy successful outcomes change sex realist beliefs? No. Because "Gender Ideology" was created so sex realists wouldn't be required to acknowledge individual experience. People could be ignored and the big scary straw man attacked instead, just like "Gay Agenda" was in the 80s.

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 19:10

NotBadConsidering · 27/02/2026 11:59

All the young adults who have transitioned should be queuing up to tell researchers how great their lives are after transitioning as children.

And all the clinics should be proud to advertise how successful it has been with the data that will show exactly how safe and effective child medical transition is.

Why would they possibly want to suppress such positive data I wonder 🤔

Maybe because they prefer to avoid the handful of sex realists who are salivating at the chance to be the first to refer to them as a 'man' or 'woman' for the first time in their lives?