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whatsgoingoninmybrain · 24/02/2026 19:03

Isekaied · 24/02/2026 19:02

There's nothing mentioned about womb donation.

When this happened the woman didn't even know that donation of her womb was a possibility.

Her family agreeing for her isn't enough.

They need to add this to the list on the organ donation register so women can make their own decisions.

Edited

There is nothing separating the womb from any other organ in the body.

You are aware, when consenting to organ donation, that they make take all viable organs, some, or none. You don’t get to dictate what happens after that.

Isekaied · 24/02/2026 19:02

whatsgoingoninmybrain · 24/02/2026 18:17

The donor would have consented to organ donation.

It’s like saying that a heart donor didn’t consent to their heart being abused. You can’t dictate what happens to the organs once you’ve agreed to donate them. You donate on the understanding that they will use whatever viable organs they can, in whichever way they’re needed.

There's nothing mentioned about womb donation.

When this happened the woman didn't even know that donation of her womb was a possibility.

Her family agreeing for her isn't enough.

They need to add this to the list on the organ donation register so women can make their own decisions.

Fearlesssloth · 24/02/2026 18:56

I really don’t get why people have a problem with this. Before I read it I thought it was maybe the dead woman’s egg/embryo and she had a genetic link to the child or something, which I can see a problem with…but this is amazing! If I could provide another woman with the an opportunity to have a child that they wouldn’t have otherwise had, and for my death not to be in vain, I would 100% want that. The woman’s family did a brave and selfless thing when they must’ve been completely grief stricken, I think it’s really admirable. People don’t get all creeped out when it’s a heart or liver transplant. What’s the difference? It’s just because it’s new and radical and people are terrified of progress.

Mumofteentwins · 24/02/2026 18:54

RogueFemale · 24/02/2026 00:49

I think it's horrible. Nobody ever seems to think how the child will feel about it. I'd hate to discover I had Frankenstein-esque origins like this, just awful.

What an awful post.

IwantToRetire · 24/02/2026 18:42

Just to go back to some of the earlier posts which I will summarise in a way I am sure some will say isn't quite right, but here goes.

Some posted saying that it is important for them as a woman to have been pregnant, not just the experience of the pregnancy itself, but how they feel towards the child they have given birth to. (Attachment?) Wasn't sure if somehow the arguement was that to be truely a woman you have to have given birth.

Are these real feelings or just part of the social pressures on how we are told being a woman is.

But I know not all women feel this, so is supporting this is just to have a personal achievement / experience they want in their live? ie using someone else womb for personal gratification.

For instance, if in the near future it was possible to create an artificial womb, and an embryo was created using a partners sperm, would the child then delivered via an artificial womb not be as wanted by the mother (or the father)?

Do men who want children put the same value on their child being born via the woman they are in a relationship with.

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ArabellaScott · 24/02/2026 18:39

Having a child is already described as a human right.

https://www.who.int/tools/your-life-your-health/know-your-rights/rights-across-life-phases---early-and-middle-adulthood/rights-on-having-children

I expect this was meant as 'nobody should stop people from having babies' but it can also read as people having a right to a child. Which is different.

Rights on having children

https://www.who.int/tools/your-life-your-health/know-your-rights/rights-across-life-phases---early-and-middle-adulthood/rights-on-having-children

whatsgoingoninmybrain · 24/02/2026 18:38

CatamaranViper · 24/02/2026 18:36

That's not true. They only use the organs you've not withdrawn consent for, and (at the moment) only a select few organs are available to consent to.

No, you consent to organs and tissue. Or opt out, as it is now.

CatamaranViper · 24/02/2026 18:36

whatsgoingoninmybrain · 24/02/2026 18:17

The donor would have consented to organ donation.

It’s like saying that a heart donor didn’t consent to their heart being abused. You can’t dictate what happens to the organs once you’ve agreed to donate them. You donate on the understanding that they will use whatever viable organs they can, in whichever way they’re needed.

That's not true. They only use the organs you've not withdrawn consent for, and (at the moment) only a select few organs are available to consent to.

Coconutter24 · 24/02/2026 18:31

RogueFemale · 24/02/2026 01:55

Ask a baby who has been born into such grim medical chaos how they feel. I only know being born of two consenting adults, and even then it was an unhappy outcome.

So because you weren’t happy no one else deserves a chance?

Isekaied · 24/02/2026 18:27

whatsgoingoninmybrain · 24/02/2026 10:59

Do you genuinely, actually believe that they’re going to kill women for their wombs?

People are killed foe their kidneys/ lungs and hearts etc.

As the above surgery becomes more mainstream its just another reason for women to get targeted worldwide.

whatsgoingoninmybrain · 24/02/2026 18:18

Isekaied · 24/02/2026 18:17

The women in question did not consent to donating her womb. Her family decided to donate it for her.

The women in question were organ donors, or the families decided to pursue organ donation after death.

whatsgoingoninmybrain · 24/02/2026 18:17

Isekaied · 24/02/2026 18:13

Agree.

It's another way of dehumanising women.

Lots already get pressured/ supported to give up their eggs.

It's just another way of pressurising women to be kind.

The woman who gave up her womb did not consent to this procedure. Her family made that decision for her.

And the doctors just want to be the first so they can have their names in the history books.

Depending on the advances in this field over the next 10 years it'll become a lot clearer what the dangers to women from this procedure are.

The donor would have consented to organ donation.

It’s like saying that a heart donor didn’t consent to their heart being abused. You can’t dictate what happens to the organs once you’ve agreed to donate them. You donate on the understanding that they will use whatever viable organs they can, in whichever way they’re needed.

Isekaied · 24/02/2026 18:17

whatsgoingoninmybrain · 24/02/2026 09:04

We do not have non consensual organ harvesting.

The women in question did not consent to donating her womb. Her family decided to donate it for her.

Hoardasurass · 24/02/2026 18:15

EsperTillus · 24/02/2026 18:07

I’m much less worried about womb transplants than I am about those sperm donation Facebook groups where men (whether genuine well-meaning or breeding fetishists) can donate their untested semen to women who want to get pregnant, and there’s no limit on how many women they can inseminate. That’s going to blow-up in the next few years and you’ll see clusters of children with genetic health conditions popping up in specific areas, and then later on down the line people will be dating their sibling and not realising. That could genuinely be harmful.

Womb-transplants, in which consent has been gained from the donor before death and the pregnancy is managed by consultants and the process is regulated by health agencies, resulting in a much wanted babies who don’t need to go through the trauma of being ripped away from the mum (like they experience in surrogacy) - really isn’t concerning to me in comparison to what I have mentioned above.

It already has in IVF sperm donation 1 man who has a genetic condition that causes cancer has fathered 100s of children all over the UK and EU there were several articles about him just a few months ago. They still haven't changed how sperm banks act or limit how many "donations" a man can make

FlayOtters · 24/02/2026 18:14

Soontobe60 · 24/02/2026 18:08

Its well documented that donor recipients can suffer psychological effects following transplants, therefore it’s safe to assume that babies born either through surrogacy or via uterus transplants might experience the same sort of effects as they grow up.
https://www.kidney.org.uk/looking-to-the-future-the-emotional-impact-following-a-kidney-transplant

I dont think it's safe to say that at all but 🤷🏼‍♀️

Isekaied · 24/02/2026 18:13

OtterlyAstounding · 24/02/2026 08:37

I made it clear that I feel it is different, on an emotional level. That's just how I feel, not a statement of fact or a claim that it is different.

And even leaving the ovaries intact, hysterectomy raises the risk of prolapse, premature menopause, and early dementia (off the top of my head). It is a major operation to go through, with more serious, long-lasting potential effects for the donor than a kidney transplant.

Plus, women are uniquely at risk of being trafficked, coerced, financially pressured, or even just socially pressured - 'you've finished your family, how can you withhold the joy of children from your sister??' - into undertaking this risky operation. Just look at surrogacy and egg donation, and how on a global scale it's resulted in many women being held prisoner, used like breeding animals.

The potential misuses are ethically concerning to me.

Agree.

It's another way of dehumanising women.

Lots already get pressured/ supported to give up their eggs.

It's just another way of pressurising women to be kind.

The woman who gave up her womb did not consent to this procedure. Her family made that decision for her.

And the doctors just want to be the first so they can have their names in the history books.

Depending on the advances in this field over the next 10 years it'll become a lot clearer what the dangers to women from this procedure are.

whatsgoingoninmybrain · 24/02/2026 18:09

Isekaied · 24/02/2026 18:08

This is just 8j the UK.

People can perform less ethical surgeries abroad

That happens now though.

You can go abroad to get less ethical plastic surgery, dental care, or even organ transplants.

Does that mean we shouldn’t advance medical techniques in this country?

EsperTillus · 24/02/2026 18:09

IwantToRetire · 24/02/2026 18:06

Well neither do they really for a vagina.

I just see it as another objective men would want to have, to be able to (falsely) assert they really are female.

And given that there are some in the medicial profession who would happily, if paid enough try and find a way to achieve this, who knows.

!

Womb-transplants I think could be really positive and empowering for women but I deffo see concerns that the TWAW brigade will want to get their hands on wombs which could ruin it for the rest of us.

I’d give consent for my womb to be transplanted after death - but if there was a possibility it could be used on a trans woman, I’d change my mind.

Isekaied · 24/02/2026 18:08

whatsgoingoninmybrain · 24/02/2026 08:16

As far as I can tell it hasn’t been attempted yet. The charities have only been given legally binding permission to do it on women, and they have stated they cannot and will not be taking part in this type of procedure for the “foreseeable future”

https://wombtransplantuk.org/fact-sheet/the-potential-for-operations-for-transgender-women

Some of the recipients of donated wombs will have been born without a functioning womb and others will have lost their womb as a result of serious medical conditions including endometriosis and cancer.
These two approved series of operations, which follow over 25 years of ethically approved and exhaustive clinical research, must be completed and then carefully evaluated, and peer reviewed, strictly in line with the provisions of our permissions.
The UK Womb Transplant Research Team is fully aware and respectful of the 2010 Gender Equality Act that mandates equal care for transgender women, assuming technical feasibility. However it is abundantly clear from all recent experience and research that technical feasibility for a safe and successful operation for a transgender female, together with the possibility of sustaining a successful pregnancy, does not currently exist and that many years of detailed medical research will be required before this might become a viable and safe option.

This is just 8j the UK.

People can perform less ethical surgeries abroad

Soontobe60 · 24/02/2026 18:08

FlayOtters · 24/02/2026 01:13

fascinating, why would you care? Would you feel the same if your mother had received a blood transfusion while pregnant with you? how about a new kidney?

Its well documented that donor recipients can suffer psychological effects following transplants, therefore it’s safe to assume that babies born either through surrogacy or via uterus transplants might experience the same sort of effects as they grow up.
https://www.kidney.org.uk/looking-to-the-future-the-emotional-impact-following-a-kidney-transplant

Looking to The Future: The Emotional Impact Following a Kidney Transplant

If you would like to discuss your kidney diagnosis with our trained members of staff, ring our free-to-call number. The NKF Helpline is available Monday to Thursday 08:30 am - 5:00 pm Friday 8.30 am – 12.30 pm on 0800 169 09 36 or email&nbsp...

https://www.kidney.org.uk/looking-to-the-future-the-emotional-impact-following-a-kidney-transplant

EsperTillus · 24/02/2026 18:07

I’m much less worried about womb transplants than I am about those sperm donation Facebook groups where men (whether genuine well-meaning or breeding fetishists) can donate their untested semen to women who want to get pregnant, and there’s no limit on how many women they can inseminate. That’s going to blow-up in the next few years and you’ll see clusters of children with genetic health conditions popping up in specific areas, and then later on down the line people will be dating their sibling and not realising. That could genuinely be harmful.

Womb-transplants, in which consent has been gained from the donor before death and the pregnancy is managed by consultants and the process is regulated by health agencies, resulting in a much wanted babies who don’t need to go through the trauma of being ripped away from the mum (like they experience in surrogacy) - really isn’t concerning to me in comparison to what I have mentioned above.

IwantToRetire · 24/02/2026 18:06

Cheese55 · 24/02/2026 09:48

I'm not sure the male body has space for a womb...

Well neither do they really for a vagina.

I just see it as another objective men would want to have, to be able to (falsely) assert they really are female.

And given that there are some in the medicial profession who would happily, if paid enough try and find a way to achieve this, who knows.

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whatsgoingoninmybrain · 24/02/2026 18:02

FakeTwix · 24/02/2026 17:59

But it should give us pause to wonder about what the potential future trajectories of this may be.

When things are possible but in short supply - who tends to benefit? Who tends to suffer?

I mean at the moment it’s very much in the research stage.

as research evolves it will become easier, cheaper and faster to do. I would happily sign up to donate my womb. I think a lot of you are panicking for no real reason.

IwantToRetire · 24/02/2026 18:02

Hoardasurass · 24/02/2026 09:16

Thats the most horrific potential future I've heard in a long time.
The thought of children being grown in a lab with no mother (which btw they bond to in untrine) and the harvesting of women's eggs for this nightmare scenario to be used for anyone who wants a baby (remember denighing gay and/or single men would be illegal discrimination) is just so wrong that I can't believe a woman would say this is a good thing, this is insutionlised surrogacy on steroids and should never be allowed to happen.

AS I posted on page 1 of this thread, this is the solution that a well know radical feminist put forward as the solution to women being controlled by the human who has a womb.

And she was a highly regarded activist!

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FakeTwix · 24/02/2026 17:59

whatsgoingoninmybrain · 24/02/2026 17:54

I don’t think anyone has ever said that the supply out strips demand. I think the reason to highlight that number is that this has the potential for so many people to be helped.

But it should give us pause to wonder about what the potential future trajectories of this may be.

When things are possible but in short supply - who tends to benefit? Who tends to suffer?