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Cheese55 · 24/02/2026 09:48

IwantToRetire · 24/02/2026 01:29

Interested to see the response so far, and wonder what others will have to say before I can check back tomorrow (later today)

Have to say I assumed all responses would be about TW begging women for their wombs.

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I'm not sure the male body has space for a womb...

MTOandMe · 24/02/2026 09:47

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nOlives · 24/02/2026 09:47

RogueFemale · 24/02/2026 02:12

"Each womb transplant costs about £30,000 and is fully funded by the charity Womb Transplant UK, including payment to the NHS for theatre time and the patient's stay in a ward." Honestly, I think this is grotesque.

Can't we just accept that, sometimes, women are infertile and can't have a baby?

"Can't we just accept that, sometimes, women are infertile and can't have a baby?"
I think this puts the emphasis in completely the wrong place. Yes, all women are sometimes infertile, but some women are always infertile. It is not merely an inconvenience and they need to be a bit more patient.
It can be the entire personal lifetime of each infertile woman.
I am with the majority here. Someone who was willing to donate their womb when they died has done a great kindness to someone whose womb was not able or available to carry their baby.
So much better than surrogacy.

OrlandointheWilderness · 24/02/2026 09:45

@Oganesson118ah shit. Didn’t spot that 😂 😂

BoudiccaRuled · 24/02/2026 09:44

Ihavelostthegame · 24/02/2026 02:22

Coming no doubt from a fertile woman with kids! You have no fucking idea! Try having a shred of empathy!

This is why it's important to have opinions given from every side of the argument, it's an incredibly emotive subject for many women, as shown by your exclamation marks @Ihavelostthegame Empathy is one thing, costs and ethics are also worthy of consideration. It's not just the mother who is affected.

WarrenTofficier · 24/02/2026 09:44

The wording is ambiguous. He’s already mentioned the 5,000 women born with no womb, so who are these 15,000 women who’d potentially like to have a womb? Are they women who have had to have their wombs removed? If so why not say that.

Presumably women that were born with a womb but have had it removed for medical reasons make up the the 10k difference between the potential beneficiaries of this surgery and the number born without a womb.

Needspaceforlego · 24/02/2026 09:36

Hoardasurass · 24/02/2026 09:16

Thats the most horrific potential future I've heard in a long time.
The thought of children being grown in a lab with no mother (which btw they bond to in untrine) and the harvesting of women's eggs for this nightmare scenario to be used for anyone who wants a baby (remember denighing gay and/or single men would be illegal discrimination) is just so wrong that I can't believe a woman would say this is a good thing, this is insutionlised surrogacy on steroids and should never be allowed to happen.

Its like something out a horror movie.
Children been born in labs.

Then what happens to them?
Fostered out?
There isn't enough foster homes for children who need them.

If you consider the outcome for children raised in care by the state you'd have them removed. I was reading this morning on BBC, schools in England are refusing places to children in care because of their additional needs.

Well thats really going to help break the cycle for these kids and their future children.

The state is shit awful parents and why do we need to worry about falling birth rates?

Young people can't get jobs, 1000s go on to Uni and still can't get jobs. Or they do end up pulling pints in a pub. And that's before you consider the effect of AI on the job market.

House prices are wild. The country has a shortage of housing.

The NHS has more patients than it can provide for.

Why exactly do we need more people?

Oganesson118 · 24/02/2026 09:31

OrlandointheWilderness · 24/02/2026 09:27

It’s just an organ. It’s like any other. I believe strongly in organ donation - if some childless woman who is desperate enough to have children she is willing to put herself through a serious surgery wants my womb if I’m dead then she can have it. I’m very very sure that the doctors performing this know far more about organ donation than I do.

My thoughts exactly but I've just realised which board we are on so don't go expecting a rational response.

OtterlyAstounding · 24/02/2026 09:30

OrlandointheWilderness · 24/02/2026 09:27

It’s just an organ. It’s like any other. I believe strongly in organ donation - if some childless woman who is desperate enough to have children she is willing to put herself through a serious surgery wants my womb if I’m dead then she can have it. I’m very very sure that the doctors performing this know far more about organ donation than I do.

Yes. Because doctors have never done anything ethically questionable to women in the name of science or convenience. /s

If you're in favour of it, that's fine, but don't blindly place your trust in doctors to do the right thing.

OrlandointheWilderness · 24/02/2026 09:27

It’s just an organ. It’s like any other. I believe strongly in organ donation - if some childless woman who is desperate enough to have children she is willing to put herself through a serious surgery wants my womb if I’m dead then she can have it. I’m very very sure that the doctors performing this know far more about organ donation than I do.

Rightsraptor · 24/02/2026 09:21

We need a debate around this. I see it as a philosophical issue, which doesn't mean only high-falutin' trained philosophers need be involved, but rather all of us should be, as there are so many questions to contemplate.

Why do some of us have a strong negative reaction to it, is it 'Frankenstein surgery' & if so, why if (say) corneal implants are not? Do women feel this way more than men? There is, undeniably, an extra element to this that hasn't so far applied to other organ transplants - a human baby. Are there consequences to mother and/or baby as a consequence of immunosuppressant drugs?

Lots of issues to discuss which should in no way detract from any happiness we feel for this couple who would otherwise have been childless. Congratulations to them.

whatsgoingoninmybrain · 24/02/2026 09:18

ArabellaScott · 24/02/2026 09:13

Organ Donation Scotland:

'If you do not register a donation decision, it will be considered that you agree to donate certain organs and tissue for transplantation in the event of your death'

Yes. By not acting, you consent.

Hoardasurass · 24/02/2026 09:16

Friendlygingercat · 24/02/2026 01:14

As a cure for the falling birthrate one day we will have the science to enable babies to be born and nurtured in a lab. This will enable non-fertile women to have children. It will spare those who wish it the pain and horror of childbirth. Individual women will no longer have to incapacitate themselves and go about like a beached whale for nine months more children might be born. A couple will deposit their seed at the birthing center and go back 9 months later to collect their child. Just like picking up the shopping from Asda.

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Thats the most horrific potential future I've heard in a long time.
The thought of children being grown in a lab with no mother (which btw they bond to in untrine) and the harvesting of women's eggs for this nightmare scenario to be used for anyone who wants a baby (remember denighing gay and/or single men would be illegal discrimination) is just so wrong that I can't believe a woman would say this is a good thing, this is insutionlised surrogacy on steroids and should never be allowed to happen.

TigTails · 24/02/2026 09:15

I’m very much in favour of organ donation (though oppose presumed consent) and still don’t know how I feel about this.

ArabellaScott · 24/02/2026 09:13

Organ Donation Scotland:

'If you do not register a donation decision, it will be considered that you agree to donate certain organs and tissue for transplantation in the event of your death'

pariswindow · 24/02/2026 09:12

Prof Smith, who is the clinical lead of Womb Transplant UK, has been quoted as saying:

“Probably, we know 5,000 women in the UK are born with no womb, but we also know there’s probably about 15,000 women of reproductive age who would potentially like to have a womb”

Both the living and deceased programmes have got capacity for expansion,” he said. “We’re constrained mainly by cash.”

The wording is ambiguous. He’s already mentioned the 5,000 women born with no womb, so who are these 15,000 women who’d potentially like to have a womb? Are they women who have had to have their wombs removed? If so why not say that.

Potentially and cash are both doing a lot of heavy lifting here.

I hope other women can be helped to become mothers through this process.

I also have concerns that this beautiful family and their lovely baby are being presented to soften us all up for the next stage, however many years down the line that may be. The wording on the Womb Transplant UK website reads as never say never.

ArabellaScott · 24/02/2026 09:07

Actually this is England, I assume Scotland will want to do better and pass legislation for assumed consent for living donors.

(Edit - this is a joke)

ArabellaScott · 24/02/2026 09:04

whatsgoingoninmybrain · 24/02/2026 09:04

We do not have non consensual organ harvesting.

Consent is assumed.

ArabellaScott · 24/02/2026 09:04

anyolddinosaur · 24/02/2026 09:02

It's likely to be an option only for a very small number of people since many women have their wombs removed later in life due to endometrial cancer, the 4th commonest cancer in women. Not many women are going to want to donate as a living donor unless they can still do this with a post menopausal womb.

I have a few concerns about the ethics with living donors but if my womb was still useful after death they could have it. Some transplants make me feel off and I wouldnt want to receive or donate but not this one.

All.organs and tissue are considered 'donated' unless you specifically opt out.

whatsgoingoninmybrain · 24/02/2026 09:04

ArabellaScott · 24/02/2026 09:01

So we have assisted dying. And we have non consensual organ harvesting.

The issues should be plain to see.

But as with so many issues, we can expect a blizzard of shaming and anger aimed at anyone who questions the Good True and Progressive narrative.

We do not have non consensual organ harvesting.

CautiousLurker2 · 24/02/2026 09:03

viques · 24/02/2026 01:42

Frankly I would rather see women using transplanted wombs to grow their children than see women using surrogate wombs.

It depends on how they are harvesting the wombs - from whom, why they are donating them or even why they are having healthy wombs removed, whether scouting/money is involved to entice poor women to donate them or whether it is upon death of the donor etc?

I foresee this being just as ethically problematic as surrogacy. Having children isn’t a right - and if a person truly, altruistically, wants to parent there are many routes to fostering and adoption.

ArabellaScott · 24/02/2026 09:03

I find it astonishing how the feels can be ao easily used to manipulate people.

We've been told that men buying babies is heartwarming.

anyolddinosaur · 24/02/2026 09:02

It's likely to be an option only for a very small number of people since many women have their wombs removed later in life due to endometrial cancer, the 4th commonest cancer in women. Not many women are going to want to donate as a living donor unless they can still do this with a post menopausal womb.

I have a few concerns about the ethics with living donors but if my womb was still useful after death they could have it. Some transplants make me feel off and I wouldnt want to receive or donate but not this one.

ArabellaScott · 24/02/2026 09:01

So we have assisted dying. And we have non consensual organ harvesting.

The issues should be plain to see.

But as with so many issues, we can expect a blizzard of shaming and anger aimed at anyone who questions the Good True and Progressive narrative.