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whatsgoingoninmybrain · 24/02/2026 10:28

Hoppinggreen · 24/02/2026 10:13

That is not actual death though is it?
People can't always have what they want in life.

But, again, is healthcare only to be limited to things that are absolutely critical?

I can see the argument for not providing it on the NHS, at this point in time. But to suggest it shouldn’t be allowed ever due to this is just odd.

Cheese55 · 24/02/2026 10:27

Hoppinggreen · 24/02/2026 10:13

That is not actual death though is it?
People can't always have what they want in life.

Minimising much? There are surgery's people have all the time to improve their life. This is one

FrothyCothy · 24/02/2026 10:25

Shortshriftandlethal · 24/02/2026 10:17

Men have a larger liver, for a start, but their pelvic cavity is also differently shaped to the female pelvic cavity for the reason that the female pelvic cavity is designed to permit a pregnancy, and then to function as it should in childbirth.

That is why women have a different hip-waist ration to men, and part of the reason that female walk and gait is different to that of the male.

Thank you, I will tell her that later!

Shortshriftandlethal · 24/02/2026 10:17

FrothyCothy · 24/02/2026 10:07

Funny you should say this - my teenage DD asked the other day, what is in the space in a man’s body where a womb, fallopian tubes and ovaries are? Are male organs larger to fill
the space or is everything just floating about with more room around it?!

Men have a larger liver, for a start, but their pelvic cavity is also differently shaped to the female pelvic cavity for the reason that the female pelvic cavity is designed to permit a pregnancy, and then to function as it should in childbirth.

That is why women have a different hip-waist ration to men, and part of the reason that female walk and gait is different to that of the male.

OtterlyAstounding · 24/02/2026 10:17

OrlandointheWilderness · 24/02/2026 10:12

@OtterlyAstounding yes I stand by that! Because they do..!? 😂 I certainly do not know enough about organ donation surgery to make an educated decision on it, but I do put my trust in the doctors. The point I was making is that it isn’t blind trust - it is trust I have given them through my personal experiences. Just as I trust my garage to look after my car, it isn’t blind, it is a recognition that they have the knowledge and experience that I don’t have and while I know there are bad mechanics I also know there are very good mechanics and I prefer to judge mechanics on the ones I have known. Same as Doctors, the ones I have worked with and alongside have generally been clever, talented and lovely people.

Some of them do know more, of course. Not all of them will, though, if that's not an area they come into contact with in their daily practice.

And it's good that you don't have blind faith. A lot of people do have blind faith in doctors, because they think they have to adhere to a Hippocratic Oath, or think that they're somehow morally or ethically more trustworthy than the average person, when really neither of those things is true.

Hoppinggreen · 24/02/2026 10:13

Cheese55 · 24/02/2026 10:10

I'm sure infertile women feel they can't live a full life without a baby in it.

That is not actual death though is it?
People can't always have what they want in life.

whatsgoingoninmybrain · 24/02/2026 10:12

Middlechild3 · 24/02/2026 10:05

Don't be daft, its not a disability, it may be an upset, a tragedy etc but its not a disability, you can live a normal unimpeded life.

So is medical care now restricted to only the worst of the worst?

Shortshriftandlethal · 24/02/2026 10:12

Middlechild3 · 24/02/2026 10:05

Don't be daft, its not a disability, it may be an upset, a tragedy etc but its not a disability, you can live a normal unimpeded life.

Lots of women want a impeded life - if that is what you mean by having children, and the depths of despair they can feel when they are unable to have a child can actual feel like a disability; a lack; a loss; a failure.

OrlandointheWilderness · 24/02/2026 10:12

@OtterlyAstounding yes I stand by that! Because they do..!? 😂 I certainly do not know enough about organ donation surgery to make an educated decision on it, but I do put my trust in the doctors. The point I was making is that it isn’t blind trust - it is trust I have given them through my personal experiences. Just as I trust my garage to look after my car, it isn’t blind, it is a recognition that they have the knowledge and experience that I don’t have and while I know there are bad mechanics I also know there are very good mechanics and I prefer to judge mechanics on the ones I have known. Same as Doctors, the ones I have worked with and alongside have generally been clever, talented and lovely people.

MTOandMe · 24/02/2026 10:12

Hoppinggreen · 24/02/2026 10:05

Nobody dies from not having a baby.
This makes me really uneasy and concerned for the future - women with no womb of ordinary childbearing age doing this is fine but I wonder how it could develop

Do you people actually think about your arguments when you use mind-numbing phrases such as ‘nobody dies from….’. There are countless procedures that are performed, countless times every day, where ‘nobody would die’ if they were not performed. So, what’s your actual point?

Cheese55 · 24/02/2026 10:10

Hoppinggreen · 24/02/2026 10:05

Nobody dies from not having a baby.
This makes me really uneasy and concerned for the future - women with no womb of ordinary childbearing age doing this is fine but I wonder how it could develop

I'm sure infertile women feel they can't live a full life without a baby in it.

FrothyCothy · 24/02/2026 10:10

CautiousLurker2 · 24/02/2026 09:03

It depends on how they are harvesting the wombs - from whom, why they are donating them or even why they are having healthy wombs removed, whether scouting/money is involved to entice poor women to donate them or whether it is upon death of the donor etc?

I foresee this being just as ethically problematic as surrogacy. Having children isn’t a right - and if a person truly, altruistically, wants to parent there are many routes to fostering and adoption.

Adoption isn’t a neutral act either and raises many ethical and moral dilemmas of its own.

FrothyCothy · 24/02/2026 10:07

Cheese55 · 24/02/2026 09:48

I'm not sure the male body has space for a womb...

Funny you should say this - my teenage DD asked the other day, what is in the space in a man’s body where a womb, fallopian tubes and ovaries are? Are male organs larger to fill
the space or is everything just floating about with more room around it?!

Hoppinggreen · 24/02/2026 10:05

Nobody dies from not having a baby.
This makes me really uneasy and concerned for the future - women with no womb of ordinary childbearing age doing this is fine but I wonder how it could develop

Middlechild3 · 24/02/2026 10:05

Shortshriftandlethal · 24/02/2026 10:03

It is if you want children and your body is not functioning in the way it should.

Don't be daft, its not a disability, it may be an upset, a tragedy etc but its not a disability, you can live a normal unimpeded life.

Imnobody4 · 24/02/2026 10:05

This was following a transplant from a live donor in 2023.
UK’s first successful womb transplant – key questions answered https://share.google/bCVxgscXWbetgrRVV

The donated womb is also temporary and has to be removed after pregnancy.
I feel the same as about surrogacy, it's open to exploitation.

Shortshriftandlethal · 24/02/2026 10:03

QuornAgain · 24/02/2026 02:46

Blindness is a disability, childlessness isn't

It is if you want children and your body is not functioning in the way it should.

Middlechild3 · 24/02/2026 10:02

SingAling · 24/02/2026 02:22

I am full of joy for the happy couple.
We have kidney transplants, cochlear implants, so I see this as another way to help people to have fuller lives.

I dunno, on one hand there's maintaining or improving current life but for procreation, opens up loads of ethical issues.

Shortshriftandlethal · 24/02/2026 10:01

Crushed23 · 24/02/2026 02:22

Here’s hoping! I can’t wait for advances in science to relieve women of pregnancy and childbirth (who want it, of course). It’s not just the 9 months, full recovery can take years.

Being pregnant can be a very life affirming and amazing experience....and an obviously very human female experience. So much so that many women do it more than once.....

Sprinklesandsprinkles · 24/02/2026 10:00

I don't see a problem with it at all. She gets to grow her own baby, way more ethical than using a surrogate. Do the people here with an issue have a problem with other transplants too?!

Hoardasurass · 24/02/2026 09:59

deadpan · 24/02/2026 08:14

As this is a sex and gender discussion thread, is anyone going to broach the possibility of this transplant being performed on someone not born female? Well I've broached it now, so someone has.

It will never happen for many reasons but predominantly because men dont have the correct vascular system to connect a womb to so there's no point bringing it up.

To those who say that the dead woman concented to her womb being used in this way, you do realise that you dont have the option to decline to have your womb harvested. I asked about this a couple of years ago when womb transplants became a thing that was possible in the uk. If you dont remove yourself completely from the donor register they can take your womb. So this woman 👩 may have been happy for her heart, lungs or kidney to be harvested but not her womb or not wanting to be an organ donor but hadn't known she needed to be removed from organ donation and they still used her womb.
If womb transplants become the norm then their must be a change in organ donation rules so that you can specify whether they can use your womb in this way or not.

Middlechild3 · 24/02/2026 09:58

IwantToRetire · 24/02/2026 00:40

Commisseration and support for the family of the woman who died, and happy for the new mother.

But feel sort of uneasy about this.

https://news.sky.com/story/simply-a-miracle-baby-boy-born-from-dead-donor-womb-transplant-in-uk-first-13511093

I think it falls into the just because you can doesn't mean you should category. Not everyone is destined to be a parent. Along with having children from a dead partners sperm, its wrong on so many levels.

OtterlyAstounding · 24/02/2026 09:55

OrlandointheWilderness · 24/02/2026 09:49

@OtterlyAstounding Why do you assume I’m blindly placing faith in doctors!? You don’t know me. You know nothing about me or my experiences, you have absolutely no clue if I’m someone who has never been involved in the medical profession or someone with extensive experiences.
For the record I will take my personal experiences as a foundation on doctors rather than the advice of an unknown voice on the internet.

Because you said:

"I’m very very sure that the doctors performing this know far more about organ donation than I do."

Cheese55 · 24/02/2026 09:55

BeMellowAquaSquid · 24/02/2026 08:14

Organ donation always makes me feel queasy but this is amazing and if you’ve agreed to donate your womb at death how wonderful it is to now be part of a new life. I wouldn’t be describing any child as a Frankenstein project either that comment was too bad.

Im sure your quesiness would disappear if you ever need a kidney, heart etc.

OrlandointheWilderness · 24/02/2026 09:49

@OtterlyAstounding Why do you assume I’m blindly placing faith in doctors!? You don’t know me. You know nothing about me or my experiences, you have absolutely no clue if I’m someone who has never been involved in the medical profession or someone with extensive experiences.
For the record I will take my personal experiences as a foundation on doctors rather than the advice of an unknown voice on the internet.

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