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ArabellaScott · 24/02/2026 13:16

whoTFismadelaine · 24/02/2026 13:07

That is why you have the opt out option. I'd sign up for that now if I were you.

Jibes like this are exactly what I was talking about. Why the need to be personal?

Shadyborder · 24/02/2026 13:12

BeeHive909 · 24/02/2026 13:05

I love the fact that the women on these threads waffling rubbish about buying children are always the ones with children and clearly never had an issue conceiving or being told their infertile. This transplant is bloody amazing and grace and her baby are doing so well. It also wasn’t a live donor or paid for on the nhs so people don’t need to worry unless they specially opt for this organ donation when they die. Can’t wait to see more and more done it’s about time things evolved.

What a load of rubbish. How could you possibly know the background of each person here?

nicepotoftea · 24/02/2026 13:11

whoTFismadelaine · 24/02/2026 12:57

Bit different if it literally causes the end of a genetic lineage though. As I say if she has a daughter and they can't have kids or her son has girls who have no womb, how can she know how it will affect them?

Just trying to understand your argument - is your concern that the human race loses the ability to reproduce with out assistance?

Would you therefore oppose any infertility treatment?

SleepingStandingUp · 24/02/2026 13:10

RogueFemale · 24/02/2026 00:49

I think it's horrible. Nobody ever seems to think how the child will feel about it. I'd hate to discover I had Frankenstein-esque origins like this, just awful.

What if your Mom had needed a kidney before she got pregnant with you, or if as a baby you needed an organ transplant?

whoTFismadelaine · 24/02/2026 13:07

ArabellaScott · 24/02/2026 13:06

Do you think they are asking people after they are dead?! Some would say this was a bit late.

That is why you have the opt out option. I'd sign up for that now if I were you.

ArabellaScott · 24/02/2026 13:06

Cheese55 · 24/02/2026 13:02

Where is the shame or coercion when you are dead?

Do you think they are asking people after they are dead?! Some would say this was a bit late.

BeeHive909 · 24/02/2026 13:05

I love the fact that the women on these threads waffling rubbish about buying children are always the ones with children and clearly never had an issue conceiving or being told their infertile. This transplant is bloody amazing and grace and her baby are doing so well. It also wasn’t a live donor or paid for on the nhs so people don’t need to worry unless they specially opt for this organ donation when they die. Can’t wait to see more and more done it’s about time things evolved.

Shortshriftandlethal · 24/02/2026 13:05

FrothyCothy · 24/02/2026 10:25

Thank you, I will tell her that later!

Also, the uterus is just small organ - the size of a pear - which gradually expands as the foetus grows. At full term some of the discomfort a woman can feel is due to the baby in the uterus -squashing and restricting capacity and size of nearby organs - putting pressure on the bladder, for example, or on the stomach.

Cheese55 · 24/02/2026 13:02

ArabellaScott · 24/02/2026 12:58

It shouldnt be assumed everyone knows about the law, but more importantly, it shouldnt be assumed that people consent to organ and tissue donation.

The other very important point is that consent should be respected. There should be absolutrly no shaming or coercion in the choice of whether to donate body parts.

Its a personal choice which should be freely made based on informed consent.

Where is the shame or coercion when you are dead?

ArabellaScott · 24/02/2026 13:00

We can expect the assisted dying Bill to have a similar level of assumed consent and assumptions about the 'majority view' being right and good and proper.

whoTFismadelaine · 24/02/2026 12:59

Many people with distressing genetic conditions decide to adopt or not have children because they understand they have a chance to stop the trauma being passed down. It feels very shortsighted as I said.

ArabellaScott · 24/02/2026 12:59

Cheese55 · 24/02/2026 12:55

The majority disagreed.

Majority of parliament.

OtterlyAstounding · 24/02/2026 12:58

nicepotoftea · 24/02/2026 12:53

You could say that about any genetic condition.

Should women who have a higher risk of developing breast cancer not have children?

Without making judgement either way, I would argue that a condition that literally renders the person unable to reproduce, is a little different to a condition that will kill a person at some point after reproducing.

ArabellaScott · 24/02/2026 12:58

It shouldnt be assumed everyone knows about the law, but more importantly, it shouldnt be assumed that people consent to organ and tissue donation.

The other very important point is that consent should be respected. There should be absolutrly no shaming or coercion in the choice of whether to donate body parts.

Its a personal choice which should be freely made based on informed consent.

whoTFismadelaine · 24/02/2026 12:57

nicepotoftea · 24/02/2026 12:53

You could say that about any genetic condition.

Should women who have a higher risk of developing breast cancer not have children?

Bit different if it literally causes the end of a genetic lineage though. As I say if she has a daughter and they can't have kids or her son has girls who have no womb, how can she know how it will affect them?

Cheese55 · 24/02/2026 12:55

ArabellaScott · 24/02/2026 12:53

It's wrong. The law should never have been changed.

The majority disagreed.

ArabellaScott · 24/02/2026 12:53

It's wrong. The law should never have been changed.

nicepotoftea · 24/02/2026 12:53

whoTFismadelaine · 24/02/2026 12:12

I haven't read every comment but has anyone pointed out that this boy will carry the MRKH gene that made his mother unable to carry children and pass it on? I am uneasy about the implications on ensuring faulty genetics survive.

Edited

You could say that about any genetic condition.

Should women who have a higher risk of developing breast cancer not have children?

whatsgoingoninmybrain · 24/02/2026 12:49

ArabellaScott · 24/02/2026 12:35

Who debated it? When and where?

'It was decided'.

Nobody can consent on behalf of others.

It’s okay that you don’t know the law, but this was well publicised.

Cheese55 · 24/02/2026 12:47

ArabellaScott · 24/02/2026 12:44

"It was decided when it was changed'.

Evidently.

By who knows whom.

Well it's a law, so was debated in parliament.

whoTFismadelaine · 24/02/2026 12:47

whoTFismadelaine · 24/02/2026 12:39

Males can carry it, so although it won't affect this male baby he would potentially pass it on to his children and any female would also presumably have to have a womb transplant?

Reflecting on this point, I do think it is quite selfish. I can't imagine deciding to pass down a genetic fault that could render children and grandchildren infertile through my own choice.

Maybe they are imagining womb transplants will be commonplace in the future but imagine if the NHS isn't around and your grandkids can't afford the same treatments? It feels shortsighted.

ArabellaScott · 24/02/2026 12:44

Cheese55 · 24/02/2026 12:43

When the law changed from only being able to donate with a card to all being able to donate unless they have an opt out card.

"It was decided when it was changed'.

Evidently.

By who knows whom.

Cheese55 · 24/02/2026 12:43

ArabellaScott · 24/02/2026 12:35

Who debated it? When and where?

'It was decided'.

Nobody can consent on behalf of others.

When the law changed from only being able to donate with a card to all being able to donate unless they have an opt out card.

whoTFismadelaine · 24/02/2026 12:39

Needspaceforlego · 24/02/2026 12:27

Now that's something I hadn't thought about.

Mmmm not sure how I feel about that. The gene must be passed down somehow, it didn't come from no where.
Where did the mother get it from?
Is it one of those genes thats pretty rare and you need to inherit 2 dodgy ones to actually inherit the condition?

More questions than answers!

Males can carry it, so although it won't affect this male baby he would potentially pass it on to his children and any female would also presumably have to have a womb transplant?