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“Heated Rivalry” author Rachel Reid on J. K. Rowling - “the bar is pretty high in how evil you have to be,” “ I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes”

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YankSplaining · 23/02/2026 17:20

Well, this is disappointing.

”[Reid] has a keen desire not to disappoint her fans, especially when they’re sending her photos of freshly inked tattoos of her words on their skin. ‘I know of another author that a lot of people got tattoos of but then wanted them gone. Like, J. K. Rowling,’ she says. ‘The bar is pretty high for how evil you have to be, but I don’t want to let a single person down.’ I ask if she’s a TERF. ‘No, I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes,’ she replies.”

Well, too late, she let me down. “Extremely the opposite of everything she believes,” huh? I guess Rachel Reid thinks teenage girls should be forced to undress after PE in front of naked male classmates who gawp as their dicks get hard. Or that female inmates should be locked in cells with male inmates serving time for serial rape.

I don’t expect Reid to agree with Rowling on trans issues. It’s the monstering of Rowling that I take issue with - the “evil,” and the framing of Rowling as so extreme that Reid feels the need to be extremely the opposite of everything she believes.

Edit: title should read “on how evil you have to be”

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onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 15:39

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 08:31

The typical male gaslighting and DARVO. The one with the Ideology is Sex Denialists like yourself. That you think you can speak about or even on behalf of women, as a man, is a joke. But proof of your stubborn, truculent, pushy, forthright male entitlement.

Your isolation and mocking of trans people does not support women. You are servants of men.

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 15:37

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 08:29

We speak on behalf of left wing feminists. You, speak on behalf of conservative Mens Rights Movement supporters who want to remove sex-based rights from women and girls.

You speak on behalf of sex realists. Sex realism is largely backed by US right wing christian conservative men. It is a globally-focused effort to reduce the rights of LGBT people and eventually return culture to align with its core biblical belief that women are subservient to men.

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 15:35

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 08:27

That's your belief.

But it's not true. Poll after poll show the overwhelming majority of women support female only single sex spaces. We, as left wing feminists, are the majority. You, as a male and man, have no idea about what women think, and have no right speaking for women.

This is your belief.

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 15:33

nutmeg7 · 27/02/2026 08:18

It’s not just in the English language that there are separate words for adult male and adult female people.

It is something that exists in all languages because it is such a central core part of being a human being.

We are just mammals, the two sexes are part of our fundamental existence.

You can play about with language games all you like, it doesn’t alter reality.

We are social, beyond other mammals. Our culture does not depend on everyone knowing what gametes everyone else developed to support in intimate detail. We have gender for this, and most people understand that gender is not always aligned with sex. That is being human.

Datun · 27/02/2026 12:47

SinnerBoy · 27/02/2026 10:49

It's not a belief that transw are men, it's an incontrovertible piece of knowledge. Its undisputed, medico-scientific fact. Claims to the contrary are entirely unevidenced and are philosophical, or political positions, based on fantasies and desires, but, most certainly not reality.

As for sex realists all being religious, right wing conservative women...

A) I'm an atheist
B) I'm liberal minded and on the left
C) - can you guess?

Claims to the contrary are entirely unevidenced and are philosophical, or political positions, based on fantasies and desires, but, most certainly not reality.

It's based on boners.

Which is one of the reasons why often repeated remarks are - I can't believe we're even talking about this, it's gob smacking thatwe're even at this stage, this is absolute bollocks, how come it's got so far, the NHS, politicians, schools...🤯

And I know you're a man, sinner, so you may have a bit more insight, but I think for women in general, it's mind blowing.

UtopiaPlanitia · 27/02/2026 12:30

nicepotoftea · 27/02/2026 12:19

Does Harry Potter still dominate fan fiction?

I think that it's the madness of the reaction to Harry Potter - both the book burning and the fans - that was one of the things that led JKR to realise that she needed to be the adult in the room.

I don't know about Potter because it's not a fandom I'm interested in. But from infrequent glances at a few fic communities that I used to lurk in, I've noticed an increase in writing "Our Flag Means Death" fic because it has characters with "explicitly queer identities" - gender still being big in certain sections of fanfic 🤷‍♀️

nicepotoftea · 27/02/2026 12:19

thirdfiddle · 27/02/2026 09:22

Ha, I initially thought that related to the debate too. Had to look the other author up to realise that's the name of her series. Possibly a deliberate play for clicks on part of the journalist.
And to whoever pointed out the audience is mostly female, yeah, we know, it was pointed out early in the thread. It's women who write and read slash fanfiction, rarely a realistic representation of actual gay men.

Does Harry Potter still dominate fan fiction?

I think that it's the madness of the reaction to Harry Potter - both the book burning and the fans - that was one of the things that led JKR to realise that she needed to be the adult in the room.

Ariana12 · 27/02/2026 11:24

thirdfiddle · 27/02/2026 09:22

Ha, I initially thought that related to the debate too. Had to look the other author up to realise that's the name of her series. Possibly a deliberate play for clicks on part of the journalist.
And to whoever pointed out the audience is mostly female, yeah, we know, it was pointed out early in the thread. It's women who write and read slash fanfiction, rarely a realistic representation of actual gay men.

Thank you!! I love MN. There are at least 3 words/ concepts in your post that I hadn't heard of 🤣

EmpressDomesticatednottamed · 27/02/2026 10:52

MyFootHasGoneToSleep · 27/02/2026 10:41

I was at university with too many philosophy undergraduates back in the day. They could talk shit about the meaning of words until you actually had to say, "Fine, Martin, you think water is a concept, and so is cleanliness and the idea of personhood, but it's still your turn to do the sodding washing up."

Can't imagine why I was reminded of that

The irony is that the TRA movement isn't defining terms in context, they are trying to bludgeon women into accepting one definition across all contexts, transwomen are women, no debate etc, which is why I think they are doing post modernism all wrong.
Saying sometimes in life and law sex matters is much closer to doing it properly.

Sometimes definition of terms in different contexts does matter in order to be able to communictae about some sorts of stuff, and sometimes it's scrub your hands before you enter the operating theatre, that's where no debate applies.

SinnerBoy · 27/02/2026 10:49

It's not a belief that transw are men, it's an incontrovertible piece of knowledge. Its undisputed, medico-scientific fact. Claims to the contrary are entirely unevidenced and are philosophical, or political positions, based on fantasies and desires, but, most certainly not reality.

As for sex realists all being religious, right wing conservative women...

A) I'm an atheist
B) I'm liberal minded and on the left
C) - can you guess?

MyFootHasGoneToSleep · 27/02/2026 10:41

I was at university with too many philosophy undergraduates back in the day. They could talk shit about the meaning of words until you actually had to say, "Fine, Martin, you think water is a concept, and so is cleanliness and the idea of personhood, but it's still your turn to do the sodding washing up."

Can't imagine why I was reminded of that

EmpressDomesticatednottamed · 27/02/2026 10:40

The constellation thing is kind of telling given that womens lives are more rooted in cycles and blood, to me it's a lot more earthy and material rather than nebulous and made of imaginary things in the sky.

I also have knocking about in my head something about woman being the default for any man who doesn't fit received ideas of manliness, Ancient Greece I think? Not manly enough, must be a woman, women being just the dumping ground for non-manly men, and as ever it's the men who dump the other men on us without so much as a by your leave.

Helleofabore · 27/02/2026 10:39

I mean though, the implied meaning that ‘a woman is someone who has never penetrated someone else’ is particularly in line with people like Serrano and Lavery.

Helleofabore · 27/02/2026 10:36

Another was

“a constellation of statistically linked attributes - including genotype - that together match a pattern we identify as sex.”

EmpressDomesticatednottamed · 27/02/2026 10:35

Helleofabore · 27/02/2026 10:29

We have already been accused of being aligned or tools for Sovereign Citizens.

I reckon that a lot of these accusations are projections. Because when you think of it, male people who state that they should access a female single sex provision when the law has been clarified is the same mentality as those people who declare that the law of the country / state / region that they are living doesn’t apply to them.

Just like telling women pointing out established science and biology are being told they are ideological and the list goes on.

So much of it is projection. And gaslighting.

This

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 27/02/2026 10:31

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Helleofabore · 27/02/2026 10:31

TheKeatingFive · 27/02/2026 10:29

A 'constellation of data points' eh? But none of those data points being 'a body that developed to produce large gametes''. 🙄

Ffs I am so sick of their utter nonsense. This bullshit needs to be run out of town.

Remember constellations of data points can also be manipulated to produce the result that is wanted.

Helleofabore · 27/02/2026 10:29

Chersfrozenface · 27/02/2026 10:16

I’m not sure what a ‘Freeman on the Land’ is though.

If you have some time to waste, which you won't mind never getting back, do look up this movement.

Basically they argue that they can declare themselves independent of the government and not subject to the rule of law. Their arguments are legally baseless.

Interestingly, sources tell me that the movement appeared in Canada in the early 2000s. Canada, eh? Uh-huh.

We have already been accused of being aligned or tools for Sovereign Citizens.

I reckon that a lot of these accusations are projections. Because when you think of it, male people who state that they should access a female single sex provision when the law has been clarified is the same mentality as those people who declare that the law of the country / state / region that they are living doesn’t apply to them.

Just like telling women pointing out established science and biology are being told they are ideological and the list goes on.

So much of it is projection. And gaslighting.

TheKeatingFive · 27/02/2026 10:29

Helleofabore · 27/02/2026 10:23

It reminds me of some of the classics from the past.

where being a woman is “a constellation of statistically linked elements that together describe something almost intangible and linguistically elusive”

and

"I'm an adult human, and I recognise within myself a constellation of data points that I identify as female”.

There was a poster who told us that we should all follow Ayn Rand’s ideals once too, that all the need for sex segregation would disappear if we acted as if we were already living in that idyll.

A 'constellation of data points' eh? But none of those data points being 'a body that developed to produce large gametes''. 🙄

Ffs I am so sick of their utter nonsense. This bullshit needs to be run out of town.

EmpressDomesticatednottamed · 27/02/2026 10:25

Helleofabore · 27/02/2026 10:23

It reminds me of some of the classics from the past.

where being a woman is “a constellation of statistically linked elements that together describe something almost intangible and linguistically elusive”

and

"I'm an adult human, and I recognise within myself a constellation of data points that I identify as female”.

There was a poster who told us that we should all follow Ayn Rand’s ideals once too, that all the need for sex segregation would disappear if we acted as if we were already living in that idyll.

Aha! Just as I thought, it's all a bloody performance.

I seem to have mislaid my constellation of data points, it's probably lying around backstage somewhere.

Helleofabore · 27/02/2026 10:23

It reminds me of some of the classics from the past.

where being a woman is “a constellation of statistically linked elements that together describe something almost intangible and linguistically elusive”

and

"I'm an adult human, and I recognise within myself a constellation of data points that I identify as female”.

There was a poster who told us that we should all follow Ayn Rand’s ideals once too, that all the need for sex segregation would disappear if we acted as if we were already living in that idyll.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 27/02/2026 10:22

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JustSomeWaferThinHam · 27/02/2026 10:22

Chersfrozenface · 27/02/2026 10:16

I’m not sure what a ‘Freeman on the Land’ is though.

If you have some time to waste, which you won't mind never getting back, do look up this movement.

Basically they argue that they can declare themselves independent of the government and not subject to the rule of law. Their arguments are legally baseless.

Interestingly, sources tell me that the movement appeared in Canada in the early 2000s. Canada, eh? Uh-huh.

Thank you, I’ll have a look later when I’m doing the washing - always good to have a laugh to pass the time

JustSomeWaferThinHam · 27/02/2026 10:21

EmpressDomesticatednottamed · 27/02/2026 10:13

Broadly speaking they believe that they are only bound by laws and contracts that they have consented to, some use it to try and avoid paying council tax etc.

Oh bugger, my irony-o-meter has just exploded, again.

It all gets a bit my dad can fight your dad at times.

Haha brilliant. So we definitely didn’t consent to the GRA 2004 as the Hansard debates show the lies and manipulation deployed to get it through. Ideal.

Chersfrozenface · 27/02/2026 10:16

I’m not sure what a ‘Freeman on the Land’ is though.

If you have some time to waste, which you won't mind never getting back, do look up this movement.

Basically they argue that they can declare themselves independent of the government and not subject to the rule of law. Their arguments are legally baseless.

Interestingly, sources tell me that the movement appeared in Canada in the early 2000s. Canada, eh? Uh-huh.

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