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“Heated Rivalry” author Rachel Reid on J. K. Rowling - “the bar is pretty high in how evil you have to be,” “ I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes”

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YankSplaining · 23/02/2026 17:20

Well, this is disappointing.

”[Reid] has a keen desire not to disappoint her fans, especially when they’re sending her photos of freshly inked tattoos of her words on their skin. ‘I know of another author that a lot of people got tattoos of but then wanted them gone. Like, J. K. Rowling,’ she says. ‘The bar is pretty high for how evil you have to be, but I don’t want to let a single person down.’ I ask if she’s a TERF. ‘No, I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes,’ she replies.”

Well, too late, she let me down. “Extremely the opposite of everything she believes,” huh? I guess Rachel Reid thinks teenage girls should be forced to undress after PE in front of naked male classmates who gawp as their dicks get hard. Or that female inmates should be locked in cells with male inmates serving time for serial rape.

I don’t expect Reid to agree with Rowling on trans issues. It’s the monstering of Rowling that I take issue with - the “evil,” and the framing of Rowling as so extreme that Reid feels the need to be extremely the opposite of everything she believes.

Edit: title should read “on how evil you have to be”

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onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 16:13

midgetastic · 27/02/2026 16:12

Yes sex is about reproduction and you can’t change it and it has other biological impacts like physical strength and menopause as well as societal ones which are the gender enforced on women who don’t want it

The other word doesn't exist for sex realists, so luckily we don't need to pay attention to it.

midgetastic · 27/02/2026 16:13

Is that a made up word?

fairy tale land - yeah!

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 16:13

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 27/02/2026 16:11

What’s the word for people who get pregnant when reproducing?

pregnant?

midgetastic · 27/02/2026 16:12

Yes sex is about reproduction and you can’t change it and it has other biological impacts like physical strength and menopause as well as societal ones which are the gender enforced on women who don’t want it

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 16:12

nicepotoftea · 27/02/2026 16:11

No need to change sex (luckily, as that would be impossible) - just claim a gender.

Gender really is a social construct, except 'gender identity' is defined by the individual not society, so can mean anything.

The physiologic sex-based changes trans people undergo are plenty enough to solve gender misalignment.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 27/02/2026 16:11

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 16:11

The rest of the world already knows how unhinged sex realists believe them to be.

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What’s the word for people who get pregnant when reproducing?

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 16:11

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The rest of the world already knows how unhinged sex realists believe them to be.

nicepotoftea · 27/02/2026 16:11

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 16:05

No trans person changes sex to watch people undress. That belief is just as silly as the belief that trans people change sex to take competitive advantage in sport.

The exact same words and phrasings were invented by race realists and homophobes who hated people of colour and gay and lesbian people. The evil people were forcing their beliefs on the normal people.

Sex realism is a tool of conservative men.

No need to change sex (luckily, as that would be impossible) - just claim a gender.

Gender really is a social construct, except 'gender identity' is defined by the individual not society, so can mean anything.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 27/02/2026 16:11

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 16:10

I've lost count at how many times I've typed out that reproduction involves sex and gender is everything else. I've done it once more.

What’s the word for people who get pregnant when reproducing then?

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onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 16:10

nicepotoftea · 27/02/2026 16:07

Is that what the kids tell each other these days?

I didn't know I could get pregnant - I thought sex was just a social construct!

I've lost count at how many times I've typed out that reproduction involves sex and gender is everything else. I've done it once more.

nicepotoftea · 27/02/2026 16:07

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 15:41

Men are social constructs too. Hth.

Is that what the kids tell each other these days?

I didn't know I could get pregnant - I thought sex was just a social construct!

midgetastic · 27/02/2026 16:07

No trans person changes sex therefore they can’t change sex to watch people undress

and there is of course the alternative line that if they get a thrill that proves they are not really transgender/ bit bloody late for that of course for the woman

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 16:05

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No trans person changes sex to watch people undress. That belief is just as silly as the belief that trans people change sex to take competitive advantage in sport.

The exact same words and phrasings were invented by race realists and homophobes who hated people of colour and gay and lesbian people. The evil people were forcing their beliefs on the normal people.

Sex realism is a tool of conservative men.

nicepotoftea · 27/02/2026 16:00

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 15:55

I first suggested the Sovereign Citizen movement when you (I think it was you) started referring to all of the legal fictions that were invented to make my life exist.

No law has changed how other people interact with me. (If you wish to redirect this to cultural changes affected by law, then I would agree yes I have benefitted from the greater support of women in the workplace and also tangibly day to day.. but you're not here to talk about that. You're here to talk about trans people must be subjected to sex realist beliefs).

No law has changed how other people interact with me.

I suspect this is true.

nicepotoftea · 27/02/2026 15:59

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 15:44

The normal men I see throughout my day sure aren't obsessing about my potential gametes as we interact.

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Given that sex discrimination is generally illegal in the UK, there is no reason for anyone to think about your sex except in the specific situations defined in the Equality Act.

However, women spend years of their lives dealing with the consequences of having a female reproductive system - the side effects of contraception, periods, absence of periods, pregnancy, breast feeding, infertility treatment, sex specific medical conditions.

For men there seems to come a time when prostate problems become inevitable but until then there isn't much to think about apart from the act of sex. (To be fair, some men seem to think about that a lot).

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 15:55

Helleofabore · 27/02/2026 10:29

We have already been accused of being aligned or tools for Sovereign Citizens.

I reckon that a lot of these accusations are projections. Because when you think of it, male people who state that they should access a female single sex provision when the law has been clarified is the same mentality as those people who declare that the law of the country / state / region that they are living doesn’t apply to them.

Just like telling women pointing out established science and biology are being told they are ideological and the list goes on.

So much of it is projection. And gaslighting.

I first suggested the Sovereign Citizen movement when you (I think it was you) started referring to all of the legal fictions that were invented to make my life exist.

No law has changed how other people interact with me. (If you wish to redirect this to cultural changes affected by law, then I would agree yes I have benefitted from the greater support of women in the workplace and also tangibly day to day.. but you're not here to talk about that. You're here to talk about trans people must be subjected to sex realist beliefs).

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 27/02/2026 15:46

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BernardBlacksMolluscs · 27/02/2026 15:44

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 15:41

Men are social constructs too. Hth.

😂

are cats social constructs too?

I expect they’re just a constellation of pointy ears and an entitled attitude

nicepotoftea · 27/02/2026 15:44

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 15:37

You speak on behalf of sex realists. Sex realism is largely backed by US right wing christian conservative men. It is a globally-focused effort to reduce the rights of LGBT people and eventually return culture to align with its core biblical belief that women are subservient to men.

Sex realism is largely backed by US right wing christian conservative men

Also farmers.

People who breed guinea pigs.

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 15:44

nicepotoftea · 27/02/2026 09:42

I suppose sexual reproduction is a rather abstract concept for many men.

The normal men I see throughout my day sure aren't obsessing about my potential gametes as we interact.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 27/02/2026 15:41

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onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 15:41

Helleofabore · 27/02/2026 08:41

I do wonder when the fuckwittery about ‘women are social constructs’ will disappear. That it has come so far is absurd.

As if we stripped away all the human social constructs female humans who have past puberty wouldn’t still exist and be recognisable. The only ‘social construct’ about women is when male people try to destabilise the category to force themselves to be included. Or male people wish to exploit us. Too often it is both.

Men are social constructs too. Hth.

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 15:41

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 08:37

Yet it is the sex denialists who are saying UK law does not apply to them and they will invade spaces they legally not allowed in. Quite like the sovereign nutters.

Bad law cannot be enforced. There is no safe and beneficial (to anyone) way to enforce the SC judgement.

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 15:40

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 08:35

Social constructs are man-made and misogynistic. They hold no place in society in 2026. That they all serve men, and not women, should be the hint.

Social constructs exist whether we believe them to be false or not. We are all impacted by them, all the time.