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“Heated Rivalry” author Rachel Reid on J. K. Rowling - “the bar is pretty high in how evil you have to be,” “ I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes”

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YankSplaining · 23/02/2026 17:20

Well, this is disappointing.

”[Reid] has a keen desire not to disappoint her fans, especially when they’re sending her photos of freshly inked tattoos of her words on their skin. ‘I know of another author that a lot of people got tattoos of but then wanted them gone. Like, J. K. Rowling,’ she says. ‘The bar is pretty high for how evil you have to be, but I don’t want to let a single person down.’ I ask if she’s a TERF. ‘No, I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes,’ she replies.”

Well, too late, she let me down. “Extremely the opposite of everything she believes,” huh? I guess Rachel Reid thinks teenage girls should be forced to undress after PE in front of naked male classmates who gawp as their dicks get hard. Or that female inmates should be locked in cells with male inmates serving time for serial rape.

I don’t expect Reid to agree with Rowling on trans issues. It’s the monstering of Rowling that I take issue with - the “evil,” and the framing of Rowling as so extreme that Reid feels the need to be extremely the opposite of everything she believes.

Edit: title should read “on how evil you have to be”

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Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 21:43

JKR's actions here are no different to stereotyping muslims as terrorists because a minuscule number are. Weaponising isolated instances is a manipulative tactic where a rare, atypical, or singular event is highlighted and misrepresented as representative of a general trend, behaviour, or group characteristic. It's a common political strategy particularly used to influence public opinion, justify abusive behaviour, or create fear and stigma.

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 23/02/2026 21:38

YankSplaining · 23/02/2026 17:20

Well, this is disappointing.

”[Reid] has a keen desire not to disappoint her fans, especially when they’re sending her photos of freshly inked tattoos of her words on their skin. ‘I know of another author that a lot of people got tattoos of but then wanted them gone. Like, J. K. Rowling,’ she says. ‘The bar is pretty high for how evil you have to be, but I don’t want to let a single person down.’ I ask if she’s a TERF. ‘No, I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes,’ she replies.”

Well, too late, she let me down. “Extremely the opposite of everything she believes,” huh? I guess Rachel Reid thinks teenage girls should be forced to undress after PE in front of naked male classmates who gawp as their dicks get hard. Or that female inmates should be locked in cells with male inmates serving time for serial rape.

I don’t expect Reid to agree with Rowling on trans issues. It’s the monstering of Rowling that I take issue with - the “evil,” and the framing of Rowling as so extreme that Reid feels the need to be extremely the opposite of everything she believes.

Edit: title should read “on how evil you have to be”

Why the hell are you writing sexual fantasies about children?!

Jesus actual. That is happening nowhere but inside your own head.

Trans kids are a tiny minority, and are given separate places to change at school. Writing paedophilic filth - humiliation fantasies - about children is not activism.

nicepotoftea · 23/02/2026 21:32

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 20:49

In stereotyping trans people as dangerous predators she does.

"In an attempt to demonstrate her understanding of where transgender people are coming from, Rowling even says she too might have considered transitioning had the option been available to her as a teenager. “The allure of escaping womanhood would have been huge, “ she writes. “If I’d found community and sympathy online that I couldn’t find in my immediate environment, I believe I could have been persuaded to turn myself into the son my father had openly said he’d have preferred.”

The belief that gender identity is a phase, a choice, or something that is influenced by other people is a stereotype that minimizes the struggles of anyone who experiences gender dysphoria. Transitioning isn’t easy but Rowling seems to be saying people can choose to transition on a whim simply because they think it’s more convenient to be one gender than another.

In her essay, Rowling goes on to reveal that she is a domestic and sexual abuse survivor and those experiences have made her even more focused on biology, “out of solidarity with the huge numbers of women who have histories like mine, who’ve been slurred as bigots for having concerns around single-sex spaces.”

Referring to the debate around public washrooms in particular, Rowling claims she’s concerned for the safety of cis women and girls. “When you throw open the doors of bathrooms and changing rooms to any man who believes or feels he’s a woman—and, as I’ve said, gender confirmation certificates may now be granted without any need for surgery or hormones—then you open the door to any and all men who wish to come inside.”

Throughout her essay, Rowling talks about how easy it is for a biological man to become a woman in the eyes of the law and how potentially dangerous that could be for cis women. The fear that a large number of transgender women are just men who want to be able to use women-only spaces unchecked is a harmful stereotype that paints trans people as predators instead of just human beings who want to live their lives."

https://inmagazine.ca/2020/06/j-k-rowlings-history-of-transphobia/

In stereotyping trans people as dangerous predators she does

Men. She is talking about men, This is not stereotyping. It is just an unavoidable conclusion if you look at any crime statistics.

The belief that gender identity is a phase, a choice, or something that is influenced by other people is a stereotype that minimizes the struggles of anyone who experiences gender dysphoria. Transitioning isn’t easy but Rowling seems to be saying people can choose to transition on a whim simply because they think it’s more convenient to be one gender than another.

I refer you to the man who wrote an article in the Guardian describing how he is affected by the recent Supreme Court because he likes to wear a dress and use women's toilets when he is in London. Blame him for the assumption that people identify as trans on a whim. Blame Eddie Izzard for talking about 'boy mode' and 'girl mode'.

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/jun/15/trans-australian-uk-britain-tolerance

I also invite you to consider the massive increase in referrals to the Tavistock in the 2000s and the co-morbidities and trauma that were ignored as soon as a children claimed a trans identity. You don't have to listen JK Rowling to be concerned about this. Just read why the clinic was shut down.

“When you throw open the doors of bathrooms and changing rooms to any man who believes or feels he’s a woman—and, as I’ve said, gender confirmation certificates may now be granted without any need for surgery or hormones—then you open the door to any and all men who wish to come inside.”

How is she wrong about this? Why can you not see that she is talking about men?

Throughout her essay, Rowling talks about how easy it is for a biological man to become a woman in the eyes of the law and how potentially dangerous that could be for cis women. The fear that a large number of transgender women are just men who want to be able to use women-only spaces unchecked is a harmful stereotype that paints trans people as predators instead of just human beings who want to live their lives."

No, it paints men as predators.

Again, why is she wrong?

As a trans Australian, I was kicked out of a UK toilet. This is not the open-hearted Britain I remember | Jack Nicholls

I used to be proud of my birthplace for its cosmopolitan tolerance. Visiting now, it feels like stepping back decades

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/jun/15/trans-australian-uk-britain-tolerance

YankSplaining · 23/02/2026 20:56

Chersfrozenface · 23/02/2026 19:18

OP, how about writing to her saying how much you enjoy her work and asking when she'll be writing a novel about a relationship between a man and a transman?

She’d probably do it, and a lot of her fans would probably love it. I wouldn’t be opposed to the concept at its core, but she’d write it in a way where the reader would be asked to accept the transman character as a “real man” and a “gay man,” which, no.

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YankSplaining · 23/02/2026 20:49

AsTreesWalking · 23/02/2026 20:09

I've never heard of her either.
I'm a bit at a loss to understand how a woman married to a man is queer? Also, isn't it a bit appropriative of her to write about gay men? Not much of the essential 'lived experience' eh?

I believe she and her husband are both bisexual. The show’s writer and director is a gay man.

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Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 20:49

nicepotoftea · 23/02/2026 20:43

She hasn't demonised trans people.

If anything India Willoughby has done far more to push back trans rights.

In stereotyping trans people as dangerous predators she does.

"In an attempt to demonstrate her understanding of where transgender people are coming from, Rowling even says she too might have considered transitioning had the option been available to her as a teenager. “The allure of escaping womanhood would have been huge, “ she writes. “If I’d found community and sympathy online that I couldn’t find in my immediate environment, I believe I could have been persuaded to turn myself into the son my father had openly said he’d have preferred.”

The belief that gender identity is a phase, a choice, or something that is influenced by other people is a stereotype that minimizes the struggles of anyone who experiences gender dysphoria. Transitioning isn’t easy but Rowling seems to be saying people can choose to transition on a whim simply because they think it’s more convenient to be one gender than another.

In her essay, Rowling goes on to reveal that she is a domestic and sexual abuse survivor and those experiences have made her even more focused on biology, “out of solidarity with the huge numbers of women who have histories like mine, who’ve been slurred as bigots for having concerns around single-sex spaces.”

Referring to the debate around public washrooms in particular, Rowling claims she’s concerned for the safety of cis women and girls. “When you throw open the doors of bathrooms and changing rooms to any man who believes or feels he’s a woman—and, as I’ve said, gender confirmation certificates may now be granted without any need for surgery or hormones—then you open the door to any and all men who wish to come inside.”

Throughout her essay, Rowling talks about how easy it is for a biological man to become a woman in the eyes of the law and how potentially dangerous that could be for cis women. The fear that a large number of transgender women are just men who want to be able to use women-only spaces unchecked is a harmful stereotype that paints trans people as predators instead of just human beings who want to live their lives."

https://inmagazine.ca/2020/06/j-k-rowlings-history-of-transphobia/

J.K. Rowling's History Of Transphobia - IN Magazine

The world is going through a lot right now. With a global pandemic still in full swing and Black Lives Matter protests happening all over the world every day, J.K. Rowling thought it would be a good time to remind everyone that she’s still transphobic....

https://inmagazine.ca/2020/06/j-k-rowlings-history-of-transphobia

YankSplaining · 23/02/2026 20:48

onepostwonder · 23/02/2026 18:45

A trans man who used to play professional women's hockey plays one of the male characters in Heated Rivalry.

Reid has probably read the Hockey Canada gender expression/gender identity policy and faq, which would support any sized trans woman to play women's hockey. https://cdn.hockeycanada.ca/hockey-canada/Hockey-Programs/Safety/Downloads/gender-expression-and-identity-policy-faq-e.pdf

I didn’t notice and had to look up who. Even having looked it up, I can’t remember Connors, the character, having more than one or two lines. Casting seems like a stunt for “inclusivity” points.

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nicepotoftea · 23/02/2026 20:43

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 20:40

Evil can be a proxy for inhumane & after all its objectively true JK Rowling is responsible for the demonisation of trans people on a mass scale given her following.

She hasn't demonised trans people.

If anything India Willoughby has done far more to push back trans rights.

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 20:40

YankSplaining · 23/02/2026 17:20

Well, this is disappointing.

”[Reid] has a keen desire not to disappoint her fans, especially when they’re sending her photos of freshly inked tattoos of her words on their skin. ‘I know of another author that a lot of people got tattoos of but then wanted them gone. Like, J. K. Rowling,’ she says. ‘The bar is pretty high for how evil you have to be, but I don’t want to let a single person down.’ I ask if she’s a TERF. ‘No, I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes,’ she replies.”

Well, too late, she let me down. “Extremely the opposite of everything she believes,” huh? I guess Rachel Reid thinks teenage girls should be forced to undress after PE in front of naked male classmates who gawp as their dicks get hard. Or that female inmates should be locked in cells with male inmates serving time for serial rape.

I don’t expect Reid to agree with Rowling on trans issues. It’s the monstering of Rowling that I take issue with - the “evil,” and the framing of Rowling as so extreme that Reid feels the need to be extremely the opposite of everything she believes.

Edit: title should read “on how evil you have to be”

Evil can be a proxy for inhumane & after all its objectively true JK Rowling is responsible for the demonisation of trans people on a mass scale given her following.

junipery · 23/02/2026 20:22

In 10 years time everyone will have forgotten this person and they’ll be rebooting the HP films or opening a new theme park and people will still want to interview JKR. But well done for using your 15 minutes to polish your halo and stick the knife in.

AsTreesWalking · 23/02/2026 20:09

I've never heard of her either.
I'm a bit at a loss to understand how a woman married to a man is queer? Also, isn't it a bit appropriative of her to write about gay men? Not much of the essential 'lived experience' eh?

TheFilliesWillRiseAgain · 23/02/2026 19:54

Outside of BBC employees, I don't know anyone who's watched Heated Rivalry.

nicepotoftea · 23/02/2026 19:53

mazedasamarchhare · 23/02/2026 17:43

I agree with Reid on one point she is ‘extremely opposite’ to Rowling;
Rowling is articulate, intelligent, witty, generous, and an extraordinarily talented author.

In particular, JKR really tries to understand a subject before expressing an opinion.

nicepotoftea · 23/02/2026 19:52

Chersfrozenface · 23/02/2026 19:18

OP, how about writing to her saying how much you enjoy her work and asking when she'll be writing a novel about a relationship between a man and a transman?

Honestly I don't think that would be unpopular with her target audience.

ProfessoressaSazzasez · 23/02/2026 19:47

SilenceInside · 23/02/2026 17:31

One of these days one of these interviewers might actually ask these people what exactly and specifically they are referring to when they discuss JKR and what she supposedly believes. Just once would be nice. That’s what I’d ask next - “oh, really, what is it that you are extremely the opposite of?”. But they never ever ask.

It has been asked many times what exactly JKR said or did that was evil & transphobic.

Occasionally someone checks & realises actually: nothing.

Other answers range from “set up a rape crisis centre just so she could exclude TW” and (my personal favourite) “nothing, but she went on writing & tweeting after trans people told her to stop”.

GreenEyesIsBack · 23/02/2026 19:28

A man and a transman on the same hockey team would be even more interesting 🤔

Chersfrozenface · 23/02/2026 19:18

OP, how about writing to her saying how much you enjoy her work and asking when she'll be writing a novel about a relationship between a man and a transman?

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 23/02/2026 19:16

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FranticFrankie · 23/02/2026 19:00

Self-centred virtue signalling woman who I've never heard of.

What the heck does she mean by calling JKR evil? Can these twits hear themselves?
Have these people read what JKR said anyway?
If she is the opposite of everything JKR related then she doesn't believe in philanthropy, biological sex, single sex spaces for women, standing for women's rights!! Handmaid strikes again

Well - if 'evil' is standing up for women and girls then many of us fit that description.

TheKeatingFive · 23/02/2026 18:56

No idea who she is, but very disappointing to come across yet another woman happy to thrown more vulnerable women under the bus to appease male demands.

I suppose the handmaids will always be with us 🙄

Pleasantsort2 · 23/02/2026 18:54

Never heard of her. She sounds tiresome. JK is the Queen.

onepostwonder · 23/02/2026 18:45

YankSplaining · 23/02/2026 18:30

I actually really like “Heated Rivalry.” I watched the TV series about a month and a half ago, and I’ve rewatched it twice since. I finished the first book this weekend, and it left me smiling. I think Reid, while not an exceptional talent like Rowling - not many people are! - is good at what she does, which is write m/m romance. I’m not going to do the thing a lot of Rowling’s former fans have done and pretend an author’s books were never actually good because we have a very serious disagreement about women’s rights.

The truly wild thing here is that Reid, whose books are all hockey-centric, should be acutely aware of the dangers of biological males in women’s sports. We just saw Jack Hughes of the US Olympic hockey team lose teeth while winning a gold medal. Sam Bennett of Team Canada hit him in the face with a hockey stick. Does Reid think that would be acceptable for Sam Bennett to become “Samantha Bennett” and play against women he outweighs by 75 lbs of solid muscle? Does that strike her as fair or safe?

A trans man who used to play professional women's hockey plays one of the male characters in Heated Rivalry.

Reid has probably read the Hockey Canada gender expression/gender identity policy and faq, which would support any sized trans woman to play women's hockey. https://cdn.hockeycanada.ca/hockey-canada/Hockey-Programs/Safety/Downloads/gender-expression-and-identity-policy-faq-e.pdf

https://cdn.hockeycanada.ca/hockey-canada/Hockey-Programs/Safety/Downloads/gender-expression-and-identity-policy-faq-e.pdf

YankSplaining · 23/02/2026 18:30

I actually really like “Heated Rivalry.” I watched the TV series about a month and a half ago, and I’ve rewatched it twice since. I finished the first book this weekend, and it left me smiling. I think Reid, while not an exceptional talent like Rowling - not many people are! - is good at what she does, which is write m/m romance. I’m not going to do the thing a lot of Rowling’s former fans have done and pretend an author’s books were never actually good because we have a very serious disagreement about women’s rights.

The truly wild thing here is that Reid, whose books are all hockey-centric, should be acutely aware of the dangers of biological males in women’s sports. We just saw Jack Hughes of the US Olympic hockey team lose teeth while winning a gold medal. Sam Bennett of Team Canada hit him in the face with a hockey stick. Does Reid think that would be acceptable for Sam Bennett to become “Samantha Bennett” and play against women he outweighs by 75 lbs of solid muscle? Does that strike her as fair or safe?

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terryleather · 23/02/2026 18:27

It's amazing how many folk have been tripping over each other in their rush to condemn JKR over the past few years...but then what's not to like when you can use her fame to bolster your profile and virtue signal at the same time.

It's a win-win for the unimaginative and the tedious.

EvelynBeatrice · 23/02/2026 18:15

What an ignorant idiot. Whatever your views on trans issues, no one can deny the enormous good that JKR has done for charity and others. What has this woman done?!

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