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“Heated Rivalry” author Rachel Reid on J. K. Rowling - “the bar is pretty high in how evil you have to be,” “ I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes”

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YankSplaining · 23/02/2026 17:20

Well, this is disappointing.

”[Reid] has a keen desire not to disappoint her fans, especially when they’re sending her photos of freshly inked tattoos of her words on their skin. ‘I know of another author that a lot of people got tattoos of but then wanted them gone. Like, J. K. Rowling,’ she says. ‘The bar is pretty high for how evil you have to be, but I don’t want to let a single person down.’ I ask if she’s a TERF. ‘No, I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes,’ she replies.”

Well, too late, she let me down. “Extremely the opposite of everything she believes,” huh? I guess Rachel Reid thinks teenage girls should be forced to undress after PE in front of naked male classmates who gawp as their dicks get hard. Or that female inmates should be locked in cells with male inmates serving time for serial rape.

I don’t expect Reid to agree with Rowling on trans issues. It’s the monstering of Rowling that I take issue with - the “evil,” and the framing of Rowling as so extreme that Reid feels the need to be extremely the opposite of everything she believes.

Edit: title should read “on how evil you have to be”

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Helleofabore · 23/02/2026 23:41

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 23:03

Not at all. We have other methods like surveys that indicate whether crimes are being underreported & male violence clearly is.

No Aisha.

We have the data we need. We can look at the female prisoner rate for sex offences and calculate the proportion of female prisoners that equates to OR the % of the female population that equates to. Then we can use the same method for the male people with transgender identities using census data where male people with transgender identities were reported.

That is all that should need to be done. If the % is higher than that for the female population, there is the answer. This has been done. Criminologist experts have done the work already.

As it is, those numbers are somewhat irrelevant because it is not just for safety that male people are excluded from female single sex provisions. There is the need for privacy and dignity as well.

Plus we also have the studies that show that male people have physical advantages over female people even after testosterone has been reduced. So, because no publicly accessible single sex provision can have case by case instant risk assessment of any male above about 8 years old accessing that provision, all male people are excluded.

nicepotoftea · 23/02/2026 23:37

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 22:09

"Male violence' is a false equivalence to trans people. It's the same as saying because lesbians commit a higher rate of domestic violence than straight women, same sex relationships are a danger to women.

And you can't map groups neatly on to each other as you think. Younger, poorer, straight men offend at substantially higher rates than older wealthier gay men. In fact gay men offend at lower rates than gay women.

Muslims are simply an example of using isolated instances to broad brush the entire group.

You seem to be confusing ‘trans people’ and men.

I don’t know how many times it needs to be repeated but the problem is men.

And you can't map groups neatly on to each other as you think. Younger, poorer, straight men offend at substantially higher rates than older wealthier gay men. In fact gay men offend at lower rates than gay women.

It does often come back to this. ‘Don’t be mean to the men’.

Helleofabore · 23/02/2026 23:30

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 22:51

On the contrary, sensationalist news media is often excoriated for such methods. Demonising muslims as terrorists in fact manufactured public consent for the Iraq war.

Actually, this is pretty much equating JK Rowling’s tweets with the reports and the government decisions that led to the Iraq war.

Gosh… isn’t that wildly hypocritical?

Helleofabore · 23/02/2026 23:28

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 22:51

On the contrary, sensationalist news media is often excoriated for such methods. Demonising muslims as terrorists in fact manufactured public consent for the Iraq war.

We are not talking about terrorism accusations. We are talking about male sex crimes and violence.

Your mention of terrorism is using a catastrophising cognitive distortion to try to support your point.

So, can women discuss male sex crimes and violence without being demonised for making male people look bad?

Bertiebiscuit · 23/02/2026 23:24

Whatever next? 😂

Helleofabore · 23/02/2026 23:22

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 23:11

I never said any of that. I said we do know that male violence is a larger problem because of underreporting & that we have ways of confirming its even a much larger problem than incarceration reflects. As such I'm quite comfortable with people bringing attention to this fact. My problem is the inaccurate attempt to map this on groups within the group.

I have to go to work now.

So you have nothing.

You have created a special group of male people and treated them as different based on nothing.

You cannot even admit that the same under reporting is just as likely across all groups. You just regurgitated someone’s very prejudiced interpretation of JK Rowling’s tweets without critical thought and you declared that she should adhere to your personally set very high standard of adding a disclaimer about her statements that no news outlet does to demonise her.

Really, you have nothing to support your claim but emotional reasoning. Ok. Great to know.

Helleofabore · 23/02/2026 23:17

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 23:06

You don't seem to understand how statistics work. A comparison group needs to be verified so just because trans crimes might be higher doesn't mean its at the same or higher rate that male violence.

The fact is, we don't know.

Your point is acruelly irrelevant for making safeguarding policies that exclude all male people above the age of about 8 yrs old from female single sex provisions. That exclusion is needed for privacy as well as safety.

However, if the only reason for exclusion was safety, the only risk that needs to be established is whether a group of male people commit sex and or violent crimes at the same rate or lower than female people. That is not the case. The conviction rates for female people is far lower than for male people with transgender identities.

Also, your argument about low reporting rates applies to BOTH sex categories for sex and violent crimes. Your attempt to make a case that somehow conviction rates are not representative is not relevant because the same can be said about female crimes as well.

There will never be perfect reporting of those crimes, therefore we use the information that we do have. It is a failure of safeguarding to assume that a group of male people do not carry the same risk of committing sex and violent crimes as the general population.

DistanceCall · 23/02/2026 23:15

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 23:06

You don't seem to understand how statistics work. A comparison group needs to be verified so just because trans crimes might be higher doesn't mean its at the same or higher rate that male violence.

The fact is, we don't know.

So what would the reason for rape by men to be underreported and rape by trans women not to be underreported? Rape victims are transphobes?

DistanceCall · 23/02/2026 23:12

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 23:11

I never said any of that. I said we do know that male violence is a larger problem because of underreporting & that we have ways of confirming its even a much larger problem than incarceration reflects. As such I'm quite comfortable with people bringing attention to this fact. My problem is the inaccurate attempt to map this on groups within the group.

I have to go to work now.

Male violence is a problem. Agreed. And trans women are male.

MouseQueen · 23/02/2026 23:12

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 22:24

If you don't understand the concept of lying by omission yet, I can't help you.

Ah, so you agree that transwomen using women's bathrooms without disclosing their true sex is lying (by omission)to women and serves to decieve and unconsentually use them for 'gender validation', and that this is morally and 'objectively'* wrong? Or is that logic only okay when you use it? Don't bother answering, I already know your response. Denial, denial, denial is the pattern amongst you lot.

*(a word you TRAs do not know the meaning of, alongside the term 'bigotry')

DistanceCall · 23/02/2026 23:12

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 23:00

Might be but you have no numbers of which to draw any conclusions. And also given the trans woman population is so small its impossible to draw any meaningful statistical conclusions.

The same way that trans studies are discredited for being too small due to population their size goes for everything else.

According to Government figures, as of February 2024 more than 70 per cent of transgender prisoners in British jails were serving sentences for sex offences and violent crimes.

At least 181 of the 244 transgender inmates, more than 74 per cent, were in jail for crimes including rape, forcing under-age children into having sex, grievous bodily harm and robbery.

And more figures:

Comparisons of official MOJ statistics from March / April 2019:

76 sex offenders out of 129 transwomen = 58.9%

125 sex offenders out of 3812 women in prison = 3.3%

13234 sex offenders out of 78781 men in prison =16.8%

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 23:11

Helleofabore · 23/02/2026 23:06

So, YOU don’t know. Therefore everyone else is wrong and everyone else should STFU about discussing male sexual abuse and violence because it might, what, make male people look bad in general?

Or do you think that most other people have the understanding that there are ‘some’ male people in the world who will sexually abuse and be violent towards women and that they are the exception. Yet even so. ALL male people above about 8 years old should be excluded from female single sex provisions not just based on their risk to commit such crimes but for the needs of those female people using those provisions?

I never said any of that. I said we do know that male violence is a larger problem because of underreporting & that we have ways of confirming its even a much larger problem than incarceration reflects. As such I'm quite comfortable with people bringing attention to this fact. My problem is the inaccurate attempt to map this on groups within the group.

I have to go to work now.

Helleofabore · 23/02/2026 23:06

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 23:01

I don't know either way is the point.

So, YOU don’t know. Therefore everyone else is wrong and everyone else should STFU about discussing male sexual abuse and violence because it might, what, make male people look bad in general?

Or do you think that most other people have the understanding that there are ‘some’ male people in the world who will sexually abuse and be violent towards women and that they are the exception. Yet even so. ALL male people above about 8 years old should be excluded from female single sex provisions not just based on their risk to commit such crimes but for the needs of those female people using those provisions?

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 23:06

callmeLoretta1 · 23/02/2026 23:01

Which means 'trans' crimes are under-reported too. Which makes their tally even worse!

You don't seem to understand how statistics work. A comparison group needs to be verified so just because trans crimes might be higher doesn't mean its at the same or higher rate that male violence.

The fact is, we don't know.

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 23:03

Helleofabore · 23/02/2026 23:01

So to you, any reporting of male sexual abuse and violence is treating those crimes as the norm and not the exception?

So no media outlet or person should discuss male sexual abuse and violence ?

Not at all. We have other methods like surveys that indicate whether crimes are being underreported & male violence clearly is.

Helleofabore · 23/02/2026 23:01

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 22:57

I apply that standard to everyone as many do so your point is irrelevant.

So to you, any reporting of male sexual abuse and violence is treating those crimes as the norm and not the exception?

So no media outlet or person should discuss male sexual abuse and violence ?

callmeLoretta1 · 23/02/2026 23:01

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 22:55

Again prison data isn't reflective of offending. Try & think of it this way: 90% of rapes aren't reported so the prison population isn't reflective of offending. The fact that it isn't makes comparisons of trans women to the non trans population is impossible.

Which means 'trans' crimes are under-reported too. Which makes their tally even worse!

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 23:01

Helleofabore · 23/02/2026 22:58

Why?

Why do you expect that many rapes from any male person is not reported? Do you believe that people are more likely to report male people who have transgender identities? Please show evidence of this.

I don't know either way is the point.

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 23:00

DistanceCall · 23/02/2026 22:57

By that reasoning, if rapes are vastly underreported, the number of rapes by trans women will also be much higher.

Might be but you have no numbers of which to draw any conclusions. And also given the trans woman population is so small its impossible to draw any meaningful statistical conclusions.

The same way that trans studies are discredited for being too small due to population their size goes for everything else.

Helleofabore · 23/02/2026 22:58

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 22:55

Again prison data isn't reflective of offending. Try & think of it this way: 90% of rapes aren't reported so the prison population isn't reflective of offending. The fact that it isn't makes comparisons of trans women to the non trans population is impossible.

Why?

Why do you expect that many rapes from any male person is not reported? Do you believe that people are more likely to report male people who have transgender identities? Please show evidence of this.

callmeLoretta1 · 23/02/2026 22:58

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 22:49

It's a type of lying by omission when 'reporting' isolated instances without the perspective of trends. It's a way of stereotype audience grooming.

That is a weak and flimsy bs excuse. Males commit 98% of sexual offences. And males who identify as trans commit sexual offences 5 times higher. You just don't like that you have no actual solid argument.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 23/02/2026 22:57

Helleofabore · 23/02/2026 22:49

You keep saying that people have to make a disclaimer that male sexual abuse and violence is not ‘the norm’.

Yet it happens everyday and I don’t recall other people or media outlets being expected to do what you are demonising JK Rowling for not doing.

Why should she be expected to add any disclaimer about male sexual abuse and violence to her tweets when no one else is expected to do this?

Facts are uncomfortable. Especially after years when the media colluded in pretending these men's crimes were committed by women, the judiciary insisted that all the trans paedophiles, murderers and sex offenders MUST be called she and the police registered all these male crimes from TIMs as belonging to women.

Suddenly those who've bullied society for so long into accepting these lies are faced with facts and reality. Women won't be bullied into silence any more. The press have upped their game and started to report these crimes more accurately.

The game is up. #nodebate is over. Time to start facing up to the harm that's been done to society and especially to vulnerable children & young people.

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 22:57

Helleofabore · 23/02/2026 22:55

Again, point to any media outlet reporting the news that adds the disclaimer you are demonising her for.

You are placing a standard on women that is far higher than even professional standards. I look forward to you showing the examples of news outlets doing what you are demanding women do if reporting on acts of sexual violence and abuse.

I apply that standard to everyone as many do so your point is irrelevant.

DistanceCall · 23/02/2026 22:57

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 22:55

Again prison data isn't reflective of offending. Try & think of it this way: 90% of rapes aren't reported so the prison population isn't reflective of offending. The fact that it isn't makes comparisons of trans women to the non trans population is impossible.

By that reasoning, if rapes are vastly underreported, the number of rapes by trans women will also be much higher.

Helleofabore · 23/02/2026 22:57

Aisha176 · 23/02/2026 22:51

On the contrary, sensationalist news media is often excoriated for such methods. Demonising muslims as terrorists in fact manufactured public consent for the Iraq war.

Again, show the examples of news outlets making the disclaimers you are demanding of women who are commenting on sexual violence and abuse.