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“Heated Rivalry” author Rachel Reid on J. K. Rowling - “the bar is pretty high in how evil you have to be,” “ I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes”

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YankSplaining · 23/02/2026 17:20

Well, this is disappointing.

”[Reid] has a keen desire not to disappoint her fans, especially when they’re sending her photos of freshly inked tattoos of her words on their skin. ‘I know of another author that a lot of people got tattoos of but then wanted them gone. Like, J. K. Rowling,’ she says. ‘The bar is pretty high for how evil you have to be, but I don’t want to let a single person down.’ I ask if she’s a TERF. ‘No, I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes,’ she replies.”

Well, too late, she let me down. “Extremely the opposite of everything she believes,” huh? I guess Rachel Reid thinks teenage girls should be forced to undress after PE in front of naked male classmates who gawp as their dicks get hard. Or that female inmates should be locked in cells with male inmates serving time for serial rape.

I don’t expect Reid to agree with Rowling on trans issues. It’s the monstering of Rowling that I take issue with - the “evil,” and the framing of Rowling as so extreme that Reid feels the need to be extremely the opposite of everything she believes.

Edit: title should read “on how evil you have to be”

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nicepotoftea · 24/02/2026 19:38

nicepotoftea · 24/02/2026 19:37

We were excluded from manhood by men and included in womanhood by women.

I don't really know what 'manhood' and 'womanhood' are, but you can no more be excluded from being male or female than you can be excluded from having a particular blood type. These are objective classifications.

'male' and 'female' are not clubs that you can join or leave.

nicepotoftea · 24/02/2026 19:37

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 19:34

I don't believe I've ever met a trans woman who demanded to be granted access to anywhere. We were excluded and took the path of least resistance. We were excluded from manhood by men and included in womanhood by women.

We were excluded from manhood by men and included in womanhood by women.

I don't really know what 'manhood' and 'womanhood' are, but you can no more be excluded from being male or female than you can be excluded from having a particular blood type. These are objective classifications.

Greyskybluesky · 24/02/2026 19:35

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 19:34

I don't believe I've ever met a trans woman who demanded to be granted access to anywhere. We were excluded and took the path of least resistance. We were excluded from manhood by men and included in womanhood by women.

All of this is untrue.
All of it.

nicepotoftea · 24/02/2026 19:34

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 19:32

Sex realist beliefs equally isolate trans men from men.

It is not within our gift to isolate any women from men.

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 19:34

EvelynBeatrice · 24/02/2026 19:29

I really don’t understand you. In what way can cats be inclusive of dogs for example in a cat club? Or infants in a club for adolescents?

We have different teams / categories for different purposes. For biological purposes eg toilets and the biological functions that the female human beings conduct there, ( which are not restricted to toileting) we team on a biological basis and have done so for years on safety, privacy and dignity grounds. Whereas if there were to be a team on eg how to arrange long hair, that might be appropriate to organise by gender rather than sex or to include all long haired persons.

But its just silly to think that any one of us can demand and be granted access to every team/ characteristic based on our own wishes without reference to others who have a shared factor that we lack.

I don't believe I've ever met a trans woman who demanded to be granted access to anywhere. We were excluded and took the path of least resistance. We were excluded from manhood by men and included in womanhood by women.

TheKeatingFive · 24/02/2026 19:33

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 19:32

Sex realist beliefs equally isolate trans men from men.

So called trans men are women.

Obviously

nicepotoftea · 24/02/2026 19:33

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 19:01

The video statement is classic othering of an out group to form a wedge to insert the superfluous requirement of consent. Women don’t need anyone’s permission to be women. There is no demand or request to be. Trans women are women. That sex realists are opposed to this doesn’t make it not true.

That sex realists are opposed to this doesn’t make it not true.

It just means that you are taking the word 'women' and using it to mean something that has absolutely nothing to do with the people previously defined as women.

Helleofabore · 24/02/2026 19:33

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 19:22

Sex realist arguments will always form a wedge. They are not inclusive. They are about restricting and defining groups that do not belong.

Safeguarding is based on legitimate discrimination, so yes, laws and policies to protect female people is all about defining groups and excluding those which pose a risk of harm to those female people.

Again, you don’t understand safeguarding principles. And the law and the majority of the UK population is ‘sex realist’ it seems by your approach. I would say the world because that seems likely too.

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 19:32

Helleofabore · 24/02/2026 19:27

Yes. We understand that you don’t understand safeguarding and consent.

You are still attempting to use philosophical belief to support a purely subjective reality. One that is not based on any material reality.

You are right though, whether there is any ‘request’ or not to accept male people as ‘women’ or any demand is irrelevant. It is irrelevant because it can never be.

Using philosophical theories and appeals to ‘culture’ doesn’t make it any more materially real. The UK court system has confirmed that the only meaning of ‘woman’ for access to female single sex provisions is that material reality you are trying so hard to convince us, and maybe yourself, is just as real as your subjective reality.

Sex realist beliefs equally isolate trans men from men.

TheKeatingFive · 24/02/2026 19:30

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 19:22

Sex realist arguments will always form a wedge. They are not inclusive. They are about restricting and defining groups that do not belong.

Oh dear god, what nonsense.

Men cannot be women. There is no means of being a woman beyond biology. We are not entertaining the blatant lying any longer.

EvelynBeatrice · 24/02/2026 19:29

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 19:22

Sex realist arguments will always form a wedge. They are not inclusive. They are about restricting and defining groups that do not belong.

I really don’t understand you. In what way can cats be inclusive of dogs for example in a cat club? Or infants in a club for adolescents?

We have different teams / categories for different purposes. For biological purposes eg toilets and the biological functions that the female human beings conduct there, ( which are not restricted to toileting) we team on a biological basis and have done so for years on safety, privacy and dignity grounds. Whereas if there were to be a team on eg how to arrange long hair, that might be appropriate to organise by gender rather than sex or to include all long haired persons.

But its just silly to think that any one of us can demand and be granted access to every team/ characteristic based on our own wishes without reference to others who have a shared factor that we lack.

Helleofabore · 24/02/2026 19:27

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 19:01

The video statement is classic othering of an out group to form a wedge to insert the superfluous requirement of consent. Women don’t need anyone’s permission to be women. There is no demand or request to be. Trans women are women. That sex realists are opposed to this doesn’t make it not true.

Yes. We understand that you don’t understand safeguarding and consent.

You are still attempting to use philosophical belief to support a purely subjective reality. One that is not based on any material reality.

You are right though, whether there is any ‘request’ or not to accept male people as ‘women’ or any demand is irrelevant. It is irrelevant because it can never be.

Using philosophical theories and appeals to ‘culture’ doesn’t make it any more materially real. The UK court system has confirmed that the only meaning of ‘woman’ for access to female single sex provisions is that material reality you are trying so hard to convince us, and maybe yourself, is just as real as your subjective reality.

Datun · 24/02/2026 19:27

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 19:04

We are allowed to disagree. I am allowed to live my life and you, your's.

Not in women only spaces, you're not.

Greyskybluesky · 24/02/2026 19:25

In some cases, there is nothing wrong with restricting and defining groups.
Female people is one such group.
Male-born people do not belong to it.

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 19:22

TheKeatingFive · 24/02/2026 19:14

Transwomen are men.

There is absolutely zero scientific, objective, verifiable criteria that would make them women.

No sensible conversations can be had when one side continually and knowingly lies about the facts.

Sex realist arguments will always form a wedge. They are not inclusive. They are about restricting and defining groups that do not belong.

EvelynBeatrice · 24/02/2026 19:21

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 18:44

Have you ever met a trans woman? This is a ridiculous stereotype.

To be fair, the stereotypes are more visible to the public whereas the run of the mill are not.

TheKeatingFive · 24/02/2026 19:14

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 19:01

The video statement is classic othering of an out group to form a wedge to insert the superfluous requirement of consent. Women don’t need anyone’s permission to be women. There is no demand or request to be. Trans women are women. That sex realists are opposed to this doesn’t make it not true.

Transwomen are men.

There is absolutely zero scientific, objective, verifiable criteria that would make them women.

No sensible conversations can be had when one side continually and knowingly lies about the facts.

Greyskybluesky · 24/02/2026 19:05

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 19:04

We are allowed to disagree. I am allowed to live my life and you, your's.

I never said otherwise. Get on and live your life. It's "yours".

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 19:04

Greyskybluesky · 24/02/2026 19:02

A twisting of words and meanings.

This is so tedious.

We are allowed to disagree. I am allowed to live my life and you, your's.

Greyskybluesky · 24/02/2026 19:03

And some people question why we needed the SC judgment?

The evidence is right here.

Greyskybluesky · 24/02/2026 19:02

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 18:52

I agree. No man is a woman.

A twisting of words and meanings.

This is so tedious.

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 19:01

Helleofabore · 24/02/2026 15:24

I reckon this is a timely reminder about ‘feminine’ men and consent. You know, the consent that is the foundation to safeguarding.

https://x.com/knownheretic/status/2026070396244832609?s=46

The video statement is classic othering of an out group to form a wedge to insert the superfluous requirement of consent. Women don’t need anyone’s permission to be women. There is no demand or request to be. Trans women are women. That sex realists are opposed to this doesn’t make it not true.

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 18:52

TheKeatingFive · 24/02/2026 18:47

Perhaps, but one that has its basis in biology.

No man can be a cultural/social woman.

I agree. No man is a woman.

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 18:51

nicepotoftea · 24/02/2026 07:45

It is true that the police and courts do not question a claimed gender identity, regardless of when it is claimed. There is no way to distinguish between anyone claiming a trans identity, and that is largely because of campaigning for affirmation only treatment and Self ID.

It is now a completely subjective concept.

I don't speak on behalf of anyone else, but whether someone is trans or not can be very easily distinguished in a majority of circumstances. Distinguishing trans status becomes difficult on the ends of the 'trans spectrum,' if such a thing exists.

TheKeatingFive · 24/02/2026 18:47

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 18:41

In much of the world, female is a bioligical state and woman is a social/cultural/interpersonal state.

Perhaps, but one that has its basis in biology.

No man can be a cultural/social woman.

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