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“Heated Rivalry” author Rachel Reid on J. K. Rowling - “the bar is pretty high in how evil you have to be,” “ I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes”

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YankSplaining · 23/02/2026 17:20

Well, this is disappointing.

”[Reid] has a keen desire not to disappoint her fans, especially when they’re sending her photos of freshly inked tattoos of her words on their skin. ‘I know of another author that a lot of people got tattoos of but then wanted them gone. Like, J. K. Rowling,’ she says. ‘The bar is pretty high for how evil you have to be, but I don’t want to let a single person down.’ I ask if she’s a TERF. ‘No, I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes,’ she replies.”

Well, too late, she let me down. “Extremely the opposite of everything she believes,” huh? I guess Rachel Reid thinks teenage girls should be forced to undress after PE in front of naked male classmates who gawp as their dicks get hard. Or that female inmates should be locked in cells with male inmates serving time for serial rape.

I don’t expect Reid to agree with Rowling on trans issues. It’s the monstering of Rowling that I take issue with - the “evil,” and the framing of Rowling as so extreme that Reid feels the need to be extremely the opposite of everything she believes.

Edit: title should read “on how evil you have to be”

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GermaineBloodyGreer · 24/02/2026 23:29

Reid is yet another heterosexual ‘queer’ woman pandering to other heterosexual ‘queer’ people and their ideologically-driven sensibilities. Her attacking JKR is par for the course and should in no way come as a surprise to anyone.

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 23:28

Greyskybluesky · 24/02/2026 23:28

No, no war. Just a male person imposing himself where he's not wanted and failing to recognise boundaries

this is your belief. ETA: Also, I apologise for forcing my 'thank you' emoji messages into your notifications.

Greyskybluesky · 24/02/2026 23:28

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 23:25

I was merely appreciative for agreeing that men do not belong in women's spaces and that men are not women.

and then apparently a 'thank you' war progressed.

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No, no war. Just a male person imposing himself where he's not wanted and failing to recognise boundaries

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 23:27

Greyskybluesky · 24/02/2026 23:26

Of course there was single sex provision. Women bloody fought for it in so many areas of life!
Unsurprisingly you know nothing about women's history and struggle. Why would you.

Until sex realism, I'd never envisioned a public toilet to be a private exclusive environment.

JellySaurus · 24/02/2026 23:27

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 22:08

Girls were so frightened or socialised of me they grabbed me by the arms and dragged me in before I even started treatment. Boys were so welcoming and inclusive they waited by the nurse's toilet for me to arrive so they could share their inclusivity. There are 1000s of additional experiences that would align on one side of the gender division.

In your dreams.

Greyskybluesky · 24/02/2026 23:26

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 23:23

There was no such thing as mixed sex or single sex provisions back then. Life was very binary. There was no such thing as "trans inclusion" or Pride. Disability was referred to as a slur by most able bodied people.

Of course there was single sex provision. Women bloody fought for it in so many areas of life!
Unsurprisingly you know nothing about women's history and struggle. Why would you.

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 23:25

Greyskybluesky · 24/02/2026 23:23

Thanks Helle

I just wanted to draw attention to the passive agressive behind the scenes oddness 😬

I was merely appreciative for agreeing that men do not belong in women's spaces and that men are not women.

and then apparently a 'thank you' war progressed.

Greyskybluesky · 24/02/2026 23:23

Helleofabore · 24/02/2026 23:17

MN have said that bullying via reaction emojis will be something that they will put a stop to, you just have to report the posts where someone is using emoji reactions to bully you.

Thanks Helle

I just wanted to draw attention to the passive agressive behind the scenes oddness 😬

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 23:23

Datun · 24/02/2026 23:14

Girls were so frightened or socialised of me they grabbed me by the arms and dragged me in before I even started treatment.

Your mum doesn't count.

But even so, you can share the mixed sex toilets with all those 'girls' then, can't you.

You get to be in their toilets, they get to, er, grab you by the arms, we keep you out of ours.

Win/win/win.

There was no such thing as mixed sex or single sex provisions back then. Life was very binary. There was no such thing as "trans inclusion" or Pride. Disability was referred to as a slur by most able bodied people.

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 23:19

Helleofabore · 24/02/2026 22:58

No, but male people who demand that they are women do need to find alternative provisions.

Remarkably male people’s behaviour where they demand that their identity be treated as if it was material reality is what really negatively impacts support for those male people. So, by all means continue to show female people who might have supported you exactly how little you respect any female people who disagree with you. It is very enlightening.

That you reduce my existence to an identity is offensive. I do not identify. I have lived more than 50 years as me. It is the only experience I have; it's the only experience shared by people I know. It's silly to tell me that I require anyone to act in any way around me, or anyone else.

You can believe anything you wish that seems enlightening. Sex realists don't require trans people in the room to do that, they accomplish quite a lot amongst themselves.

Helleofabore · 24/02/2026 23:17

Greyskybluesky · 24/02/2026 23:02

Bit creepy...

MN have said that bullying via reaction emojis will be something that they will put a stop to, you just have to report the posts where someone is using emoji reactions to bully you.

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 23:15

MyAmpleSheep · 24/02/2026 22:56

Are you saying it's entirely coincidental?

No. Not everything requires a 1:1 relationship.

Datun · 24/02/2026 23:14

Girls were so frightened or socialised of me they grabbed me by the arms and dragged me in before I even started treatment.

Your mum doesn't count.

But even so, you can share the mixed sex toilets with all those 'girls' then, can't you.

You get to be in their toilets, they get to, er, grab you by the arms, we keep you out of ours.

Win/win/win.

Greyskybluesky · 24/02/2026 23:02

Bit creepy...

Greyskybluesky · 24/02/2026 22:59

@onepostwonder is really spoiling me with all the "thanks" emojis this evening

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 24/02/2026 22:59

onepostwonder is starting to sound like a 'trans'bot, who's from cloud cuckooland.

Helleofabore · 24/02/2026 22:58

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 22:52

women don't require an alternate solution to womens single sex provisions.

No, but male people who demand that they are women do need to find alternative provisions.

Remarkably male people’s behaviour where they demand that their identity be treated as if it was material reality is what really negatively impacts support for those male people. So, by all means continue to show female people who might have supported you exactly how little you respect any female people who disagree with you. It is very enlightening.

MyAmpleSheep · 24/02/2026 22:56

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 22:41

No. Does everything sex realists understand have to have a 1:1 correlation?

Are you saying it's entirely coincidental?

CassOle · 24/02/2026 22:54

So you and your fellow blokes will stay out then?

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 22:52

Helleofabore · 24/02/2026 22:51

Yes. Male people belong in male single sex provisions. If you reject those male single sex provisions you need to find an alternative solution that is not female single sex.

women don't require an alternate solution to womens single sex provisions.

Helleofabore · 24/02/2026 22:51

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 22:44

We've belonged in single sexed spaces. We continue to belong in single sexed spaces.

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Yes. Male people belong in male single sex provisions. If you reject those male single sex provisions you need to find an alternative solution that is not female single sex.

Greyskybluesky · 24/02/2026 22:48

Greyskybluesky · 24/02/2026 22:44

Women know who are women.

You got that right, buddy! 😆

@onepostwonder No need to "thank" me with an emoji behind the scenes

We women know who women are, and they aren't those born male

Greyskybluesky · 24/02/2026 22:46

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 22:44

We've belonged in single sexed spaces. We continue to belong in single sexed spaces.

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Yes, of course
Male single sex spaces.

CassOle · 24/02/2026 22:44

Liar.

ETA - of course males belong in single-sex spaces for males. They do not belong in single sex spaces for females.

Still trying to use 'realist' as a slur, I see, AKA: Trying to make fetch happen.

Greyskybluesky · 24/02/2026 22:44

Women know who are women.

You got that right, buddy! 😆