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“Heated Rivalry” author Rachel Reid on J. K. Rowling - “the bar is pretty high in how evil you have to be,” “ I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes”

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YankSplaining · 23/02/2026 17:20

Well, this is disappointing.

”[Reid] has a keen desire not to disappoint her fans, especially when they’re sending her photos of freshly inked tattoos of her words on their skin. ‘I know of another author that a lot of people got tattoos of but then wanted them gone. Like, J. K. Rowling,’ she says. ‘The bar is pretty high for how evil you have to be, but I don’t want to let a single person down.’ I ask if she’s a TERF. ‘No, I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes,’ she replies.”

Well, too late, she let me down. “Extremely the opposite of everything she believes,” huh? I guess Rachel Reid thinks teenage girls should be forced to undress after PE in front of naked male classmates who gawp as their dicks get hard. Or that female inmates should be locked in cells with male inmates serving time for serial rape.

I don’t expect Reid to agree with Rowling on trans issues. It’s the monstering of Rowling that I take issue with - the “evil,” and the framing of Rowling as so extreme that Reid feels the need to be extremely the opposite of everything she believes.

Edit: title should read “on how evil you have to be”

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callmeLoretta1 · 25/02/2026 05:21

gototogo · 24/02/2026 07:53

She’s big in Canada and a very niche book market, the programme was made cheaply and she and the makers didn’t expect it to go global. She simply isn’t in the same league as jk Rowling so of course she’s not funding things as people are suggesting. She’s also gay herself. How about just let authors be authors and realise they aren’t always that media savvy, they say things in interviews without thinking it through. Or has lost so many fans for speaking out so much, if she’d just quietly funded projects she believed in and been less radical that would have been easier for you, and the flip side is the hockey writer doesn’t know the ins and outs of the implications of trans people in sports, it’s quite complex especially in team sports with a safety aspect, not even just a faster fairness thing

There is nothing 'complex' about males being stronger and bigger and more dangerous than females on the female.

We know this when we're 10 years old, for goodness sake.

callmeLoretta1 · 25/02/2026 05:18

Aisha176 · 24/02/2026 07:27

Your grasp of white women in western countries gnashing their teeth having any impact on Iranian women is subpar. Outcomes?

Other than manufacturing public consent for war/regime change? NIL

Then white women in western countries won't have any impact on Palestinian women, either. Not that you care, since you haven't said a word about Jewish women, girls and babies being raped and shot and stabbed and dragged through the streets dead by Hamas.

Lets be honest, you don't give a fuck about Gaza or women at all. It's desperate whataboutery by a misogynist who needs to find a way to attack a feminist who puts her money where her mouth is.

OtterlyAstounding · 25/02/2026 05:18

Extremely the opposite of JK? So a terrible, awful, no good person then, who hates charity, children, and women? Weird brag on her part.

Frankly, they seem like poorly written, trashy books anyway, and the TV show leads have zero appeal to me, so it's no skin off my nose to swerve it.

DistanceCall · 25/02/2026 05:17

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 22:34

Slave trade was legal in the UK until it wasn’t. Section 28 was law.

Women know who are women.

Sex realists are in the middle of a transient project to remove trans people from culture. They experienced some luck in being able to insert leadership in critical departments. With the support of religious conservatives, changes in law were won. However, the status of trans people has not changed. The status quo shall prevail eventually.

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I know what makes me a woman, and it's not a feeling.

Do you?

callmeLoretta1 · 25/02/2026 05:14

Aisha176 · 24/02/2026 07:09

We’ve done this. Exactly what part of offence rates not being reflective incarceration rates do you not understand. You're grasping at straws.

What part of incarceration rates per capita of trans do you NOT understand? You are the one grasping at straws to ignore prison data across four (4) different countries. Because it destroys completely any 'argument' you had that a subset of males are less dangerous because they wear a dress, and because "they say so".

callmeLoretta1 · 25/02/2026 05:11

Aisha176 · 24/02/2026 06:50

Ask yourself why Iran? Why not the multitude of other countries that practice human rights violations of women? I noticed she's recently upped the posting on Iran….& here we go again off to war & regime change. How 'coincidental'.

She also talks about Afghanistan and womens suffering under the Taliban.

Is that ok with you? Or do you really, really HATE women and feminists so much?

callmeLoretta1 · 25/02/2026 05:10

Aisha176 · 24/02/2026 06:46

"Could it have something to do with the power difference between male and female people combined with vulnerability in domestic situations? Meaning it is rare that female people attack male partners because female people will rarely overpower that male partner."

It's actually not rare that females attack their male partners in fact the numbers are comparable in studies. The difference is in the severity of violence. But Lesbian partners? There's significantly more severity between them and straight women. Why would that be? I suspect masculine behavioural patterns that more aligns them with male violence. Conversely that gay males are less violent than lesbians might therefore be related to effeminacy.

Cue trans identification?

"Do lesbian women have a greater rate of committing general female on female violence outside of domestic situations?

I'm not aware of studies that show that. From my understanding the studies done are more about intimate partner violence.

"And do lesbians also commit violence at the same rate as the male population in general? By all means, please show those rates.)"

Irrelevant to the point that lesbians are not representative of all women as trans women are not representative of all men.

"You didn't demonstrate anything that was useful to making safeguarding decisions.

I didn't need to as that isn't relevant to the point of false stereotyping by JKR being discussed on this thread.

"The point is also that even if there were sub groups within that segregation characteristic that had a lower rate of risk of committing violence or abuse towards female people, it should not also be up to female people to have to check if the male person accessing a female single sex provision is part of that sub group or not. Hence, ALL people in that segregated characteristic are excluded with no exceptions. ie. all male people above the age of about 8 years old are legitimately excluded."

Irrelevant to the discussion on this thread.

Conversely that gay males are less violent than lesbians might therefore be related to effeminacy.

Then we would see that reflected in the prison stats. Gay males sexually offend nowhere near the transwomen males do.

I didn't need to as that isn't relevant to the point of false stereotyping by JKR

JKR is talking about males as a whole. Males commit 98% of sexual offences (regardless of how they identify). Males are the risk group. You, are the one that is trying to segregate 1% of males, relabel them, and say that makes them no longer a threat.

Irrelevant to the point that lesbians are not representative of all women as trans women are not representative of all men.

Irrelevant to our point that transwomen are men so therefore need to stay out of female only spaces.

Irrelevant to the discussion on this thread.

The discussion of this thread is MALE vs FEMALE. That's it. It's entirely relevant. You're trying to make out a select subsection of males are less of a threat. When not only is that entirely not true, they are more of a threat as data proves, than the other 99%.

Males who sexually assault and rape are not representative of the entire sex, however, we still keep males away from females based on worst case scenario of that minority. And, of course, as you conveniently ignore, for privacy and dignity for females.

callmeLoretta1 · 25/02/2026 05:01

Aisha176 · 24/02/2026 06:18

C'mon, the motivation for usually using 'man in a dress' isn't one of just being accurate. Its crude reductive delivery is specifically designed to ridicule & diminish its subject reducing them to an oversimplified deluded perverse caricature as a tool to avoid psychological, behavioural & cultural associations to women that interestingly don't apply to trans men. Far be from me to be picky about accuracy but it doesn't usually require degradation nor inconsistency in application.

In terms of 'men wearing dresses' as a symbol of woman hood, you sound like you're projecting your own interpretation as that's not a claim being made. Rather the claim is more about common inclinations that by extension influence behavioural patterns that given them legitimacy for entering women's spaces.

That some use clothing as a form of sexual gratification isn't necessarily reflective of the whole but I get how its convenient weaponisation serves the GC movement. As I mentioned upthread, isolated instances have long been exploited to stereotype.

"I’m not against men wearing dresses but I am against them doing so in a mocking or highly sexulised interpretation of womanhood"

Many women enjoy wearing highly sexualised clothing as an extension of their own sexuality & trans women are no different that's why there's a legitimate association. Are you against their preferences too?

I appreciate patriarchy enforcing dress standards has had an influence on women's choices but to assume that's the only reason particularly in modernity is to deny women's capacity for self autonomy….a thing the patriarchy & GC ideology have in common.

Ignoring the ChatGPT word salad, the fact that some males get erections while wearing traditionally womens clothes, and the fact that some males will sexually harass/rape women and girls is enough reason to exclude them from our spaces. We make rules based on worst case scenario and the minority. We don't through our hands up and allow all males in, because 'it's only a minority'.

callmeLoretta1 · 25/02/2026 04:55

Aisha176 · 24/02/2026 04:59

The indisputable evidence is group behavioural association. Most normal functioning people accept the fact associations equal group categorisation hence societies acceptance. Categorisation is a fundamental cognitive process by which humans structure, understand, and simplify the vast complexity of the world. It's the process of identifying similarities and differences, allowing the brain to group objects, people, and ideas into classes.

Are you people ever able to talk like normal human beings and not like you've put a doctoral thesis through ChatGPT? It's more than obvious those are not your own words. Why bother? It impresses no one.

callmeLoretta1 · 25/02/2026 04:52

Aisha176 · 24/02/2026 04:21

But most of all that they claim the identification with 'woman' is what's really the the most triggering issue. I suspect even if they only claimed to identify with women & not be women that would be equally upsetting because of the implication of female group identified behaviours.

My experience with many militant GC adherents is that they are particularly hostile to feminine identified behaviours/presentation because they themselves are gender non conforming. They will often claim their hostility is because these are the product of sexual stereotypes imposed by the patriarchy but I suspect its more of an insecurity complex hence the 'over reaction' to what are mostly organic personal preferences rooted in utero hormonal & genetic influences.

Wow, you must be really off with the fairies. I have never come across a single GC woman who are hostile to feminine identified behaviours/presentation. If it's by males, yeah. Because it's obviously sexist mocking us.

callmeLoretta1 · 25/02/2026 04:50

Aisha176 · 24/02/2026 04:06

And yet they mock trans women as 'men in dresses'. But interestingly don't mock trans men or butch women as performing 'man face'.

Because trans men are female and are not mocking females.
Butch women are still female. You sound homophobic. And it's clear you are all about sexist gender stereotypes of how women should look. Which is what Gender Ideology is all about. Misogynistic sexist gender stereotypes.

ElenOfTheWays · 25/02/2026 03:36

Helleofabore · 24/02/2026 23:17

MN have said that bullying via reaction emojis will be something that they will put a stop to, you just have to report the posts where someone is using emoji reactions to bully you.

Personally, I think they should be public. And bring back the laugh one.

ElenOfTheWays · 25/02/2026 03:33

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 22:44

We've belonged in single sexed spaces. We continue to belong in single sexed spaces.

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Yes. MEN'S single sex spaces. Not women's.

onepostwonder · 25/02/2026 00:33

Datun · 25/02/2026 00:30

Make no mistake. Men will be forcibly removed from women only spaces.

We saw it recently with two men being escorted out by a female bouncer. Whilst threatening the women in the toilet with violence, of course.

I can't remember if they have been arrested or not, for their threats.

Men who refuse to leave women's spaces will have the police called on them, of course.

I suspect it will be happening 100,000s of times a week. Maybe the UK will add a bounty to the effort like some US states, so people can turn it into a career.

Datun · 25/02/2026 00:30

onepostwonder · 25/02/2026 00:26

Truthfully, after the last couple of years, I believe sex realists expect there to be some level of criminal enforcement requirement in the future.

Make no mistake. Men will be forcibly removed from women only spaces.

We saw it recently with two men being escorted out by a female bouncer. Whilst threatening the women in the toilet with violence, of course.

I can't remember if they have been arrested or not, for their threats.

Men who refuse to leave women's spaces will have the police called on them, of course.

onepostwonder · 25/02/2026 00:28

Datun · 25/02/2026 00:26

You've never, ever been in a female single sex place. As soon as you cross the threshold, the atmosphere will change, and you'll never even know it.

This sounds very metaphysical.

Greyskybluesky · 25/02/2026 00:28

onepostwonder · 25/02/2026 00:27

Women don't need to ask permission to be in women's space.

Male born people aren't women.
The end.

TakeTheCuntingQuichePatricia · 25/02/2026 00:27

onepostwonder · 24/02/2026 23:51

There is no philosophy. You have no ability to understand my experience. You are very anti-my experience as it is.

I gather from your posts that you are a transwoman. So you are right, most of us do not understand your experience, as most of us are women. The biological kind, born female.

But by the same token you do not understand our experience. Because you were not born female.

MyAmpleSheep · 25/02/2026 00:27

onepostwonder · 25/02/2026 00:13

I apologise for not paying attention to the sentries stationed at the doorway.

Sentries like this?

“Heated Rivalry” author Rachel Reid on J. K. Rowling - “the bar is pretty high in how evil you have to be,” “ I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes”
onepostwonder · 25/02/2026 00:27

Greyskybluesky · 25/02/2026 00:25

My presence in (and to my understanding, other trans persons presence in) toilets and other single sex spaces was not elevated to the level of international culture war status until recently.

Women have never wanted you there. You just never bothered to ask.

Women don't need to ask permission to be in women's space.

Datun · 25/02/2026 00:26

onepostwonder · 25/02/2026 00:20

There is political, yes. Conceptually I experience misogynistic forces in the world and understand feminist politics behind liberation, embodiment and personhood amongst layers of other power dynamics and group-focused enculturisation.

My presence in (and to my understanding, other trans persons presence in) toilets and other single sex spaces was not elevated to the level of international culture war status until recently. My response referred to the placement of military troops at the doors of public spaces to mediate entry. Presumably they would be good at their jobs and prevent all perceived enemy incursion.

You've never, ever been in a female single sex place. As soon as you cross the threshold, the atmosphere will change, and you'll never even know it.

onepostwonder · 25/02/2026 00:26

Greyskybluesky · 25/02/2026 00:23

Do you think military troops are needed?

Can trans people not be trusted to use the facilities of their born sex?
To obey the law, like other citizens are capable of doing?

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Truthfully, after the last couple of years, I believe sex realists expect there to be some level of criminal enforcement requirement in the future.

Greyskybluesky · 25/02/2026 00:25

My presence in (and to my understanding, other trans persons presence in) toilets and other single sex spaces was not elevated to the level of international culture war status until recently.

Women have never wanted you there. You just never bothered to ask.

Greyskybluesky · 25/02/2026 00:23

Do you think military troops are needed?

Can trans people not be trusted to use the facilities of their born sex?
To obey the law, like other citizens are capable of doing?

onepostwonder · 25/02/2026 00:20

Greyskybluesky · 25/02/2026 00:14

Care to clarify?

There is political, yes. Conceptually I experience misogynistic forces in the world and understand feminist politics behind liberation, embodiment and personhood amongst layers of other power dynamics and group-focused enculturisation.

My presence in (and to my understanding, other trans persons presence in) toilets and other single sex spaces was not elevated to the level of international culture war status until recently. My response referred to the placement of military troops at the doors of public spaces to mediate entry. Presumably they would be good at their jobs and prevent all perceived enemy incursion.

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