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TwoLoonsAndASprout · 21/02/2026 11:00

singthing · 21/02/2026 10:46

I think you have given this much deeper consideration and "gaming out" of scenarios than the entirety of people who signed off on the trial, ever did.

I am also simultaneously wondering if there wasn't a strong element of the opposite of the "speak up" rule/culture in aviation (and ironically medicine) where people had concerns but were too cowed to raise them?

There were whistle blowers a go go at the Tavistock, but they were indeed shut down and shut out.

There are whistle blowers in the US and Canada too; same thing.

Ccrraazzysnakess · 21/02/2026 11:00

It's interesting to note that one of the reason's the MHRA have stepped in is because the researchers at King's blithely blew straight past is it safe/necessary and decided to instead focus on what is the best time to interfere with puberty.

Safe/necessary was assumed from the start when those are the very questions that remain unanswered.

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 21/02/2026 10:53

EnfysPreseli · 21/02/2026 10:49

I agree to an extent, but what seems to be missing is accurate research evidence on diagnosis. For virtually all medical treatments the first step is diagnosis and then treatments are trialled before they are rolled out generally. The diagnostic criteria for gender distress are so woolly and subjective, and the process so easy to manipulate, that it amounts to little more than self-diagnosis (or parental diagnosis).

If through extensive clinical research it was possible to find a way of establishing exactly who the tiny minority of adolescents who can only live without considerable ongoing distress if their body resembles someone of the opposite sex are, then it might be appropriate to look at research trials to look at the most effective early hormonal treatment (including PBs). Maybe there are research projects doing this at the moment, but Pathways is still jumping the gun and risks harming children whose distress is transient, arises from other causes, or could be alleviated in other ways.

Oh I wasn’t even touching on the nebulousness of the diagnostic criteria for gender distress. Just the lack of research-based motivation for stopping puberty as a possible treatment for that nebulous disorder.

The whole thing is a shitshow, basically.

EnfysPreseli · 21/02/2026 10:49

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 21/02/2026 09:11

@Brainworm:

I am not in favour of the Pathways trial, I think it is/ was unethical. My point was that it’s important that research is conducted to inform how best to treat young people with the condition or symptoms of gender distress.

Thank you for that. I agree with you that good research should be conducted.

My point is and has always been that, from a research point of view, there is not, and has never been, a reason to propose that stopping puberty will alleviate gender distress.

We have historical evidence from all over the world about things that do - the most powerful one being, do nothing (ie, the “watchful waiting” approach that was the gold standard before the Dutch got their hands on things).

So why test this drug as a possible mental health treatment? The only reason it was ever given in the first place was to stop little boys from developing secondary sex characteristics so that they would be more convincing as women. Testing its effectiveness by itself for alleviating gender distress just smacks of trying to justify its use without referring to any of that messy gender reassignment surgery stuff.

Anyway, I think we’re on the same page.

I agree to an extent, but what seems to be missing is accurate research evidence on diagnosis. For virtually all medical treatments the first step is diagnosis and then treatments are trialled before they are rolled out generally. The diagnostic criteria for gender distress are so woolly and subjective, and the process so easy to manipulate, that it amounts to little more than self-diagnosis (or parental diagnosis).

If through extensive clinical research it was possible to find a way of establishing exactly who the tiny minority of adolescents who can only live without considerable ongoing distress if their body resembles someone of the opposite sex are, then it might be appropriate to look at research trials to look at the most effective early hormonal treatment (including PBs). Maybe there are research projects doing this at the moment, but Pathways is still jumping the gun and risks harming children whose distress is transient, arises from other causes, or could be alleviated in other ways.

singthing · 21/02/2026 10:46

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 21/02/2026 08:25

I understand you feel that some sort of controlled test is necessary, but in the world of research, you need a valid reason for proposing a particular solution to a problem - otherwise you would be testing “having crushed glass for breakfast” as a means to alleviate gender distress.

Why is it thought that stopping puberty, specifically, will alleviate gender distress?

And furthermore (as I have said on another thread)

What does “alleviation of gender distress” even look like?

(the below is cut and paste from my other post:)

If it looks like some sort of general removal of depression and anxiety, then why would puberty blockers be the drug being tested, when we already have vast reams of research on multiple sorts of anti-depressants? We don’t need a new drug in that particular market, so surely that isn’t what is being tested.

So it must be specifically about gender distress. And there are only two ways (that I can think of) one might think about that being alleviated:
One, “alleviating gender distress” could mean that the child no longer feels uncomfortable in their sexed body, that they no longer feel like they were “born in the wrong body.” That is a plausible definition of “alleviating gender distress” but there’s no plausible reason to expect that to be the outcome of stopping puberty. In fact, given everything we know about how puberty works, that is the opposite of what we might expect to happen. By stopping the child from going through the natural development of the brain (as well as the body) that happens during puberty, you are almost guaranteeing that they will have no “changes of mind,” as it were, about their view of their sexed body.

The alternative is, two: “alleviating gender distress” means “increased happiness simply because stopping puberty in this way is seen by the child as the first step on a path towards medically altering the body to make it fit their mental image of what their body should be.”

Now, if the latter is the case, that is a whole can of worms for the research team, and that the ethics committee should have been aware of. Because if that is the case, then you are not ever going to be able to test the “effectiveness” of just stopping puberty on gender distress - because it is not ever considered a just in the minds of the experimental subjects.

If you cannot say to the subjects “you will be given this drug and nothing more, ever” and have them believe you, then you are not testing just that drug - particularly when you are looking at psychological outcomes - you are testing the effect of knowing that they have (finally!, after begging and begging) taken the first of many steps on a path that they have already decided is the right path for them.
In other words, there is no way to test the effectiveness of stopping puberty on alleviating gender distress in isolation. Again, the whole premise of the study falls down.

I think you have given this much deeper consideration and "gaming out" of scenarios than the entirety of people who signed off on the trial, ever did.

I am also simultaneously wondering if there wasn't a strong element of the opposite of the "speak up" rule/culture in aviation (and ironically medicine) where people had concerns but were too cowed to raise them?

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 21/02/2026 10:30

Brainworm · 21/02/2026 10:24

The Tavi’s approach, back in the broom
cupboard days, was focussed on ‘reconciling different parts of the self’. It was all about psychotherapy.

One of the surprising elements of the turn that GIDS took is that it happened at the Tavi, whose specialism was/ is psychodynamic psychotherapy. However, this is also why it was able to go so far. If it’s specialism was medicine, it’s likely that existing governance systems would have stopped things going so far.

Oh that’s interesting - that the psychotherapists at the Tavistock were so far removed from the medical side of things that they didn’t have the systems in place to stop this before it started.

Ambergris123 · 21/02/2026 10:28

NumbersGuy · 21/02/2026 06:39

As I understand it, the '50 suicides of trans kids' is an outright lie,

Thank goodness so many qualified and certified transvestigators are here to protect their pearls from becoming whittled down to nothing from all of the clutching. All of these postings consistently vilify the clinicians, but NEVER the parents who have to give their legal permission if they're under age 16. On top of that, the National Child Mortality Database (surprise surprise), actually noted that out of 647 suicides between April 2019 and March 2025, 107 identified as LGBTQIA+, 46 of whom identified as trans. But of course these numbers can't be correct, since they are based on scientific data parameters.

Let's just go back to just hanging the witches like they did centuries ago, since that was fear mongering without science. Just like abortions being illegal until 1968 - how many women lost their lives because science wasn't recognized as being a legitimate source. In 2023, almost 278,000 were performed, not only saving women's lives but also helping their lives better about not being ready to have an unwanted child. Please just stop going to the doctors and look for the shamans to help promote pseudo science facts. RFK, Jr. would be happy to come to England and straighten out the medical establishment to give you what you want to hear, that people who have no medical background should be in charge of everyone's health (which he doesn't have either). A win-win.

rather than just drinking the kool-aid, have you actually read any of the official reports around this suicide claim? https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/review-of-suicides-and-gender-dysphoria-at-the-tavistock-and-portman-nhs-foundation-trust/review-of-suicides-and-gender-dysphoria-at-the-tavistock-and-portman-nhs-foundation-trust-independent-report . you may not be aware of the overall increase in suicides amongst young people in general related to the covid pandemic and its aftermath....as a parent of a young person who became suicidal and self-harming in the 20/21 period, I can tell you the access to medical care and mental health support was abysmal, CAMHS were utterly overwhelmed. Luckily for us, we had the finances to seek private help whilst sat on endless NHS wait lists but far too many families didn't have this option. When you see the stats for the children attending Tavistock, does it not make you consider there is a lot of potential risk factors over and above their gender dysphoria? why do you not consider that treating these co-existing factors effectively might reduce that childs overall mental health distress?

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TwoLoonsAndASprout · 21/02/2026 10:27

fanOfBen · 21/02/2026 10:21

True, but that doesn't answer the question. Not all psychotherapy is the same, by any means. What I'm asking about is scientific investigation into what approaches actually work. I suppose you could argue that if doing some random unselected thing works for 90-95% of children that's already pretty good...

Aha, yes, fair enough.

I have no idea how new psychotherapies were trialled for this back in the day, if at all. As you say, if you know that just leaving the kid alone and letting them grow up will result in desistance 90% of the time, I can’t imagine there was much call for tests of other things.

And now, of course, you can’t test talk therapies because that counts as a conversion practice.

Brainworm · 21/02/2026 10:27

fanOfBen · 21/02/2026 10:21

True, but that doesn't answer the question. Not all psychotherapy is the same, by any means. What I'm asking about is scientific investigation into what approaches actually work. I suppose you could argue that if doing some random unselected thing works for 90-95% of children that's already pretty good...

I think this leads back to what is meant by ‘what works’.

Back in the day, ‘working’ meant desisting and/or alleviation of distressing symptoms.

Today, ‘a good outcome’ means different things to different people.

Brainworm · 21/02/2026 10:24

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 21/02/2026 10:14

@fanOfBen:

Has anyone, anywhere, ever, made any serious attempt to develop psychotherapeutic interventions for these children? If they have I haven't heard about it, and I feel that avenue should be explored extremely thoroughly before anyone even considers giving these children life-altering drugs.

I mean, before the Dutch Protocol, psychotherapy and literally doing nothing (the “watchful waiting” approach) were the only things that were done. And in 90-95% of cases, children desisted from their gender distress. Now, as a PP pointed out, we have a completely different cohort of kids presenting with gender distress, and we have a whole society that has been taught that the only approach to gender distress is “gender affirming care,” so it’s not clear how we go back to that approach. But yes, 20 years ago, all anyone would have done would have been talk therapy, at the most.

The Tavi’s approach, back in the broom
cupboard days, was focussed on ‘reconciling different parts of the self’. It was all about psychotherapy.

One of the surprising elements of the turn that GIDS took is that it happened at the Tavi, whose specialism was/ is psychodynamic psychotherapy. However, this is also why it was able to go so far. If it’s specialism was medicine, it’s likely that existing governance systems would have stopped things going so far.

fanOfBen · 21/02/2026 10:21

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 21/02/2026 10:14

@fanOfBen:

Has anyone, anywhere, ever, made any serious attempt to develop psychotherapeutic interventions for these children? If they have I haven't heard about it, and I feel that avenue should be explored extremely thoroughly before anyone even considers giving these children life-altering drugs.

I mean, before the Dutch Protocol, psychotherapy and literally doing nothing (the “watchful waiting” approach) were the only things that were done. And in 90-95% of cases, children desisted from their gender distress. Now, as a PP pointed out, we have a completely different cohort of kids presenting with gender distress, and we have a whole society that has been taught that the only approach to gender distress is “gender affirming care,” so it’s not clear how we go back to that approach. But yes, 20 years ago, all anyone would have done would have been talk therapy, at the most.

True, but that doesn't answer the question. Not all psychotherapy is the same, by any means. What I'm asking about is scientific investigation into what approaches actually work. I suppose you could argue that if doing some random unselected thing works for 90-95% of children that's already pretty good...

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 21/02/2026 10:17

JustSomeWaferThinHam · 21/02/2026 10:11

Yes, while some of these kids have well meaning desperately trying up navigate their way through and are unknowingly trying to retrieve their child from the grip of a cult and just get the best treatment for their child (while being you by the activists that medical harm is the best treatment as opposed to therapy), some parents are very keen to have a ‘trans child’. We have observed apparent motivations being attention seeking (the sets of excited parents featured on breakfast tv), homophobia/rejecting effeminate behaviour in boys (the Susie Green model) and just plain wishing they had a child if the opposite sex and communicating that to the child.

I have come across an influencer local to me who currently has two ‘trans’ identifying kids and apparently the third is considering (but is aged about 4). Her identity and her business is based around ‘trans’ kids so of course that is going to affect them. She seems rather unhinged so who knows what pressure and manipulation occurs behind closed doors.

That sounds like a an anonymous social services report to me. If you don’t want to I will….

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 21/02/2026 10:14

@fanOfBen:

Has anyone, anywhere, ever, made any serious attempt to develop psychotherapeutic interventions for these children? If they have I haven't heard about it, and I feel that avenue should be explored extremely thoroughly before anyone even considers giving these children life-altering drugs.

I mean, before the Dutch Protocol, psychotherapy and literally doing nothing (the “watchful waiting” approach) were the only things that were done. And in 90-95% of cases, children desisted from their gender distress. Now, as a PP pointed out, we have a completely different cohort of kids presenting with gender distress, and we have a whole society that has been taught that the only approach to gender distress is “gender affirming care,” so it’s not clear how we go back to that approach. But yes, 20 years ago, all anyone would have done would have been talk therapy, at the most.

Brainworm · 21/02/2026 10:11

Shortshriftandlethal · 21/02/2026 09:39

Quite, though the parents and activists pushing this will be very displeased indeed. Maybe now the real reasons for blocking puberty will come to public consciousness.

I think the elephant in the room is the lack of clarity about good and poor outcomes in terms of treatment for ‘gender incongruence’. For me:

Good: Patient fully reconciles their sense of self with their sexed body and their sex. They have no symptoms of gender related distress.

Moderate: Patient is accepting of their sexed body and their sex. Some symptoms of gender related distress remain but below clinically relevant thresholds.

Poor: Patient’s symptoms remain clinically significant and in need of physical intervention.

JustSomeWaferThinHam · 21/02/2026 10:11

Shortshriftandlethal · 21/02/2026 09:42

Yet now they'll probably be susceptible to the claims of increased suicide ideation made by the 'responsible adults' around them.

Yes, while some of these kids have well meaning desperately trying up navigate their way through and are unknowingly trying to retrieve their child from the grip of a cult and just get the best treatment for their child (while being you by the activists that medical harm is the best treatment as opposed to therapy), some parents are very keen to have a ‘trans child’. We have observed apparent motivations being attention seeking (the sets of excited parents featured on breakfast tv), homophobia/rejecting effeminate behaviour in boys (the Susie Green model) and just plain wishing they had a child if the opposite sex and communicating that to the child.

I have come across an influencer local to me who currently has two ‘trans’ identifying kids and apparently the third is considering (but is aged about 4). Her identity and her business is based around ‘trans’ kids so of course that is going to affect them. She seems rather unhinged so who knows what pressure and manipulation occurs behind closed doors.

fanOfBen · 21/02/2026 10:05

Brainworm · 21/02/2026 09:47

I think we are on the same page. If you don’t work in the field, I expect we might look at it from different perspectives- but I think there is strength to this. You benefiting from balance that comes with distance and me from balance that comes with proximity.

I’ve worked with 100s of children who have made sense of their distress as arising in full or in part from ‘gender incongruence’. Of these, there a 2 boys who stood out as their issues could not be made sense of in the same way as the 100s of others. Both were very young when they started expressing distress at being boys, neither were socially transitioned up until their teens, and whilst both gay or likely to be gay, they weren’t concerned about their sexuality. I am not saying that these boys are evidence of a stand alone condition, but it does give me pause for thought about one existing. If a specific condition does exist, I imagine it to be very rare and not to account for 99% of what is currently labelled ‘gender distress’ or ‘gender incongruence’. I interpret Cass as having concluded the same, but may be misinterpreting her work because of my own.

Some clinical trials are conducted with fewer than 50 participants worldwide. I can imagine something akin to this to be possible for PBs - but only once we have established if there is a specific condition and how we would identify those with the rare condition from those whose symptoms are often misunderstood as being linked to the condition (diagnostic overshadowing).

But even if there is such a condition (in which non-abused children develop a fixed belief that they are or should be the other sex) somebody would still have to make an argument about why it was plausible that giving them puberty blockers would be an appropriate treatment. We seem (heave!) to have reached the point where the law accepts that humans cannot change sex, and that will apply to humans with the newly-tightly-diagnosed condition, too. They won't be an exception to the argument that men can't be in women's spaces, sports, etc. So any boys with the condition are in for a very tough time, but since there isn't a future where they grow up to be women, puberty blockers would seem to be a long way down the list of possible treatments to trial. Indeed it has the big disadvantage that if they are someday cured of their condition, they will be worse off, rather than better, than if nothing had been done.

Has anyone, anywhere, ever, made any serious attempt to develop psychotherapeutic interventions for these children? If they have I haven't heard about it, and I feel that avenue should be explored extremely thoroughly before anyone even considers giving these children life-altering drugs.

Shortshriftandlethal · 21/02/2026 09:55

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 21/02/2026 09:47

Kings College London - basically the research group that’s carrying out the study.

It would be interesting to know which clinicians are involved and why they were comfortable with being involved.

Shortshriftandlethal · 21/02/2026 09:51

RoyalCorgi · 21/02/2026 09:05

I just can't fathom what's going on in this woman's head at all. She so very nearly grasped it. Then she floundered and bottled it.

It's a mystery. But I do think this is the beginning of the end for child transitioning, at least in this country. Very few people will want to actually break the law for their child by obtaining drugs illegally. In fact, an important component of parents who have Transhausen's Syndrome, in my view, is the validation they get from authority: the fact that proper medical people with important-sounding titles are taking their child's gender dysphoria seriously, prescribing them drugs and offering them surgery, while at the same time other authoritative figures (teachers, social workers and so on) are going along with the pretence that the child is the opposite sex by using opposite-sex pronouns, the child's new name, the child's desire to use the wrong changing room etc.

Once that stops, once you don't have the validation from either doctors or teachers, then the boast of "Look at me, I have a trans child" becomes much less attractive. Instead it just becomes a nuisance, I imagine. So I think soon if a child starts saying "Mum, I think I'm a girl," the parent will say, "No, you're not, Malcolm - now be a good boy and eat your dinner up." Just like the olden days.

Yes, once the social credit has disappeared to be replaced with concern and suspicion the attraction will soon wear off.

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 21/02/2026 09:47

Shortshriftandlethal · 21/02/2026 09:44

Who is the trial sponsor?

Kings College London - basically the research group that’s carrying out the study.

Brainworm · 21/02/2026 09:47

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 21/02/2026 09:11

@Brainworm:

I am not in favour of the Pathways trial, I think it is/ was unethical. My point was that it’s important that research is conducted to inform how best to treat young people with the condition or symptoms of gender distress.

Thank you for that. I agree with you that good research should be conducted.

My point is and has always been that, from a research point of view, there is not, and has never been, a reason to propose that stopping puberty will alleviate gender distress.

We have historical evidence from all over the world about things that do - the most powerful one being, do nothing (ie, the “watchful waiting” approach that was the gold standard before the Dutch got their hands on things).

So why test this drug as a possible mental health treatment? The only reason it was ever given in the first place was to stop little boys from developing secondary sex characteristics so that they would be more convincing as women. Testing its effectiveness by itself for alleviating gender distress just smacks of trying to justify its use without referring to any of that messy gender reassignment surgery stuff.

Anyway, I think we’re on the same page.

I think we are on the same page. If you don’t work in the field, I expect we might look at it from different perspectives- but I think there is strength to this. You benefiting from balance that comes with distance and me from balance that comes with proximity.

I’ve worked with 100s of children who have made sense of their distress as arising in full or in part from ‘gender incongruence’. Of these, there a 2 boys who stood out as their issues could not be made sense of in the same way as the 100s of others. Both were very young when they started expressing distress at being boys, neither were socially transitioned up until their teens, and whilst both gay or likely to be gay, they weren’t concerned about their sexuality. I am not saying that these boys are evidence of a stand alone condition, but it does give me pause for thought about one existing. If a specific condition does exist, I imagine it to be very rare and not to account for 99% of what is currently labelled ‘gender distress’ or ‘gender incongruence’. I interpret Cass as having concluded the same, but may be misinterpreting her work because of my own.

Some clinical trials are conducted with fewer than 50 participants worldwide. I can imagine something akin to this to be possible for PBs - but only once we have established if there is a specific condition and how we would identify those with the rare condition from those whose symptoms are often misunderstood as being linked to the condition (diagnostic overshadowing).

EasternStandard · 21/02/2026 09:46

Rather than start at 14 they should drop it entirely.

Eho on earth in good conscience even discussed 8 plus. Streeting? Wth

Unconscionable.

EmpressaurusKitty · 21/02/2026 09:46

JustSomeWaferThinHam · 21/02/2026 09:39

Yes, maybe she needs to remind f herself if the core principle. “First do no harm”.

If your trial anticipates sterilisation, bone density losses, cognitive impairment etc then it should have been a non starter.

Why on earth they would allow children to stay in the program for up to 12 months if they start seeing bone density or cognitive impairment I can’t fathom.

Surely, the minute ANY of those issues start that child should be out of the program - once those drugs start affecting bone density, it’s not going to get any better unless they stop taking the drugs. As this is a known and worryingly common side effect (see the Lupron class action in America) it should be a major red flag.

But then the whole ‘study’ is a giant red flag so I guess that level of medical sanity is too much to ask for.

Lupron puberty blockers have harmed vast numbers of people in America. Surely the study designers should have looked at these first?

This is exactly what trans Reddit are bothered about from the opposite angle. They see less dense bones as a feature, not a bug.

Trans Reddit quote
“Worrying to me is the suggestion that participants will basically have to have started puberty (14 yo minimum) and with any decrease in bone density or a "serious" reduction in height velocity could be removed from the trial. This would likely be most of the MtF participants, because AMAB have naturally higher bone density and growth rate/height during puberty.”

Shortshriftandlethal · 21/02/2026 09:44

peacefulpeach · 20/02/2026 20:37

Good news.

The gvt website states ‘The MHRA has now raised new concerns – directly related to the wellbeing of children and young people – and scientific dialogue will now follow with the trial sponsor’

Shocker 🙄

If being transparent they should be listing what the ‘new concerns’ are. But again shocker - they’re not.

Who is the trial sponsor?

JustSomeWaferThinHam · 21/02/2026 09:44

Shortshriftandlethal · 21/02/2026 09:39

Quite, though the parents and activists pushing this will be very displeased indeed. Maybe now the real reasons for blocking puberty will come to public consciousness.

This is a very good point. I think any ‘trans kid’ should be a child protection issue.

Phillipson’s disastrous school guidelines allowing kids to be transed at school gives zero protection from activist teachers or transhausen parents. We know that these people exist and have seen first hand how unhinged and out of touch with reality they are. Kids that are with these adults and being guided by them don’t stand a chance.

Shortshriftandlethal · 21/02/2026 09:42

CrocsNotDocs · 20/02/2026 20:29

I hope the children who were lined up for this trial get good quality support. The irresponsible adults around them should never have put them in this situation. I hope that with maturity and about 10 more years of life experience, they can look back and see what a bullet they dodged.

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Yet now they'll probably be susceptible to the claims of increased suicide ideation made by the 'responsible adults' around them.