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A call to all wims to challenge registered charities who claim to be women’s services who include “transwomen”

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Hedgehogforshort · 12/02/2026 21:08

Inspired by a post about Nottinghams Women’s Centre being trans inclusive, I think it is time we did something. Like pull the ruddy rug on them.

I don’t think it will need the extensive work of the NHS data thread.

There are hundreds of alleged women’s only services who are registered charities. They mostly have a governing document describing themselves as for women only but do not mention “transwomen” in their objects, but do in unlawful policy documents.

All charities have a beneficiary group, which they cannot stray from.

Also if they change their objectives to be “inclusive’”IMHO” the funds they hold on behalf of the original beneficiaries, must be handed back or ring fenced, which is why some of the major charities have conceded, ergo the WI and GG.

My idea is that we target our own localities and make a complaint to the charity commission, about the charity we are a potential beneficiary of.

what do you all think? Happy to coordinate this though i may need @knottyauty

meanwhile i am off to look at a few national bodies

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RogueFemale · 17/02/2026 22:28

McSilkson · 17/02/2026 22:26

Sure. They're being incredibly stupid and pig-headed. That goes without saying. But the people who will suffer the most are the women who use and rely on their services.

How does the exclusion of a handful of male transvestites result in an entire service being unable to help women?

McSilkson · 17/02/2026 22:26

WTFRSPB · 17/02/2026 22:10

Aren't these "women's" charities leaving themselves wide open to being sued by including men. If there's any risk of being shut down it seems entirely self inflicted. Some disgruntled 'cis' man (perhaps with an axe to grind because they helped his ex escape him) is refused access to their facilities when they'd throw the doors open if that same man claimed to have a trans-identity. Pretty straightforward case for discrimination.

Sure. They're being incredibly stupid and pig-headed. That goes without saying. But the people who will suffer the most are the women who use and rely on their services.

RogueFemale · 17/02/2026 22:25

WTFRSPB · 17/02/2026 22:10

Aren't these "women's" charities leaving themselves wide open to being sued by including men. If there's any risk of being shut down it seems entirely self inflicted. Some disgruntled 'cis' man (perhaps with an axe to grind because they helped his ex escape him) is refused access to their facilities when they'd throw the doors open if that same man claimed to have a trans-identity. Pretty straightforward case for discrimination.

I seem to recall it was a 'cis' man who challenged his exclusion by the Women's Institute that may have resulted in it announcing trans-identifying-men were, tragically, no longer allowed to join.

Talkinpeace · 17/02/2026 22:19

Any Charity whose Equality and Diverity has the Protected Characteristics wrong is also worth calling out.

This is the best practice example they should all look like
https://www.acas.org.uk/equality-policy-template

Equality, diversity and inclusion policy template | Acas

Equality, diversity and inclusion policy template that you can adjust for your organisation.

https://www.acas.org.uk/equality-policy-template

WTFRSPB · 17/02/2026 22:10

Aren't these "women's" charities leaving themselves wide open to being sued by including men. If there's any risk of being shut down it seems entirely self inflicted. Some disgruntled 'cis' man (perhaps with an axe to grind because they helped his ex escape him) is refused access to their facilities when they'd throw the doors open if that same man claimed to have a trans-identity. Pretty straightforward case for discrimination.

RogueFemale · 17/02/2026 21:58

@Allisnotlost1 "And if you’re going to use ChatGPT (nothing wrong with it as a starting point) edit the letter so it’s not so obvious." Of course we'll fucking edit the ChatGPT letter. I said as much above, and that everything spewed out by CGPT has to be checked/double checked. It just saves some work by providing a starting point.

Hedgehogforshort · 17/02/2026 21:41

I really do not understand why some posters have concluded that I want to “bring down” “close” or otherwise harm agencies in the charity sector who were founded to serve biological women.

My intention is to locate agencies who are not compliant with the law for charities who claim to be for women only., but are not.

And look at ways to insist that they should comply, or change the purpose of their charity to people, or men and women and stop fibbing.

for those who are hard of reading the priority is to look at services provided for victims of SV and DV, and I can tell you negative posters with a good degree of certainty that, having developed and built up services for Thirty some years for women by women, who have experienced SV/ DVA.

That service users do not want any chance that they might come across a man, particularly one in a dress.

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ElizabethFryIsSpinning · 17/02/2026 21:39

Well given some of the reactions on here , those letters are worth writing

SirChenjins · 17/02/2026 21:17

Why is Nottingham Women's Centre open to men? Was any consideration given to the women using the centre at the same time the men were present? Or is there more than one type of woman in their eyes, and the xx ones should shut up and budge up?

McSilkson · 17/02/2026 21:17

So, who's going to help all the women and girls that use and rely on these services if they're put out of commission? Are we just going to wait for these non-inclusive, properly feminist centres to be set up in their place, bearing in mind that many were the fruits of a very grassroots and productive women's lib movement that doesn't exist anymore? The women on Mumsnet, great as they are, are certainly no replacement for the grassroots activists of the 70s. Who's going to be the next Erin Pizzey?

McSilkson · 17/02/2026 21:10

Yeah, despite being very much against the inclusion of "transwomen", I'm not sure trying to "bring down" women's centres that do so much on the ground to help vulnerable women - many of them illiterate, without reliable computer access, or not native English speakers, and so naturally excluded from this discussion - is a noble or worthy goal. Seems like more of an own goal - a bit cutting off one's nose to spite one's face.

Despite its ideological posturing and media spiel about inclusion, the reality is that almost every single person that Nottingham Women's Centre welcomes and helps is a real XX woman. I've seen maybe ONE transwoman there in eight years of regular volunteering and attendance at events and groups. They do a lot of good and real feminist work - supporting women, empowering women, sheltering women, educating women - on the ground.

Hedgehogforshort · 17/02/2026 20:40

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WAFE was set up as an umbrella body in the early days of the refuge a DVA women's support movement.

Refuge was the original refuge service set up by Erin Prizzy and now delivers various refuge services across London and some other places.

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HildegardP · 17/02/2026 19:36

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 17/02/2026 18:19

Oh my god. I can't decide what's worse - they desire to target women's centres (costing them precious funds & destroying their ability to help women), or the total.lack of empathy towards women who are different.

You are all planning to reduce the reach of incredibly precious services just because you can't handle the reality that some users might be trans?

Wow.

No mate, we plan to make charities conform with the law.
If you're all bent out of shape that some men might be prevented from imposing themselves where they don't belong & never belonged, pull your finger out & set up specific charities for them

WTFRSPB · 17/02/2026 18:33

Trans identified women should be able to use the services. As this might make it difficult for some other women perhaps these organisations should apply some thought to that.

Trans identifying men seem to have a lot of celebrities, some quite wealthy, who claim to support them. Perhaps they could stick their hands in their pockets to help these blokes?

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 17/02/2026 18:19

NonArtArseHouse · 12/02/2026 22:28

Solace women’s aid.

‘Solace has an inclusive definition of women including trans women.’

I had to sit through an horrendous FGM awareness session recently where the trainer, despite showing graphic depictions of mutilated female genitalia, referred several times to how people identify and other gender bollocks.

Fucking insulting.

Oh my god. I can't decide what's worse - they desire to target women's centres (costing them precious funds & destroying their ability to help women), or the total.lack of empathy towards women who are different.

You are all planning to reduce the reach of incredibly precious services just because you can't handle the reality that some users might be trans?

Wow.

Another2Cats · 17/02/2026 17:16

Hedgehogforshort · 17/02/2026 14:18

Well I have done a deep dive into Women’s Federation of England. (WAFE).

they issued a statement in 2022 regarding including trans women, but I found it on a local Women’s Aid, not on theirs. It allowed members to decide for themselves.

Interestingly their objectives were amended April 22nd 2025, just six days after the FWS SC ruling was handed down.

I can’t access the previous objective, but if I recall correctly they have returned to their original position, of for women only.

I think what was going on for Women’s Aid is they paid lip service to trans women inclusion because it would have created funding issues for themselves since they are based in Bristol.

The statement I read seems to me to provide some cover from local agencies put in a difficult position at the time.

So there will be no need to put them on the list.

"their objectives were amended April 22nd 2025 ... I can’t access the previous objective"

I didn't realise that the Women's Aid Federation of England (WAFE) were such a large charity. They are a company limited by guarantee (like the Good Law Project incidentally) and you can find their filing history on Companies House website:

https://find-and-update.company-information.service.gov.uk/company/03171880/filing-history

They had earlier objects but they were all worded very similarly. They all seem to refer to "women and children" and the only real changes appear to be that the objects have swapped back and forwards between "exposed to domestic violence" and "exposed to gender-based violence".

I hadn't realised that WAFE seems to be an overarching entity that has around 180 separate organisations as members. It may well be that some of those individual organisations have some very different ideas.

There was also an extract from the minutes of an AGM back in 2008 where people were concerned about male victims of DV and how that was to be handled.

There were concerns that including specialist DV services that were operated by men for male victims of DV would make things more difficult.

WOMEN'S AID FEDERATION OF ENGLAND filing history - Find and update company information - GOV.UK

WOMEN'S AID FEDERATION OF ENGLAND - Free company information from Companies House including registered office address, filing history, accounts, annual return, officers, charges, business activity

https://find-and-update.company-information.service.gov.uk/company/03171880/filing-history

Hedgehogforshort · 17/02/2026 14:25

@weegielass I looked at Engendered who are a registered Charity no SC029053

Their objects are for women and there is plenty of blurb about trans women on their site.

However they seem to be a campaign group for political and legislative change.

I am not therefore sure they fall within a description of a service, for the purposes of the Equality Act.

And this excessive is looking at direct services.

I don’t think Equate is a registered charity.

Also Scotland has a separate regulator and I have no knowledge of how that works.

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Hedgehogforshort · 17/02/2026 14:18

Well I have done a deep dive into Women’s Federation of England. (WAFE).

they issued a statement in 2022 regarding including trans women, but I found it on a local Women’s Aid, not on theirs. It allowed members to decide for themselves.

Interestingly their objectives were amended April 22nd 2025, just six days after the FWS SC ruling was handed down.

I can’t access the previous objective, but if I recall correctly they have returned to their original position, of for women only.

I think what was going on for Women’s Aid is they paid lip service to trans women inclusion because it would have created funding issues for themselves since they are based in Bristol.

The statement I read seems to me to provide some cover from local agencies put in a difficult position at the time.

So there will be no need to put them on the list.

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weegielass · 17/02/2026 13:30

could scottish charities like engender and equate be included?

MyVisionsComeFromSoup · 17/02/2026 09:41

Bloody Good Period have closed down btw (from the list upthread

Hedgehogforshort · 17/02/2026 09:40

ElizabethFryIsSpinning · 17/02/2026 09:38

@Hedgehogforshort ill have a go at writing a letter Do you want to PM me a charity or a letter or shall I have a go by myself?

Hiya thanks for the offer. We are checking all the charities objects first and generating a list before we send any letters.

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ElizabethFryIsSpinning · 17/02/2026 09:38

@Hedgehogforshort ill have a go at writing a letter Do you want to PM me a charity or a letter or shall I have a go by myself?

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