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Guidance for schools in BBC news

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WallaceinAnderland · 12/02/2026 15:05

'The legally-binding advice for all schools in England also says there are "no exceptions" for single-sex facilities, including toilets and changing rooms, with single-sex sports also protected.'

Vast Majority of parents should be told if pupils question their gender

A parent kneels in a modern kitchen, holding and comforting a school‑aged child who is wearing a uniform and a large backpack, as they share a close and supportive moment.

Tell parents if pupils question gender at school, government says

School leaders welcome the "greater clarity" on how to handle the polarising issue for parents and pupils.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c2k809vnx0yo

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SerendipityJane · 12/02/2026 18:24

Needspaceforlego · 12/02/2026 18:19

What do you mean, Down not Up?

I was trying to work out if Scotland was covered by it.

I mean the "consultation" is enforcing the SCOTUK ruling.

I will guarantee that there will emerge some performative ignorance from people who insist that it can "correct" SCOTUK.(Especially if they can grift on it).

Needspaceforlego · 12/02/2026 18:19

SerendipityJane · 12/02/2026 17:06

The thing that everyone appears to be missing is this consultation goes DOWN, not up. Therefore, whatever the "consultation" involves, it's never going to go back to SCOTUK with a "redo this ruling" note.

What do you mean, Down not Up?

I was trying to work out if Scotland was covered by it.

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 12/02/2026 18:18

Pingponghavoc · 12/02/2026 18:14

They've just guaranteed the promotion of gender ideology into school.

They didnt have much option to keep sex=sex in schools, especially as GRA is for adults not children.

But saying that a child can 'socially transition' is telling every other child in the school that sex change is possible and normal and should be respected.

We know for girls this is a social contagion, what does this do to stop it?

Also, when a grown arsed man tell the same children he's a women, what are they going to believe?

It’s a consultation. Let’s mobilise to respond.

wantmorenow · 12/02/2026 18:16

Only last week one of my FE student's name had changed on teams and registers to what they described as a "non-binary" name. Told me she was changing her name and pronouns on teams and was waiting for her new student ID badge to be printed.
I teach an external exam class and mentioned to her that if she changes her ID badge then the invigilators can't match her up to the exam entry name and she won't be able to take the exams on the day as external invigilators must do this step too ensure security etc. (Also JCQ inspectors also do and hoc drop ins to check this type of thing). She said she still wants to do her exams as she's only 16 and won't be able to change her name legally and mum and dad don't know about her new name and being non-binary. Apparently her tutor hadn't discussed this with her and had just affirmed her choice of name change with a note on our system that from now on she was "" but to use her original name if talking to parents.
No shit this happens monthly to me.

Pingponghavoc · 12/02/2026 18:14

They've just guaranteed the promotion of gender ideology into school.

They didnt have much option to keep sex=sex in schools, especially as GRA is for adults not children.

But saying that a child can 'socially transition' is telling every other child in the school that sex change is possible and normal and should be respected.

We know for girls this is a social contagion, what does this do to stop it?

Also, when a grown arsed man tell the same children he's a women, what are they going to believe?

EasternStandard · 12/02/2026 18:06

Dragonasaurus · 12/02/2026 18:03

Yes they have been policing it. Our local secondary described how they would bring pronoun ‘offenders’ in at lunchtime to help them understand their error. They stopped short of using the terms ‘re-education’ or ‘struggle sessions’

We chose a different school 🙄

This is what needs to end.

Dragonasaurus · 12/02/2026 18:03

HartSeven · 12/02/2026 17:57

Meaningless about pronouns unless they are going to police other children's speech. I commented on that aspect in a previous consultation. It's immoral and unworkable. Imagine it in a school with a high % of children with speech and language difficulties or for whom English is not their first language. Nobody can "own" pronouns.

Yes they have been policing it. Our local secondary described how they would bring pronoun ‘offenders’ in at lunchtime to help them understand their error. They stopped short of using the terms ‘re-education’ or ‘struggle sessions’

We chose a different school 🙄

EasternStandard · 12/02/2026 18:02

Theeyeballsinthesky · 12/02/2026 17:49

This seems to be saying that this

draft guidance produced in 2023, under the Conservatives, which said that primary-aged children “should not have different pronouns to their sex-based pronouns used about them”.

has been overturned. If so that’s not good for children.

Mmmnotsure · 12/02/2026 18:02

Just musing on how we often say that transgenderism is a death cult...

blibblibs · 12/02/2026 18:01

They most definitely have been policing pronouns, DS was pulled up for using the 'wrong' ones for his sister!

MalagaNights · 12/02/2026 17:59

HartSeven · 12/02/2026 17:57

Meaningless about pronouns unless they are going to police other children's speech. I commented on that aspect in a previous consultation. It's immoral and unworkable. Imagine it in a school with a high % of children with speech and language difficulties or for whom English is not their first language. Nobody can "own" pronouns.

They have been policing it.
Children have been sanctioned for not using preferred pronouns.

It needs to be stopped.

HartSeven · 12/02/2026 17:57

Meaningless about pronouns unless they are going to police other children's speech. I commented on that aspect in a previous consultation. It's immoral and unworkable. Imagine it in a school with a high % of children with speech and language difficulties or for whom English is not their first language. Nobody can "own" pronouns.

MalagaNights · 12/02/2026 17:51

There's an interesting section on living in stealth and how those children are at risk.

What do they think this is going to mean for those on the puberty blocker trial then??

It's a weird mix of you can pretend to be a girl and everyone will play along and say you're a girl but we'll also make it clear you are not really a girl.

blibblibs · 12/02/2026 17:49

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Unfortunately since she was born in Scotland no signature was required, although they were happy to help if she needed it. But since this is the school that were happy to have her sleep in a room full of 14 year old boys on a school trip (I made damn sure that didn't happen!) nothing they do surprises me. I'm going for a shower and a good cry.

MalagaNights · 12/02/2026 17:48

I can't see anything about pronouns?

Social transition seems to have been reduced to name and uniform change with parental involvement. And pronouns.
Personally I don't think either of these transition for children are a good idea but they don't impact other children.

Pronouns though are asking everyone else to play along and warp their language. No one should be asked to do this.

CriticalCondition · 12/02/2026 17:42

MoistVonL · 12/02/2026 16:58

There's always the Capuchin Crypt in Rome, should you fancy more insane things built of skeletons.

They've got a whole Grim Reaper with a scythe built from leg bones and a shoulder blade, iifc

I've been there - well worth a visit!

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 12/02/2026 17:36

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 12/02/2026 17:35

blibblibs · 12/02/2026 17:33

It feels a bit ironic that this has come out on the day DD16 has informed me after the fact that she's sent the forms off to change her name with help from school. I fucking hate this ideology 😔

It’s a poisonous. Sending support.

blibblibs · 12/02/2026 17:33

It feels a bit ironic that this has come out on the day DD16 has informed me after the fact that she's sent the forms off to change her name with help from school. I fucking hate this ideology 😔

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 12/02/2026 17:16

wantmorenow · 12/02/2026 16:56

I hope this brings an end to the nonsense that the Dad on here is currently fighting against in the Brighton School that has spectacularly failed to safeguard his daughter and her right to single sex changing at school. Sorry don't have link to his name.

Hello and huge thanks 🙏

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 12/02/2026 17:09

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WarriorN · 12/02/2026 17:07

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is this all the original draft guidance?

I’m confused; is this latest consultation based on these, again?

the only difference I can see is that the law has been clarified and I bet GLP outcome is linked

SerendipityJane · 12/02/2026 17:06

YourNavyFinch · 12/02/2026 17:03

It's not final it's being consulted on "consultation on Thursday's updated guidance is due to run for 10 weeks." From the BBC.

The thing that everyone appears to be missing is this consultation goes DOWN, not up. Therefore, whatever the "consultation" involves, it's never going to go back to SCOTUK with a "redo this ruling" note.

YourNavyFinch · 12/02/2026 17:03

It's not final it's being consulted on "consultation on Thursday's updated guidance is due to run for 10 weeks." From the BBC.

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