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Trans patient records medical team during cancer surgery

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junipery · 10/02/2026 14:28

www.nytimes.com/2025/12/01/nyregion/transgender-patient-records-during-cancer-surgery.html?smtyp=cur&utm_social_post_id=611783878&utm_social_handle_id=5281959998&smid=fb-nytimes

https://archive.ph/z8uok

Has this been shared? These pieces always reveal so much.

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Mapletree1985 · 11/02/2026 20:57

I expect he needed money and knew that if he recorded them during surgery the team would probably say something he could sue for. Hospital will settle; lawyers will get most of the cash, but he'll get some.

Brefugee · 11/02/2026 20:32

onepostwonder · 11/02/2026 18:49

Based on my life, I can say more times than not 'sex affecting how drugs work in the body' refers to the primacy of sex hormone affecting tissues in the body and their processes rather than the state at conception or birth or however people determine sex.

Medical personnel know that the younger a person begins HRT, the more likely their cells and systems will conform to normal ranges of the adopted sex. Blood tests are a simple example, body composition ratios are another.

Some trans women end up learning they have acquired new autoimmune disorders thanks to how cells and systems in their body react to being estrogen dominant. Some trans men experience a lessening of their EDS, RA or Lupus symptoms as soon as they begin testosterone.

I informed the surgeon and thusly the medical team of my birth sex when I had recent abdominal surgery. He said it wouldn't change anything as all the applicable tests performed were all in female range. I'm sure there were some practicalities of the actual surgery itself provided my organ distribution and maybe placement. But medicine and chemical reaction wise, all went as expected. So in this situation, 'sex' does not appear to be dependent upon gametes.

oh mate. No

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 11/02/2026 19:41

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AstonScrapingsNameChange · 11/02/2026 19:39

onepostwonder · 11/02/2026 18:49

Based on my life, I can say more times than not 'sex affecting how drugs work in the body' refers to the primacy of sex hormone affecting tissues in the body and their processes rather than the state at conception or birth or however people determine sex.

Medical personnel know that the younger a person begins HRT, the more likely their cells and systems will conform to normal ranges of the adopted sex. Blood tests are a simple example, body composition ratios are another.

Some trans women end up learning they have acquired new autoimmune disorders thanks to how cells and systems in their body react to being estrogen dominant. Some trans men experience a lessening of their EDS, RA or Lupus symptoms as soon as they begin testosterone.

I informed the surgeon and thusly the medical team of my birth sex when I had recent abdominal surgery. He said it wouldn't change anything as all the applicable tests performed were all in female range. I'm sure there were some practicalities of the actual surgery itself provided my organ distribution and maybe placement. But medicine and chemical reaction wise, all went as expected. So in this situation, 'sex' does not appear to be dependent upon gametes.

This is unmitigated bollocks.

As I'm sure you're well aware.

Bunging in a bit of extra sex hormone does not fundamentally change all the processes within an organism.

"I'm sure there were some practicalities of the actual surgery itself provided my organ distribution and maybe placement"

I just don't know where to start with this. Surgeons would probably be pleased to know it can all be hand waved away so simply.

Women. Are. Not. Men. Without. Dicks!

onepostwonder · 11/02/2026 18:49

Brefugee · 11/02/2026 10:25

well, mate, one of these things is not like the others...

but to indulge you a little further: how the heck can you not know that your sex can affect how drugs work in your body? how your sex determines many aspects of medical treatment and care?

but no: any opportunity to show how horrible women are and BAM! in you go

Based on my life, I can say more times than not 'sex affecting how drugs work in the body' refers to the primacy of sex hormone affecting tissues in the body and their processes rather than the state at conception or birth or however people determine sex.

Medical personnel know that the younger a person begins HRT, the more likely their cells and systems will conform to normal ranges of the adopted sex. Blood tests are a simple example, body composition ratios are another.

Some trans women end up learning they have acquired new autoimmune disorders thanks to how cells and systems in their body react to being estrogen dominant. Some trans men experience a lessening of their EDS, RA or Lupus symptoms as soon as they begin testosterone.

I informed the surgeon and thusly the medical team of my birth sex when I had recent abdominal surgery. He said it wouldn't change anything as all the applicable tests performed were all in female range. I'm sure there were some practicalities of the actual surgery itself provided my organ distribution and maybe placement. But medicine and chemical reaction wise, all went as expected. So in this situation, 'sex' does not appear to be dependent upon gametes.

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 11/02/2026 18:24

Helleofabore · 11/02/2026 05:11

Firstly, medical staff discussing whether a patient is male or female is highly relevant to the care they receive. So medical staff discussing sex category of a patient doesn’t breach patient privacy.

And this man is the person who has exposed his medical records to the public. Did you not read the article? Or did you just want to denigrate women again and took this thread as yet another opportunity ?

Also, sharing or publishing a covert recording is illegal in England, so this patient's actions would have been illegal had he tried this here.

HildegardP · 11/02/2026 17:15

Poor Numbers, it's always, "I haz heard of lors but I noe not wot they is".

Hoardasurass · 11/02/2026 15:23

ProfessorBinturong · 11/02/2026 13:29

Red hair?

No natural blonde (well mostly grey now) but the child of a ginger with a gingers skin. So really a ginger in disguise 😂

ProfessorBinturong · 11/02/2026 13:29

Hoardasurass · 11/02/2026 10:24

General anaesthetics are done by the kg unless you're a freak like me who has a nasty habit of waking up during surgery. In cases like mine they have to give a lot more drugs and its a battle between keeping me under and overdosing me. I've never made it to recovery still unconscious and they've never allowed me to take anything into surgery including the teddy they said I could take the 1st time I had surgery. I can confirm that they remove anything and give it back as you enter recovery as I woke up when they tried to take my teddy aftee they thought i was under and I'll remember the look of shock and horror on that nurse face to the day I die as I sat up and started kicking off (i was 5 btw) until they gave my teddy back and actually knocked me out. I also remember them trying to sneak it back as they wheeled me into recovery but I was already awake again and very unhappy that they lied to me.

Red hair?

GCScot · 11/02/2026 12:25

Echoing PPs, I really don't think his bag/phone would have been taken into the operating theatre. I've had 2 ops and wasn't allowed to take any belongings in with me - they were left in the recovery ward.

From the content of the recordings I would guess it was actually nurses or admin staff who were recorded talking

GCScot · 11/02/2026 12:11

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 10/02/2026 18:29

Trans women’s pants cannot catch fire as they already caught fire and burned to a crisp years back.

😂

Brefugee · 11/02/2026 10:25

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well, mate, one of these things is not like the others...

but to indulge you a little further: how the heck can you not know that your sex can affect how drugs work in your body? how your sex determines many aspects of medical treatment and care?

but no: any opportunity to show how horrible women are and BAM! in you go

GloomyWednesday · 11/02/2026 10:25

solerolover · 11/02/2026 08:23

Indeed. He looks and sounds exactly like the man he is, I think the so-called facial feminisation surgery was a complete waste of money. IMO, he bears a resemblance to the actor Jim Parsons (who played Sheldon Cooper in The Big Bang Theory).

I honestly thought he was Pee-Wee Herman/Paul Reubens in that video!

Which, as a big Pee-Wee fan, made me feel a bit ill 😂

Hoardasurass · 11/02/2026 10:24

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 10/02/2026 22:26

I missed this part.

There is no way that someone shoving an endoscope up your arse would miss the fact that you've got a nutsack.

The fact that this individual is so deluded that he was shocked that his perineum didnt 'pass' is just...astounding.

Plus women and men require different doses for anaesthesia. I'm surprised they managed to knock him out giving him a woman's dose (maybe it's calculated on weight?)

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General anaesthetics are done by the kg unless you're a freak like me who has a nasty habit of waking up during surgery. In cases like mine they have to give a lot more drugs and its a battle between keeping me under and overdosing me. I've never made it to recovery still unconscious and they've never allowed me to take anything into surgery including the teddy they said I could take the 1st time I had surgery. I can confirm that they remove anything and give it back as you enter recovery as I woke up when they tried to take my teddy aftee they thought i was under and I'll remember the look of shock and horror on that nurse face to the day I die as I sat up and started kicking off (i was 5 btw) until they gave my teddy back and actually knocked me out. I also remember them trying to sneak it back as they wheeled me into recovery but I was already awake again and very unhappy that they lied to me.

Helleofabore · 11/02/2026 10:18

could the bag have been in recovery near a bay being prepped for the patient’s return? Meaning it could have been other staff including nurses etc.

They still need to know what sex the patient is and were discussing it.

loislovesstewie · 11/02/2026 10:00

There was a well reported case a few years ago of a 'man' attending at a hospital in the USA with abdominal pains. In reality the 'man' was a woman in labour. The baby was stillborn as the cord had dropped into the vagina. The records recorded her as male. There was nowhere available on the personal details to state that she was biologically female. We have got ourselves into a truly crazy situation where biology is overridden to appease feelings.

fashionqueen0123 · 11/02/2026 09:58

KnottyAuty · 11/02/2026 09:09

Exactly - what sort of hospital is this? I’d be surprised if any possessions were taken into theatre. The device must have been hidden on his person - did he tape it to his body because surgical gowns dont have pockets

Sounds like it was shoved somewhere in the room or trolley but honestly makes no sense to me

Dollymylove · 11/02/2026 09:43

Does anyone remember years ago, early 80s? A man had a sex change, he wrote a book about it. I think his new name was Julia. The book told of his struggles etc, how he was much happier as a woman. As far as I remember, sometime after his gender reassignment op he started bleeding "down below" He was taken to hospital where the medics, not realising he wasnt a biological woman, assumed a miscarriage and attempted to carry a procedure. This caused more damage to the reassignment surgery and Im not sure they were able to correct it. A very sad story and I would think a lesson to learn that knowing someone's biological sex is kind of important!!

Justme56 · 11/02/2026 09:22

I watched a bit of that video yesterday. He seems to focus on the fact they commented on him having male genitalia - he has a husband so likely a gay man (would it be a stretch to suggest that keeping those bits are a choice relating to his sexuality?). Either way it seems that he can’t cope with the reality of being male.

KnottyAuty · 11/02/2026 09:09

fashionqueen0123 · 10/02/2026 16:26

It’s strange the bag ended up in the theatre

Exactly - what sort of hospital is this? I’d be surprised if any possessions were taken into theatre. The device must have been hidden on his person - did he tape it to his body because surgical gowns dont have pockets

SinnerBoy · 11/02/2026 08:59

NumbersGuy · Today 05:05

To the secondary school "mean girls group" posting here, in the U.S. there's this little thing called HIPPA...

Hmm. Perhaps you could furnish us with a link to the information you would like to use as your support? That's simply a page with numerous links, what is it you wished to draw our attention to?

Is it a breach of HIPPA for surgeons to discuss the fact that a male patient has male genitals, whilst trying to pass himself off as female, for example?

solerolover · 11/02/2026 08:23

viques · 11/02/2026 00:39

I think the saddest part of this story is the part when he writes about how confused the hospital staff were when they saw the M in his notes ”I look the way I look, and sound the way I sound” but , according to Jennifer, the medical staff were perplexed by the ‘dissonance’ between what they saw and heard and the M in his records.

Oh dear. How confused and delusional can you get. They knew, even those of us with no medical training know. The M was no surprise at all.

Indeed. He looks and sounds exactly like the man he is, I think the so-called facial feminisation surgery was a complete waste of money. IMO, he bears a resemblance to the actor Jim Parsons (who played Sheldon Cooper in The Big Bang Theory).

RedToothBrush · 11/02/2026 08:13

Now. Let's consider how many other patients have been harmed by the actions of this twat being a control freak about pronouns in a medical setting where his sex is relevant.

There's all the resources directed at resolving this. That's clinical staff away from patients. That's money spent. Even if it's the US and he's paid for the surgery he's still putting up premiums for others.

He wants to wreck careers and destroy lives.

RedToothBrush · 11/02/2026 07:46

WouldYouLikeSomeRibena · 11/02/2026 06:33

The only reason anyone would have been surprised to see he’s registered as Male on his medical records is because they would be wondering why he hasn’t made enough of a song and dance to get them changed to Female.

He completely wasted money on “feminisation surgeries” and what was the point anyway when he still has a cock and balls?! I wonder why he didn’t use the money to get rid of them first as surely if you are feeling dhysphoria thinking you should be the opposite sex then it must be logical to assume you would want the most male part of your anatomy removed?!

Unless of course his reason for transition is NOT dysphoria.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 11/02/2026 07:03

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