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LGBT month - This is a weird event to have during work time...

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LGBTmonth · 09/02/2026 12:07

Our work LGBT Network has invited us all to a talk during most people's working time (2-3pm on a Monday) that involves "A reflection on transgender and intersex inclusive anatomy education initiatives... including an EDI Biomedical Sciences project using 3D printing and wax modelling to represent transgender, intersex and cisgender perineal anatomy."

This is an event for a general audience. Most people where I work, do not work in anatomy or even in medicine, although a small minority of people do.

In fact, in the teams group where I saw it advertised, no one would be working in the medical field at all.

A web page with a list of events, this one included, has been linked to by our director in a regular email he sends to our department along with a recommendation to attend some of the events.

I know it's optional to attend but it just feels very odd to have this suggested as something I should be spending my working time on when it's completely unrelated to my work.

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PrizedPickledPopcorn · 16/02/2026 17:15

It’s all very well being naive rather than malicious, but it’s seriously stupid about safeguarding. Reckless. Wrongheaded.

And it’s the whole ‘useful idiot’ stuff. He maybe a useful idiot, but someone somewhere has different motivations. It’s all a bit Overton Window.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 16/02/2026 17:11

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AnSolas · 12/02/2026 18:34

Christinapple · 12/02/2026 09:59

"I know it's optional to attend"

The don't attend? Seemplez.

Right

Now how should HR manage the display of genitalia on work monitors in an open plan office?

Christinapple · 12/02/2026 09:59

"I know it's optional to attend"

The don't attend? Seemplez.

paupauboo · 11/02/2026 09:58

3D printing and wax modelling to represent transgender, intersex and cisgender perineal anatomy.
I call this work based sexual abuse.

oldtiredcyclist · 11/02/2026 09:34

viques · 11/02/2026 01:02

You could probably cobble together a fairly realistic neo vagina by skinning a couple of chicken breasts and sewing the skins into an open ended pouch.

D you put the tandoori marinade on before or after? Just asking for a curry mad friend.

viques · 11/02/2026 01:02

BlueEyedBogWitch · 10/02/2026 04:37

3D printing? They could have saved a fortune by nipping to Tesco’s and buying a banana, a couple of satsumas and a ham sandwich.

You could probably cobble together a fairly realistic neo vagina by skinning a couple of chicken breasts and sewing the skins into an open ended pouch.

EricTheHalfASleeve · 10/02/2026 20:43

If you did have a DSD you might have a micropenis, or hypospadias (failure of penis to develop normally, ranges from urethral meatus being a bit off line to very major abnormalities) or abnormal clitoral development or abnormal internal reproductive tract & urinary tract - but strictly speaking I think your actual perineum would be normal. Of course many people with a DSD have an entirely normal reproductive tract (Klinefelter's syndrome being the prime example).
I may be entirely wrong - but anatomically the genitals are not part of the perineum. Definitely altered by childbirth! Bet they don't discuss that in the workshop.

Pasta4Dinner · 10/02/2026 18:51

Funny how they persist in using intersex rather than DSD because the word suggests that humans can be 2 sexes. Which they can’t.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 10/02/2026 18:48

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EricTheHalfASleeve · 10/02/2026 17:23

Haven't read the full thread - but isn't the perineum the bit inbetween and around your bits - and not the actual genitals themselves - so is the same in everyone?

IwantToRetire · 10/02/2026 17:18

In response to PP I was going to sign up but didn't because I am not going to be forced to use Microsoft teams.

Any how found this timetable which I think is meant to enlighten staff at the University.

Sorry to OP as this doesn't respond to that, but it is a joy(?) to read - Not https://www.birmingham.ac.uk/events/lgbtq-history-month

LGBTQ+ History Month - University of Birmingham

University of Birmingham is running a diverse programme of events for LGBTQ+ History Month, with theme of 'Science and Innovation' for 2026.

https://www.birmingham.ac.uk/events/lgbtq-history-month

Datun · 10/02/2026 15:28

On another thread people are talking about a woman suing doctors for botched genital surgery.

Doctors eventually had to remove “a severely deformed, scarred and nonfunctional structure that was intended to serve as phallus,” the suit alleges.

Are they going to have 3-D models of this?

Or even what it was meant to be? A rolled up piece of arm skin stitched into a woman's groin, with fake testicles used to pump it up with saline solution?

I'm guessing not...

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 10/02/2026 13:17

I’d question whether it was not terribly inappropriate to risk othering trans people in this way, and objectifying their genitals for prurience’ sake!

MrsOvertonsWindow · 10/02/2026 13:08

ArabellaScott · 10/02/2026 11:44

Here is that twit. Even the title of the show was enough. How does she think that would have sounded to any child who was victim of CSA?

www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/may/10/cancel-culture-rightwing-activists-family-sex-show

We discussed the predatory nature of that show on here at the time with their aim of "using pleasure as a vehicle for consent" - targeted at children aged 5 and above !!!

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https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4530725-A-Detailed-Look-At-The-Family-Sex-Show

A Detailed Look At “The Family Sex Show” | Mumsnet

Just for clarity & in case anyone jumps at the chance to call me a right-winger bent on denying women reproductive rights: I’m a socialist agnostic wh...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4530725-A-Detailed-Look-At-The-Family-Sex-Show

ArabellaScott · 10/02/2026 11:46

Proud Trust did Playdoh genitals.

www.thesun.co.uk/news/22553142/sex-education-schools-shock-parents/

ArabellaScott · 10/02/2026 11:44

Here is that twit. Even the title of the show was enough. How does she think that would have sounded to any child who was victim of CSA?

www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/may/10/cancel-culture-rightwing-activists-family-sex-show

AnSolas · 10/02/2026 11:39

Humm....
could have been them (as well) but my memory was more of a dedicated "show and tell" event.

ArabellaScott · 10/02/2026 11:33

Cant recall.the details now. Was it 'the family sex show'? And good god, how did anyone decide that was an appropriate name?

AnSolas · 10/02/2026 11:09

ArabellaScott · 10/02/2026 10:48

Didnt that weirdo group do sex ed.for kids where they got them to make clay models of genitals?

Was that not (or also) a public educational "artwork" aimed at childrens days out /school tours?

ArabellaScott · 10/02/2026 10:48

Didnt that weirdo group do sex ed.for kids where they got them to make clay models of genitals?

DrBlackbird · 10/02/2026 10:23

Fodencat · 09/02/2026 13:18

I do wonder how companies are turning a profit when most of the staff time is taken up with having to hear about a tiny tiny minority of the population. If this persists the tide is going to turn big time.

They'll either make a profit by laying off staff and/or the rest of our work schedules will dictated by algorithms programmed at speeds the human brain was not designed for.

I'm beginning to freshly appreciate the prescient writings of 1960’s dystopian futuristic authors in which they envision how technology has progressed to such an extent that it has damaged our humanity and destroyed an ability to live a meaningful life.

Rightsraptor · 10/02/2026 10:09

Sorry, posted twice.

Rightsraptor · 10/02/2026 10:09

I've looked at the link but can't see if it's open to the public too. I'm a bit nervous about clicking on it, so maybe I'll check out the uni's website to see.

If there's one type of body which has been 'othered' through the years, it's the female type which has typically only been of interest to science when it has a baby growing inside it.