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Olivia Colman: “I’ve always described myself to my husband as a gay man.” 🙄

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NaysayerOrMeanie · 06/02/2026 23:29

Olivia Colman is currently on the press tour for her new film Jimpa and has come out with some absolute corkers in an interview with them "magazine" including:

"Throughout my whole life, I’ve had arguments with people where I've always felt sort of nonbinary. Don’t make that a big sort of title! But I’ve never felt massively feminine in my being female. I’ve always described myself to my husband as a gay man. And he goes, “Yeah, I get that.”"

Which I can only assume means he likes it when she pegs him.

And a dig at some undefined group of naysayers and haters and meanies:

"Most of the actors were from, particularly in the Dutch side of things, from the queer community there; I’ve never been part of a more welcoming group of people. For all those naysayers or haters or meanies, if [only] they could spend the time with the most welcoming, kind bunch of people. I kind of want everyone to just come and say hi and actually feel total love."

Jimpa stars Olivia Colman as Hannah, mother to the non-binary Frances (played by they/them, non-binary, queer, transgender daughter of the film's director, Aud Mason-Hyde) who go to Amsterdam to visit Hannah's gay HIV positive father (John Lithgow, currently simultaneously scorned by the queers for daring to be in the new Harry Potter series, any by the meanies for talking shit about JKR). I'm sure it will be a hoot.

Congratulations Olivia on your brave coming out as a queer, non-binary, gay man, spicy-straight woman. You're so late to the party all the cool kids will find your identity embarrassing now.

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/02/2026 02:24

Haha x post

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/02/2026 02:23

I like her acting too but she’s fucking insufferable, isn’t she? Much like Emma Thompson.

DreamTeam20 · 07/02/2026 02:17

I like her less and less. And Emma frownhound Thomson for that matter. Two PITA.

BlueEyedBogWitch · 07/02/2026 01:45

Don’t they talk shit when they haven’t got a script?

It’s like they lose the ability to formulate sensible thoughts into coherent sentences. They should have a scriptwriter behind the scenes at all times, working to the brief, ‘Make me seem less of a berk.’

ConstantlyFuriosa · 07/02/2026 01:44

Ah non. Le cringe.

Robogob · 07/02/2026 01:25

YANBU. What a fucking embarrassment. Homophobic, incoherent nonsense.

dreichluver · 07/02/2026 01:24

RogueFemale · 07/02/2026 00:14

Yes, but it's because they're luvvies, even if they try hard to be a bit sort of edgy or something.

Hey, she more than proved her edge when she told the world she'd been a temp. And a cleaner. 😱 (Shock and awe). Despite going to private schools/Cambridge she knows what it's like in the trenches. Getting down and dirty with the proles.

Paladinski · 07/02/2026 01:20

She has a dreadful overbite that spoils her speech & also overacts somewhat, however she’s a versatile actress.

HelenaWaiting · 07/02/2026 01:19

"I’ve always described myself ... as a gay man".

That is not what I've always described her as.

TheFireHorse · 07/02/2026 01:15

Probably the same life that makes a poster post on a post that is of no interest to them!

🙄

PurpleLovecats · 07/02/2026 01:06

I can’t imagine living a life where this would prompt me to start a post on mumsnet.

Her opinion.

dreichluver · 07/02/2026 01:04

Imagine making up a 'queer' version of yourself just to garner attention for a film you're worried will bomb. Honestly I think the writing was on the wall as soon as the director cast her 'they/them' daughter.

And will gay men be charmed knowing that Olivia equates them to non-binary females? I think not.

I've always found her insufferable. A 'luvvie' of the highest order.

CrocsNotDocs · 07/02/2026 01:02

She can’t say she’s a woman who doesn’t conform to sexist stereotypes as this will upset the men in dresses who believe being a woman is nothing but sexist stereotypes.

MO0N · 07/02/2026 01:00

Oh dear, how cringe

plsdontlookatme · 07/02/2026 00:55

Yeah I find this way of going on cringey in general; agree with PPs that it's insensitive to those who have actually dealt with homophobia, and yes, reeks of "I'm too avant-garde to be heterosexual"

mumofoneAloneandwell · 07/02/2026 00:54

Fizbosshoes · 06/02/2026 23:36

Is this a long winded way to explain she prefers her hair short?

I’m not gc but this made me laugh

WhatterySquash · 07/02/2026 00:54

Sigh. Another short-haired woman who I once thought was cool and slightly GNC abandons women and insults gay men all in one go while thinking she's down with the kids Hmm

Bet the NB actor who plays her daughter is fecking fuming at having her thunder stolen by her "NB gay man" screen mum! Grin

Iamnotalemming · 07/02/2026 00:53

It's quite late and I've had a long day ... but ... good grief what is she talking about?!

KittyWilkinson · 07/02/2026 00:53

I really do cringe when straight people use the term queer to make themselves look a bit edgy.
I just want to tell her to get a fucking grip love you're embarrassing to listen to.

BeanQuisine · 07/02/2026 00:47

I'd describe her as a straight silly-billy.

thirdfiddle · 07/02/2026 00:37

Fizbosshoes · 06/02/2026 23:36

Is this a long winded way to explain she prefers her hair short?

Snerk. Like that well known chap Judy Dench. The idea of unfeminine in thespie world is so bloody tame isn't it.

junipery · 07/02/2026 00:34

Once upon a time she was quite refreshing. I remember an interview where she admitted she didn’t do any research and it was an antidote to actors going a bit heavy on all the work they did and sometimes thinking they had the intellect of the person they were playing. But I suppose even late-onset fame will send anyone up their own fundament.

Bertiebiscuit · 07/02/2026 00:33

These slebs just can't bear to be ordinary, they are so wrapped up in how talented, special and fabulous they are that they cannot possibly deal with only being heterosexual, even though most of them are. They probably also believe we care about the drivel they spout, they aren't geniuses or massive talents, they just happen to be fairly photogenic, got lucky and are good at pretending. Probably shocked that they can't walk on water.

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brieongranary · 07/02/2026 00:30

When a straight man says "inside, I'm really a lesbian", in order to convey just how impressively rampant their sexual interest in women is, most people (especially women, whether straight or lesbian) cringe very deeply for them. Same deep embarrassment extended to Olivia Colman.

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