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Olivia Colman: “I’ve always described myself to my husband as a gay man.” 🙄

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NaysayerOrMeanie · 06/02/2026 23:29

Olivia Colman is currently on the press tour for her new film Jimpa and has come out with some absolute corkers in an interview with them "magazine" including:

"Throughout my whole life, I’ve had arguments with people where I've always felt sort of nonbinary. Don’t make that a big sort of title! But I’ve never felt massively feminine in my being female. I’ve always described myself to my husband as a gay man. And he goes, “Yeah, I get that.”"

Which I can only assume means he likes it when she pegs him.

And a dig at some undefined group of naysayers and haters and meanies:

"Most of the actors were from, particularly in the Dutch side of things, from the queer community there; I’ve never been part of a more welcoming group of people. For all those naysayers or haters or meanies, if [only] they could spend the time with the most welcoming, kind bunch of people. I kind of want everyone to just come and say hi and actually feel total love."

Jimpa stars Olivia Colman as Hannah, mother to the non-binary Frances (played by they/them, non-binary, queer, transgender daughter of the film's director, Aud Mason-Hyde) who go to Amsterdam to visit Hannah's gay HIV positive father (John Lithgow, currently simultaneously scorned by the queers for daring to be in the new Harry Potter series, any by the meanies for talking shit about JKR). I'm sure it will be a hoot.

Congratulations Olivia on your brave coming out as a queer, non-binary, gay man, spicy-straight woman. You're so late to the party all the cool kids will find your identity embarrassing now.

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LochKatrine · 07/02/2026 09:09

She sounds embarrassed to be a straight woman. How depressing.

loislovesstewie · 07/02/2026 09:08

SettingSunStillness · 07/02/2026 08:59

Maybe she wants to use her platform to be an ally.

Maybe she has a different view on this from you.

I think that's allowed. Even though she's a middle aged woman.

The only platform I want her to use is the one at the railway station. People who are famous aren't experts in anything, maybe in their own profession, but nothing else. She's entitled to her own opinion on anything, there's no need to spout that opinion at every opportunity.

HUNGRY4MORE · 07/02/2026 09:07

drspouse · 07/02/2026 08:59

@Heggettypeg we are adoptive parents and see the "rainbow baby collectors", people who seek out children who are darker skinned than them.
Our DD spent some weeks with a foster carer though she was placed there from the hospital; the foster carer told us about a white family that a baby in similar circumstances was going to. Prior to meeting the baby the family asked about her skin tone "we like dark babies" or "she'll match then" or some such. It seemed to be a reassurance that the child would fit the image.

Did you post this on the wrong thread?

KittyWilkinson · 07/02/2026 09:06

SettingSunStillness · 07/02/2026 08:59

Maybe she wants to use her platform to be an ally.

Maybe she has a different view on this from you.

I think that's allowed. Even though she's a middle aged woman.

Being an ally doesn't mean that you claim to be something you clearly aren't.
I don't see white friends putting on blackface to speak up about racism.
Ally my arse.

PermanentTemporary · 07/02/2026 09:01

Funnywonder · 06/02/2026 23:56

Oh dear. Sometimes I’d just rather not know what goes on inside the real life brains of actors I love (see also Kathy Burke.)

This.

TheKeatingFive · 07/02/2026 09:01

SettingSunStillness · 07/02/2026 08:59

Maybe she wants to use her platform to be an ally.

Maybe she has a different view on this from you.

I think that's allowed. Even though she's a middle aged woman.

An ally to who?

SettingSunStillness · 07/02/2026 08:59

Maybe she wants to use her platform to be an ally.

Maybe she has a different view on this from you.

I think that's allowed. Even though she's a middle aged woman.

drspouse · 07/02/2026 08:59

@Heggettypeg we are adoptive parents and see the "rainbow baby collectors", people who seek out children who are darker skinned than them.
Our DD spent some weeks with a foster carer though she was placed there from the hospital; the foster carer told us about a white family that a baby in similar circumstances was going to. Prior to meeting the baby the family asked about her skin tone "we like dark babies" or "she'll match then" or some such. It seemed to be a reassurance that the child would fit the image.

HUNGRY4MORE · 07/02/2026 08:58

ProfessorLeveretGrey · 07/02/2026 07:20

Yeah an aunt of mine (aged 75 and in the 70s was marching for women's rights) recently claimed she now identified as queer and non-binary and would prefer if we used 'they/them for her.

My father said 'For Christ's sake Maureen, you've given birth to two children. If you are confused look inside your pants'.

Honestly if i had known family dinners were going to be so funny i would go more often.

🤣

We really need the laugh emoji back.

ZookeeperSE · 07/02/2026 08:54

NeverDropYourMooncup · 06/02/2026 23:39

I suppose for the money they get, spouting any old shit that the director wants them to say is worth it.

This was my take away. I think they all have to, to some extent. And I haven’t yet decided if I feel slightly sorry for them or if I think they’re all tiny brained dickheads.

However, this:
But I’ve never felt massively feminine in my being female
I agree with. I’ve never found myself flouncing around thinking oh goodness I’m such a womanly woman, being all womanly doing my womanly things. I mean, who does? Ohhh…..

Gettingbysomehow · 07/02/2026 08:53

Oh yuck TMI Olivia. Keep that private. We don't need to know this.

Whothought · 07/02/2026 08:49

Fizbosshoes · 06/02/2026 23:36

Is this a long winded way to explain she prefers her hair short?

😂😂😂😂 Well said!

RoyalCorgi · 07/02/2026 08:48

She's so non-binary and unconventional that she's married to a man and they have three children together. I wonder how non-binary she felt when she was pregnant or giving birth. I wonder...

Oh, what the fuck, I can't be bothered. It's all so pointlessly, tediously stupid.

AncientBallerina · 07/02/2026 08:46

Is she going to to be exactly the same in this as she is in everything?

Applepe · 07/02/2026 08:46

Never liked her. Too fond of herself by half and now she’s just proved herself to be the massive bellend I always thought she was.

InconvenientlyMaterial · 07/02/2026 08:43

It will be interesting to see how much she is allowed this ID too.

Short hair is common on older women and Olivia hasn't got a naturally androgynous face or body.

EscapeTheCastle · 07/02/2026 08:43

Remember folks, actors are only interesting when they are acting. Speaking the screenwriters words and doing what the director tells them to do.

TheHillIsMine · 07/02/2026 08:39

This stuff is so immature. Is she wanting attention? Words are failing me right now. Just embarrassing.

MagpiePi · 07/02/2026 08:38

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/02/2026 08:30

If the non binary character is described as being played by a “queer, non binary, transgender daughter” of the director, it means the actor is a TIM calling themselves “non binary”, I think.

These multi-identity descriptions always make me think of those ‘if Gerald is the father of Diane’s sister’s aunt, how is Gerald related to Diane’ type questions, where you ultimately think, I really don’t give a shiny shite, but particularly when they are contradictory; how can you describe yourself as non binary and a daughter? Shouldn’t you be a non-gendered ‘child’?

The film sounds utterly tedious

BeepBoopBop · 07/02/2026 08:36

She bought my former home in Norfolk a couple of years ago. Grade II listed, oil fired heating, four oven oil-Aga, gas hob, two log burners & an open fire and single-glazed sash windows in the oldest part. Didn't make her think twice about her public stance on fossil fuels destroying the planet.
When I saw Oblivian I wondered why she didn’t buy herself a nice eco-friendly bungalow in Sheringham. But those are just for us ‘norms’. She is very special.

GetTrumpArrested · 07/02/2026 08:35

NaysayerOrMeanie · 06/02/2026 23:29

Olivia Colman is currently on the press tour for her new film Jimpa and has come out with some absolute corkers in an interview with them "magazine" including:

"Throughout my whole life, I’ve had arguments with people where I've always felt sort of nonbinary. Don’t make that a big sort of title! But I’ve never felt massively feminine in my being female. I’ve always described myself to my husband as a gay man. And he goes, “Yeah, I get that.”"

Which I can only assume means he likes it when she pegs him.

And a dig at some undefined group of naysayers and haters and meanies:

"Most of the actors were from, particularly in the Dutch side of things, from the queer community there; I’ve never been part of a more welcoming group of people. For all those naysayers or haters or meanies, if [only] they could spend the time with the most welcoming, kind bunch of people. I kind of want everyone to just come and say hi and actually feel total love."

Jimpa stars Olivia Colman as Hannah, mother to the non-binary Frances (played by they/them, non-binary, queer, transgender daughter of the film's director, Aud Mason-Hyde) who go to Amsterdam to visit Hannah's gay HIV positive father (John Lithgow, currently simultaneously scorned by the queers for daring to be in the new Harry Potter series, any by the meanies for talking shit about JKR). I'm sure it will be a hoot.

Congratulations Olivia on your brave coming out as a queer, non-binary, gay man, spicy-straight woman. You're so late to the party all the cool kids will find your identity embarrassing now.

Olivia: what you actually mean is you have never thought you were attractive as a woman.

BE HONEST FFS

Fancycrab · 07/02/2026 08:34

Funnywonder · 06/02/2026 23:56

Oh dear. Sometimes I’d just rather not know what goes on inside the real life brains of actors I love (see also Kathy Burke.)

What did Kathy Burke say?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/02/2026 08:30

If the non binary character is described as being played by a “queer, non binary, transgender daughter” of the director, it means the actor is a TIM calling themselves “non binary”, I think.

Cyclebabble · 07/02/2026 08:30

She was clearly making some light comments in an interview. The problem is that gender and sexuality is now a massively charged topic, hence the widespread commentary. I would recommend more listening to Ricky Gervais.

FiftyShadesOfPurple · 07/02/2026 08:29

People spend so much time navel gazing these days - perhaps they always did but nowadays there are too many platforms for them to disgorge their streams of rambling and brain-farts.

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