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Brilliant article on Epstein by Helen Rumbelow in the Times TW Distressing content

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Shockhorror22 · 04/02/2026 10:44

I studied the latest Epstein files. As a woman, this is what I felt

www.thetimes.com/article/3c43b881-0f36-43bf-a32b-66fcba2b44ac?shareToken=b062e64ca800a9fb4a31da2ea933ee14

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JuliettaCaeser · 04/02/2026 16:26

Glad you’ve started this thread op. Vacillate between wanting to cry and a huge rage. Two dds same ages as the targets. If any wealthy middle aged man so much as looks at them I might kill him.

The men need to leave they cannot be trusted with power. Taylor Swift for president. Not joking.

flyingbuttress43 · 04/02/2026 16:25

1984Now · 04/02/2026 12:14

The question is not why so many men would be happy to seamlessly transfer between Gisèle Pelicot, Epstein Island, trans ideology grooming modes of abuse, but why women on the left especially, can slate the men in the first two categories, yet usher them in the third, giving those men third wave feminist and social justice cover for their peccadillos?

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It's why I, a second wave feminist, have precious little time for some/many? third wave, usually left-leaning feminists - or victim feminists - as I prefer to think of them. They are shameful in the way they cry wolf over the tiniest of offences, easily dealt with by a metaphorical slap, yet doormats when it comes to the big stuff: totally unable to stand up and tell these odious misogynists and the TRAs to fuck off. However, I was pleased that Helen quoted one woman in the Times article who did lay it on the line to Epstein.

We seriously need some tough education for these particular third-wavers to jolt them out of their naivety and give them the tools to stop their pandering to both the social justice warriors and misogynists. They wouldn't last half an hour with most women of my generation. I hate to see the equal ops we fought for and largely attained being trashed.

I'm old, so I don't expect much agreement to my point of view. I shall probably be accused of victim blaming, but in truth some third wavers are setting themselves up as victims, so me 'victim blaming' is superfluous; they are doing it to themselves.

DownThePubWithStevieNicks · 04/02/2026 16:24

Shortshriftandlethal · 04/02/2026 16:21

You don't have to hate men to be aware of some of the toxic aspects of masculinity, especially when men get together.

Agree. But the more of this stuff one sees, the harder it is not to hate them.

Shortshriftandlethal · 04/02/2026 16:21

DownThePubWithStevieNicks · 04/02/2026 16:20

The was a poster on MN yesterday bemoaning her 19yo daughter hating men. I hope she reads this thread.

You don't have to hate men to be aware of some of the toxic aspects of masculinity, especially when men get together.

DownThePubWithStevieNicks · 04/02/2026 16:20

The was a poster on MN yesterday bemoaning her 19yo daughter hating men. I hope she reads this thread.

Helleofabore · 04/02/2026 16:17

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 04/02/2026 13:35

I really can’t get over that email. You like girls but you fantasise about “sucking cock”? I have just the thing for you!

Oh, and the little add-on about pushing interventions on 3-yr-old boys with “trans tendencies” was vomitous.

I felt the same.

MrsTerryPratchett · 04/02/2026 16:10

MO0N · 04/02/2026 16:05

The FBI and police need to do their job
@MrsTerryPratchett there will be people at the top of these organizations who are involved.
Rule number one: anyone who has the power to bring you down needs to be compromised such that they wont go against you.

Absolutely. But there will be women who can whistle blow. And they should. Maybe JKR or Oprah can have a Fuck You Fund for people who whistle blow.

MO0N · 04/02/2026 16:05

The FBI and police need to do their job
@MrsTerryPratchett there will be people at the top of these organizations who are involved.
Rule number one: anyone who has the power to bring you down needs to be compromised such that they wont go against you.

peacefulpeach · 04/02/2026 15:38

heathspeedwell · 04/02/2026 11:43

However bad we think it was, it was probably worse. As women we can't even imagine how disgusting these men are. And it's not like these men were vulnerable or had any mitigating circumstances. These are some of the most privileged and powerful men in the world.

That was my overriding thought when reading it. This is just the surface. Horrific. And they’re not unusual, they’re just very wealthy and have been found out. At least a half % of what they’ve done has been found out. Funny he committed suicide.

BambiDextrous · 04/02/2026 15:25

From Marina Hyde's article:

''...they all knew what Epstein went to prison for. They overlooked it. As evidenced by their continued association with him, it wasn’t remotely a big deal to them.''

Yep.

deadpan · 04/02/2026 15:23

CrossPurposes · 04/02/2026 14:39

I'll hold my hands up and admit I'm not always right, but I've never liked Richard Branson.

FranticFrankie · 04/02/2026 15:21

Is Rog's name pronounced Shank or Skank?
Just asking

deadpan · 04/02/2026 15:21

MrsTerryPratchett · 04/02/2026 15:12

So when do all the arrests start? Everyone is hand-wringing and sadness and 'oh why didn't we listen?'

I'm telling you, start picking at the threads. Some accountant or driver knows he's on the hook for prison if he's implicated, so he'll tell and then that larger fish will tell and then a larger and larger fish. Even if all the aiding and abetting men get a slap on the wrist, there is a groundswell of evidence if you get the little fish on the hook. The FBI and police need to do their job. These men need to be in the dock.

The culture has to be 'if you were at a party, we're assuming you knew, and that's a crime in the trafficking legislation. Tell or be arrested'. They need to perp-walk every single one of these arseholes.

The only one on this side of the pond is being investigated for financial reasons. After all, money matters more than we do

deadpan · 04/02/2026 15:19

This is Roger schank, who says in an email to Epstein that he could have any girl he wanted on his own terms.
Let me tell you Rog, I don't know any females who'd want you or your terms.

Brilliant article on Epstein by Helen Rumbelow in the Times TW Distressing content
lcakethereforeIam · 04/02/2026 15:16

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I hope Wes Streeting reads this. Wtf does he think the future will hold for the poor kids who participate in his trial?

Eta I think this is part of what Helen Joyce was getting at when she said tp are a problem for a sane world(? I'm paraphrasing). The jaded Epsteins think 'novelty', think only of themselves. HJ tries to think of a future for these poor kids.

andIsaid · 04/02/2026 15:14

Well said @MrsTerryPratchett

CarefulN0w · 04/02/2026 15:13

Yes, Mrs T. Exactly this.

MrsTerryPratchett · 04/02/2026 15:12

So when do all the arrests start? Everyone is hand-wringing and sadness and 'oh why didn't we listen?'

I'm telling you, start picking at the threads. Some accountant or driver knows he's on the hook for prison if he's implicated, so he'll tell and then that larger fish will tell and then a larger and larger fish. Even if all the aiding and abetting men get a slap on the wrist, there is a groundswell of evidence if you get the little fish on the hook. The FBI and police need to do their job. These men need to be in the dock.

The culture has to be 'if you were at a party, we're assuming you knew, and that's a crime in the trafficking legislation. Tell or be arrested'. They need to perp-walk every single one of these arseholes.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 04/02/2026 15:09

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andIsaid · 04/02/2026 15:08

No one seems to want to talk about the ethnicity of the girls who were abused; I think that is a large factor in why they were chosen.

Not unlike the ethnicity of the girls chosen by and abused by the grooming gangs.

Timpanic · 04/02/2026 14:47

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FarriersGirl · 04/02/2026 14:20

1984Now · 04/02/2026 12:14

The question is not why so many men would be happy to seamlessly transfer between Gisèle Pelicot, Epstein Island, trans ideology grooming modes of abuse, but why women on the left especially, can slate the men in the first two categories, yet usher them in the third, giving those men third wave feminist and social justice cover for their peccadillos?

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Not sure I know the answer but I do think there is an element of both social grooming and coercive control involved. I suspect some women are persuaded/attracted by the higher moral virtue/power they think is conveyed by being TRA. Then of course it is a bandwagon that it is almost impossible to leave .

BambiDextrous · 04/02/2026 14:18

1984Now · 04/02/2026 13:44

I know if may make no difference to many women here, but not all men feel this way.

Oh yes we mustn't forget NAMALT at all times, thanks awfully for reminding us. 👍👍👍

ProfessorLeveretGrey · 04/02/2026 14:05

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 04/02/2026 13:35

I really can’t get over that email. You like girls but you fantasise about “sucking cock”? I have just the thing for you!

Oh, and the little add-on about pushing interventions on 3-yr-old boys with “trans tendencies” was vomitous.

There have been many mentions in the coverage about children fathered by Epstein. Sarah Ferguson apparently even congratulated him on the birth of a new baby boy. These children appear to have been removed from their mothers- at least there is the account of one young woman who is devastated because GM was present at the birth and the child removed. Who are they? Where did they go? That e-mail talks about a little boy of Epstein's apparently displaying 'trans tendencies'.

Also- mandelson is gay and was in it up to his neck. So far we are only hearing about young women being exploited- it seems far fetched to think it was only young women. I think there is still more and more and hope the remaining 2 million files are revealed also.

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