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Brilliant article on Epstein by Helen Rumbelow in the Times TW Distressing content

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Shockhorror22 · 04/02/2026 10:44

I studied the latest Epstein files. As a woman, this is what I felt

www.thetimes.com/article/3c43b881-0f36-43bf-a32b-66fcba2b44ac?shareToken=b062e64ca800a9fb4a31da2ea933ee14

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roseyposey · 04/02/2026 22:20

ProfessorLeveretGrey · 04/02/2026 14:05

There have been many mentions in the coverage about children fathered by Epstein. Sarah Ferguson apparently even congratulated him on the birth of a new baby boy. These children appear to have been removed from their mothers- at least there is the account of one young woman who is devastated because GM was present at the birth and the child removed. Who are they? Where did they go? That e-mail talks about a little boy of Epstein's apparently displaying 'trans tendencies'.

Also- mandelson is gay and was in it up to his neck. So far we are only hearing about young women being exploited- it seems far fetched to think it was only young women. I think there is still more and more and hope the remaining 2 million files are revealed also.

What the hell…?? Who took the babies, and where to? I didn’t imagine the story could get any worse …

The article shook me to my core. It was very hard to read the dehumanising, brutal language repeatedly used to describe women.

hholiday · 04/02/2026 22:16

I wish Virginia Guiffre had lived to see all of this come out.

RichardOnslowRoper · 04/02/2026 21:56

andIsaid · 04/02/2026 21:20

I agree with you here, but also wonder if they feel shame?

I think they must, on some level.

Otherwise, why did they hide it their appetite for young teens/barely women?

Because their appetites were illegal?

andIsaid · 04/02/2026 21:20

Mapletree1985 · 04/02/2026 16:46

The most devastating thing about the Epstein files is that absolutely nothing will happen as a result, thus confirming their assumption of impunity. And then it will get even worse.

I agree with you here, but also wonder if they feel shame?

I think they must, on some level.

Otherwise, why did they hide it their appetite for young teens/barely women?

DownThePubWithStevieNicks · 04/02/2026 21:12

Shortshriftandlethal · 04/02/2026 20:23

Would it not be healthier to disapprove of and/or 'hate' certain characteristics, rather than just men, generally, as a discrete group of human beings?

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Disapproving of locker room talk has done precisely zero for the liberation of women and girls from patriarchal violence.

I don’t hate all men on sight. I love some men, I make an active choice to be in a relationship with one of the really good ones. But yes, I do hate men as a class, and I consider that very healthy - it’s protective for my mental and physical wellbeing and what’s healthier than that?

womendeserveequalhumanrights · 04/02/2026 20:59

I just want to say how depressed I was with BBC coverage of this today. I was driving in the car and turned on Radio 4 (I know they're all misogynistic pricks in general, but I was bored and know your enemy etc). It was about 4pm. There was a programme talking about Mandleson and Andrew and whether the King will denounce Andrew. It was something about PR - so from that point of view but the presenters were like gleeful little boys. It sounded as if they thought it was a game, a political intrigue - drama! Excitement when the mighty have fallen! Absolutely zero fucks given at all about the broken child bodies or ruined children's lives. Absolutely no horror at the depravity and child abuse. Just 'oh this is an entertaining thing for us to chat about!'. Grim.

So so so depressing.

I should learn never to bother with the BBC. I need to write a note and stick it on my car radio: THEY ENABLED SAVILE, THEY HAVE NO DESIRE TO LEARN. THEY DO NOT SEE WOMEN AS FULL HUMANS. YOU WILL ONLY SHOUT AT THE RADIO.

RichardOnslowRoper · 04/02/2026 20:44

Germaine Greer + Margaret Atwood were so right.

Juneclaire · 04/02/2026 20:39

Do you think there is a Scottish Epstein - a shadowy figure backing the SNP, demanding easy access to the vulnerable?

guinnessguzzler · 04/02/2026 20:36

An absolutely incredible article, albeit extremely distressing to read. I am honestly disgusted with everything coming out now and these vile men who hold so much power and yet speak and behave like sex-obsessed freaks. I'm sick of hearing about Epstein on the radio every morning, how on earth did this awful man get so much reach. And once again what is wrong with these men? Most of them have everything anyone could want and still carry on like this. They really do hate women.

I did chuckle at the fact that Epstein had a longevity guru though. Stupid little prick couldn't get himself out of that could he. Now let's see Clinton, Trump, Gates, Branson and all the rest destroyed along with Mandy and Andy.

MrsTerryPratchett · 04/02/2026 20:32

Shortshriftandlethal · 04/02/2026 20:16

That's a shame! I personally find that very sad. Isn't it simply a case of blind prejudice when you treat everyone from a particular group on the basis of an automatic negative perception, without even having encountered or known them?

Generalised tendencies with certain groups can be acknowledged without hating on everyone from that group, surely? i cannot believe there were no nice boys at school at all?

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There are other nice boys and men. One of her teachers, a couple of older boys in one of her classes who BTW treat the younger misogynist boys with contempt as well. Her piano teacher (also gay). They get healthy scepticism. Fine by me. A lot of Nice Guys turn out to be anything but. It's not 'blind' prejudice when in every country, in almost every time period, the most dangerous person to a woman is a man she knows.and trusts.

We have 2 sweet, non-bitey animals at home. But a lot of animals bite so I'm fine with most people being reticent and some refusing to interact. Boys and men are a clear and present danger to teenage girls. And boys at school talk about porn, they are often mean, patronising or sexist to the girls. Why should DD skip about giving every new boy or man the benefit of the doubt? What's in it for her? There is a cost, there's almost no benefit.

Shortshriftandlethal · 04/02/2026 20:28

JuliettaCaeser · 04/02/2026 16:34

Dd and her friends are currently whistleblowing the behavior of a group of boys at school.

Quite a few boys have now come forward giving witness statements in support of the girls. So many mums are doing a great job with their sons.

I actually think it is more important what example fathers model for their sons.

Shortshriftandlethal · 04/02/2026 20:23

DownThePubWithStevieNicks · 04/02/2026 16:24

Agree. But the more of this stuff one sees, the harder it is not to hate them.

Would it not be healthier to disapprove of and/or 'hate' certain characteristics, rather than just men, generally, as a discrete group of human beings?

Shortshriftandlethal · 04/02/2026 20:16

MrsTerryPratchett · 04/02/2026 16:26

I think I'd rather teen DD started 'hating' and tentatively moved into liking some, than the converse. She has a great dad and (gay) male friend who she loves. All other men are treated on a range from utter contempt and dislike to healthy scepticism.

And it wasn't me that taught her that. It was the boys at her various schools.

That's a shame! I personally find that very sad. Isn't it simply a case of blind prejudice when you treat everyone from a particular group on the basis of an automatic negative perception, without even having encountered or known them?

Generalised tendencies with certain groups can be acknowledged without hating on everyone from that group, surely? i cannot believe there were no nice boys at school at all?

1984Now · 04/02/2026 17:13

UtopiaPlanitia · 04/02/2026 17:01

Surgeon Jess Ting was a big pal of Epstein and is a proponent of trans surgery for minors - he changed specialisations within his plastic surgery practice to concentrate on genital 'reassignment' surgery. Even TRA-friendly media are covering the story.

https://theneedlenews.com/jess-ting-prolific-vaginoplasty-surgeon-performed-plastic-surgery-for-jeffrey-epsteins-girls-brought-young-children-to-epsteins-island/

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They're not just evil, they're ghouls.

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 04/02/2026 16:57

RanchRat · 04/02/2026 16:54

None of these disgusting men are trans or part of a trans lobby.

nitter.net/againstgrmrs/status/2018407779216568385#m

RanchRat · 04/02/2026 16:54

None of these disgusting men are trans or part of a trans lobby.

FallenSloppyDead2 · 04/02/2026 16:47

deadpan · 04/02/2026 15:23

I'll hold my hands up and admit I'm not always right, but I've never liked Richard Branson.

Nowadays I just assume that every rich, powerful man is dodgy as fuck

Mapletree1985 · 04/02/2026 16:46

The most devastating thing about the Epstein files is that absolutely nothing will happen as a result, thus confirming their assumption of impunity. And then it will get even worse.

womendeserveequalhumanrights · 04/02/2026 16:43

MrsOvertonsWindow · 04/02/2026 11:50

Not meaning to derail but this does gives clues as to why it's been so easy for the trans lobby to so swiftly undo decades of safeguarding children along with the rights of women to undress / have privacy away from the male gaze. It's often asked how this miniscule group in the population managed to unravel the social contract so swiftly and with so little resistance from the establishment?

Well, if so many powerful men have these attitudes to women and girls, then the trans lobby were preaching to the converted so to speak. While we assumed that safeguarding children and women's rights to safety and privacy were enshrined in our laws and institutions, those at the very top were evidently just paying lip service to these principles. When an opportunity came along to dismantle these safeguarding principles, so many powerful politicians, lawyers, civil servants, medics, educators etc jumped at the chance as it suited their demands. We always wonder how those infamous "deals done behind closed doors" revealed in the Denton report actually got through?

The Epstein files are revealing how.

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Agree with this very much.

Profound misogyny underpins it all.

JuliettaCaeser · 04/02/2026 16:34

Dd and her friends are currently whistleblowing the behavior of a group of boys at school.

Quite a few boys have now come forward giving witness statements in support of the girls. So many mums are doing a great job with their sons.

AmazingGraced · 04/02/2026 16:32

Absolutely sickening.

UtopiaPlanitia · 04/02/2026 16:28

Shortshriftandlethal · 04/02/2026 13:24

Yes, this is the critical question. It is certainly a conscious act of great cognitive dissonance - understanding full well the ways in which females are vulnerable to males, but then denying this reality when it comes to trans ideology/gender identity theory.

I've tended to think it arises from a vision of women's liberation which wants to see women as being the same as men, being 'equal' ,and therefore being free to do and behave as men do. Being free of female vulnerabilities. Women's 'prissiness' about sex or over-modesty about nudity and their bodies is seen as something to be liberated from. 'Sex work' is just women taking ownership of their sexuality and their body and doing what they choose with it,

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So many women involved in leftist and revolutionary movements are happy to put solidarity and the success of the movement above their own self-interest, confident that in the new regime their loyalty will be rewarded.

But we've seen throughout history, women playing a large part in a revolutionary or leftist political change and then, once the men are in power, the women in the movement are got rid of as no longer necessary - this happened in my own country Ireland where women campaigned for equal rights after independence from Britain and their support was gratefully accepted (even during the armed struggle) until after independence when they were completely shafted by the men who gained power in the new state and created very repressive legislation with regards women.

So many women allow idealism to get in the way of sensible self-interest 🤔

MrsTerryPratchett · 04/02/2026 16:26

Shortshriftandlethal · 04/02/2026 16:21

You don't have to hate men to be aware of some of the toxic aspects of masculinity, especially when men get together.

I think I'd rather teen DD started 'hating' and tentatively moved into liking some, than the converse. She has a great dad and (gay) male friend who she loves. All other men are treated on a range from utter contempt and dislike to healthy scepticism.

And it wasn't me that taught her that. It was the boys at her various schools.

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