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“A school faces a threat of legal action over policies that protect all children – so we’re fighting back.”

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 03/02/2026 11:48

https://goodlaw.social/a8mo

the GLP are sort of the curse of bad luck so let’s see what happens…

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 07/02/2026 12:50

ProfessorofSelfPortraiture · 06/02/2026 20:52

Can you tell us anything about the progress of your case, OP? No pressure, I can think of lots of reasons why it might not be possible or sensible...

Kind to ask. Things progress. I asked for the previous threads to be hidden until later in the future to keep things neat and tidy. I’ll do my best to be public about what I can.
still looking for Brighton parents of pupils current or past who could have been affected by this school.

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Hueyblueyandtheshoes · 07/02/2026 10:24

InconvenientlyMaterial · 06/02/2026 15:09

Explains a bit. I've a Canadian friend. I didn't realise until recently how misogynist their culture is. Like, work dos at strip bars is normal. Very much what men say goes.

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….. also known as Tranada

ProudWomanXX · 07/02/2026 02:43

ChemicalSymbolForAngst · 07/02/2026 01:36

Just ignore derailers and don’t engage, is my advice.

I know, I know 🙄
But it's just SO tedious, isn't it..

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/02/2026 02:42

Bluebootsgreenboots · 06/02/2026 20:33

Aaah, now so many aspects of this story start to make sense. Thank you.

Don’t they just.

onepostwonder · 07/02/2026 02:38

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ChemicalSymbolForAngst · 07/02/2026 01:36

Just ignore derailers and don’t engage, is my advice.

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RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 06/02/2026 23:32

onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 23:02

I agree. But as humans, we have evolved so that our social interactions and community hierarchy are no longer influenced by the likelihood of gamete intermingling. The existence or lack of existence of viable gametes in one's body has no affect on interpersonal or public relationships. Gender theory provides a window into the interpersonal and social.

Speak for yourself. But I've now caught up with the OP's wish for the fascinating diversion into you and your beliefs to cease on this thread, so if you want to discuss further with me, you will need to start your own.

onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 23:02

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 06/02/2026 22:52

The basis of sex is reproductive role. That is the only reason we have two sexes. Sex, binary sex, existed in organisms long before any of them developed consciousness. We cannot switch from one reproductive role to the other. Some organisms have that ability, but no mammal does.

I agree. But as humans, we have evolved so that our social interactions and community hierarchy are no longer influenced by the likelihood of gamete intermingling. The existence or lack of existence of viable gametes in one's body has no affect on interpersonal or public relationships. Gender theory provides a window into the interpersonal and social.

onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 22:52

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 06/02/2026 22:33

It is hard to keep your principles when someone you love makes their relationship with you dependent on ditching your principles. My wife and I each came to the conclusion that we were not prepared to be coerced into pretending that our son is our daughter. We told him so, and our relationships with him are very strained. This is horrible for us and for him, but I do not believe that a relationship based on coerced pretence is worth anything at all. I hope that at some point he will recognise that, and remember when our relationship used to be based on mutual respect despite some quite foundational differences of worldview. We continue to love him despite the pain. I believe he continues to love us despite the pain, and that his logical thinking will eventually overcome the indoctrination of gender identity ideology.

I understand.

My father kicked me out of our home when he learned I had committed to having surgery. He wasn't having any of it when he learned I'd effectively started socially transitioning with friends and even less when he learned I'd been on estrogen. He snapped at that point and that was that. Until then he would smirk when I'd arrive home. I was well used to being told I'd ruined my life and that as ex-first born son everything in his will would be going to my brother.

My mother accompanied me to my surgery. She helped with the first two weeks of aftercare. Apparently my dad was concerned enough to ask my mother how it went and how I was recovering. A year later, I was invited back for Christmas. I went with my BF as backup. My mother attributes it to 'normalcy' but I don't know exactly what switch flipped in his head but he suddenly became extraordinarily supportive. He was and remains extremely supportive and verbally proud of me and my life now in his mid 90s. I love him and I am thankful that I was able to share my life and my family with him.

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 06/02/2026 22:52

onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 09:32

Sex is more than just gametes and bodies formed around their use despite what anyone believes.

The basis of sex is reproductive role. That is the only reason we have two sexes. Sex, binary sex, existed in organisms long before any of them developed consciousness. We cannot switch from one reproductive role to the other. Some organisms have that ability, but no mammal does.

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 06/02/2026 22:33

onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 08:35

There's a version of similar questions asked of people with a trans person in their life. The results are different.

It is hard to keep your principles when someone you love makes their relationship with you dependent on ditching your principles. My wife and I each came to the conclusion that we were not prepared to be coerced into pretending that our son is our daughter. We told him so, and our relationships with him are very strained. This is horrible for us and for him, but I do not believe that a relationship based on coerced pretence is worth anything at all. I hope that at some point he will recognise that, and remember when our relationship used to be based on mutual respect despite some quite foundational differences of worldview. We continue to love him despite the pain. I believe he continues to love us despite the pain, and that his logical thinking will eventually overcome the indoctrination of gender identity ideology.

Hicc · 06/02/2026 22:04

RedToothBrush · 06/02/2026 21:57

Declared conflict of interest?

The Governors bios are collectively a DEI dream. It is Brighton, after all.

RedToothBrush · 06/02/2026 21:57

Hicc · 06/02/2026 14:11

One of the Governors is a solicitor and has a specific interest in supporting trans identified children, so...

Declared conflict of interest?

ProfessorofSelfPortraiture · 06/02/2026 20:52

Can you tell us anything about the progress of your case, OP? No pressure, I can think of lots of reasons why it might not be possible or sensible...

Bluebootsgreenboots · 06/02/2026 20:33

Hicc · 06/02/2026 14:11

One of the Governors is a solicitor and has a specific interest in supporting trans identified children, so...

Aaah, now so many aspects of this story start to make sense. Thank you.

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 06/02/2026 18:54

...moving on...

If anyone knows of LED Sign Tony - it springs to mind.

https://www.instagram.com/lclightbox/

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onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 18:44

Hueyblueyandtheshoes · 06/02/2026 11:31

If we are both within the normal range you will be 51% stronger than me because you are male.

This is accurate based upon biological sex based data.

I would presume 'biological sex based data' collected from non-trans participants? I would say is surprising that science-focused gender critical beliefs disallow for and/or flat out ignore basic hormonal influence and a biological lack of male adult development. But, allowing such an acknowledgement would make grouping trans women into 'biological men' very difficult.

ApplebyArrows · 06/02/2026 17:30

InconvenientlyMaterial · 06/02/2026 13:23

My experience so far has been that at the point where they divide the sexes for PE, there's a 3rd category for kids of both sexes who aren't massively into the school team sports. They do athletics, racquet sports, mixed handball, gym etc

I don't know how common this is, but it's been great for my son who's very fit but would get snapped in half by rugby and isn't into lads bantz.

The best PE lessons I had were when they sorted us by ability (still single-sex) and I didn't have to worry about being with people much better than me. This was done routinely in every other subject but the PE teachers mostly insisted on all abilities playing together for some reason.

MagpiePi · 06/02/2026 15:57

onepostwonder · 06/02/2026 11:15

I knew I was going to eventually transition before I was 8. I'm pretty certain attributing transness to shaping up in a 'man world' and dressing and deceiving others is a gender critical belief.

You have no idea what I was subjected to by men.

If you’ve always been a girl and then a woman, what exactly were you transitioning from or to?

Keeptoiletssafe · 06/02/2026 15:30

Apologies cut and pasted bbc hyperlink accidentally and can’t edit it out. That story is horrific and shows why safeguarding should be paramount.

Keeptoiletssafe · 06/02/2026 15:28

I bet the schools lawyers have learned a lot from these threads. I have given my time and expertise to them by writing the facts on this thread in the hope they can get up to speed which is of course is really safeguarding and commonsense.

Look at the headlines today:
• Serial killer given 40-year sentence for murdering Victoria Hall, 17, as judge says 'you'll die in prison'
• Wife of summer camp abuser calls him 'sadistic, monstrous paedophile' at sentencing hearing. The former vet and teacher has pleaded guilty to 18 charges including sexual assault and child cruelty
• Starmer apology a 'huge step', says Epstein survivor.
• 'PM's error of judgement was an error a lot of people made' - Starmer's biographer
• We had sex in a Chinese hotel, then found we had been broadcast to thousands.

Then reflect why on earth could parents possibly want safeguarding for their children, particularly when it is about girls changing in front of boys??

Hicc · 06/02/2026 15:11

InconvenientlyMaterial · 06/02/2026 15:11

Oh yay.
Privilege X fundamentalism = danger to everyone

Zealot is the word that springs to my mind

InconvenientlyMaterial · 06/02/2026 15:11

Hicc · 06/02/2026 14:11

One of the Governors is a solicitor and has a specific interest in supporting trans identified children, so...

Oh yay.
Privilege X fundamentalism = danger to everyone

InconvenientlyMaterial · 06/02/2026 15:09

MyAmpleSheep · 06/02/2026 14:01

He's a Canadian living in the UK.

Explains a bit. I've a Canadian friend. I didn't realise until recently how misogynist their culture is. Like, work dos at strip bars is normal. Very much what men say goes.