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Removed from group and refused rejoining

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Tursl · 27/01/2026 23:21

I joined a Facebook group in December as I wanted to make friends with other women into personal development. Tonight I was removed from the group and it says I need to answer the questions. So I answered the questions and asked to join again and got declined.

I see they have accepted 131 women to the group this week. I feel disheartened as I have had no explanation about why I was refused. How is this a group that is inclusive and says they are there to let people make new friends yet are declining people without a valid reason. I don’t get why some people pick and choose who joins a group.

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Tursl · 27/01/2026 23:47

Greyskybluesky · 27/01/2026 23:42

So what did you answer?

Why don't you just ask them why you weren't accepted?

Edited

There are about 6 admins so I don’t know which one declined me to ask. If I do ask they might think I’m desperate to join the group and gloat. I don’t know if they would be truthful the real reason I wasn’t accepted.

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Myalternate · 27/01/2026 23:43

The questions seem innocent enough but were any of your answers conditional?

Greyskybluesky · 27/01/2026 23:42

So what did you answer?

Why don't you just ask them why you weren't accepted?

Tursl · 27/01/2026 23:39

Greyskybluesky · 27/01/2026 23:39

What festival?

Womanifest

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Greyskybluesky · 27/01/2026 23:39

What festival?

Tursl · 27/01/2026 23:33

Myalternate · 27/01/2026 23:30

Can you give an example of the questions asked and your answers?

It said what is your email address. 2nd questions is about the festival tickets. There were 3
options: have you bought your ticket for the festival, are you going and have not bought a ticket or what is the festival all about. Then where you heard about the group.

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Myalternate · 27/01/2026 23:30

Can you give an example of the questions asked and your answers?