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Athika Ahmed (Welsh health ambassador) - Can we show her some love?

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SixSevens · 21/01/2026 16:59

Once again, Twitter/X has sunk to new lows…

Athika Ahmed, an ambassador for the “Love Your Period” campaign is being widely bullied by thousands of men for her appearance. She’s a young woman and clearly doing good work. I hate that it’s acceptable to treat women like this.

Very few are standing up for her. Can we show her some love?

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aredrosegrewup · 22/01/2026 10:08

indoorherbs · 21/01/2026 17:33

I do wonder who thought it was a good idea to appoint her as a health ambassador when she's so obese.
They could have seen that coming, poor girl

So overweight people can't have jobs now? You have no idea why she is overweight. Just because somebody isn't the ideal BMI, does that mean they can't do a job, implement policies, advocate for health services etc... Would you say the same to an overweight surgeon or would you just be pleased they had the skills to help you and potentially save lives.

SixSevens · 22/01/2026 09:55

Where does it say she’s a med student?

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glasshousewithstones · 22/01/2026 09:37

glasshousewithstones · 22/01/2026 09:26

No it was a different post, a while ago when she won an award for something else, it was misquoted that she was a dietician.

I see some of your points, it doesn’t matter how she looks if she’s promoting women’s menstrual health. However, the argument makes no sense when you compare it to an oncologist with cancer or a surgeon with a prosthetic leg. Going through a similar experience to a patient isn’t the same thing as actively doing the opposite to the medical advice you are giving.

my point was the misquoting of her profession has meant she’s received unnecessary and unrelated abuse online

I noted a typo in my response. It should say that it doesn’t matter how she looks and ITS GOOD she’s promoting women’s menstrual health. Can’t correct it

glasshousewithstones · 22/01/2026 09:26

Appianita · 22/01/2026 08:41

I would absolutely take advice from a qualified dietician of any weight or health condition. I would take health advice from an oncologist with cancer, from a GP with diabetes and a surgeon with a prosthetic leg. Because if they are qualified, any health condition they have it's absolutely irrelevant to the guidance they would give.

It's not relevant to this though - this young woman is not a dietitian. I'm assuming the LinkedIn page you're looking at is the one that some troll has put up with racist and misogynistic dog whistles to engender exactly this kind of conversation. I would take advice from any qualified medical practitioner, I would have more caution taking information from LinkedIn profiles.

Just imagine for a moment the alternative to allowing this woman to be active on this health panel. "Yes, you are passionate about promoting better health education, and better access particularly amongst the population that has less access to good information and health care. And you did amazing work shaping the resources available to children across Wales. But could you possibly stand at the back, behind our more aesthetically acceptable panellists? The lady with the brain tumour also has health issues, but they are not visible so let her stand at the front."

We can't allow right wing misogynist dictate which women can speak up.

No it was a different post, a while ago when she won an award for something else, it was misquoted that she was a dietician.

I see some of your points, it doesn’t matter how she looks if she’s promoting women’s menstrual health. However, the argument makes no sense when you compare it to an oncologist with cancer or a surgeon with a prosthetic leg. Going through a similar experience to a patient isn’t the same thing as actively doing the opposite to the medical advice you are giving.

my point was the misquoting of her profession has meant she’s received unnecessary and unrelated abuse online

MsGreying · 22/01/2026 09:16

I've had fat nurses tell me I am overweight and I need to eat better when I have been 5 points lower BMI than them. That's just insulting. If it was that easy we'd all be thin. And now with jabs the rich can be thin.

But
If she's talking about periods then at least she's female.
That's a lot better than Scotland did.

roseyposey · 22/01/2026 08:47

YesSirICanNameChange · 21/01/2026 18:02

She's a medical student at university; she is an ambassador specialising in supporting and educating young Muslim girls on stigmatised topics, she volunteers on the NHS Mental Health Youth Advisory panel, contributes to strategic planning for the youth board of an entire health board and has been recognised for her work by the Welsh government.

What the fuck had you done for women's health by the age of 23?

Quite

MissMarplesKnittingNeedles · 22/01/2026 08:47

YesSirICanNameChange · 21/01/2026 18:02

She's a medical student at university; she is an ambassador specialising in supporting and educating young Muslim girls on stigmatised topics, she volunteers on the NHS Mental Health Youth Advisory panel, contributes to strategic planning for the youth board of an entire health board and has been recognised for her work by the Welsh government.

What the fuck had you done for women's health by the age of 23?

This. Well said, @YesSirICanNameChange

ArabellaScott · 22/01/2026 08:46

Appianita · 22/01/2026 08:41

I would absolutely take advice from a qualified dietician of any weight or health condition. I would take health advice from an oncologist with cancer, from a GP with diabetes and a surgeon with a prosthetic leg. Because if they are qualified, any health condition they have it's absolutely irrelevant to the guidance they would give.

It's not relevant to this though - this young woman is not a dietitian. I'm assuming the LinkedIn page you're looking at is the one that some troll has put up with racist and misogynistic dog whistles to engender exactly this kind of conversation. I would take advice from any qualified medical practitioner, I would have more caution taking information from LinkedIn profiles.

Just imagine for a moment the alternative to allowing this woman to be active on this health panel. "Yes, you are passionate about promoting better health education, and better access particularly amongst the population that has less access to good information and health care. And you did amazing work shaping the resources available to children across Wales. But could you possibly stand at the back, behind our more aesthetically acceptable panellists? The lady with the brain tumour also has health issues, but they are not visible so let her stand at the front."

We can't allow right wing misogynist dictate which women can speak up.

True. Remember all the grief that health minister got because she was fat? Can't remwmber her name.

ArabellaScott · 22/01/2026 08:43

ThrowingDi · 21/01/2026 23:56

Loads of posters here think education and work are pointless - they are basically glorified housewives and baby popping machines with no achievements of their own. Therefore they are never going to see this woman as hard working or successful - it’s always about how attractive they deem her to be!

Imagine posting something like this and posturing as being the righteous one.

Appianita · 22/01/2026 08:41

glasshousewithstones · 22/01/2026 05:35

It says on linked in that she’s a dietician? I think this is where a lot of the critical comments are coming from. I think this is a misprint but you can see why people are perplexed. I personally wouldn’t take advice from an obese dietician.

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I would absolutely take advice from a qualified dietician of any weight or health condition. I would take health advice from an oncologist with cancer, from a GP with diabetes and a surgeon with a prosthetic leg. Because if they are qualified, any health condition they have it's absolutely irrelevant to the guidance they would give.

It's not relevant to this though - this young woman is not a dietitian. I'm assuming the LinkedIn page you're looking at is the one that some troll has put up with racist and misogynistic dog whistles to engender exactly this kind of conversation. I would take advice from any qualified medical practitioner, I would have more caution taking information from LinkedIn profiles.

Just imagine for a moment the alternative to allowing this woman to be active on this health panel. "Yes, you are passionate about promoting better health education, and better access particularly amongst the population that has less access to good information and health care. And you did amazing work shaping the resources available to children across Wales. But could you possibly stand at the back, behind our more aesthetically acceptable panellists? The lady with the brain tumour also has health issues, but they are not visible so let her stand at the front."

We can't allow right wing misogynist dictate which women can speak up.

ArabellaScott · 22/01/2026 08:39

ThrowingDi · 21/01/2026 23:56

Loads of posters here think education and work are pointless - they are basically glorified housewives and baby popping machines with no achievements of their own. Therefore they are never going to see this woman as hard working or successful - it’s always about how attractive they deem her to be!

Good fucking god.

glasshousewithstones · 22/01/2026 05:35

YesSirICanNameChange · 21/01/2026 18:02

She's a medical student at university; she is an ambassador specialising in supporting and educating young Muslim girls on stigmatised topics, she volunteers on the NHS Mental Health Youth Advisory panel, contributes to strategic planning for the youth board of an entire health board and has been recognised for her work by the Welsh government.

What the fuck had you done for women's health by the age of 23?

It says on linked in that she’s a dietician? I think this is where a lot of the critical comments are coming from. I think this is a misprint but you can see why people are perplexed. I personally wouldn’t take advice from an obese dietician.

99bottlesofkombucha · 22/01/2026 02:52

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 21/01/2026 19:02

More WAG virtue signalling, she's being used by them to further their agenda as the Sanctuary Nation. The optics of someone of that size being promoted as a Health Ambassador was bound to backfire on her.

Is health only for skinny people now?

NotFat · 22/01/2026 01:59

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Shmoigel · 22/01/2026 00:33

Namelessnelly · 21/01/2026 20:37

To be fair, it’s only one arsehole. Everyone else seems supportive.

I have seen over 30 separate posts about this poor lady today

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ThrowingDi · 21/01/2026 23:56

YesSirICanNameChange · 21/01/2026 18:02

She's a medical student at university; she is an ambassador specialising in supporting and educating young Muslim girls on stigmatised topics, she volunteers on the NHS Mental Health Youth Advisory panel, contributes to strategic planning for the youth board of an entire health board and has been recognised for her work by the Welsh government.

What the fuck had you done for women's health by the age of 23?

Loads of posters here think education and work are pointless - they are basically glorified housewives and baby popping machines with no achievements of their own. Therefore they are never going to see this woman as hard working or successful - it’s always about how attractive they deem her to be!

Springsnail · 21/01/2026 23:13

More fatty bashing
Christ ,let the woman do her job .
I hope she's got a thick skin ,and able to ignore this nonsense.
She's just a woman doing an important job
There could be a load of medical reasons why she's carrying extra weight,and none of them are anyone's business except hers

Arlanymor · 21/01/2026 22:50

indoorherbs · 21/01/2026 21:12

Ah, I see. You seem to be very close to this campaign. I wonder why you've posted here?

Not remotely - I don't live in Cardiff, or work for the health board, or for Welsh Government. I just don't like to see people tearing down a young woman doing her best for her community and for women in Wales more broadly. Don't you speak up when you see bloody ignorance? I do.

climbintheback · 21/01/2026 22:20

A few arseholes won’t put their heads above the parapet else it gets shot off! Such is life.

ABoldSubmission · 21/01/2026 22:03

Yes, she’s overweight, but she’s not advising on healthy eating

In the video I watched of her @NutritiousSardines (apt username Grin), Ahmed said that at school they should be teaching "things that are going to prolong my life" rather than just "how to get a job, because if I'm not living long enough, how will I get a job".

On that basis, her weight is an awkward 'hyopcrisy', for want of a better word. Because she's not just overweight, she is very obese. Which will affect her mortality and probably her periods too.

I say this as someone who is two stone overweight who is trying to lose weight for the sake of my health, and it's happening albeit slowly. I have a chronic health condition that is unrelated to weight but excess weight doesn't help it. The doctor is monitoring my weight and progress at my check-ins. If that doctor was morbidly obese and so more overweight than I am, I'd find it hard to look them in the eye.

I applaud her for doing the work she's doing, but she is not going to be fully listened to if she's demonstrably not healthy herself.

ArabellaScott · 21/01/2026 21:38

At least she's not male like the ill fated Scottish Period Ambassador. 😂

You know I think cynicism is starting to bed in for me. What with the Scotgov and Labour still, STILL failing to follow the law and Supreme Court judgment and respect the most basic rights of women in law.

Period products seem to be something politicians use when they want to signal they care about WAG.

We got free period products for a short while in Scotland. They've not bothered refilling the loos in months, though, I guess the photo opps are past now.

So, it'll take more than a box or two of tampons to convince me the Welsh govt give a fuck about WAG. They've been treating us with contempt for years.

But, to stick strictly to the OP, this woman seems to be doing good work, so all the best to her. I hope she gets good support.

NutritiousSardines · 21/01/2026 21:30

indoorherbs · 21/01/2026 17:57

And that's very worthwhile. But appointing her as a HEALTH ambassador and opening her up to public scrutiny all over social media was clearly going to attract the kind of comments she's getting.
Very unfair that someone in Welsh Government Comms has put her in that position.

From my reading of the information available online about her, she is not a Welsh Government appointee, but has a role on a local health board’s youth panel (which I assume is a role people volunteer for). It is difficult to work out though because of the tirade of misinformation and racism directed at her.

Yes, she’s overweight, but she’s not advising on healthy eating - and even if she was, her own weight would be irrelevant to the accuracy of her advice & its ability to engage the community it’s directed at. She’s making interesting points about schools and health and I have no doubt the comments about her are motivated by racism and misogyny. Revolting. In particular as far as I am aware the right wing commentators abusing her (eg ‘Tommy Robinson’, ‘Catturd’) have not before this expressed any interest in women’s health issues such as breast self examination.

It’s also really sinister to suggest that people who are overweight should not be given a public facing role ‘for their own protection’ (however this is phrased). We should deal with racism & misogyny by criticising those engaging in it, not by ensuring that women at whom it might be directed are kept out of the public eye. Or, should only those women deemed to meet ‘Tommy Robinson’s’ beauty standards (young enough, blonde enough, thing enough) be allowed a public platform? Allowed to speak in public? ‘For their own good’, of course.

The policing of women’s bodies continues apace.

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