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Darlington nurses win their employment tribunal

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Lovelyview · 16/01/2026 11:43

https://christianconcern.com/ccpressreleases/victory-for-darlington-nurses-as-judge-rules-policy-that-allows-men-into-womens-changing-rooms-is-unlawful-harassment-and-discrimination/

Brilliant news!

Victory for Darlington nurses as Judge rules policy that allows men into women’s changing rooms is unlawful harassment and discrimination - Christian Concern

In a landmark judgment, an Employment Tribunal has ruled that County Durham and Darlington NHS Foundation Trust unlawfully discriminated against and harassed the female nurses by requiring them to share female-only changing rooms with a biological male...

https://christianconcern.com/ccpressreleases/victory-for-darlington-nurses-as-judge-rules-policy-that-allows-men-into-womens-changing-rooms-is-unlawful-harassment-and-discrimination/

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murasaki · 16/01/2026 22:57

Ereshkigalangcleg · 16/01/2026 22:56

Go on then, it’s only 88 pages. Chop chop.

If they'd started when it was released, even with a slow reading speed, they'd be done by now.

ThatCyanCat · 16/01/2026 22:56

KermitTheToad · 16/01/2026 22:51

No, instead of answering my question you took deliberate personal stabs at me, making numerous assumptions about me and what I supposedly think. @nauticant, I was using capital letter for the posters who seem unable to read/understand lowercase.

I'm sorry that the answer wasn't what you wanted, which was obviously, "OH NO WE NEVER THOUGHT OF THAT WHAT ABOUT TRANSMEN YOU ARE RIGHT LET'S GET KNOBS OUT IN THE LADIES' RIGHT AWAY TO PROVE WE ARE GOOD PEOPLE".

You realise that you don't have to do this, though. Clearly you know men aren't women. That's why you started going on about never having had a penis when I referred to you as male. That's why you even understand the concept of a transman and the Transman Gotcha. Once you accept that people can dress and present as they like, they just need to stay out of spaces not for their sex - you know, like absolutely everyone - you no longer have to pretzel yourself and get offended by reality,.

I really do recommend it.

murasaki · 16/01/2026 22:56

MrsOvertonsWindow · 16/01/2026 22:55

I think transactivists work to different rules don't they?

It would seem so.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 16/01/2026 22:56

KermitTheToad · 16/01/2026 22:45

@murasaki , I will happily read the supreme court ruling, however I erroneously thought it would be quicker and easier to get my question answered on here. Well how wrong was I? Still , it's passed a few hours of my evening.

Go on then, it’s only 88 pages. Chop chop.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 16/01/2026 22:55

murasaki · 16/01/2026 22:54

I'm sure, back when it was all fields around here, that it used to be polite to familiarise oneself with a topic before charging in to announce one's opinion.

I think transactivists work to different rules don't they?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 16/01/2026 22:55

flyingbuttress43 · 16/01/2026 16:25

I happen to be on a sub reddit about a sport - a perfectly civilised group (so it is possible, even on Reddit), then came across the Darlington nurses' decision, and was confronted with the full on circle jerk that is the trans ghetto.

What was hilarious was the number of whinges about the BBC coverage because it has always been so gender critical. Sorry, I fell about laughing.What BBC have these circle jerkers been watching?

Congrats Darlington nurses.👏

One called the Guardian the “Guarditerf” lol lol lol

murasaki · 16/01/2026 22:54

I'm sure, back when it was all fields around here, that it used to be polite to familiarise oneself with a topic before charging in to announce one's opinion.

KittyWilkinson · 16/01/2026 22:51

KermitTheToad · 16/01/2026 22:45

@murasaki , I will happily read the supreme court ruling, however I erroneously thought it would be quicker and easier to get my question answered on here. Well how wrong was I? Still , it's passed a few hours of my evening.

You've had the answer several times now, but don't seem capable of absorbing it.

KermitTheToad · 16/01/2026 22:51

ThatCyanCat · 16/01/2026 22:44

I answered your question, as did several others. It is very surprising that someone with such a genuine desire for answers, and a superior grasp of English, missed them all.

But I'll answer again. Transmen are women, so by default they can use the ladies', and they can't use the gents', as men have sex based rights too. However, if a transman has modified her body so much that she really, truly passes as a man (very few do), then she can legally be excluded from women's spaces because she would cause the same distress and self exclusion that actual men would cause. It's also acceptable for safeguards to occasionally catch the wrong person. In fact they very often do, usually far more frequently than in the case of passing transmen. We generally accept it when we can't do X or Y for safeguarding reasons and I don't know why so many people think this shouldn't apply when men want in on women's spaces.

This does pose a problem to passing transmen but that's their problem; they chose to make such modifications that they no longer resemble women. Their doctors should discuss this with them before they make these changes.

So there is the answer to your question. You're welcome.

No, instead of answering my question you took deliberate personal stabs at me, making numerous assumptions about me and what I supposedly think. @nauticant, I was using capital letter for the posters who seem unable to read/understand lowercase.

murasaki · 16/01/2026 22:46

nauticant · 16/01/2026 22:43

I'M NOT SURE THAT IF YOU POST IN CAPS IT MAKES THE ARGUMENTS BETTER.

THAT'S JUST MY OPINION THOUGH. MAYBE IT'S REALLY EFFECTIVE SOMETIMES.

You need the

bigly writing

for maximum effect. Caps just don't cut it these days.

KermitTheToad · 16/01/2026 22:45

@murasaki , I will happily read the supreme court ruling, however I erroneously thought it would be quicker and easier to get my question answered on here. Well how wrong was I? Still , it's passed a few hours of my evening.

ThatCyanCat · 16/01/2026 22:44

KermitTheToad · 16/01/2026 22:33

This was my original postJust out of curiosity, which changing room do trans men need to use? Would any females mind a male presenting 'woman' using their changing room and WC?
Where I was clearly asking a simple question, because I had not read the new ruling and did not know if it applied to all trans people. So I am not going on about transmen, it everyone else who insist on referring to my post ( and misunderstanding it) rather than just answering the question.

I answered your question, as did several others. It is very surprising that someone with such a genuine desire for answers, and a superior grasp of English, missed them all.

But I'll answer again. Transmen are women, so by default they can use the ladies', and they can't use the gents', as men have sex based rights too. However, if a transman has modified her body so much that she really, truly passes as a man (very few do), then she can legally be excluded from women's spaces because she would cause the same distress and self exclusion that actual men would cause. It's also acceptable for safeguards to occasionally catch the wrong person. In fact they very often do, usually far more frequently than in the case of passing transmen. We generally accept it when we can't do X or Y for safeguarding reasons and I don't know why so many people think this shouldn't apply when men want in on women's spaces.

This does pose a problem to passing transmen but that's their problem; they chose to make such modifications that they no longer resemble women. Their doctors should discuss this with them before they make these changes.

So there is the answer to your question. You're welcome.

nauticant · 16/01/2026 22:43

I'M NOT SURE THAT IF YOU POST IN CAPS IT MAKES THE ARGUMENTS BETTER.

THAT'S JUST MY OPINION THOUGH. MAYBE IT'S REALLY EFFECTIVE SOMETIMES.

murasaki · 16/01/2026 22:41

KermitTheToad · 16/01/2026 22:39

@NameLessnelly Are you being deliberately obtuse? You are rewriting what I said. I WAS ASKING IF THE NEW RULING WORKED BOTH WAYS. ( becsuse I did not know; my bad)I did NOT say that I thought it should. FFS!

A) the Supreme Court did not create a new ruling, merely emphasised what had already been the law.

B) read it.

Seethlaw · 16/01/2026 22:40

murasaki · 16/01/2026 22:33

@Seethlaw I applaud your patience in the face of drive by wazzocks who try to deploy transmen as a gotcha but never actually listen to you.

Heh, thanks :) I wasn't around for most of this thread, so it's not too bad this time. Mostly a lot of eye-rolling as I read the posts, and lots of furious nodding every time a woman explained how this gotcha doesn't work at all.

Also, I realise I forgot to comment on the actual topic of the thread! I wasn't following this case, so I didn't know the conclusion was near, and this is fabulous news! If only my own country could take a leaf out of the UK's book, instead of being apparently intent on repeating every single mistake instead...

KermitTheToad · 16/01/2026 22:39

Namelessnelly · 16/01/2026 22:30

So you want males with a trans identity to use male facilities and females with a trans identity use female spaces? Sounds sensible to me.

@NameLessnelly Are you being deliberately obtuse? You are rewriting what I said. I WAS ASKING IF THE NEW RULING WORKED BOTH WAYS. ( becsuse I did not know; my bad)I did NOT say that I thought it should. FFS!

RhannionKPSS · 16/01/2026 22:39

Namelessnelly · 16/01/2026 22:07

So you’d rather females with a trans identity used male facilities? A TIF was raped after being put in a male ward. So by insisting people use the facilities that align with their “gender”, you’re actually putting females with a trans identity in danger.

That poor woman was in a security mental health facility and was completely and utterly failed by the people in that facility who were meant to protect and help her. It’s absolutely disgusting and sickening that she was exposed to those vile men.
She is clearly very unwell woman and I’m so sorry that she was usec and abused by more than just those two vile men.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 16/01/2026 22:38

RhannionKPSS · 16/01/2026 22:33

It is fantastic news and hopefully only the first of many wins for women’s rights in 2026

Isn't it great. Shame a chance to celebrate is being derailed but twas ever thus.

Hearing the BBC reporting the outcome fairly accurately and allowing the nurses to openly speak about the gaslighting their employers indulged in was a revelation.

The poor old translucent mob doing our work for us of with their contributions all over the place demonstrating precisely why women don't want them in our single sex spaces.

RhannionKPSS · 16/01/2026 22:33

It is fantastic news and hopefully only the first of many wins for women’s rights in 2026

KermitTheToad · 16/01/2026 22:33

ThatCyanCat · 16/01/2026 22:24

I think, as someone with an interest in this issue, and who claims to have a superior grasp of plain English to most of us (though this doesn't extend to knowing the meaning of man and woman, except for when you are called a man and then it does), it is rather surprising that you haven't read the ruling already. I do suggest you do, though.

If nothing else, it'll stop you doing the Transman Gotcha. If you find it tedious being called a man, be bloody glad you haven't been listening to people going WOT ABOUT TRANSMEN THEN every 15 minutes day and night for Lord knows how long.

This was my original postJust out of curiosity, which changing room do trans men need to use? Would any females mind a male presenting 'woman' using their changing room and WC?
Where I was clearly asking a simple question, because I had not read the new ruling and did not know if it applied to all trans people. So I am not going on about transmen, it everyone else who insist on referring to my post ( and misunderstanding it) rather than just answering the question.

murasaki · 16/01/2026 22:33

@Seethlaw I applaud your patience in the face of drive by wazzocks who try to deploy transmen as a gotcha but never actually listen to you.

Namelessnelly · 16/01/2026 22:30

KermitTheToad · 16/01/2026 22:18

Well I have never heard of The Transmen Gotcha, perhaps I WILL read the SC ruling, hoping it makes more sense than some of the posters on here. @Namelessnelly I never said I wanted transmen to use a male facility, I was asking if the ruling worked both ways( like I clearly said)

So you want males with a trans identity to use male facilities and females with a trans identity use female spaces? Sounds sensible to me.

ThatCyanCat · 16/01/2026 22:25

KermitTheToad · 16/01/2026 22:24

Because you keep referring to me as a male. HTH

What's the connection between being male and having a penis?

KermitTheToad · 16/01/2026 22:24

ThatCyanCat · 16/01/2026 22:11

Why's Kermit talking about never having had a penis? Why is that relevant, if women can have penises?

Because you keep referring to me as a male. HTH

ThatCyanCat · 16/01/2026 22:24

KermitTheToad · 16/01/2026 22:18

Well I have never heard of The Transmen Gotcha, perhaps I WILL read the SC ruling, hoping it makes more sense than some of the posters on here. @Namelessnelly I never said I wanted transmen to use a male facility, I was asking if the ruling worked both ways( like I clearly said)

I think, as someone with an interest in this issue, and who claims to have a superior grasp of plain English to most of us (though this doesn't extend to knowing the meaning of man and woman, except for when you are called a man and then it does), it is rather surprising that you haven't read the ruling already. I do suggest you do, though.

If nothing else, it'll stop you doing the Transman Gotcha. If you find it tedious being called a man, be bloody glad you haven't been listening to people going WOT ABOUT TRANSMEN THEN every 15 minutes day and night for Lord knows how long.