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Soontobe60 · 10/01/2026 19:10

ShowMeTheSea · 10/01/2026 14:29

Yes, I'd have a problem with anyone filming in the toilets, whether male or female. Not sure where you got from my post that I wouldn't be?

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And yet the only comment you made was about women keeping their boundaries, not the men violating them?

Soontobe60 · 10/01/2026 19:09

ShowMeTheSea · 10/01/2026 14:13

People with their phones out filming in the toilets bother me more than trans people ever will.

You mean women filming men who should not be in the women’s toilets in the first place? Have you also seen the video of a woman filming the shadow of a man masturbating in the cubicle of a women’s toilet whilst he’s saying he’s every right to be in there carrying out his sex act? What would you say about that?
Legally, the women have not broken any laws, the men however have.

Greyskybluesky · 10/01/2026 18:52

FuckOffMadison · 10/01/2026 18:46

There are times when I wish i had an account, what sort of things are being said?

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Just things like "classic lady behaviour", "the man reveals himself", that kind of thing. The video has been forwarded a ton of times. He probably doesn't care though.

FuckOffMadison · 10/01/2026 18:46

Greyskybluesky · 10/01/2026 18:38

This comment is already coming back to haunt him. It's all over X.

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There are times when I wish i had an account, what sort of things are being said?

1984Now · 10/01/2026 18:43

Greyskybluesky · 10/01/2026 18:38

This comment is already coming back to haunt him. It's all over X.

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Cue the tearful apology.
I said some terrible things (yes you did), I'm persecuted (no you're not), the world is so horrid (for some people yes, not you), but most importantly I reiterate I'm a woman (but most importantly women will keep telling you you're not).

CautiousLurker2 · 10/01/2026 18:42

Greyskybluesky · 10/01/2026 18:38

This comment is already coming back to haunt him. It's all over X.

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This video is the gift that keeps on giving. From showing young women who feel they can speak out, to actually having the security team remove them, to the final throw away remark that very clearly shows them for the misogynistic and threatening individuals they are. 👏👏👏👏

Greyskybluesky · 10/01/2026 18:38

spannasaurus · 10/01/2026 14:15

Did anyone notice what one of them said as he was leaving

"You're lucky I don't show you I'm a man"

This comment is already coming back to haunt him. It's all over X.

1984Now · 10/01/2026 18:28

Theeyeballsinthesky · 10/01/2026 18:27

Not All Gays (NAGS) 😊

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Ah, they were at NAGS
Not that they are NAGS

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Theeyeballsinthesky · 10/01/2026 18:27

1984Now · 10/01/2026 18:18

I can't keep up with the acronyms
NAGS?

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Not All Gays (NAGS) 😊

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1984Now · 10/01/2026 18:18

DrBlackbird · 10/01/2026 18:13

It’s also interesting that these trans identifying men were at the NAGS… so their presence in the female bathroom was a double FU? Then purposely antagonistic and not just ‘peeing in peace’ but deliberately transgressing women’s boundaries. If they were young gay men, they’d have been more than welcome in the men’s toilet.

I can't keep up with the acronyms
NAGS?

DrBlackbird · 10/01/2026 18:13

It’s also interesting that these trans identifying men were at the NAGS… so their presence in the female bathroom was a double FU? Then purposely antagonistic and not just ‘peeing in peace’ but deliberately transgressing women’s boundaries. If they were young gay men, they’d have been more than welcome in the men’s toilet.

junipery · 10/01/2026 17:52

I enjoyed hearing the Supreme Court being referenced! Well done those women.

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Theeyeballsinthesky · 10/01/2026 17:06

Helleofabore · 10/01/2026 17:04

I think it is the ‘the woman in a robe in reception of WiSpa is behaving more egregiously than the man who slid naked with a semi erection into the spa a metre from a 9 year old girl’ argument.

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I believe it is Helle!

I understand the suggested solution to this type of issue from JM is that women should tut and move away

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1984Now · 10/01/2026 17:05

quantumbutterfly · 10/01/2026 16:59

From your linked thread.

Double x? Fairer sex. Got a y? That's a guy.

I like it.😄

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Would love to wear that logo on a T-shirt when asking David Tennant for his views on Kemi Badenoch while he signs his autograph on it, or telling John Swinney what a great job he's doing for Scots, or shaking hands with Zack Polanski while confirming what a great ally he is to women and kids.

Helleofabore · 10/01/2026 17:04

spannasaurus · 10/01/2026 14:16

People who are filming others doing wrong are worse than the people doing wrong?

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I think it is the ‘the woman in a robe in reception of WiSpa is behaving more egregiously than the man who slid naked with a semi erection into the spa a metre from a 9 year old girl’ argument.

quantumbutterfly · 10/01/2026 16:59

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From your linked thread.

Double x? Fairer sex. Got a y? That's a guy.

I like it.😄

PriOn1 · 10/01/2026 16:49

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illuminada · 10/01/2026 16:22

Brava to those young women for standing up to the men.

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 10/01/2026 15:24

Yes, women saying 'no' are the problem, rather than the entitled blokes 🙄

1984Now · 10/01/2026 14:51

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 10/01/2026 14:44

I believe Maeve is one of the three founders of the new Cambridge Uni Women’s Society. She and her co-founders are amazing.

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Being a pioneer is always a bit scary, but I can imagine proudly declaring GC women's interests in a place like Cambridge Uni is the nearest equivalent socially to putting your head in a lion's mouth.
Could this have happened 5 years ago? Absolutely not.
3 years ago? Likely not as well.
Today? Things feel different.

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 10/01/2026 14:44

FuckOffMadison · 10/01/2026 14:25

I can't believe how young those women/girls were who were saying no. They are in the prime captured age group and yet they ALL said enough.

So proud ❤

I believe Maeve is one of the three founders of the new Cambridge Uni Women’s Society. She and her co-founders are amazing.

Greyskybluesky · 10/01/2026 14:41

Plaster on the makeup, grow the hair, get fake boobs, squeeze into tight dresses...but the MALE ATTITUDE always emerges eventually.

Can't get surgery for that.

1984Now · 10/01/2026 14:37

spannasaurus · 10/01/2026 14:15

Did anyone notice what one of them said as he was leaving

"You're lucky I don't show you I'm a man"

I'd say that was the mask slipping, but it had already slipped the moment they just wouldn't leave. That comment was the equivalent of another guy saying to me "Outside the pub now, you fk!"

DialSquare · 10/01/2026 14:35

ShowMeTheSea · 10/01/2026 14:29

Yes, I'd have a problem with anyone filming in the toilets, whether male or female. Not sure where you got from my post that I wouldn't be?

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In that case, you are as much bothered by trans people as you are people filming and taking photos. Seeing as they are often one and the same.

1984Now · 10/01/2026 14:34

AreYouSureAskedNaomi · 10/01/2026 14:10

They just want to pee in peace and have been doing just that peacefully for decades without the evil right wing bigot terfs noticing. Right?

Yep, all the women I've known have always told me about the lumbering types sharing loos with them. Like, happens every day, and they never batted an eyelid.
Like, no!