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TheDaysAreGettingLongerAgain · 24/01/2026 14:28

ShowMeTheSea · 10/01/2026 14:13

People with their phones out filming in the toilets bother me more than trans people ever will.

Filming in women's toilets usually means there is a TIM in there who shouldn't be there.

FallenSloppyDead2 · 18/01/2026 18:16

Tallisker · 18/01/2026 17:38

I think we’re using a gifted opportunity to take the piss out of him, not his poor old mother.

Quite, and to demonstrate how important it is to use language correctly.

Tallisker · 18/01/2026 17:38

I think we’re using a gifted opportunity to take the piss out of him, not his poor old mother.

MarieDeGournay · 18/01/2026 13:33

Datun · 18/01/2026 13:27

For what it's worth, Marie, I believe there's more than a likelihood that the entire story is fictitious anyway.

As we know, TRA's are generally complete strangers to the truth, including reality itself.

You're probably right, DatunSmile
I confess that my reaction is emotional, I feel that if there's even the slightest chance that the poster is referring to a real mother, I'd prefer if we left her in peace.
Which, as has been pointed out, is more than he did!

I'll leave it at that, I don't think I can explain rationally!

Datun · 18/01/2026 13:27

MarieDeGournay · 18/01/2026 13:13

I agree - he hasn't. But I feel that we should.
That's just me, I have an emotional reaction to the subject of dead mothers, anybody's dead mother.

For what it's worth, Marie, I believe there's more than a likelihood that the entire story is fictitious anyway.

As we know, TRA's are generally complete strangers to the truth, including reality itself.

MarieDeGournay · 18/01/2026 13:13

Helleofabore · 18/01/2026 12:20

But he hasn’t left his mother in peace. He has used her to once again shame women in yet another post showing his attitude towards women in clear light.

I agree - he hasn't. But I feel that we should.
That's just me, I have an emotional reaction to the subject of dead mothers, anybody's dead mother.

1984Now · 18/01/2026 12:23

MarieDeGournay · 18/01/2026 12:18

C'mon now, it's obvious that the poster was referring to his mother who has since died.
OK so it was clumsy sentence construction, and could be construed humorously, but he is referring to his late mother who he loved and who loved him.
Can we leave his mother in peace?

Imagine all those trans beauty queens in heaven (or is that Heaven night club?).

Helleofabore · 18/01/2026 12:20

MarieDeGournay · 18/01/2026 12:18

C'mon now, it's obvious that the poster was referring to his mother who has since died.
OK so it was clumsy sentence construction, and could be construed humorously, but he is referring to his late mother who he loved and who loved him.
Can we leave his mother in peace?

But he hasn’t left his mother in peace. He has used her to once again shame women in yet another post showing his attitude towards women in clear light.

Helleofabore · 18/01/2026 12:18

Menier · 18/01/2026 10:50

Off topic but I'm impressed by your dedication to educating your DM in the ways of drag while she was deceased.
Even when we are dead we women have much to learn from men.
Also, how did you get her to, from and into the venue? Asking for a friend.

I wondered. I also figured it gave a whole new meaning to the comment how those men looked so good as women compared to ‘other women she knew’.

Language. It really is important.

MarieDeGournay · 18/01/2026 12:18

C'mon now, it's obvious that the poster was referring to his mother who has since died.
OK so it was clumsy sentence construction, and could be construed humorously, but he is referring to his late mother who he loved and who loved him.
Can we leave his mother in peace?

1984Now · 18/01/2026 12:11

Menier · 18/01/2026 10:50

Off topic but I'm impressed by your dedication to educating your DM in the ways of drag while she was deceased.
Even when we are dead we women have much to learn from men.
Also, how did you get her to, from and into the venue? Asking for a friend.

Isn't this on a par with the likes of Eddie Izzard "appropriating" their dead partner by taking their name? Ie Suzy.

sashh · 18/01/2026 11:15

Mr Meno did a post on this. Apparently there were also gender neutral toilets available, but as ever they went for the women's.

FallenSloppyDead2 · 18/01/2026 10:59

@Menier Also, how did you get her to, from and into the venue? Asking for a friend.

Skinwalking

Menier · 18/01/2026 10:50

NumbersGuy · 15/01/2026 07:06

BTW something to point out, which my dear deceased mother said to me when I took her to see a drag show several decades ago, was that what upset her the most is that they can look better than most of the women she knows. As well, the reason for the large height, is because they train themselves to wear heeled shoes that are sometimes at least 13-15 cm. Again, another reason some women are jealous.

Off topic but I'm impressed by your dedication to educating your DM in the ways of drag while she was deceased.
Even when we are dead we women have much to learn from men.
Also, how did you get her to, from and into the venue? Asking for a friend.

CassOle · 15/01/2026 22:27

That is horrific.

QuestioningThisNow · 15/01/2026 22:19

CassOle · 15/01/2026 22:03

So, a biological woman was placed in a men's psychiatric ward because this ideology breaks people's brains and makes them disregard all safeguarding principles.

Yes. Because they demand to be treated as the gender they want to be known as rather than biological sex, they are put at risk. In reality this female who wanted to be known as a man was very vulnerable and it would be safer for vulnerable people to be placed with their biological sex not they preferred gender.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 15/01/2026 22:16

CassOle · 15/01/2026 22:03

So, a biological woman was placed in a men's psychiatric ward because this ideology breaks people's brains and makes them disregard all safeguarding principles.

Yup. The "talking about" link takes you to the thread.

We had an uptick of transactivists starting new threads and posting in an inflammatory style on existing threads after the thread about the psych ward epic safeguarding failure was started. I cannot think of why transactivists would want to flood FWR when such a thread is active...

CassOle · 15/01/2026 22:03

So, a biological woman was placed in a men's psychiatric ward because this ideology breaks people's brains and makes them disregard all safeguarding principles.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 15/01/2026 21:59

A trans-identifying woman was allegedly raped in a secure men's psych ward.

It's likely that NumbersGuy has picked today to start posting shite on this thread to distract us from talking about how SLaM NHS Trust's trans-inclusion policies put this woman in a place where two male psych patients were able to allegedly§ rape her within an hour of her arrival on the ward.

§: The trial of the suspects is ongoing.

ArabellaScott · 15/01/2026 21:49

MagicSpring · 15/01/2026 18:13

Or, in the case of one of my dinkier college friends, try to cycle in a strong wind and find yourself skittering backwards down the high street.

😆

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 15/01/2026 21:48

NumbersGuy · 15/01/2026 07:06

BTW something to point out, which my dear deceased mother said to me when I took her to see a drag show several decades ago, was that what upset her the most is that they can look better than most of the women she knows. As well, the reason for the large height, is because they train themselves to wear heeled shoes that are sometimes at least 13-15 cm. Again, another reason some women are jealous.

I've not had cause to call the Seventeenth Rule of Misogyny yet on FWR: Men are better at performing femininity than women are because they invented it and it gives them a boner.

The quoted post also illustrates the Ninth Rule: Men always know the "real reasons" for everything women do and say.

Anyone can walk in 15cm heels if there's enough platform on the sole. That's how the heeled boots worn by pole dancers work. For the love of Christ, take care not to let your foot roll over because you won't twist your ankle, you'll break it.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 15/01/2026 21:37

NumbersGuy · 15/01/2026 06:33

Surprisingly trans porn came in the third most watched genre in the UK for 2025, as noted by Metro in their 12/11/25 online edition. "Sexologist Gigi Engle, tells Metro it’s because of the public discourse in the UK about trans identity.
‘The marginalisation of trans rights means it’s become a conversation people are hearing about more often, and they’re becoming more curious,’ she explains.

So thank you to everyone promoting the TERF Island rhetoric that because of you, this is not going to go away. Didn't you ever learn growing up, the more fuel you add to the fire in places such as MN, you get to a point that the fire can no longer be contained. Trans people are some of the strongest people with all of the hateful vitriolic attitudes out there, which is why you can judge all you want. They're not going to go away but continue to push back 10 times as hard when they are pushed. How else did women's rights come to fruition and since suffrage in the 1920s, it took over 50 years until the 1975 Sex Discrimination Act, covering equal pay, work, and education came into law. So give yourself kudos telling people they're less than human and undeserving of any rights under the law. They and their supporters will not stop fighting when you're helping to silence them.

The First Rule of Misogyny: Women are responsible for what men do.

You have just blamed women for what porn men watch. You are a misogynist.

Dominoodles · 15/01/2026 18:48

NumbersGuy · 15/01/2026 06:33

Surprisingly trans porn came in the third most watched genre in the UK for 2025, as noted by Metro in their 12/11/25 online edition. "Sexologist Gigi Engle, tells Metro it’s because of the public discourse in the UK about trans identity.
‘The marginalisation of trans rights means it’s become a conversation people are hearing about more often, and they’re becoming more curious,’ she explains.

So thank you to everyone promoting the TERF Island rhetoric that because of you, this is not going to go away. Didn't you ever learn growing up, the more fuel you add to the fire in places such as MN, you get to a point that the fire can no longer be contained. Trans people are some of the strongest people with all of the hateful vitriolic attitudes out there, which is why you can judge all you want. They're not going to go away but continue to push back 10 times as hard when they are pushed. How else did women's rights come to fruition and since suffrage in the 1920s, it took over 50 years until the 1975 Sex Discrimination Act, covering equal pay, work, and education came into law. So give yourself kudos telling people they're less than human and undeserving of any rights under the law. They and their supporters will not stop fighting when you're helping to silence them.

Yeah... Having a bunch of guys view you as objects and reduce you to sex toys instead of humans is not the flex you think it is.

It's not actually a compliment to be featured in a lot of porn.

MarvellousMonsters · 15/01/2026 18:37

NumbersGuy · 15/01/2026 07:06

BTW something to point out, which my dear deceased mother said to me when I took her to see a drag show several decades ago, was that what upset her the most is that they can look better than most of the women she knows. As well, the reason for the large height, is because they train themselves to wear heeled shoes that are sometimes at least 13-15 cm. Again, another reason some women are jealous.

Oh bless, you think we’re jealous? I have absolutely no desire to look like a drag queen. The make up, hair, shoes and costumes look horribly uncomfortable.

Dominoodles · 15/01/2026 18:34

What bothers me here is that the Hippodrome has gender neutral toilets too. It's something I've commented on before because I went in by accident and freaking hated it. So why are these people going into the women's when they know they don't pass and will make women uncomfortable, when there is a perfectly valid and preferable gender neutral option right there?!

I think we all know why, this is how they get their rocks off. They're the same kind as men who intentionally make women feel uncomfortable and unsafe because they like the feeling of power.