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Good Laugh Project insinuate that Sex Matters are in trouble with the Charity Commission

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selffellatingouroborosofhate · 07/01/2026 01:51

JM has complained to the Charity Commission because Sex Matters platformed Richard Dunstan, who said some genuinely very objectionable things about about JM's history of being sexually abused as a child. The CC replied with "the issues you have raised have been passed to the Regulatory Compliance team to consider as part of our ongoing case into the charity". GLP then go on to talk about their defence of Mermaids. By mentioning the investigation into the unrelated charity Mermaids, GLP's statement is crafted in such a way as to make the reader think that SM are facing the same kind of super-serious investigation. They aren't: Mermaids were subject to a Statutory Inquiry, whilst SM face a far less serious Regulatory Compliance case. The GLP statement is cunning, it doesn't actually state what kind of case SM face, steering you into joining the dots in the wrong order yourself.

JM is well within his rights to flag his concern about SM platforming Dunstan, and is within his rights to write about doing so online. That doesn't make it any less seriously underhanded to imply a conflation of the Mermaids Statutory Inquiry with the SM Regulatory Compliance case.

Sex Matters's statement: https://archive.is/Sfs4k

GLP's statement: https://archive.is/GGMz7

I read the two accounts and wondered momentarily if they were actually describing the same thing.

Based on SM's statement, they will not platform Richard Dunstan again. I hope that SM will do better due diligence in future. I know that many on this board hate purity politics, but joking about child sexual abuse crosses a line and, as a matter of principle, we should never work with those who joke about it. GC feminists are here to uphold safeguarding of women and children, and joking about CSA is fundamentally incompatible with that commitment. No child deserves to be abused and no adult survivor deserves to be mocked about it.

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FlirtsWithRhinos · 07/01/2026 20:55

I appear to have missed Jolyon's resounding condemnation of the tweets of sexualised abuse up to and including rape threats that GC women have faced from trans activists for years.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 07/01/2026 19:23

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WallaceinAnderland · 07/01/2026 19:11

He's leaving X

Good Laugh Project insinuate that Sex Matters are in trouble with the Charity Commission
selffellatingouroborosofhate · 07/01/2026 19:07

IwantToRetire · 07/01/2026 19:02

It's a deliberate merging of 2 totally different things.

I think OP's intro falls for it.

Sex Matters had no information about a complaint about a speaker from years ago.

They only now know because GLP added it in as a side comment about something else.

There is no need to help them amplify their falsehoods.

I suspect any number of rational and genuine organisations have had speakers who years later make offenisve or inappropriate remarks.

What are they supposed to do? Consult a clairvoyant before booking anyone?

I'm pretty sure that my intro made it clear that GLP are being completely unreasonable here, but hey. 🙄

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selffellatingouroborosofhate · 07/01/2026 19:02

spindrifft · 07/01/2026 18:08

For what it's worth, JM was above the relevant age of consent and doesn't claim that the sex was anything other than consensual.

Given the circumstances, which were that JM had been ejected from the family home and was homeless when staying with these men, any consent is at best questionable. One of the ugly parts of being poor is that rent can look like yielding to demands for sex.

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IwantToRetire · 07/01/2026 19:02

It's a deliberate merging of 2 totally different things.

I think OP's intro falls for it.

Sex Matters had no information about a complaint about a speaker from years ago.

They only now know because GLP added it in as a side comment about something else.

There is no need to help them amplify their falsehoods.

I suspect any number of rational and genuine organisations have had speakers who years later make offenisve or inappropriate remarks.

What are they supposed to do? Consult a clairvoyant before booking anyone?

singthing · 07/01/2026 18:20

I read about this earlier. Isn't it essentially:

GLP: Reports SM
CC: Follows duty to investigate a report
GLP: OMGGGGG SM ARE BEING INVESTIGATED!!!

spindrifft · 07/01/2026 18:08

MarieDeGournay · 07/01/2026 13:50

What RD said about JM was outrageously offensive, and it goes against everything SM stands for to suggest that they would in any way condone making fun of the sexual abuse of a child.
I'm sure if SM had known that three years later RD was going to say something so gross in 2025, they would not have described him as a friend in 2022.
Hindsight is 20/20.

For what it's worth, JM was above the relevant age of consent and doesn't claim that the sex was anything other than consensual.

JoanOgden · 07/01/2026 18:01

IIRC Richard Dunstan did a bit of work for SM a couple of years ago as their parliamentary lead or similar. I enjoy his analysis of GLP's barnstorming court losses but had no idea he had posted these horrible comments. V disappointing.

NotAtMyAge · 07/01/2026 17:50

MelOfTheRoses · 07/01/2026 16:30

Is RD the one who keeps a spreadsheet on the GLP wins/losses/crowdfunders? 🤔

Yes.

Blessings25 · 07/01/2026 17:43

PriOn1 · 07/01/2026 11:27

The GLP statement says that JM complained for that reason:

“The news follows a complaint made to the Charity Commission by Good Law Project’s founder Jolyon Maugham KC about Sex Matters. Maugham complained of its decision to platform the activist Richard Dunstan, who speculated that, as a child, Maugham had “secretly enjoyed” being “buggered by some dirty old men,” endorsing a profoundly harmful myth that child victims of rape enjoy it.”

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Thank you for clarifying that. Apologies - I stand corrected.

RedToothBrush · 07/01/2026 16:33

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Of course it will because they keep helping in court cases and with public awareness. Therefore they must be punished and shut down by any means possible. Even if its through harassing people to financial oblivion with vexatious claims.

MelOfTheRoses · 07/01/2026 16:30

Is RD the one who keeps a spreadsheet on the GLP wins/losses/crowdfunders? 🤔

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 07/01/2026 16:10

MarieDeGournay · 07/01/2026 13:50

What RD said about JM was outrageously offensive, and it goes against everything SM stands for to suggest that they would in any way condone making fun of the sexual abuse of a child.
I'm sure if SM had known that three years later RD was going to say something so gross in 2025, they would not have described him as a friend in 2022.
Hindsight is 20/20.

Exactly. The whole thing is scraping the barrel to try to smear SM.

Anti-woman activists accused JKR of weaponising her trauma when she wrote about her experiences of DV to defend women-only services. JM is arguably weaponising his trauma to try to make SM look bad.

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OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 07/01/2026 16:07

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This has been withdrawn by MNHQ at the poster's request.

MarieDeGournay · 07/01/2026 13:50

What RD said about JM was outrageously offensive, and it goes against everything SM stands for to suggest that they would in any way condone making fun of the sexual abuse of a child.
I'm sure if SM had known that three years later RD was going to say something so gross in 2025, they would not have described him as a friend in 2022.
Hindsight is 20/20.

theilltemperedmaggotintheheartofthelaw · 07/01/2026 13:18

https://goodlawproject.org/statement-from-jolyon-maugham-kc-police-report/

RedToothBrush · 07/01/2026 13:01

close relations with the leading anti-trans charity Sex Matters

When is the court case that proves believing in sex and stopping sexism is 'anti-trans' please?

As for 'close relations'... Is this like trying to say he's sleeping with JKR or some other fucking ludicrous idea where you can't be in 200miles of someone GC otherwise you somehow hold exactly the same views and agenda?

Steady now Jolyon, the Ayatollah is speaking about child 'marriage' and making homophobic remarks.

Imnobody4 · 07/01/2026 12:53

JM has reported Richard Dunstan to the police with a swipe at Sex Matters.
Statement from Jolyon Maugham KC: Police report | Good Law Project https://share.google/FPcOXa2Bf8jwddcqktps://share.google/FPcOXa2Bf8jwddcqk
Mr Dunstan is not an anonymous troll. He has close relations with the leading anti-trans charity Sex Matters. The Times recently came to me for comment in relation to one of his allegations. And he is periodically quoted in the far-right blogosphere.For these reasons, I have referred Mr Dunstan’s tweet to the police. I believe his conduct amounts to an offence under section 127 of the Communications Act 2003. I will also take legal advice on other criminal and civil law remedies for his broader campaign against me and my family.

theilltemperedmaggotintheheartofthelaw · 07/01/2026 12:00

Richard Dunstan insulted JM on X in December, and JM complained to the CC about it on the basis that SM 'platform' RD. The evidence being a tweet of Maya Forstater and RD together outside the High Court during the JR hearing in November, and a tweet from 2022 in which SM describe him as a 'good friend'. I can't find any other links between them.

RD's X account seems to have been taken down.

The CC was already investigating SM because JM complained about a year ago about possible breaches of data law by the men in women's sports survey. So they said 'sure, we'll add this nonsense to that investigation'.

Mermaids irrelevant, and of course GLP has reported it as exciting 'new' investigation into the evil CSA- loving transphobes. It's what they do.

Good Laugh Project insinuate that Sex Matters are in trouble with the Charity Commission
Shedmistress · 07/01/2026 11:40

When did sex matters platform this bloke? Ive never heard of him.

PriOn1 · 07/01/2026 11:27

Blessings25 · 07/01/2026 10:59

This seems somewhat misleading as this isn't the reason JM has complained to the Charity Commission about Sex Matters. Was this deliberately aimed to mislead or a genuine mistake in which case, I would suggest edditing your writing.

The GLP statement says that JM complained for that reason:

“The news follows a complaint made to the Charity Commission by Good Law Project’s founder Jolyon Maugham KC about Sex Matters. Maugham complained of its decision to platform the activist Richard Dunstan, who speculated that, as a child, Maugham had “secretly enjoyed” being “buggered by some dirty old men,” endorsing a profoundly harmful myth that child victims of rape enjoy it.”

Blessings25 · 07/01/2026 10:59

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 07/01/2026 01:51

JM has complained to the Charity Commission because Sex Matters platformed Richard Dunstan, who said some genuinely very objectionable things about about JM's history of being sexually abused as a child. The CC replied with "the issues you have raised have been passed to the Regulatory Compliance team to consider as part of our ongoing case into the charity". GLP then go on to talk about their defence of Mermaids. By mentioning the investigation into the unrelated charity Mermaids, GLP's statement is crafted in such a way as to make the reader think that SM are facing the same kind of super-serious investigation. They aren't: Mermaids were subject to a Statutory Inquiry, whilst SM face a far less serious Regulatory Compliance case. The GLP statement is cunning, it doesn't actually state what kind of case SM face, steering you into joining the dots in the wrong order yourself.

JM is well within his rights to flag his concern about SM platforming Dunstan, and is within his rights to write about doing so online. That doesn't make it any less seriously underhanded to imply a conflation of the Mermaids Statutory Inquiry with the SM Regulatory Compliance case.

Sex Matters's statement: https://archive.is/Sfs4k

GLP's statement: https://archive.is/GGMz7

I read the two accounts and wondered momentarily if they were actually describing the same thing.

Based on SM's statement, they will not platform Richard Dunstan again. I hope that SM will do better due diligence in future. I know that many on this board hate purity politics, but joking about child sexual abuse crosses a line and, as a matter of principle, we should never work with those who joke about it. GC feminists are here to uphold safeguarding of women and children, and joking about CSA is fundamentally incompatible with that commitment. No child deserves to be abused and no adult survivor deserves to be mocked about it.

This seems somewhat misleading as this isn't the reason JM has complained to the Charity Commission about Sex Matters. Was this deliberately aimed to mislead or a genuine mistake in which case, I would suggest edditing your writing.

PriOn1 · 07/01/2026 10:31

GLPs statement implies that Dunstan made the dodgy comments while being platformed by Sex Matters, whereas from Sex Matters’ statement I assume his comments were made entirely separately. I am interested to know the context in which he made the comment(a) and whether Sex Matters reasonably should have known.

DrBlackbird · 07/01/2026 10:13

Brainworm · 07/01/2026 08:20

I lean towards the idea that JM has lost perspective on this issue and rather than engaging in spin, he fails to process information properly. I would describe this as him having limited grasp on reality.

Fails to process information properly as so many TRA advocates apparently do when they claim - on repeat - that GC women are trying to deny their existence.

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