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I will protect trans people in single-sex spaces row, new human rights chair says

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IwantToRetire · 31/12/2025 21:38

Meanwhile, Stephenson said the commission had, under her predecessor Kishwer Falkner, given “legally sound” guidance to the UK Government on single-sex services and were awaiting ministers’ responses.

The Government has said it will not be rushed in publishing an updated code of practice which will be used by businesses and other organisations to inform their provision of single and separate-sex services such as toilets and changing rooms.

The guidance requires ministerial approval and would only come into force 40 days after the Government had laid the draft code in Parliament.

Asked if she would be prepared to accept changes to the draft, Stephenson said: “We’ve made the draft, and we think that it’s legally sound on the basis of extensive legal advice, and we provided it to Government.

“Government obviously has to assure themselves that they’re confident that it’s legally sound, and they’re doing that, and we’re really happy to provide them with any evidence that they need in order to do that.

“We’re waiting to hear back from them about their views on the guidance.”

https://uk.news.yahoo.com/protect-trans-people-single-sex-050000412.html

This is just one of the many articles that have been written based on an interview by PA. Each one has a slightly different slant depending of which paper it is published in.

I will protect trans people in single-sex spaces row, new human rights chair says

THE new head of the UK’s human rights watchdog has said she will “endeavour” to protect trans people amid the ongoing row over access to single-sex spaces ...

https://uk.news.yahoo.com/protect-trans-people-single-sex-050000412.html

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Talkinpeace · 01/01/2026 16:16

Discrimination is not in itself a bad thing

we accept it when jockeys are forced to carry weights
or boxers disqualified for being too heavy for their class

Exclusion is not in iself a bad thing

height limits on amusement park rides
age limits on who can start school
age limits on getting a bus pass

WhatterySquash · 01/01/2026 16:01

This means protecting single sex spaces whilst also protecting the pc of gender reassignment... Third spaces are the most obvious solution that many reasonable people have been advocating.

But protecting the PC of gender reassignment means protecting people from unfair discrimination, harm and persecution on that basis. It does not mean having to agree that anyone is not the sex they actually are, or give them any special rights on the basis of what they say they are or their unevidenced beliefs.

Just as a Christian should be protected from persecution and unfair discrimination on that basis - but religion being a PC doesn't means that everyone has to agree (or pretend to agree) with the Christian about their beliefs, or let them influence policy. A Christian might think praying is effective, but you wouldn't let a Christian airliner engine safety checker just pray instead of doing all the right checks, in case they feel upset that you don't share their beliefs.

Likewise the PC of "gender reassignment" protects the person, but it does not validate the beliefs. If it does, it's out of line with the other PCs and discriminating unfairly against them.

FWSsupporter · 01/01/2026 15:48

onlytherain · 31/12/2025 21:55

She said “I think it’s really important when we’re looking at this issue around single-sex spaces, to make sure that you also protect the rights of trans people. And yes, I will endeavour to do that.” That is unspecific. She could protect the rights of trans people by saying they need third spaces. Plus, she said "ALSO the rights of trans people", so she is clearly intending to protect women's rights too.

This.⬆️
As the regulator there is a responsibility to uphold the law. This means protecting single sex spaces whilst also protecting the pc of gender reassignment.

Third spaces are the most obvious solution that many reasonable people have been advocating.

Newspapers and other media make their money by creating conflict. Headlines that skate very close to misrepresentation are very common as they are designed as click bait.

One key skill I believe we are losing is the ability to critically assess information. FWR is one place I find posters do critically assess.

Pingponghavoc · 01/01/2026 15:35

But there is a suggestion that men with gender are going to be protected as 'non men'. That is, they cant possible use the male toilets and need other facilities.

This is promoting the idea that men with a GRC or PC of GR aren't male. And that isnt good for women and children.

I might be wrong, and the protection might be to tell men to not to be mean to other men in toilets.

Shortshriftandlethal · 01/01/2026 15:26

OldCrone · 01/01/2026 11:47

I wasn't actually thinking about them being 'outed'. My comment was about the TIMs who insist on using women's spaces (because they have women in them) even when everyone knows that they're TIMs. There was one incident where India Willoughby made a big show of refusing to use the unisex toilet which was right next to him and walking miles to a women's loo.

They don't want unisex spaces because they're not validating and they're not full of unconsenting women who think they're in a women-only space. It's nothing to do with being outed.

I agree.....but that is irrelevent in the court of public opinion. Public opinion ( and the law) tends towards common sense and fairness; and is not interested in validating egos.

Shortshriftandlethal · 01/01/2026 15:23

Pingponghavoc · 01/01/2026 15:07

The assumption is that it is discrimination to use the correct sex facilities needs to be challenged.

Its as if the GRA and the PC of GR have made a class on 'non male, non female' people. These men arent female so can't use the ladies, but aren't male either so can't use the gents.

But for safeguarding, we need to knoe everyones sex, not promote the myth that a group of self declared men aren't male.

Discrimination is not a bad word, though, or necessarily a negative process. Being able to discriminate means being able to tell different types of things apart from each other. It is a fundamental skill that is naturally used during the process of categorisation. Categorisation is how the brain functions and makes sense of the world.

If something is designated 'single sex' then the act of discrimination has already occured, and this judgment has been made for a good reason.

Shortshriftandlethal · 01/01/2026 15:20

Pingponghavoc · 01/01/2026 11:29

The argument TRA are making is that going to a unisex toilet when they have been using the womens previously will out them, especially at work.

The 'right to a private life' has been used to before to hide a mans 'trans history'.

This is going to go on for years unless someone in government starts prioritising women.

That falsely assumes everyone doesn't already know their actual sex or 'trans status', which is pretty unlikely.

Pingponghavoc · 01/01/2026 15:07

5128gap · 01/01/2026 13:57

I don't see any issue with what she's said. Obviously there has to be measures to protect people from discrimination due to a protected characteristic. And while GR is a PC, there will need to be measures to protect people from discrimination on the basis of it. Nothing new there. And certainly no suggestion the protection will involve allowing people to access facilities intended for the opposite sex.
This interpretation has been manipulated by the headline.
Her comment that a GRC will not be useful in gaining trans people access to opposite sex spaces, but could be useful 'in other ways' is important too.

The assumption is that it is discrimination to use the correct sex facilities needs to be challenged.

Its as if the GRA and the PC of GR have made a class on 'non male, non female' people. These men arent female so can't use the ladies, but aren't male either so can't use the gents.

But for safeguarding, we need to knoe everyones sex, not promote the myth that a group of self declared men aren't male.

RedToothBrush · 01/01/2026 14:45

Everyone who hasn't already bought 'invisible women', your task for this year is to buy it and read it AND then lend it to everyone OR gift it like crazy to everyone possible.

Talkinpeace · 01/01/2026 14:04

Pingponghavoc · 01/01/2026 13:10

All this for 6,500 men who have GRC.

Likely less than that because a fair few of the older original ones will have died.
(Tribunal data only lists certificates issued, not those still extant)

5128gap · 01/01/2026 13:57

I don't see any issue with what she's said. Obviously there has to be measures to protect people from discrimination due to a protected characteristic. And while GR is a PC, there will need to be measures to protect people from discrimination on the basis of it. Nothing new there. And certainly no suggestion the protection will involve allowing people to access facilities intended for the opposite sex.
This interpretation has been manipulated by the headline.
Her comment that a GRC will not be useful in gaining trans people access to opposite sex spaces, but could be useful 'in other ways' is important too.

Keeptoiletssafe · 01/01/2026 13:50

ItsCoolForCats · 01/01/2026 13:38

I agree with your points, and I don't want gender neutral facilities as the default.. However, thinking of organisations like the one I work for (very large, public sector), third spaces is what they are going to propose if they ever get around to updating their policy. They are another one that can't follow the law until the EHRC spells it out for them.

Alongside (supposedly) male/female facilities, most of our offices also have some single occupancy toilets. This is what they will tell trans-identifying people to use. They are not going to tell TIMs to use the mens. It's just not going to happen. And I think that most people (except for TRAs) think this is a reasonable solution.

I understand. Toilet designs have been a free for all for a while. Back when the 1992 work legislation was introduced, the standards for factories, offices etc was single sex cubicles within a single sex room. The cubicles had door gaps - it was stated for ventilation, cleaning, prevention of misuse and supervision (for things like medical emergencies). That’s why mixed sex toilets were stipulated to be enclosed in a separate room. There weren’t supposed to be the main design.

All of the above was for health and safety. Mixed sex design is for privacy, and health and safety is reduced.

ItsCoolForCats · 01/01/2026 13:38

Keeptoiletssafe · 01/01/2026 13:03

’third spaces’ are detrimental to women, children and anyone having a medical emergency. Adding them as the blanket solution will come with additional risks to these groups.

Rod Liddle wrote about the Russell Brand case: ‘It is also alleged that he frequently used the disabled toilets for reasons other than those for which the BBC intended them to be used. Hmm. As far as I can remember from my time at the BBC, the disabled toilets were used almost exclusively for amorous trysts of a semi-clandestine nature. There were loads of these installations and very few disabled people, you see..’

It’s not as simple as adding a private enclosed toilet in a mixed sex space and not risk assessing the costs to health and safety. A man was found in a council office toilet after 6 days recently. That’s unusual but a day of so isn’t. Several young people have died in private toilet designs in very public places recently.

Adding ‘third spaces’ isn’t something that is wanted by men who want to use the women’s and women who don’t want to use the women’s realise in certain situations they don’t want to use the men’s or the ‘gender neutral’ as they are scared and/or disgusted.

Third spaces can be an ‘unreasonable’ solution. It’s an enclosed sound resistant mixed sex space that has to be able to be opened from the outside for safety purposes. Is that really what people need? My research shows it is not.

I agree with your points, and I don't want gender neutral facilities as the default.. However, thinking of organisations like the one I work for (very large, public sector), third spaces is what they are going to propose if they ever get around to updating their policy. They are another one that can't follow the law until the EHRC spells it out for them.

Alongside (supposedly) male/female facilities, most of our offices also have some single occupancy toilets. This is what they will tell trans-identifying people to use. They are not going to tell TIMs to use the mens. It's just not going to happen. And I think that most people (except for TRAs) think this is a reasonable solution.

Pingponghavoc · 01/01/2026 13:10

All this for 6,500 men who have GRC.

Keeptoiletssafe · 01/01/2026 13:03

ItsCoolForCats · 01/01/2026 10:13

If the code of practice ever gets released, third spaces is the route that many organisations will go down.

My own large employer has single occupancy gender neutral facilities alongside single sex and accessible ones, but people (men) are still using the facilities for the opposite sex because the policy, which hasn't been updated yet, allows it.

Third spaces, if it is practical for the business or service, are a reasonable solution. And all the allies can use them too so there will be no "outing". We know TRAs hate them because it means compromising and considering other people's rights, but the BBC won't be able to do pity pieces about trans people having no facilities to use when there are solutions in place.

’third spaces’ are detrimental to women, children and anyone having a medical emergency. Adding them as the blanket solution will come with additional risks to these groups.

Rod Liddle wrote about the Russell Brand case: ‘It is also alleged that he frequently used the disabled toilets for reasons other than those for which the BBC intended them to be used. Hmm. As far as I can remember from my time at the BBC, the disabled toilets were used almost exclusively for amorous trysts of a semi-clandestine nature. There were loads of these installations and very few disabled people, you see..’

It’s not as simple as adding a private enclosed toilet in a mixed sex space and not risk assessing the costs to health and safety. A man was found in a council office toilet after 6 days recently. That’s unusual but a day of so isn’t. Several young people have died in private toilet designs in very public places recently.

Adding ‘third spaces’ isn’t something that is wanted by men who want to use the women’s and women who don’t want to use the women’s realise in certain situations they don’t want to use the men’s or the ‘gender neutral’ as they are scared and/or disgusted.

Third spaces can be an ‘unreasonable’ solution. It’s an enclosed sound resistant mixed sex space that has to be able to be opened from the outside for safety purposes. Is that really what people need? My research shows it is not.

nicepotoftea · 01/01/2026 12:15

Pingponghavoc · 01/01/2026 11:29

The argument TRA are making is that going to a unisex toilet when they have been using the womens previously will out them, especially at work.

The 'right to a private life' has been used to before to hide a mans 'trans history'.

This is going to go on for years unless someone in government starts prioritising women.

I wonder when the idea of the right to keep your sex private crept into policy and legislation. We don't get to conceal our age when it is relevant, and it's often relevant multiple times a day.

Even within the GRA there are multiple examples of when a GRC can be ignored. The recent decision that a woman's intent to become pregnant does not preclude her obtaining a GRC also demonstrates that the purpose cannot be to conceal sex.

I think the idea comes from the belief that being trans or gender non-conforming is so shameful that it must be concealed - but surely that isn't a foundation on which to build policy and law?

I suppose it's also because LGB and T have been linked, but sexuality doesn't make much material difference to everyday life, so it is a private matter in a way that sex isn't.

The biggest advance society could make in 2026 is to drop the idea that it's 'toxic' to talk clearly about somebody's sex.

Pingponghavoc · 01/01/2026 12:03

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 01/01/2026 11:49

Then we have to keep pointing out that they're not being 'outed' because everyone knows. They are, however, being reminded that what they claim to be is a lie and a fantasy, but that's their problem not ours.

But it is our problem if the solution is compulsory mixed sex and voluntary single sex. The priority will be mixed sex.

While the GRA exists and the government think its necessary to issue men with female id, its irrelevant that we say we can tell, the government are pretending that we cant.

Petitchat · 01/01/2026 11:54

OldCrone · 01/01/2026 11:47

I wasn't actually thinking about them being 'outed'. My comment was about the TIMs who insist on using women's spaces (because they have women in them) even when everyone knows that they're TIMs. There was one incident where India Willoughby made a big show of refusing to use the unisex toilet which was right next to him and walking miles to a women's loo.

They don't want unisex spaces because they're not validating and they're not full of unconsenting women who think they're in a women-only space. It's nothing to do with being outed.

Yep. They want it because they can.
It's as simple as that...

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 01/01/2026 11:49

Pingponghavoc · 01/01/2026 11:29

The argument TRA are making is that going to a unisex toilet when they have been using the womens previously will out them, especially at work.

The 'right to a private life' has been used to before to hide a mans 'trans history'.

This is going to go on for years unless someone in government starts prioritising women.

Then we have to keep pointing out that they're not being 'outed' because everyone knows. They are, however, being reminded that what they claim to be is a lie and a fantasy, but that's their problem not ours.

OldCrone · 01/01/2026 11:47

Shortshriftandlethal · 01/01/2026 11:14

A third space could simply be an additional unisex space. Anyone could use it, and it wouldn't necessarily be 'outing' someone with a trans identity - because it would not be meant solely for their use but for anyone comfortable with that facility.

I wasn't actually thinking about them being 'outed'. My comment was about the TIMs who insist on using women's spaces (because they have women in them) even when everyone knows that they're TIMs. There was one incident where India Willoughby made a big show of refusing to use the unisex toilet which was right next to him and walking miles to a women's loo.

They don't want unisex spaces because they're not validating and they're not full of unconsenting women who think they're in a women-only space. It's nothing to do with being outed.

Petitchat · 01/01/2026 11:37

Oldandgreyer · 01/01/2026 10:59

But women are the only ones who've had rights taken away. They were reinforced by the SC judgement but people seem to be doing their hardest to avoid implementing the law.

I imagine there will be lots of "be kind" nonsense to be spouted again.

Oh god!
Will it never end?...

Petitchat · 01/01/2026 11:35

Hedgehogforshort · 31/12/2025 22:22

I may get deleted for this but i do not give an actual flying fuck about trans peoples rights because they do not give a shiny shit about women.

That's because they're men....

Pingponghavoc · 01/01/2026 11:29

Shortshriftandlethal · 01/01/2026 11:14

A third space could simply be an additional unisex space. Anyone could use it, and it wouldn't necessarily be 'outing' someone with a trans identity - because it would not be meant solely for their use but for anyone comfortable with that facility.

The argument TRA are making is that going to a unisex toilet when they have been using the womens previously will out them, especially at work.

The 'right to a private life' has been used to before to hide a mans 'trans history'.

This is going to go on for years unless someone in government starts prioritising women.

Pingponghavoc · 01/01/2026 11:24

Single sex spaces aren't compulsory. They may be claims against providers who dont provide single sex services for women in certain circumstances. But to make a claim, a woman has to already have faced discrimination.

We know lots of mixed sex spaces are dreadful for women snd they still exist without single sex options.

The solution is going to be - single sex services may be offered as before, and unisex will be compulsory to avoid discriminate against the men who claim to have gender.

Its the men who claim to have gender that will have the the right to space, women will not.

Men with gender are exactly the same as men without - they are happy and safe using unisex spaces.

Promoting a third space for these men isnt a compromise, its priotising men.

Shortshriftandlethal · 01/01/2026 11:14

OldCrone · 01/01/2026 10:21

So TRAs will have to explain why third spaces are unacceptable. That TIMs don't really feel scared being in with the other men, they want to be in with the women for validation, or in some cases for other, even less acceptable reasons. And they don't want single occupancy facilities that both sexes can use, they want to be in a women's space with women in it.

A third space could simply be an additional unisex space. Anyone could use it, and it wouldn't necessarily be 'outing' someone with a trans identity - because it would not be meant solely for their use but for anyone comfortable with that facility.