We need to foster a society where it's OK to be "gender non-conforming".
I watched a film yesterday where one of the characters was referred to as he/him and "son", when, despite the cropped hair and baggy clothes, the actor was, to me, clearly female. I Googled and right enough, the actor had "come out" as non-binary in their early 20s, it wasn't explicitly stated they were biologically female but it was pretty obvious to me.
I was a teen in the 80s and knew quite a few "butch" girls at college, some were lesbians, some straight, none of them thought they were blokes and "non-binary" wasn't a thing. In a lot of ways we've gone backwards.
Sad times.