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‘Transphobic’ Christmas card pulled from Sainsbury’s

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IwantToRetire · 17/12/2025 19:47

The card was deemed offensive for featuring a cartoon of Dr Seuss’s Grinch character alongside the caption: “This Christmas, I’m identifying as a Grinch.”

The phrase “identifying as” in this context has been described by trans campaigners as an anti-trans dog whistle for suggesting that a person can choose their gender to be anything.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/12/17/transphobic-christmas-card-pulled-from-sainsburys/ and https://archive.is/J2fLR

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selffellatingouroborosofhate · 25/12/2025 21:56

eatfigs · 25/12/2025 14:52

https://northwestbylines.co.uk/politics/opinion/the-trans-journalist-who-stole-christmas-or-did-she/

He wrote a little essay about his experiences whining about Christmas cards.

For someone who identifies as a journalist, Mr Molly's proofreading is shocking.

‘Transphobic’ Christmas card pulled from Sainsbury’s
plantcomplex · 25/12/2025 21:29

Problematic.

Yawn.

IwantToRetire · 25/12/2025 20:43

Well, it just goes to show that words really matter. They can be weaponised to cause great harm and division.
I believe we should all be very careful about the lanquage we use. A seemingly innocent phrase can turn out to be deeply problematic, so it is always best to think it through before you hit that send button.

What hypocrasy! Who was weaponising words.

So sunk in Molly's view of the world, and so arrogant as to think others would aspire to think like them. Most people just dont. Just because some are kind, doesn't mean they think people can change sex.

Why do we all have to perform mental gymnastics, so as to pretend that we believe something we dont.

The only problem for Molly is having a world view hardly anyone else has. And the arrogance to start a campaign (which it was clearly meant to do.

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Greyskybluesky · 25/12/2025 15:00

Bloody hell! I agree with Molly on a couple of points. Never thought I'd type that.

"The biggest lesson I’ve learnt from all this is that sometimes I get it wrong. Yes, that’s right! I’m constantly learning and re-evaluated my stance on subjects. After all that’s what a person with an open mind should do. I overreacted."

"I have also learnt that words are powerful. Extremely powerful! Not for a second did I think it would blow up all over the internet and mainstream media like it did. Well, it just goes to show that words really matter. They can be weaponised to cause great harm and division.
I believe we should all be very careful about the lanquage we use. A seemingly innocent phrase can turn out to be deeply problematic, so it is always best to think it through before you hit that send button."

Grammarnut · 24/12/2025 22:18

Well, they've proved they identify as grinches! Prats.

Brefugee · 21/12/2025 10:50

there is a picture circulating on X with Sparkles holding a framed copy of the offending card but i'm not sure it is real. So not reposting. But. Urgh.

Brefugee · 20/12/2025 13:21

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 17/12/2025 21:47

Not seeing the transphobia here. Unless, of course, TRAs don't like how it spotlights the absurdity of "identifying" as anything.

Poor show by Emotional Rescue in pulling it.

I note that the sea of sexist birthday cards in which steam trains, golf, and cars are for dad and brother, but prosecco, dresses, and heels are for sister and mother, remain on the shelves. I like steam trains and my family have never been able to get me a card with them on unless it's one of those blank cards.

i got a spiderman card for my DD once (she was over 18 but that's besides the point). It was one of the old school 70s spiderman illustrations.

Anyway, small shop, with a post office, and i had to post it to her. But they only had ones that said "happy birthday Son" so i used a sharpie to make Son into Daughter, wrote the card and posted it. The woman behind the counter saw me do all that and was a bit nonplussed. But a sale is a sale, right?

Perhaps we should all complain to Sainsbury's about having to have prosecco cards because no train cards say "mum"?

JellySaurus · 20/12/2025 06:08

Will nobody think of the lovely green furries? 😱

MrsKeats · 19/12/2025 21:01

Waitwhat23 · 19/12/2025 20:36

The ridiculous Sophie Molly/Sparkles/who the fuck knows appears to be taking credit and the other members of his creepy polycule appear to have given him a framed copy of the offending card as a keepsake of his bravery.

Reading that back, it sounds made up but it's all true, I shit you not.

Mole at the Counter has done a wee edit to the card

That’s brilliant. I can’t believe with everything that’s going on in the world that this is getting any airtime.

Waitwhat23 · 19/12/2025 20:36

MrsKeats · 18/12/2025 14:18

Glad to see we are concentrating on the important issues in the world 🙄 what idiot complained about this fgs?

The ridiculous Sophie Molly/Sparkles/who the fuck knows appears to be taking credit and the other members of his creepy polycule appear to have given him a framed copy of the offending card as a keepsake of his bravery.

Reading that back, it sounds made up but it's all true, I shit you not.

Mole at the Counter has done a wee edit to the card

‘Transphobic’ Christmas card pulled from Sainsbury’s
pinkksugarmouse · 19/12/2025 15:04

StolenCookie · 17/12/2025 23:08

Awful card. Glad it’s off the shelves.

I'm only sorry I didn't know. I don't usually bother with Christmas cards but there are a couple of people I know who would chuckle at this.
Real trans people have a sense of humour and crucially know they didn't actually change sex.

It's the ridiculously increasing number of deluded attention seekers who want the world turned upside-down to suit them. Many trans people take the piss out of them and can't stand their entitled attitude just like the majority of the population.
We have adults openly identifying as furry animals now. This card was barely satire.

Windowless1995 · 18/12/2025 19:37

plantcomplex · 17/12/2025 19:51

I look forward to the day that "identifying as" gets cancelled.

That and "dog whistle".

It's not transphobic to object to nonsensical and abusive manglings of language.

Yes! Mumsnet actually accused me of "dog-whistling" in a very passive aggressive email. My 'crime' was being on the receiving end of racial abuse and wanting to talk about it! I was already upset and to have that thrown at me when I was feeling vulnerable was awful.

That phrase is literally just an excuse to shut people down when they want to discuss something you're not comfortable with. It's saying "I don't have anything real I can throw at you, so I'm going to imply that you're doing something terrible without the need of any real grounds. Now shush."

ErrolTheDragon · 18/12/2025 19:07

misscockerspaniel · 18/12/2025 16:39

Well, as we all know, sadly, some of the folk attracted to this forum are driven by a FOMO. Whatever we have, they want it, and nothing - not even the Supreme Court - will stop them for they are driven by male entitlement a need to colonise. Colonise our threads, women's sport/toilets/changing rooms etc. I would hate for them to get in a stew with Waitrose or John Lewis, or Amazon come to that. As for the card itself, it is totally harmless and nothing to do with males. It simply states the truth: "Three Wise Women would have asked for directions, arrived on time, delivered the baby, cleaned the stable, made a casserole...and there would have been Peace on Earth".

Very good! Though I suspect the colonisers might not have too much FOMO re stable cleaning etcGrin

IwantToRetire · 18/12/2025 17:35

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 18/12/2025 11:54

This comment too is grossly offensive, and I can't possibly see how anybody could ever find it funny........

Edited

I remember a little while ago someone circulated a picture of one of his many different coloured bins his local council has told him he had to use. But the problem was the recycling one wasn't big enough. So he taped a note of one of the other bins to say it identified as green.

It got shared on social media. Nobody complained.

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IwantToRetire · 18/12/2025 17:32

Should we all be cutting up our Nectar cards and returning them to Sainsburys?!

I actually feel sorry for the card makers. I am sure they are "innocent", but being made to feel so guilty as to not only withdraw but destory the cards is just extreme. Have the TRAs so deeply catechised the country that some will so deeply repent of their sins and acknowledge them publicly?

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selffellatingouroborosofhate · 18/12/2025 17:03

misscockerspaniel · 18/12/2025 16:39

Well, as we all know, sadly, some of the folk attracted to this forum are driven by a FOMO. Whatever we have, they want it, and nothing - not even the Supreme Court - will stop them for they are driven by male entitlement a need to colonise. Colonise our threads, women's sport/toilets/changing rooms etc. I would hate for them to get in a stew with Waitrose or John Lewis, or Amazon come to that. As for the card itself, it is totally harmless and nothing to do with males. It simply states the truth: "Three Wise Women would have asked for directions, arrived on time, delivered the baby, cleaned the stable, made a casserole...and there would have been Peace on Earth".

In fairness, the Magi did ask for directions, from Herod.

misscockerspaniel · 18/12/2025 16:39

ErrolTheDragon · 18/12/2025 14:47

Oh do share. Why should they object - don’t some of them ‘identify as feminists’?

Well, as we all know, sadly, some of the folk attracted to this forum are driven by a FOMO. Whatever we have, they want it, and nothing - not even the Supreme Court - will stop them for they are driven by male entitlement a need to colonise. Colonise our threads, women's sport/toilets/changing rooms etc. I would hate for them to get in a stew with Waitrose or John Lewis, or Amazon come to that. As for the card itself, it is totally harmless and nothing to do with males. It simply states the truth: "Three Wise Women would have asked for directions, arrived on time, delivered the baby, cleaned the stable, made a casserole...and there would have been Peace on Earth".

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SabrinaThwaite · 18/12/2025 15:23

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 18/12/2025 13:56

Do we actually know that the Grinch identifies as male, or are we just assuming here?

The Grinch uses he / his pronouns, but who knows what that means these days.

Maybe Dr Seuss just assumed The Grinch was a grumpy old bloke?

MsGinaLinetti · 18/12/2025 15:23

StopTheHyperbole · 18/12/2025 10:13

Love your username! Just finished watching B99 for the third time, it's become my comfort TV 😊

😘

popcornandpotatoes · 18/12/2025 15:13

The phrase “identifying as” in this context has been described by trans campaigners as an anti-trans dog whistle for suggesting that a person can choose their gender to be anything

I thought that was exactly what trans campaigners thought people could do? How confusing

ErrolTheDragon · 18/12/2025 14:47

misscockerspaniel · 18/12/2025 14:21

No doubt we are being monitored by TRAs so I won't mention that I bought a feminist Christmas card from Waitrose. Sorry, no wish to derail. As you were 🎅

Oh do share. Why should they object - don’t some of them ‘identify as feminists’?

Stopbringingmicehome · 18/12/2025 14:26

LittleGreenDuck · 18/12/2025 11:27

Funny you say that, I'm doing the opposite.

I didn't stand a chance of winning my age category at Parkrun, but now I identify as being 90 I'm top of the leaderboard 🏆

I'm thinking of doing this , identify as a 90 year old man, did you really do it and was there any push back?

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