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Sex Matters - Hampstead Heath Ponds -

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SexRealismBeliefs · 15/12/2025 18:42

Sex Matters, a charity that campaigns for single-sex rights, will argue that the City of London Corporation is breaching equality law by allowing trans women to use Kenwood Ladies’ Pond on Hampstead Heath.

Hearing this Wednesday.

https://www.thetimes.com/article/cceca8ca-4167-4b04-875a-40ddacfea782?shareToken=e9fe25a546d20835f1a5a66564cbf27b

Hampstead women’s pond sued over transgender access

Sex Matters claims that the City of London Corporation is defending a policy that defies the Supreme Court ruling on single-sex services

https://www.thetimes.com/article/cceca8ca-4167-4b04-875a-40ddacfea782?shareToken=e9fe25a546d20835f1a5a66564cbf27b

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Cailin66 · 26/05/2026 15:04

Does the new government guidance in relation to the Sex Matters case on sex + biological sex have any effect now for the City of London in relation to the HH Ponds?

SnowTrouble · 21/05/2026 18:28

I was trying to help him with his argument and he still wouldn't listen. No wonder he's confused if that's what he thinks though.

lcakethereforeIam · 21/05/2026 13:40

SnowTrouble · 21/05/2026 12:41

Had a row with my 18 year old omnicauser child last week in which he was adamant that I was a bigot and trans men were men that were trans and should be allowed in women's sports/prisons/changing rooms. The next generation, folks.

Does he know about the transman (woman) who, at her request, was admitted as an inpatient to a male psychiatric ward and was raped before her first cup of tea would have got cold? If he doesn't, please ask him. I suspect he'll come up with some sort of justification but I'm curious as to what.

He obviously knows he's loved otherwise he'd never risk calling his mum a bigot. Ironically that's probably proof that he knows you aren't. You've raised a son with kind impulses, even if he is a bit of a dick😊

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 21/05/2026 13:27

SnowTrouble · 21/05/2026 12:41

Had a row with my 18 year old omnicauser child last week in which he was adamant that I was a bigot and trans men were men that were trans and should be allowed in women's sports/prisons/changing rooms. The next generation, folks.

He'll change his mind when (if) he has daughters, assuming we're still dealing with these stupid issues then. That seems to be when most men I know have woken up to the issues.

SwirlyGates · 21/05/2026 13:18

SnowTrouble · 21/05/2026 12:41

Had a row with my 18 year old omnicauser child last week in which he was adamant that I was a bigot and trans men were men that were trans and should be allowed in women's sports/prisons/changing rooms. The next generation, folks.

Oh dear!

SnowTrouble · 21/05/2026 12:41

SwirlyGates · 21/05/2026 11:28

Transmen, transwomen - both are stupid terms designed to confuse, and to get people thinking that TWAW and TMAM.

Had a row with my 18 year old omnicauser child last week in which he was adamant that I was a bigot and trans men were men that were trans and should be allowed in women's sports/prisons/changing rooms. The next generation, folks.

SwirlyGates · 21/05/2026 11:28

borntobequiet · 21/05/2026 06:37

Transmen are women.

Transmen, transwomen - both are stupid terms designed to confuse, and to get people thinking that TWAW and TMAM.

borntobequiet · 21/05/2026 06:37

TiredoftheRhetoric · 18/05/2026 15:39

Just curious as to why you mention 'transmen' in your statement as they are men and would therefore only be able to access the men's pond. The issue would be those that identify as non-binary as they could fit into either category or neither category.

Transmen are women.

KnottyAuty · 18/05/2026 17:17

ConstanzeMozart · 18/05/2026 17:04

Not sure who you're addressing, but transmen means women who identify as men and therefore belong in the women's or mixed ponds.

And just to add - non binary has no status in the equality act - they are not within the pc of Gender Reassignment so only can access based on the pc of sex. Even gender reassignment is considered binary 🤣

the equality act applies because the ponds use the single sex exception to justify having separate facilities for men and women in the first place.

Once an organisation has used the EA single sex exception to make a single sex space or service, then they can then lawfully prevent access to those of the opposite sex with a pc of gender reassignment under paragraph 28

In other words according to the EA2010 it’s not discrimination against trans people to segregate everyone on the basis of sex

ConstanzeMozart · 18/05/2026 17:04

TiredoftheRhetoric · 18/05/2026 15:39

Just curious as to why you mention 'transmen' in your statement as they are men and would therefore only be able to access the men's pond. The issue would be those that identify as non-binary as they could fit into either category or neither category.

Not sure who you're addressing, but transmen means women who identify as men and therefore belong in the women's or mixed ponds.

TiredoftheRhetoric · 18/05/2026 15:39

Just curious as to why you mention 'transmen' in your statement as they are men and would therefore only be able to access the men's pond. The issue would be those that identify as non-binary as they could fit into either category or neither category.

Slothtoes · 18/05/2026 09:30

It’s just not OK to spoil a women’s activity that’s been going on for years because men want to have it, and don’t want women to have it.

It’s not an inclusion problem because the same area already has separate areas for mixed and each of single sex swimming. so no reason why everyone who wants a swim in the area can’t be happy.

This whole expensive and time consuming fight is purely about male demands for mandatory male validation by women and for male access to women and girls in a state of undress. It just beggars belief how supercharged with credibility, these male supremacy beliefs still are. How do they still get given the time of day?

Slothtoes · 18/05/2026 09:15

Society can’t both give (some people’s) sense of personal dislocation from gender stereotypes a special legal status .. and at the same time… deny other people’s personal sense of dislocation from gender stereotypes as a ‘provocation’. That doesn’t work in a fair society.

Well that is, unless there’s an important unspoken factor underlying society granting these personal permissions and validations selectively, that distinguishes between these two groups? Like whether these opinion-havers also possess male biology and socialisation, or female biology and socialisation .

Its a reinforcement of the age old structures that male biology (however he presents) gets to call the shots over female biology (however she presents) with the women expected to just knuckle under and budge up uncomplainingly.

ConstanzeMozart · 18/05/2026 08:57

Shedmistress · 17/05/2026 06:44

Because it is fine for men to have single sex spaces. Just not women.

I think they'd argue that women who identify as men are/always have been welcome in the men's pond.
Of course Man Friday showed this to be not totally true. But then the argument was that they weren't 'real' trans men, they were being provocative.

Slothtoes · 18/05/2026 08:15

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 17/05/2026 18:30

Yes. A men's pond for the gay men. A women's pond for the womanly men. A mixed pond for the straight men.

This 100%

Slothtoes · 18/05/2026 08:10

TWETMIRF · 17/05/2026 09:21

As with most things trans, it's all about making penis happy. That's why transwomen are the important ones and transmen are usually forgotten.

So true.. in all senses ‘Make Penis Great Again’ basically

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 17/05/2026 18:30

lcakethereforeIam · 17/05/2026 18:25

They have to have a "women's" pond for men to do their womanning in.

Yes. A men's pond for the gay men. A women's pond for the womanly men. A mixed pond for the straight men.

lcakethereforeIam · 17/05/2026 18:25

They have to have a "women's" pond for men to do their womanning in.

sashaymashay · 17/05/2026 13:46

2021x · 17/05/2026 06:09

I don't understand- why don't they just making the ponds all mixed sex then.

Surely the issue is advertising somthing as a "mans" or "womens" when it is mixed sex?

I don't understand why it is so hard?

  1. Because they blindly believe men who say they are women are actual women.

  2. Brains don’t actually engage in the reasons behind having single sex ponds

KnottyAuty · 17/05/2026 09:30

Shedmistress · 17/05/2026 06:44

Because it is fine for men to have single sex spaces. Just not women.

This is the quiet bit out loud

SexRealismBeliefs · 17/05/2026 09:27

impossibletoday · 15/05/2026 15:35

Thanks for this. Their legal analysis is poor.

Enabling trans indentified men to encroach on single sex spaces won’t last the year.

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TWETMIRF · 17/05/2026 09:21

As with most things trans, it's all about making penis happy. That's why transwomen are the important ones and transmen are usually forgotten.

Shedmistress · 17/05/2026 06:44

2021x · 17/05/2026 06:09

I don't understand- why don't they just making the ponds all mixed sex then.

Surely the issue is advertising somthing as a "mans" or "womens" when it is mixed sex?

I don't understand why it is so hard?

Because it is fine for men to have single sex spaces. Just not women.

2021x · 17/05/2026 06:09

I don't understand- why don't they just making the ponds all mixed sex then.

Surely the issue is advertising somthing as a "mans" or "womens" when it is mixed sex?

I don't understand why it is so hard?